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TheDero/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:47 PM
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Sounds good. Remember that you are curating inside of a highly-saturated industry, if you search and create images for example, "groceries", you will be competing against 100,000 images and your submissions will be lost into the void. This is why it takes some proper, small planning. Instead of "groceries", I'll create images specifically for "online shopping" or, "delivery app". This is a term that falls under the same category, but is more specific and likely to rise this year. Think of the ap…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 03:43 PM
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Not sure what your definition of high income is, but on top of my day job I've started raking in passive income with graphic design. I should really put a price on this fuckin info but I'm wanna help all the bros out. If you have very little or extensive graphic design experience, stock websites that sell vectors and "clip art" type images are skyrocketing. If you're even an ounce creative you should be doing this if you want to make extra $$ a month. Search on Google Trends (either limit to you…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:56 PM
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Based upon this answer, you know what to do
/r/askTRP17/03/21 10:40 PM
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I do take Adderall 25mg xr daily but I would initially assume it would be a net positive, considering Addy commonly reduces blood flow, especially to extremities
/r/askTRP17/03/21 04:42 PM
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Where can I snag that?
/r/askTRP17/03/21 02:49 PM
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Thanks for the irrelevant input.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:31 PM
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I don't, honestly. Theres no magic spell to doing things, you just do them. Proper sleep, diet, and fitness routine is the first step. Giving a shit about your own life, I can't help you with. Get an appetite for success or wait until life bites you in the ass and you land at rock bottom. Both usually do the trick
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:51 PM
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Very insightful thank you for this. Need to take time and reflect
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:41 PM
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Tonight
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:41 PM
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Sidebar u normie
/r/askTRP13/03/21 04:55 PM
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2nd is good. Rest make u look boring
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:11 PM
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Yes and no. I gotta be honest I haven't really felt much these last 6 months or so. My hookups are high energy and passionate but I always go back to my grind without a partner in mind. I don't feel good or bad about my plates-just very indifferent. The one thing I do enjoy about LTR's with a strong frame is that I can bring someone into my world more.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:55 PM
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Get your cheddar up bro
/r/askTRP11/03/21 02:45 PM
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Is there a question here? or is this just some drug-induced self plug for some shifty life advice channel
/r/askTRP11/03/21 02:44 PM
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U sound like a straight dumbass. Learn from your mistakes and go read sidebar material more. & stop using the word beta please. Take those words out of your vocabulary, this post gave me brain damage
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:37 PM
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Just make a tinder and match with some whales. Me and the rest of the guys on here staying to our purpose have the top 10% chicks coming over later. Watch out for those yeast infections
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:31 PM
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Leave on read
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:47 PM
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I used to be like this until I met a girl that sucked my soul out of my cock like a Dyson fresh from the shelf. Idk man, I find it really hard to believe that a guy can't finish from a blow job unless he jerks off way too much, or the girl isn't going down on that shit like its the fountain of youth. The best BJ's are when the girl is actively working in her head to get you off. Like that raw, submissive energy. Hard to maintain that high level of lust in an LTR but thats my two cents
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:09 PM
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You might fuck it up regardless because you're young, but who cares? It should fun and exciting to approach chick's that you're into. Ditch the rating scale, it just makes you pedastalize girls in your head. If she's attractive to you, she's attractive. Thats it. Don't worry about the numbers. Just shoot her a text or pull her aside next time you guys are hanging out and tell her that want to chill sometime and vibe. Get to know her better. If you guys have any inside jokes throw in one of those…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:36 PM
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I'm trollin bro lmaoo. I think its jus the reflection from my phone
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:28 PM
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I know that guy, fan as well. But no, my father got it for me for my bday last year
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:22 AM
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Lmao kinda. when ur as blue pilled as I was then, sometimes the only action u can get is another dude 🤣
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:30 PM
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My transformation-> http://imgur.com/a/TsXeGjO First pic: 0 pussy Next two pics, present day: bitches hit me up first online all the time. Idk bro, anecdotal evidence? It worked for me. Who even thinks about this shit. Of course women like a chiseled look. I intermittent fast + hit my calorie goals + protein everyday and feel like a beast. I'm not packing lots of muscle mass but I'm natty and only been lifting for a year and some change.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 08:22 PM
