Am i taking this self improvement thing to seriously?

CrazyVaccum · 2020-08-24T21:02:51+00:00

Yes, you could do jiu jitsu on the other day. Socialising is also important. if you do this often you gonna be considered a weirdo. It’s eaiser to get friends at the beginning before the circles are formed.

idonthavtitsbcimaguy · 2020-08-25T01:02:38+00:00

Dude, you're not missing out. It's fucking Monday. You should absolutely be studying and hitting the gym. The best advice you can take is to get a disciplined regimen going EARLY, and don't give a fuck what people think.

This isn't to say don't drink. Just try to limit it to the weekend, and just the nighttime if possible. And go HARD when you do, like you do in the classroom and gym. By go HARD, I don't mean getting as fucked up as possible, I mean getting out of your comfort zone, talking to as many people as possible, and bringing the fucking energy. Personally, I found that I was able to do this best when I spent all week in the library and gym, building that pent up energy.

In terms of socializing on the general college experience level, you're better off joining an organization and doing activities with them during the day instead of dartying. I was personally on a varsity sports team and in an a cappella group. The time I spent with these men I will cherish so much more than any time I spent fucking dartying. Full disclosure I don't know too much about fraternities as I didn't go to school with greek life, but if you join one, it's totally cool to be that frat brother that goes hard in the gym and classroom and is confident about it. Friend calling you a hardo? fucking own it. Agree and amplify. You'll be getting the chicks over them during college and the massive salary afterwards.

Snowboard18 · 2020-08-24T22:29:48+00:00

It’s just about balance really. You should be studying, training and other stuff but you should ALSO socialize and party some.

I’d say go hard on self improvement during the week and party on the weekends

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glowing_dolphins · 2020-08-25T10:15:33+00:00

It sounds like you’ve lost touch with what you yourself from within want. This is a hard thing to know when you’ve been searching externally for intellectual answers, and “solving” things.

I’d recommend NMMNG. Get the audiobook from a disreputable online source. Have a listen.

Give yourself permission to enjoy things for you. Part of trp is discipline, and part of being a man is being a bit feral.

Title	Am i taking this self improvement thing to seriously?
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Date	August 24, 2020 8:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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