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Hello TRP members! :)

First I would like to say that I highly value your opinion!! However it seems like posts like this, receive some comments from people who seem to spend 10 seconds reading and 0 thinking, automatically advise the OP to "next". So please avoid hehe.

The background story is important to understand why I'm unsure if those are proper red flags: me and the girl are together since 19 and now both approaching 25. She didn't really develop very well socially, always had few friends, not very outgoing, never went to a nightclub during the ltr and only few times before, etc.

In the last year she started a new job where she started to do really well socially, met her best female friend who's an adventures social girl, probably started to feel a bit bad about her lack of life experiences as she's not growing younger, so they traveled together for hiking, joined the gym together, constantly meet up for dinners etc. Also she's exposed to many guys at her workplace and gym so she's started to get a lot of male sexual attention and validation on daily basis, obviously makes her feel less for the ltr.

So I will list the various "red flags" I've seen in the last months

  • Recently we had a fight about her feeling that I'm not loving her. I got aggressive and blamed her for various annoying behaviors that caused me to be an asshole to her in every way, said it's all her fault and she asked for a break. Every other similar fight we had in the past, she came back on all fours. Later she said she was just angry etc. Not a complete red flag as I was an EXTREMELY uncollaborative asshole, told her that there's no way she could change etc, and as I explained she's developing to be more of an average woman lately lol.

  • Often times we meet and she seems to have no personal or sexual interest at all. This had occurred randomly throughout the whole relationship though. Other times she will text me she loves me etc all day after having great sex lol.

  • Shows insufficient sexual interest usually, usually have to stimulate her with foreplay and fingering to make her properly horny. She will very rarely initiate by her own.

  • Only gives head when she's on her period, last time she wanted me to cum on a fucking towel instead of on her body, she later said she's disgusted of my dick, since then I don't even want her to give me a BJ although I love it and she's excellent at it. Honestly this is the biggest fucking red flag for me.

  • We meet only twice a week as I don't want stuff to get too boring, lately she left early a few times to go to various places with her female friends, although not a clear red flag as I almost never go out with her anywhere at all. Although she used to cry if I left a bit early before lol.

  • Texts with a guy-friend who used to work with her and constantly tells her about him spinning plates, sends her screenshots of his ex-girlfriends chasing him etc and she's really amused by it (that's all she told me, I don't look in her phone)

  • Pretty much every time we meet up to eat she will be on her phone. Never said a thing about it as I was always into not giving a fuck, but still a red flag lol.

  • Had a hiking trip abroad recently with her best friend, I didn't mind it, but now she's booked another trip with some slutty and somewhat retarded friend of hers, this trip isn't about hiking and I'm not sure it will be all about tourists attractions lol. Again it's not a clear red flag as she's a person without much life experience, wants to see the world and asked me to go with her first, but I declined as I don't really want to pay to spend a few days with her at the current time.

  • She invited me for a meet up with her best friend and some of her friends (males and females) for a holiday, it was obvious I'll say no, so I agreed jokingly, then she says I won't like the guys and she doesn't want me to go. This was a bit of a weird, perhaps a major red flag?

Overall I only mentioned the negatives of the relationship but it's not as if it was the only side lol,

  • The sex is awesome - I can give her multiple orgasms when I want, she fucks like a pornstar, except the BJ thing. I put precisely zero investment in the relationship - never spend any money (I prefer to spend it on my hobbys which she understands), never go out with her, don't do anything I don't like for her, yet she's fine with it which I take as a great "green flag".

  • After the last fight she's gone through great efforts to change every behaviour that I disliked on her side (I never mentioned any of the above red flags obviously)

  • She cries every time I show a "red flag" for her, although I have little to no respect for female tears thanks to not being a total blue-pill beta lol.

  • She stayed reliable in the past although I've gone through a massive depression period and had some other major unattractive problems in my life,

The list goes on and on, point is I don't want to next her just because I misinterpret and assume stuff that isn't necessarily true.

Honestly I have almost no attractive traits at the moment except being an asshole to her lol, so I cant blame her too much since I understand hypergamy and how bullshit "unconditional love" is. I began to do some dread game (workout, clothing, develop socially etc) and she responded positively in terms of attraction, anyway this stuff is relevant if I do leave her just as well.

So your thoughts on these red flags and the overall situation are very welcome!

Thanks!! :)