Found out my new LTR fucked some guy before we talked about being official. I vetted her for 6 months, and waited until she brought it up. Supposed good girl exchange student from a poorer country, religious, extremely family oriented, etc.

I'm definitely atleast 1 point above her looks wise. 4 plate deadlift, 2 plate bench, 3 plate squat for those asking if I lift. She was extremely submissive the entire relationship not once testing my decisions.

Found out last night she had sex with some dude 2 months before I allowed her to be my LTR, and that didn't sit right with me as she was still telling me she loved me before we were official and even at the time she fucked this guy.

She hid this from me, and lied about it when confronted. Am I over reacting as we never talked about being official at the time? The guy personally messaged me to tell me about her and him, and even provided picture proof of them together infront of a motel.

I told her I know what happened, and that its over. She tried to trickle truth saying they only kissed, but I eventually got the truth.

Do you guys recommend keeping as a plate as it wasn't technically cheating? This was my first "LTR", but I am certain she saw me as an alpha due to the things I learned here. Never chased her, she always initiated contact, and I would set up the dates when I felt like it.

Just feel like shit I guess, had to dear diary a bit.