After spending time on here you guys kicked my ass into gear (previous posts about my LTR). I started handing all my shit around the house and getting everything done before I have any sort of " me time ". Not only has my SO other noticed

"It's about time you hopped on the OCD train"

"Where have you got all this energy lately"

Lots of sex/blowjobs, but she relaxes more now. Whatever. Awesome. And thank you for the brute honesty and direction you guys have given me.

But now another issue has arose. My SO is a senior nursing student. She got into an issue at her clinical where a floor nurse over heard what she thought was her and 2 other girls talking rudely about another student. This nurse then told said student and reported it to the professor. I wake up next day to a crying SO telling me to read the email.

It stated what I said above and that she needed to meet the professor for a meeting that she broke a code of ethics and could be kicked out of the program. The email tone was very aggressive and almost sounded like the professor has her mind made up that they were all guilty, without even hearing the side of her story.

Since this is her career which she has busted her ass for and they are threatening to kick her out of the program. And when I heard her and the girls talking, It seemed to me that it was a big misunderstand and nothing that was said was even that bad. I told her she should get a lawyer to cover her butt.

She was a wreck. She couldn't even eat the whole day. Crying. Etc etc. Me, being a good SO and a leader. I tell her let's go for a run to clear her mind (I was going anyway) she didn't want to Bc she was so worked up but I got her to anyway. I told her everything will be fine. I spent a bunch of time the next day (while I was working, mind you) contacting lawyer friends. And figuring out a bunch of stuff to help ensure she would be prepared for what she was about to face because I knew she didn't know wtf to do. She's foreign and never been in this situation and I can see them cornering her into saying something she shouldn't, so...

Through plenty of calls back and forth from friends and her. I got her a good lawyer, she wrote up a timeline and sent it to him.

She wanted me to read the timeline she sent but I had things to do which she knew, not to mention I spent all day helping her with this already.

She sent me a text asking if I read it. I said I will after the gym. She said "I sent it before you went". I ignore.

She then says nevermind that she sent it. That she was going to sleep, goodnight.

Now today she says she misses me so much and wants me to come over. I tell her I got things to take care of I will meet her at her brothers bbq when I'm done doing them.

She gets upset. "Why can't you come now. I need you" I don't say anything " I know you don't think I do. But I do" again I don't say anything. "You can eat here" she knows I'm on a strict diet and don't eat whatever she has. " I tell her you know I don't eat that stuff ya dork." I tell her I'm going to take care of my shit I'll see her at her brothers. She give me an angry. Okay bye. And we hang up.

I mean my gut tells me to be like "look I just spend all day yesterday helping you with this situation you got yourself into, and it's still not enough. You still want me to read shit when YOU Want it read. You still want me to drop everything and come over. Can you let me do me and just relax". But you guys told me to stfu so I do. How do I get this point across to her that I helped her (Bc I wanted to) but now it's time to give me some space and let me get my shit down. Is there something I'm missing or doing wrong or am I hanging things better. Why am I still getting annoying/needy shit thrown at me?