Any sex tips for first time?

stewiex95 · 2021-02-12T11:56:51+00:00

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t-h-r-ow-a · 2021-02-12T06:46:50+00:00

Listen to Wet Dreamz by J. Cole

Don_Draper27 · 2021-02-12T12:49:50+00:00

If you're going to drink, don't drink a lot. Whisky dick is a thing.

If you have trouble getting hard don't stress too much about it. Just tell her it's been a while if you don't want her to know you're a virgin, or just be straight up and tell her she's your first one. Some girls would be honored to take a guys V.

Probably, most importantly, just try and relax. If you smoke weed go ahead and smoke. Play some chill music (Minus The Bear, Eden, Eden Project).

At the end of the day I'd probably just be honest with her and get the elephant out of the room. It would take a lot of pressure off you and you can let her lead this one time, but, be careful. Worst case scenario she will wonder why no one had fucked you yet and lose attraction.

big_ass_package · 2021-02-12T09:27:17+00:00

Yeah...you probably won't be able to make her wet so make sure you put some spit on the tip before you try and slide it in while she looks at you in disgust. FACTS

Darrowww · 2021-02-12T08:47:55+00:00

Don't jerk off. You need testosterone. Don't summon yourself to kinks. It's a hole with no end. Be a man.

BurnYourFlag · 2021-02-12T07:32:30+00:00

Jerk off b4 hand or you will blow in 15 seconds. Try to focus on how your feeling tap into the primal side of your self, and reduce yourself to a basal animal level. I like to growl, make noises, and lightly bite her while I'm fucking her. Try to empty your mind. You will probably not be good your first time so don't fret. If you want to be honest and tell her this is your 🍒 that's fine. A portion of girls find this very exciting and virgin guys assume its a negative it isn't.

For a more analytical view read below. Focus on foreplay, but don't eat the pussy unless your in a LTR. Take two fingers and turn them up into the vagina rub along the slightly rougher part at the top of the vagina. Take your thumb and rub the top part of her pussy this is guaranteed Cummins if you do it right.

Porn leads you to believe that rough unorganized pounding is the way to go, but I have found that a steady rhythm is the number one factor in making a girl cum through penetration. Position wise i would start missionary and put a pillow under her ass for lift.when u start to get tired switch to cow girl or doggy style. My favorite position is doggy, because least taxing on your back and wind. During doggy I like to pull her hair and fuck a little rough.

If you do try oral cycle through the letters of the alphabet on her clitoris, and when her hands are in your hair stop on that letter. If you don't know what a clit is Google that shit. If your doing it right it should become erect in your mouth. Don't use a bunched up tongue it fatigues your tongue quickly, use wide broad strokes. don't be surprised if your tongue is sore afterwards, because your tongue is a muscle it builds strength over time.

ScholarLad · 2021-02-12T17:07:25+00:00

Good playlist is key. I do synthwave or chillwave now.

When I was a nerdy college student (10 years ago) my self curated image was as preppy “intellectual” (used to wear pullovers, dress shirts, khakis, boat shoes, talked endlessly about philosophy and poetry). First time I had sex freshman year, I had Chopin’s Noctures playing in the background. It wasn’t cheesy because it was who I was at the time.

She told me the next day “I’ve never had sex to classical music before.” She became obsessed shortly thereafter. My first girlfriend. Lasted six months. She was a fiend in bed, we quickly escalated to all sorts of crazy S&M shit. Still think about her occasionally, and those college days when everything was small and everything seemed possible.

Enjoy my man, those are really some of the best days.

I_LUV_PALAK_PANEER · 2021-03-02T13:59:21+00:00

Take off the duct tape first

thecarryone · 2021-02-12T14:01:11+00:00

You’re going to be fine my friend. Try stay present the whole time. Deep breathe, enjoy. Don’t overthink.

email39 · 2021-02-12T21:04:38+00:00

It's natural to be nervous, so don't focus on why you are nervous.

woyspawn · 2021-02-12T23:41:36+00:00

If you ejaculate prematurely (might happen), wait 20 minutes and go again.

ArticunoTheEngineer · 2021-02-12T23:42:22+00:00

Dont drink too much, pp gets soft from %.

You can either fap before the date or not. If you fap, you'll last longer, but risk pp not getting hard when combined with nervousness. If you dont fap you'll have more testosterone, a hard pp and probably better overall experience, but you may last shorter.

Shower before the date, obviously.

Most important: don't think about it as of a mission to accomplish. The deal is: you meet, clothes go off, and YOU TWO HAVE FUN. Some background music would be cool - of your choosing. Me and my ltr listen to metal when we have sex. Cuz we like metal.

Important thing, on your first time, don't focus on makig her cum. Women don't need an orgasm to have a good time. It takes practice to learn how to give an orgasm to a particular woman.

Foreplay is super important. Kissing, cuddling, playing with tits. For many women sides of the neck are an erogenous zone. It's a good place to kiss.

Good foreplay should make her wet in the panties (if her panties are still on). But it may not. Try to think of it as an equivalent of erection - sometimes she wants to, but can't. So, you may use your spit as a lubricant, or just buy some lubricant beforehand just in case.

I advise to play a bit (or a lot) with her pussy before you go in. For the first time some gentle rubbing will do. Google where the clit is, give it some love with your fingers. This way you also get to know when she is wet.

Don't go in until she's wet.

Which way it goes from here is up to you. Just have some sexy naked fun. If you feel you are going to get off too early, just take a break, change the position.

If you get off early, no big deal. After 20-30mins you should be good for a second round.

And when it's over some cuddling may be advised.

absolutemadboy · 2021-02-16T22:28:33+00:00

start with kiss on lips
then neck - kiss side neck, suck neck
gently fondle with breasts, then start licking and sucking them
move hand gently around her curves
kiss all over body
cuddle in middle, talk dirty, whisper if u can suck her pussy
lick pussy, clit
fuck
(moan, look into eyes)
cuddle after sex

Title	Any sex tips for first time?
Author	Iphone4465
Upvotes	17
Comments	24
Date	February 12, 2021 6:23 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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