Broke up with LTR friday night over dishonesty about who she was messaging (guy was beta shmuck). one of the boundaries i set early on was no guy friends on her end and no girl friends on my end. realized i really shouldn’t of cared about it and probably soft nexted instead. anyway, she calls back yesterday saying she wants to try to make things work. lol check this out ya’ll: she told me the night i ended it she reached out to all her friends (guys and girls) and told them what happened and that she was sorry for cutting the guys off. I KNOW RP 101 says too many guy friends—> plate not LTR. However, she has a lot of female friends as well. In our 2 years together, she was always friendly to all, men and women alike. also paid attention to things like how she treats service workers and all, green flag on those fronts. overall friendly person. Most of these “guy friends” are people she’s known way before we met, like when she was in middle school and she obviously doesn’t want to lose those friends. ive only known her for 2 and a half years. She is high SMV, I know there will be orbiters and all that crap with any high SMV chick. Question: should I take her back and not give a shit about the guy friends? obviously i will set boundaries such as not being alone with them and shit like that. Besides that, day to day the relationship was good, she does whatever i tell her to do, and she loves eating my ass.

Additionally, she has a solid relationship with her parents, but her parents do not have a solid relationship together. Her mom wears the pants and her dad is just whatever. How does trp feel about this?

Thanks for reading