Dilemma

BobbyPeru · 2021-09-18T20:55:21+00:00

You pretty much made no mention about how MRP has impacted you to be a better man, and what you are doing to improve yourself.

How are you handling shit-tests (specifically)
Are you working on your weight issue?
What are your lifts
What books have you read, and what did you learn
Which areas have you made progress and which are you specifically working on?

This isn’t fucking Deadbedrooms, where are you come in here and bitch about how you don’t like things are going in your marriage and take no responsibility.

Fuck that - get to work.

ImPissedOffALot · 2021-09-18T13:33:43+00:00

If you are here you probably know the rational answer to your question.

Your priority should be to get more sex, that’s how you got here. Of course doubling down when your relation is shit is a BAD idea. I know that because I did exactly that, thinking that investing all my bucks in a new home would give us some space and would help us get to a better place. Stupid fuck.

By the way 1200 sq ft for 2 toddlers is fine. I used to live in 750 sq ft for the same capacity. Going to a house with a front yard did not help on the major difficulties I was faced with.

I’d recommend starting figuring out how you have a oneitis, stopping doing the shit that don’t work, and work on a map.

In other words, sidebar and lift.

SBIII · 2021-09-18T13:46:59+00:00

When you know what you want and you start to make the type of choices that will get to to where you want to go, that's when your life becomes something that you own instead of something that just happens to you.

Stop being a bystander in your own life.

And lose some weight - you're a fat cunt.

PutABabyInThat · 2021-09-18T16:35:01+00:00

I want to end this relationship due to all the issues I've mention

Let's take a look at these issues you mentioned:

wife wouldn't have sex with me

Meanwhile, 5'7 180...... 22% BF

I was a loser

Did she make you a loser?

I still felt like I had to prove myself to her

Who decided that you should feel insecure?

she never was the lovey dovey type

No shit!? You're a pathetic little fat man with low self-esteem... can you blame her?

But yeah... leaving her will fix everything.

I'm sure you'll be swimming in pussy once she's out of the picture. Chicks can't resist an insecure, fat, pushover with a deep victim mentality.

Tyred_Biggums · 2021-09-18T15:28:31+00:00

Yeah it’s a great idea to go buy a house with someone you may not want to be with long term.

At least you aren’t legally married.

The problem isn’t your wife or your toddlers or the size of your apartment. The problem is you.

wkndatbernardus · 2021-09-19T02:47:37+00:00

The only dumber thing you could do, besides buying a house with a woman to whom you aren't married, is getting married to that woman.

muzzy_W0e · 2021-09-19T02:52:03+00:00

31M - 30F | 5’7” | 180lbs - 22% BF

I'm also 31 and 5'7. You're delusional if you think you're that lean (would still be fat). You'd be 22% if you were maybe 20 pounds lighter. Take a picture of yourself shirtless, seeing a static image may help take off your rose tinted goggles.

Title	Dilemma
Author	heyyou987
Upvotes	7
Comments	8
Date	September 18, 2021 4:22 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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