All my life i've been smart as hell but my social life was completely pathetic. When I got into college I saw how everyone was partying and having fun while I was just sitting at home all day and only had like 2 or 3 friends. This made me focus on becoming more social and fixing my severe shy/awkwardness. Since doing this my grades have went to complete shit and Im on track to fail most of my classes this semester. I improved my social skills exponentially, started lifting and have made many connections. I also lost my virginity and joined a top fraternity but I feel like it was not worth it at all. Now when I study I cannot find any motivation to do so and just keep trying to improve socially. Just when I got in a position to have fun I have to fix so much shit in my life including many family problems recently. I would appreciate any advice on how to get through this shithole. I feel like even I buckle down now I wont be able to salvage my grades for this semester and am completely lost on what to do. I would appreciate any advice/tough love.