Advice on LTR flaking?

McVaghunter · 2019-10-03T15:25:36+00:00

She knows you have no other options and that she can do better so she flakes without a care about consequences because there won't be any.
The important question is why isn't she giving a fuck about you?

max_peenor · 2019-10-03T16:25:47+00:00

She isn't an LTR. If spending with you isn't her primary interest, then you aren't in a committed relationship. This works the other way too.

You have other women, right?

RareTruck · 2019-10-03T15:11:32+00:00

Do you mean, like she commits to going out with you then changes her mind and goes out with buddies instead?

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-10-03T15:27:02+00:00

Increase your smv. You can’t blame her for not wanting to see you

redroxi · 2019-10-03T15:15:57+00:00

I would ghost her for a week and after a week if she asks where have I been just tell her that you wanted to go offline for a while..

throaway69404 · 2019-10-03T16:04:54+00:00

She doesnt respect you. Shes done it 3 times and you havent confronted her already? Your LTR is definitely fucked up. Leave her the next time she tries doing this and If she doesnt listen to you. Also read the sidebar.

Harshtroof · 2019-10-03T16:24:22+00:00

Flaking is almost always a sign that a relationship is in serious trouble. You need to explore options other than her.

smhfamswag · 2019-10-03T17:13:05+00:00

soft next

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-10-03T18:01:19+00:00

Demote to plate without telling her, emotionally pull back and start gaming other women. She is disrespectful and doesnt care that much about you. Also, she clearly isn't afraid of losing you. This tells me her attraction and respect for you aren't that high.

moltenw · 2019-10-03T18:35:21+00:00

She doesn't respect you. If she doesn't respect you, then there's no LTR.

Don't think this is salvagable. You can soft next if you want to, but just ditching the bitch is the play here.

Title	Advice on LTR flaking?
Author	Mostass
Upvotes	4
Comments	19
Date	October 3, 2019 3:10 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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