Who else does this?

Have you ever called a girl you got a number from? Be honest!

I find congruency a struggle with catch and release. Girls are not expecting a married man to directly approach them (direct is by far the best way to do this), and many would probably view it as creepy so I don’t usually mention it. The longer the convo goes on, the more questions you get asked - this shows the girl is interested - and then you either have to reveal the wife and kids or start lying.