Lets say a guy is loaded AF, and many girls want to betabucks him. The mainstay of power in any relationship is the other person being more interested in you than you are in them. If you are loaded and a golddigger girl wants you for your money, then you should inherently have more power in the relationship. My theory is that these girls trick the betabucks targets into thinking that it is the man's privledge to have the relationship, when in reality the betabucks guy with enough money can easily get another girl.

So let's say a betabucks dude wised up to this fact and shifted the power balance in the relationship accordingly. Would this make him an alpha leading to genuine attraction ? Or does it mean physically unattractive, boring, shy etc. men with enough money can have their way with women without having to lift, project confidence, etc.

Also, I always here this talk about girls who want a guy for an LTR not wanting to give it up easy because they are afraid the guy will view them as slutty and not LTR, while girls will give it up easy to a sexy scumbag unfit for LTR. Seems to me, if the guy is wanted enough, all he needs to do is lay it down, lets have some good sex or I''ll move on.