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Pretty sure StephIsCold has a video on this on YouTube Just search "StephIsCold" & "voice" and it should pop up. I'm at work so I can't type shit up rn
/r/askTRP04/03/21 10:07 PM
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Here's a hot take of mine that I'm sure a few spergs in here will get offended by - your mindset and pre-concieved assumptions largely affect your initial impressions. By thinking, "how can I not seem boring" you're gonna just fuck it up by seeming too try hard By thinking, "this chick is so hot, I hope I don't come off as too thirsty" you're gonna just fuck it up by seeming too cringey By thinking, "how do I make myself seem unavailable and cool?" You're gonna just fuck it up by hamstering repl…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:48 PM
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Damn bro you musta fucked this bitch so hard she started seeing the 4th dimension. An email essay? God damn. Up to you really, she sees you as her top choice clearly. I'm ignoring your last sentences because those are hella autistic. What do YOU want to do? Stop tryna fake abundance when you clearly have none. if you like this girl, get back with her. Just keep the potential consequences in the forefront of your mind (attachment, wanting kids, etc etc)
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:24 PM
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There's some thirsty jersey shore soyboy lookin ass that does nothing but approach chick's at our gym. He's now friend zoned by almost every single one, and does nothing but triceps extentions and walks next to them on the treadmill trying to act like mr. Nice guy. The boredom and disgust on these chicks faces is laughable. Why are u trying to shit where u eat? Just get your workout in and find chick's somewhere else.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:19 PM
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Just message them. What else are u gonna do, send them ur brainwaves?
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:12 PM
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I use my social media to promote my digital design freelance nowadays and have almost 3k followers. I have stories pinned into my highlights that have all kinds of photos of me and things I do w/friends. It's a great social proof. If they want to stalk old pictures of me they have to scroll way down That being said, you shouldn't feel worthless without one. The girls that aren't batshit crazy tik tok "stars" just want to see social media to 1) see ur a real person 2) judge SMV If you don't or ca…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 03:17 PM
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Whenever I want. If I have my phone on me I'll reply when I see it, I don't care. Now if a bitch is playin games I give a little taste of the same medicine. Petty, but effective in setting a frame. If its like days gone by and I know she's a social media fiend ill just put her on ice for a while. These chicks are all on their phones 24/7
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:11 PM
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I figured as much. Thanks for the info
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:07 PM
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Bro imm fucking dying at that morning text. "You're up earlyy" LMFAO. Thats some blue pilled Billy shit right there Holy fuck. Thanks for the read. Theres plenty of ways to see the truth in RP around us. Just gotta swallow that shit first. Nice post fake or not.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 07:26 PM
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Don't cockblock yourself. You might have to wear a mask and it'll be cold? Are you going to cry? Because you sound like you're about cry. How about you go meet her on a walk first and stop hamstering. This changes nothing logistically.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 07:20 PM
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Salt nicotine really made my throat feel fucked up so quit that shit
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:49 AM
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I vape a menthol flavor with 3mg. Nicotine addiction is real bad when you start building a tolerance. I moderate my use of it and definitely feel like it gives me a slight boost. Not really a fan of tobacco
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:31 AM
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Thats fine leave height as is. All depends bro. You don't need a shirtless pics to get matches. I personally enjoy being lean but everyone is diff and has their own goals. Some people don't like bulk / cut cycles so its up to you. Maybe put on some more mass for another 5 or 6 months and cut from there? You don't need to be in a massive surplus. First pic should grab attention, yes. But after matching they will scour your profile to see what you're about. If the rest of the pics are wack it will…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:29 AM
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First picture isn't terrible but the problem is you need to build your profile rightways--> Guys often overlook this small thing. Girls gonna swipe and make up her mind at some point. Each picture needs to be better and tell a diff story / make you seem mysterious & interesting You have that first pic, and then a really garbage one with you in a mask. A selfie in a boys locker room? Total panty dropper bro You need to at least have one or two more pro looking photos, you doing something cool or …
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:06 AM
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Abso fuckin lutely not. Whered u pull that number from
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:26 PM
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"It's possible."
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:12 PM
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Of course. Chin up brutha, you'll be slayin poon in no time
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:07 PM
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Both pictures of you doing DJ stuff are fine. The dog picture and the first make you seem really beta boyfriend material. My roomates profile looks like yours and he gets 0 pussy. Just a photo of your dog comes across like you're trying too hard to pander to the stereotype of girls liking cute dogs. Its just weird. You need to put on some muscle, get that facial hair under control, and get 3 solid photos, one head-on portrait with a better smile, one shirtless @ beach/park/skatepark, and one wit…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:48 PM
