A girl I've known for a while started shit testing me like crazy, why is that?

roseillus · 2017-01-12T22:08:39+00:00

Girls shit test you to test your frame and your value, to see if you're worthy.

Based-Michael · 2017-01-12T22:15:07+00:00

When in doubt, do without. You sound extremely unsure about what is going on in front of you. As easy as it is to claim she's trying to shit test you, she might just be as petty and annoying as your "enemy". It took his involvement to bring her true colors out. On the off chance that this is a shit test; do nothing at all. It's a win-win.

quicklogaccount · 2017-01-12T23:22:32+00:00

Do women switch like this whenever they find someone more "worthy"?

Not just women. Your rival negged her and then gave her attention, she perceives his value as too high and wants some of it. She found a way to get it.

roeddit · Fri Jan 13 1:14:25 2017 UTC

Why the fuck are you playfully touching a girl at the office?

Who gives a shit what the dynamics are - could be your SMV has dropped, could be you've gained weight, could be he told her some shit about you.

The fact that you ask this question at all means you care, and that's inherently unattractive to her, I'm sure.

Gawernator · 2017-01-13T02:18:20+00:00

You're touching a married woman in the office? Do you want a sexual harassment case? That's like playing with fire after pouring gasoline on your shoes.

boogerboy23 · Fri Jan 13 1:31:07 2017 UTC

imo you have 2 options to be super cool with her and play it off or stop talking to her. whats your goal?

lanky32 · 2017-01-13T05:15:00+00:00

Do women switch like this whenever they find someone more "worthy"?

Yes. I have personally experienced this a couple of times. You could be worthy (alpha) in her eyes. When someone who she considers to be better than you comes in her life all her feelings for you disappear in a flash.

Title	A girl I've known for a while started shit testing me like crazy, why is that?
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Date	January 12, 2017 10:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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