Hello,

I've been dating this LTR for about 3 months. plated her for about 6-7 months.

Since we've been in an LTR she has gotten very mad that I introduced her as her nick name (which I call her EVERDAY, she told me to) and got really upset about it. I did it once again by accident and she totally flipped out on me withdrawing from sex and some other bullshit and also because I asked her to start paying for stuff she wants. I don't feel the need to pay for everything in a relationship fuck that. She says that she pays for ubers and pre game alcohol it makes it even which I don't agree on, I thought she did stuff like that out of being a normal person..

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This is where it gets spicy, she does not like being affectionate around friends or co workers. She got VERY mad at me for being affectionate around her friends and co workers. She isn't even that affectionate when we are just hanging out at my house its strange, I've never encountered someone like that before.

She gets almost sloppy drunk to the point where my friends are like (bro whats wrong with her) type of deal. One night she got drunk at a family party (cousins birthday) and started to really disrespect me (not infront of others) she was telling me to "GO away......fuck offff" than instantly laughing about it, but going back to being serious. In the same time span she stated that "WE both fucked up", " we both fucked other people" And when i asked her what she mean't she said no no i dont know... I asked he she cheated on me she says "yeaaa.... nooo.. i dont know i dont know"

So i totally lost her trust after that one, Ive never seen someone jokingly say they cheated on someone (is it true? Who knows)

So I've been hard dreading her, basically not texter her or giving her any contact since that incident because I don't feel the desire to be with her anymore. The disrespect, the no affection, sloppy drunkness, and basically (I think) admitting to cheating IMO.

What do you guys think about this situation? Am I being a dick for asking her to be more affectionate and start paying for her own shit?

Or do I just hard next this chick based on the information above. Thanks

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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~UPDATE ~~~~~~~~~~~~

I found for the sake of my mental health, and learning from past experiences... that forcing this relationship to work wasn't worth the hassle. So, I ended things quickly and smoothly. Told her that she wasn't a bad person, I just had no desire to continue unfortunately so we should separate.

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How do I feel? Kinda shitty, I'm obviously upset that it ended the way it did. She was not a bad girl, but at the end of the day fellas... you gotta look out for your own health and sanity. Fuck em, one life