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Dammnnnnnn
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:53 PM
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/thread
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:50 PM
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They all take huge smelly shits
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:04 PM
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Normal. Addressing your point about wanting to start a family. There are plenty of girls in their early, mid, late twenties that take great care of themselves, workout, eat well, good skin, etc. You'll find one eventually im sure. I wouldn't completely count out an age range based on your previous experiences. Open yourself up to the opportunity. I think you might just find that wild, young mindset attractive that is common in college girls, which is understandable.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:42 PM
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Too bad. Go yell into a pillow
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:54 AM
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Didn't read. No questions asked. My "BP guy with a victim complex" alarm is going off
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:35 PM
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Is Nate gay?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:25 PM
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Probably both if from Tinder. Had a night the other day with a girl just like this. Was acting really shy, telling me she wants more friends, opened up a bit more after some wine, eventually we're on the couch and she's sitting criss cross next to me just staring at me like a tiger in the bushes. I ask if she's good and she just says "please just fuck me silly already X". This all happened within maybe 45 minutes. She even told me "you can go now" after I finished. LOL! U can bet I didn't let th…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 12:54 PM
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I make music visuals and abstract art and its a fantastic release for stress. Let's me focus in on how to express emotion. Provide entertainment for people. Get in tune with "vibes" as the kids say nowadays. Slowly turning into a freelance side business of mine as well. Any sort of freelance work on the side can generate passive income while also not becoming something you have to slave away at. I think the most satisfying hobbies are the ones you naturally gravitate towards (cooking good food, …
/r/askTRP20/02/21 11:02 PM
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Any sources on this? Want to read more
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:58 PM
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It comes naturally after a while. Watch comedians, hang out with funny people, talk to girls with an abundance mindset always. You have to develop your own kind of unique humor, its a fun process. You have to actively practice it though, and fail. You won't become funnier by reading books. Its a combination of confidence, playfulness, and practice.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 02:27 PM
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You have like an entire book about two girls I couldn't give a fuck about. Is this club drama im seeing too? Jesus Christ man. It's as simple as this. You give way too much of a fuck what other people think. Wherever that stems from I have no idea. You need a serious month long monk mode to align yourself. Go see a therapist or a professional that can properly break down your issues. Want to start saying no and standing up for yourself? Start saying no and stand up for yourself. Theres no magic …
/r/askTRP15/02/21 11:28 PM
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For future reference, asking a girl to send you a picture to prove she's real is autistic as hell. Are you going to request she put a shoe on her head as well? "Let's facetime", or transitioning from dating app to Instagram/Snapchat with a few back and forths is a more normal approach if you're that concerned. Also no way to tell why she actually ghosted. If a girl is above a 5 on the rating scale and shows at least 6 sq inches of airbrushed skin with a VSCO filter, I can guarantee you she alway…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 05:05 AM
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congrats, you've hit rock bottom! Might as well try things that make you uncomfortable bro, you can't really sink any lower. We're also not doctors here. This is askTRP, where we can provide advice that leads you down a road of being your best self. For you, that's seeking professional help, in person or online, narrowing down what's truly the cause of your failures, and then working on those one by one. There's no secret to being a man, no cheat code, no magic answer. Also, just my two cents, y…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:53 AM
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Just not really something I think about. When I go to the gym I like to laser focus in and concentrate on progressing and overload. If a girl approaches me I play it cool and hit her up after. No time to be planning approach tactics when u should be using your time wisely.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 02:41 AM
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An eden fan in TRP. Fuck ya
/r/askTRP12/02/21 07:24 PM
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Exactly.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:22 PM
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Probably shy and nervous. Pro tip, those quiet ones are usually submissive and will worship your cock like its the fountain of youth frozen into a popsicle if you play your cards right. Make sure she's comfortable around you, the more secure they feel the more they let loose.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:35 PM
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I'll bet my left testicle that your dating app pics are trash
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:32 PM
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Art. There are unlimited forms and every human being is creative in their own ways. Give it a shot
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:13 PM
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Was the sex good? Tell her it's ok and you want to talk it out in person. Invite her over and fuck her again. I see no reason to go full block mode based on what you've said. Plates break but don't throw it on the ground urself
