Advice for oneitis?

Fromstatepharm · 2019-09-19T21:30:32+00:00

Side.

SpicyYeetJuice · 2019-09-19T21:36:15+00:00

Reading theory is probably not gonna fix it for you. You kind of just have to experience one oneitis fucking it up for you several times until you realize that girls are really a dime a dozen.

blaseee · 2019-09-19T22:11:45+00:00

Talk/game other girls. Only solution

LastRedshirt · 2019-09-19T21:45:42+00:00

imagine her with severe bad teeth, 100 lbs more and a screaming diarrhea

Rx_Red · 2019-09-20T03:19:46+00:00

If it's getting toxic for you: I.e. sucking your soul out one drip at a time, taking up too much of your time thinking about, costing you actually chances with other women or blinding you to the fact that other women are sending you IOIs, you have a couple of choices:

Polarize: Make a reasonable move, be more flirtatious and get her to take a stance on you. It doesn't matter if she rejects you, because if she's not into you, she won't be at some other random time point.

Next: has she passed you up as a prospect already, if so stop wasting time on her. It's not going to happen if you are already being sidelined as her orbiter. Go lift and improve yourself. Flirt with other women and get other women. Who knows, maybe she'll notice.

Either way, it'll put out your misery of oneitis. Get it out of the way sooner or later, oneitis is soul-draining if you let it

DWS33_ · 2019-09-20T01:22:31+00:00

talk to other girls as much as you can. and lift

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-09-20T03:22:58+00:00

Purpose, weight lifting/martial arts, talking to other women(no need to cheat), see her a bit less/text a bit less/pullback a bit.

Title	Advice for oneitis?
Author	bodyfreeoftree
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	September 19, 2019 9:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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