19 y/o Virgin

SimplyFishOil · 2019-03-06T01:00:07+00:00

Waiting to lose your virginity to a significant person is quite feminine, and I would consider it an excuse for why you can't get a girl.

If you really want to wait, no big deal. But sometimes finding the significant person in your life involves having to filter out all the shit via experience talking to and gaming girls.

BurnieSlander · 2019-03-06T01:04:53+00:00

Don't put your virginity on a pedestal. Stop giving a shit about virginity altogether because it does not serve you in any way.

ChesterRickman · 2019-03-06T00:28:08+00:00

The moment a girl is significant to you is the moment you can't have her. They are all sluts, remember that. You need to understand romance is dead, the hippies killed it back in the 60s. Just go out clubbing more and bust a nut in a drunk hoe in the bathroom stall, it will be a refreshing experience I guarantee.

GucciGangBucks · 2019-03-06T01:28:55+00:00

Not really embarrassing at all. Not all guys fuck everything that moves. I’m the same way I’m not a fan of “hookup culture” and try to invest my time into more quality women. Which isn’t always easy to find. If you’re actively trying to find a quality girl I see nothing wrong with it. Now if you’re doing literally Fucking nothing to find a women there’s your problem.

In today’s society I can see why a guy wouldn’t wanna hook up with just any whore. Wouldn’t be worried until you hit 25 bud.

Although when you do lose your virginity I would never tell a girl that. Just act like normal. Never tell a girl your body count. Display high value and you’ll be good. When you bust early come up with a witty response. Go for round 2

Bit33 · 2019-03-06T01:30:31+00:00

It's quite understandable you are insecure about your first time sleeping with a girl. Your no good at it, so you need to practice. But that does not mean you need to first deeply love a girl, isn't that just a rationalization for your fear for taking action and dont perform well enough?

I say, away with the pressure. Enjoy the process. Enjoy to have fun, don't focus on the result. You can not fail, it's all for fun. And you just need to practice like anything else. And remember, sex without this fear of the unknown stays and is also needed for good sex, it needed for building the needed sexual tension. Thus embrace the fear, it will always be a part of all the fun stuff in live.

AWorseManThanYou · 2019-03-06T01:32:14+00:00

Yes you are being a Disney princess.

You aren’t a woman. Sex is sex. Commitment is another beast. Learn to put value on your time and attention above what your dick can do, because honestly you’re a virgin and your dick can’t do shit. You will suck in bed for a long time. Do you really want to give a woman you care about pathetic awkward sex?

Get out there and bang. Your insecurity and uncertainty won’t be a good thing. Only experience can teach you how to lay it down proper and you should want to lay it down proper especially if you actually like her.

rugged79 · 2019-03-06T04:38:32+00:00

You can game girls you find pretty or have a good affinity with you. But waiting for a girl you feel a connection with and the right opportunity in which to talk to her, is like asking the stars to align.

The things that you're looking for are only able to be found after you've dated a chick. You can't find that shit out during a casual conversation.

Title	19 y/o Virgin
Author	PunyWarrior12
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	March 6, 2019 12:25 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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