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:04 PM
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Women are attracted to perceived value/wealth. I'll never talk to a bitch about my 401k lmao.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:01 PM
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This is a broad question because the first, initial interaction with a girl makes a big difference in how you're perceived. Dating apps/social media are swarmed with simps and try hards, so it's harder to grab and hold a girls attention unless your pictures are fucking ON POINT and you look like a top %. Guys will swipe on a 5 if she's got some ass. Girls are a bit more selective with their matches and have an inflated sense of worth online because men are visually stimulated, and girls can use …
/r/askTRP11/02/21 03:59 PM
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this is dangerous for me to read rn lol. how do u keep peace of mind just pulling out?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 01:48 AM
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Is she interested in him or interested in having a date on Valentines? I've had a plate texting me all throughout the week trying to free me up on Sunday, shit is ridiculous how much social pressure women put on themselves for one fucking day
/r/askTRP10/02/21 09:11 PM
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My dad told me this in high school after I flunked and it changed my life: "Were all gonna die one day buddy. You, me, everyone. Were all moving in the same direction: forward. You fucked up yesterday, but in 10 years time you'll look over your shoulder and see all the great shit you've accumulated, and the distance you've gained. Life is a bitch of a journey, and its all up to you what kind of mark you leave behind." This was 10 years ago so some words escape me. But ever since I heard that com…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 06:00 PM
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Why do you need a book to look someone in the eye?
/r/askTRP10/02/21 05:41 PM
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stop rp overdosing and fucking reply and say sure. she literally offered a reschedule for valentines day bro
/r/askTRP10/02/21 03:54 PM
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Are these shoots for a scrapbook or OnlyFans?
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:02 PM
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Please tldr your concerns
/r/askTRP03/02/21 03:31 PM
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Bro check out the Forgotten Utopia mixtape on YouTube
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:32 PM
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Solid bro. Yeah I'm gonna ease off over time. Good warmup is key Physique rn: https://imgur.com/a/MoMBxjP
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:12 PM
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I agree with that shit. I've always felt like the bitch in the workplace, and I've learned to take my time and understand how corpo works. The dominance is a work in progress. Lots of younger self conditioning to get rid of
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:28 PM
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It all sort of remains to be seen. I lost my previous job in April of last year when COVID hit, I am just now getting back into the field. Literally hired last week. My finances are ok, work in progress. Salary is 50k since my position is entry level. Rooming with a buddy of mine and rent is low. I eventually want to have my own studio or 1bedroom to myself. Just how I am. I'm just starting to make some money now so investing will come soon in the short term. I'm basically like just now starting…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:26 PM
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I wish to distance myself from pre-workout. I've used it as an essential for the longest time, but its a hassle to pack for work tbh. Maybe I could just keep a tub in my glove compartment.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:05 PM
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I'm a straight sword sailor so I can't relate. But rock on brother. Thats all just nonsense shit. I live in the US, I've never seen anything like that posted to social media. Just seems super trashy, like something you would see on a Facebook wall from a pregnant@18 goth girl from high school.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:03 PM
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I was thinking the exact same. I'm making sure to meal prep pretty much exactly that. I usually do lean turkey burgers or salmon burgers + veggie + potatoes/ quinoa
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:00 PM
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"Dick rating- minus points if crooked" I mean bro what the fuck is this? Don't take a single ounce of this seriously. This chick is cracked out her fucking mind to first of all publicly post a spreadsheet like this, let alone make dumbass points like that. Find different girls to interact with
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:46 PM
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Thats an interesting perspective in the last part. Gonna need to read more on this
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:42 PM
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Lmao what the fuck
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:39 PM
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well that answers all my suspicions. what a fuckin trainwreck
/r/askTRP04/01/21 04:16 PM
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You failed when you deleted your account. It wasn't the deletion itself, but you giving into her frame like a little worm. She probably felt in control ever since then and looked for alpha bucks elsewhere. Just learn from mistakes, no biggie homie. GL
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:12 PM
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He deleted, I can't check anymore.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:42 PM
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That's fine. If it's excessive talk then use your gut feeling.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 05:30 AM
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alpha widowed probably. why does she talk about her ex?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 05:21 AM
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Nah that's not my account. Its an account with posts that I follow and have liked in the past. I've taken advice and unfollowed. I'll use a burner account in the future.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:35 AM
