I have been noticing a trend with women that I have been meeting lately. I am fully aware of the 3 date rule (3 dates before sex) that women practice. I also have a 3 date rule. Mine however is if we don't sleep together by the third date I am out. Of course I have the occasional ONS here and there, however it seems like the majority of time I am in this 3 date limbo. It is fine and not a huge deal. I ALWAYS physically escalate. Go for kiss immediately after leaving a venue to go to another. I get great feedback when I sexually escalate. I just can't seem to get women in bed as fast as I feel I should. I ALWAYS make an effort to get them to my place. I feel they really want to come with me just something stops them. I am mainly looking for guidance regarding the reasoning for this. Also some advice on closing on the first night.

Thanks, Gents

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