Looking for any kind of insight on where this is going with a certain girl. I typically know by the 2nd date what direction I am going and whether it is worth it to pursue a girl and potentially make her a plate. I have been on 3 dates with this girl that I met at a bar after approaching her a month or so ago. Dates go very well and no issue at all. However despite 3 dates have not kissed her once which to me by the 2nd date is a big red flag at least I think. Texting/snapping is very dry in comparison to how we are in person. Despite all this I still have a few plates im still entertaining to make sure I don’t put all eggs in one basket.

The chick said she’s down to go on a 4th date, however I don’t even know if it’s worth it and if I’m just wasting my time with such little outcome so far through texting/snapping and lack of intimate success. Any advice on how to spice it up and or whether to leave it??