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i was agreeing with you but alright
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:03 AM
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yeah seems like the general consensus is to not follow this shit on social media, which i think i agree with. never had this brought up before (she's literally been going through my followers and asking about them) like wtf ?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:02 AM
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sure
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:05 PM
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he's on that name brand shit. im prescribed generic amphetamine salts. This guy is on that capital A shit
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:14 PM
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Yes, I don't take it every day. I'm prescribed a fairly small dose compared to other's I've heard that take it. At a place in my career where I spend alot of time behind a computer, so it helps. I think if used responsibly and treated like what it is, a drug, it can be OK. Definitely don't want to use it forever though.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:27 PM
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legal amphetamine salts lmao aka Adderall. I never remember how it's actually spelled, with two R's? Idk. On the real though, no fap keeps me dialed in. I used to blow my load all the time and I felt like a wet towel. I abstain from masturbation and it fuels me, also makes me want to fuck my plates better. Better sex for them, they stay in rotation, and I have energy and drive to work on my own projects. I'm extremely ADHD, super impulsive, so those things keep me in line. Oh, and meditation.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:06 PM
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just buy it today. TF does "soon" mean? When you get around to it? We all know how that will go
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:48 PM
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i think it would be a fun way to escalate but ok. im not trying to make her tea and light some woodwicks
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:46 PM
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Its a basic shit test
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:38 PM
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Its ok bro. Use this experience as an eye-opener and you'll be much stronger in the future.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:00 PM
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Thanks boss
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:23 AM
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Link didn't work
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:57 PM
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All I can stomach nowadays is wine or a gin and tonic. Way too much partying in school, way too many blackouts. I don't really care about getting hammered much anymore, I just enjoy drinking a little around people I enjoy. I'm extremely ADHD so it slows my brain down a bit and makes me very euphoric. I don't overdo it anymore. Few drinks and I'm done
/r/askTRP22/11/20 05:49 AM
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Sure
/r/askTRP16/11/20 11:11 PM
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She wants you to fuck her like you're the last two people left on Earth and it's your job to repopulate the planet. Does that make sense?
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:30 PM
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There's a reason vitamins come in gummy form, some people just don't want to swallow shit the right way. If it hurts to see TRP come true before your very eyes, it should. My (ex) gf never looked at me the same way when I broke down in the car with her. She distanced me and dumped me like a dog about two weeks later. That redpilled me real quick. It happens man, start talking to other girls. It will sting for a while but chatting with and fucking other females will ease the pain. You'll be over …
/r/askTRP14/11/20 11:23 PM
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Kratom is fucking terrible for you
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:55 PM
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send me screenshots of the convo, that's really the only way I'd be able to give you direct advice. I don't really believe in most of the "text game", because I display myself as high value online, it does the work for me. I used to care about how fast I replied, nowadays I just keep my phone on silent and reply whenever I want. The older a girl is, typically the less texting games there will be. Younger girls nowadays are generally obsessed with read reciepts, snapchat, all that bullshit.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:43 PM
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fucking grade A shit right here. bookmark this shit fellas
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:30 PM
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Girls are extremely sexual, if they find you attractive they will already be thinking about you pile-driving her. Your intent is good, but the approach is not. Before you meet a girl for the first time (especially from dating apps), you want to be mysterious, enticing, and have a perceived high value. "What are you kinks?" doesn't seem like she actually wanted you to tell her, rather she wanted to judge your response and thirst levels. Remember, dirty texting isn't really off the table. I love t…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:15 PM
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Yeah, you're exactly right. Why the fuck would she want to be together with you? Go fix your dick and your brain, and build some value for yourself. This is pathetic
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:50 PM
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She said they young couple reached out to her again and said that they talk about her all the time. She replied, "I think about you guys ALL THE TIME as well" Of all the lifestyle choices this girl has made and the crazy times in her 20's...this is what I woke up to today sick to my stomach about. Oneitis How do I first get the fact that I let her into my mind as a potential mate and LTR into someone I know has a highlight real of crazy sex and times that I'll never be able to match no matter ho…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:33 PM
1

