I’m not an Endorsed Contributor (EC), but after 5 years of leveling up and redpilling myself, I wanted to leave some help if you’re new and lurking on here. If you’re thinking of posting anything in these 3 categories, read this first.

1: Relationship Advice:

My girlfriend said/did/keeps doing/is annoying posts.

If you post here for advice about your girlfriend, or a girl you’re interested in making your girlfriend, you’re going to have a bad time. I’d say “don’t do it”, but bottom line is that chumps here will gladly offer their dumb advice about what to do in your situation. Occasionally an EC will drop some wisdom if your question illustrates a RP principal, but honestly that’s a good indication you didn’t read the sidebar so don’t get too excited if that happens.

If you’re looking for relationship advice, you’re in the wrong place. There’s plenty of other subreddits that will pander to your attention and give you all kinds of advice. TRP’s advice is to get single and focus on yourself, period.

The reason is that as you improve yourself, your options and tastes are going to change. Things you never thought about before will suddenly be on the table. Threesomes, same night pulls, and 2 or more girls doing crazy shit as they fight over your attention will suddenly be issues you’re dealing with. It’s a whole different mentality. You can’t get there if you’re still trying to win over the love of your life.

And if that’s you, fine. I’ve had overwhelming romantic feelings for one special girl (called ONEitis) a few times and know exactly how it goes. We’re not against you doing what you want, because bottom line that’s what’s most important… but TRP says get single and focus on yourself. We’ll worry about “happily ever after” later. Level up.

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2. surgical breakdown of a snapshot interaction:

So a girl texted me this, WHAT DOES IT MEAN??

We went on a date and it was going good but didn’t fuck, WHY????

Got her number and the conversation was going well but now she’s busy, WTF??

These kinds of questions are the equivalent of asking a poker pro what cards your opponent had in a single hand of a poker game. Sure, if someone called a raise with 2 random off-suit non face cards, we could say it was a dumb move. Sure, you should raise pre-flop with a pair of face cards. And sure, there’s plenty of shit you can glean from the sidebar about why chicks do weird shit. But that’s about it. Either you’re going to get an obvious resounding answer that could have been found on the sidebar, or there’s really no way to tell from this one interaction.

Girls have lives. They have ex’s. They have families, pets, grades, jobs, bosses, periods, std breakouts, cramps, panic attacks, they get sick, you name it. Yes, if she wants Chad’s dick, she will move mountains to get it, but that shit ain’t gonna happen if she’s on her period. She’ll make an excuse and wait. There’s only so much you can learn from one hand of poker. You’ll never know what your head’s up opponent’s hold cards are unless you play the hand to the end. Doesn’t matter how experienced of a poker player you are, you just don’t know. You can speculate till you yourself have a panic attack.

It’s been said that one hand of poker is 99% luck and 1% skill.

It’s been said that someone’s earnings in poker over a few years of hundreds of games is 99% skill, 1% luck.

You see where I’m going?

Stop trying to breakdown every detail of what she does and says. The more experience you get, the more you’ll naturally see patterns. The fact that you’re here begging for insight means that you’re already observant and analytical enough to figure this shit out. Get more experience and you’ll be a fucking pro. Speculate till you’re blue in the face and you’ll get frustrated. Take action. Godspeed.

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3: BUT IM DIFFERENT

How to proceed as an Indian/wheelchair/scar on my face/fucked up smile/short/fat/autistic person?

There’s no magic answer here. You’re just looking for sympathy. If your problem is within your control, for fuck’s sake own your shit and begin fixing it TODAY as much as you can. Otherwise, I can guarantee someone else with the same problem has managed to find success in whatever area you’re struggling in. I decided in JAN that I hate my teeth. I intend to get veneers once I get a fat stack of cash, but until then I can still lift, play piano, improve at my job, and yes even pull and fuck. Are you lifting? Are you getting ridiculously good at a passion of yours? Are you leveling up in your career? If not, why the fuck not? Complaining about your weakness without taking a serious look at your stats that are in your control is CLASSIC beta characteristics. Work on yourself. You’ll never be perfect.

Also, there’s an excellent chapter of the book of pook called “perfect is boring” if you do have some condition that’s un-fixable. I’d highly recommend it.

Best of luck to you on your journey