My LTR discovered that I had changed my password on cell. She didn't like the idea but didn't press. Then a few days later, it buzzed but I removed alert display while locked. She grabbed at it and was provoked into asking why I locked it. Then cut herself off and said 'never mind, i don't wanna know'

The changed password was happenstance. I just never told her. I see this as a soft dread, but it wasn't my intention. I had created a boundary here, and i like having it. I'm not gaming other women, there's nothing for her to find.

In holding this position, but wanted your opinions on the matter.