What do you do when you take your little gummy vitamins in the morning? Do you sit there and read the label all day waiting until you feel any different? Take the red pill, educate yourself a little each day, and go out and apply it to your life. Questions are welcome, but actually do shit with the new information. This subreddit, along with any subreddit or corner of the internet turns into an echo chamber.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:28 PM
6

This is hilariously bad lmfao. If you want her to know her place, fuck her brains out, don't type this shit over text. Innuendos followed by radio silence are what spins her hamster, not "I want to spray cum on your face" especially to a girl you haven't met up with yet, its fucking cringe. Being direct like that really only works if you've already fucked her and she sees you as a top %
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:25 PM
1

I haven't watched porn in almost a year and I think your last point aligns with me the most. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:01 AM
2

Could be with your last point, I would say I'm in a transitional period of my life, I moved out a few weeks ago and work alot on my artwork and business ideas. But I enjoy being sexual and dominant, and can get hard from oral no problem. I do have pretty severe ADHD, other than that I'm not really sure what the issue is. Maybe you're right, I don't find her attractive enough in my head.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:46 PM
1

How do you go about getting a prescription for Cialis in the US? "Hey doc, I'd like to get on this." ?
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:38 PM
3

Guys nowadays have no self confidence. Pig sees a slop of shit as a tasty meal.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:38 PM
19

ty for my daily dose of autism.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:36 PM
1

save save save. the more money you save before you pull the ripcord the better. Bills add up fast and will kick you onto your ass if you're not careful. and i agree brother. good luck & keep your eye on the prize
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:39 PM
1

I think it's hard to say Rich is blue pilled. Maybe has some beta traits and carries anger that leans him a bit towards MGTOW, but he has some really fantastic videos on business and avoiding red flags. I can imagine alot of younger guys with no father figure seeing him as a role model. I do agree with you to an extent, but i don't totally discredit him.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:37 PM
4

Yes it did, immensely.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:29 PM
1

Stephiscold, Rich Cooper are my top two at the moment
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:54 PM
6

Also, I should add that I'm 24 and only just moved out 2 months ago. I do agree to an extent that it's ok to stay at home and save up money, especially in COVID times. But for me I got way too complacent and comfortable that it affected my drive to do things, also didn't get along very well with my father. It lit a fire under my ass now that I'm financially independent, and I work like crazy and can enjoy doing things whenever I want to do them. If you want to move out, be smart about it. But al…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:53 PM
12

