2nd date lay - wait 2 weeks?

hoopingblob · 2020-01-14T12:46:22+00:00

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Massap24 · 2020-01-14T12:57:51+00:00

Is 2 weeks too long with no contact to hit her up for a third date?This girl has potential for an ltr because she’s gorgeous, wealthy and submissive.

If you don’t have time, then you don’t have time. You can contact her during this time period just don’t over do it. Personally I would just hit her up when I’m not busy and can go out. The only way it will have been “too long” is if she’s found another guy or really doesn’t have interest.

I usually wait 10 days to hit them up after sex the first time. Does this work with girls looking for an ltr? Or will she think I’ve nexted her and move on?

This always kills me, you have plates and other girls you’re fucking. What is so special about this one that you’re going to change what’s been working? If you normally wait 10 days and that’s been working, then wait 10 days this bitch is not a unicorn. It doesn’t matter what she’s looking for it’s about what you want. She is going to be a plate so treat her like all the other plates! You got this

CainPrice · 2020-01-14T13:00:16+00:00

Two weeks is a little long for zero contact. You want to reward and encourage good behavior. You want her to have sex with you again, right?

Freezing her out and making her feel used and slutty while you only text every 14 days for fucking discourages good behavior.

There’s a comfortable medium between that and being a needy loser who’s constantly boring a girl with his obsessive availability.

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-01-14T12:57:56+00:00

From experience, it MAY hurt to ignore her for 10 days as it skins like she is aging and hitting the wall soon so she’s desperate to settle down.

I personally don’t fuck with bitches near the wall but yeah they do require just a TINY touch of comfort via text. No long winded love poems though, just a “I saw xyz and it was cool and reminded me of xyz we did. How ya doin” and then steer the texts to a meetup.

I think the more prudent way is 1:3 ratio.

1 text for comfort 3 for logistics. You’ll be fine

Blackhawk2479 · 2020-01-14T13:54:03+00:00

If you want to give the impression you just wanted to fuck her and you’re no longer interested now you have then wait 10 days.

If you want to be less autistic and see her again then don’t wait 10 days, but keep your communication short and without emojis.

You should look to keep things ticking over with minimal effort until you’re in a position to text again for logistics.

learning0007 · 2020-01-14T13:26:49+00:00

Never heard of waiting two weeks, where did you come up with that. And I can't see where that would be alpha or red pill in any way.

Title	2nd date lay - wait 2 weeks?
Author	chickenpthrowaway123
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	January 14, 2020 12:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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