So last night I had a date with this chick, she's very traditional, Asian Girl and comes off as "innocent" as my friends see her that way. I called bullshit and last night we were making out, heavy touching and petting. I'm the third guy she's made out with, supposedly hasn't done anything else.. right. I've gone on a 1 or 2 dates with her, the 3rd or 4th was at her apartment where this date occurred.

She threw a shit test at me "asking what we were" I replied "we're human" then kept making out with her. The conversation then got onto sex, as she's supposedly a virgin, I didn't push for sex as I've just broken up with an ltr and I want to trim some fat away. The night went well, started to encourage her to be aggressive and sexual, she loved it, made her feel comfortable with things and reinforced a non judgmental zone, gave her a few compliments which I never usually give her.

Everytime I would try something, say "touching her ass" she'd turn and say "too fast", I would smirk and stop for like a minute then do it again with no resistance. Got right up to unhooking her bra touching her body with her being comfortable, as I said first time she's done that with a guy. Take it with a grain of salt though...

So now basically she's a plate as I told her I'm only into casually dating and seeing other girls. She agreed no worries. Now, as I said before we talked about sex, she also asked me bout it and I just replied "do it with someone you're comfortable with and trust". She also said she wants to wait till she has a bf.

My thinking is,do everything before sex then push for sex. If I get knocked back, no skin off my teeth, but keep trying. If she doesn't let up, drop her as a plate.

  1. Is this a good idea or should I do something else?
  2. How would I progress, from foreplay stuff to sex? I know not to outright say let's have sex, what are your suggestions?

I am new to the dating world as I've always been in ltrs.