I room with my buddies and we rent out a house and split it three ways. Can have girls at the place whenever I want and go anywhere whenever I want. Of course your sex life improves. Having your own place also instills comfort not only in your self, but the girl you're with. When my buddies are out doing their own thing she can be as loud as she wants :)
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:42 PM
2

grats, most autistic post I've seen this week
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:28 PM
2

Shift your focus away from dating apps unless your pictures are top notch. It will result in a negative feedback loop. "I'm not getting any matches" > "This really sucks" > "Maybe I'm not good enough" Besides, Tinder/Bumble/whatever are oversaturated by thirsty dudes right now, add COVID on top of that and girls are swarmed on these apps, it's a cesspool. Sounds like you need a confidence boost, and maybe some sort of engaging hobby or job. Get lean as fuck. Get stronger in the gym or at home an…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:56 PM
0

social media and complacency
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:50 PM
1

I think it's important to actually explore options. Rather than ponder on them. Guys often tell themselves why they won't enjoy something before actually trying it. This limits yourself in ways you wouldn't imagine. For example, I've been a part time UI/UX designer for a while now and love the fuck out of it. But for years I always told myself it wasn't something I would enjoy. Eventually I kicked myself in the ass and spent a few weeks learning how to do it on skillshare (I literally didn't eve…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:49 PM
1

this is some good shit right here
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:44 PM
1

Sounds tryhard but find a scent that mixes with your natural odor. You will have to do some experimenting.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:31 PM
1

Smell is more of a turn off for me. I've been with one girl that didn't shave her arm pits. I made alot of assumptions but she was crazy good in bed. Super feminist, but super enthusiastic. And she smelt great.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:29 PM
3

Talk to attractive girls in the meantime. You will realize how important abundance is in dealing with female nature.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:25 PM
3

You probably aren't her top option right now. Trust your gut. Text her with a date plan. "Let's hangout Tuesday? X place at X time". Go from there. Next her if she starts treating you like a friend. You have better things to be spending your time worrying about.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:46 PM
2

As a man, other men will come and go in your life. When I started improving myself and cutting out complacency some of my friends talked shit about me and tried to rope me back into the mediocrity. Cut the bullshit out of your life, always. Friends included.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:45 PM
3

can you tl;dr this for me. don't feel like reading a oneitis diary page
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:40 PM
5

You try and fix a girls habits and you'll ruin yours in the process. The current girl at the top of my rotation is fun as fuck in bed and works out hard 6 days a week. She's a 7 in the looks department but a girl that treats her body right and submits is way more enjoyable than a 8 or 9 that doesn't know how to take care of herself. It turns me off too much. To me it sounds like you're worried about committing to her and having her turn into a whale in the process after getting comfortable with …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:50 PM
8

Why ya'll gotta throw labels on everything. How the fuck is "kissing" someone a "relationship" thing? If you like to kiss girls, fucking kiss her.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:12 PM
1

most shit around metro-Atlanta area is pretty much open, just have to wear a mask. Gyms, restaurants, parks, everything. I've been lucky enough to be able to retain a good fraction of my routine. Find places to walk and clear your mind. If you don't expend energy in some way you will crack likely. Go for jogs/do bodyweight workouts. Read interesting books.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:49 AM
1

Maybe you're such a chad she can't help but think of you piledriving her 24/7 Fuck if I know bro, I stopped trying to understand girls a while ago. Just get with her in person and see what's up. You do the detective work
/r/askTRP08/10/20 11:45 PM
1

good shit. Would you recommend bartending school? I don't have tons of money to throw at a certification. Curious if it would make job searching easier. I don't mind learning on the job
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:40 AM
1

word, did you bartend yourself? I'm thinking about getting certified through a bartending school
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:00 AM
1

lmao king shit. i would start asking them lowball for gas money or some shit. "I need a gallon of milk". Test the waters with a few dollars at first
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:42 PM
9

