So this girl that I'm tryna spin as a plate asked me if I can pick her up from her house and drop her at her college dorm (I live at college rn). Idk if I'm being used. There's been a lot of IOI. We went out the other day with another one of our friends and whilst I was driving she grabbed my hand and put it on he thigh etc etc. She's done more for me than I've done for her and I've been very careful not to put her on a pedestal. One of my friends who has very beta tendancies is currently talking to her A LOT to the point he bends down and ties her shoelaces etc. He's managed to hit first base with her but she gives me a lot of ioi at the same time, when he's not there. What should I do? I'm thinking I'd definitely like to spin her as a plate, but I feel like I'm gonna break my frame if I don't have a clear plan on what to do next?