So I’ve been lurking around for awhile and have a basic grasp of the main concepts.

Synopsis of the problem is: I’m struggling with closing girls and keeping them hooked.

I can talk to almost anyone. Outgoing, very forward and I don’t have a problem with approaching and talking to random people be they hot girl or random dude.

I go on sporadic dates with good looking girls and getting numbers is fairly common. Kino Escalation is present, easy and not awkward.

I’m def above average if a little short (5’7”) but I rock climb play tennis, flag football and do hiit training so I’m pretty good shape. Athlete body more than muscular.

Fashion is up to date. Fitting shirts, slim fit chinos/jeans, Chelsea/chukka boots, leather jackets, watches etc.

I have a couple girls who are pretty smitten but they’re below average and I’m not attracted.

I had a former problem with neediness that I clamp shut but it still pops out if I start to actually develop feelings, and usually my first response is to ease out of contact and move onto the next one.

I’m not much of a phone talker and texting is minimal except for logistics.

Currently in law school so time is pretty limited.

What’s my next step? I’m not shy. you can point me to most girls and I’ll stroll on up and start shooting the shit. Most of the times I can get a number. My thing is not to ask, I just hold out my phone with a smile and have her put her number in.

The next step is where I struggle. I’ve had a few relationships in the past (6-7) and some flings outside that but the n count isn’t above 15 and I’ve never really spun plates. My issue is getting a girl hooked and f-closing with a date or getting the second date.

Tips? I’ve dived into no more mr nice guy, read almost all the side bar, etc but it’s mostly only helped with the surface level go out and talk to girls stuff which I’m very good at. I suck at closing.