IF works well for losing body fat but don't be in too much of a deficit if you want to retain / build muscle mass. Stay within 10-15% deficit of your maintenance. Pretty much anyone low enough body fat % will "have" abs but working on them is what separates you from the rest and gives that chiseled look. Aka the side obliques. Do hanging knee raises. Russian twists. Bicycle kicks and leg raises. Give yourself time to recover. It's not a marathon, I started out only working abs 4 days a week and …
/r/askTRP04/10/20 03:11 PM
1

Are you outside their window watching their sex life ? If anything at all they are getting pity fucks. And a drained wallet.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:41 PM
56

Very good read. I'm not nearly as experienced in TRP philosophy or life circumstances as some of the guys on here, I'm pretty young, so I'll refrain from offering some cliche bs advice. Glad you're still kickin.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:39 PM
1

narc next
/r/askTRP30/09/20 01:24 AM
3

Bait you into orbiting. Or likely waiting to pounce if your social status / SMV increases.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 07:10 PM
5

I feel like the final frontier of my RP journey is stopping myself from trying to understand their actions and put logical reasoning behind them. I catch myself doing it all the time still, it's the last thing I struggle with, really.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:06 PM
2

True..
/r/askTRP26/09/20 06:06 PM
6

That's the plan, gotta check that off my bucket list. Thanks for the tip
/r/askTRP26/09/20 05:54 PM
1

I agree to an extent, but I'd still like to know RP advice from someone that utilizes social media. It can be, Instagram specifically, a great marketing tool and a great way to grow a business. As well as social proof for anyone trying to check you out. It doesn't take much effort if you look good to post pictures and retain that online value.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 05:02 PM
1

LOL
/r/askTRP26/09/20 05:00 PM
2

Let me know how that works out for you bro
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:30 PM
5

Then you probably come off as too eager. Just by reading this shit it makes me want to turn my phone off for the day. You're so tryhard with it all, and that turns people off. I hope you have a hobby/skill that you're this concerned and passionate about because that will bring you much greater happiness than whatever void you're trying to fill with these countless fucking dates you're ramming your head into.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 06:11 PM
5

You're too autistic. Look at the 100 page essay you just wrote about not getting these dumb tinder hoes on a second date. No amount of analysis or theory crafting will get you more successful with chicks, the life coach marketing scheme has lied to you, sorry bud. Just become more of a man, and a more desirable one. And stop trying to be something you're not. Girls can smell a fake chad from 100 miles away. You're not fooling anyone
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:23 PM
1

This is sick, thanks man!
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:39 AM
1

Thanks bro good looks
/r/askTRP16/09/20 05:22 PM
3

Lmao that's a fucking great idea. Gonna do that this weekend. Good looks
/r/askTRP16/09/20 05:50 AM
1

I have an H+M near me I've never shopped at. I heard their style is a bit hipster/artsy whatever but that the clothes fit a longer taller frame
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:22 AM
1

Appreciate it, will run by there this week
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:21 AM
1

Will do. Good looks
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:21 AM
1

Thanks for the tips
/r/askTRP15/09/20 10:06 PM
3

Honestly might just be body dismorphia. Was scrawny for so long. I am still lean but not nearly as lanky as I used to be
/r/askTRP15/09/20 10:05 PM
2

She will be fucking other dudes. You know what to do.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 09:36 PM
1

If you're new to the sub read every single of this guy's comments. You're welcome
/r/askTRP15/09/20 09:35 PM
1

Yeah that's what the second girl I ever had sex with said to me in a service. Week later I was dogging her at our pool pavilion
/r/askTRP07/09/20 03:31 PM
1

People aren't that busy. They're not interested enough
/r/askTRP31/07/20 09:39 PM
3

Tinder is dogshit & a waste of time unless you have really quality pics & really good looking. You don't need to do anything else. Bio game & first message game is shit. In my opinion there aren't alot of quality matches you're missing out on by having a shit profile anways. Like the best of Tinder are usually still unbearable chicks obsessed with their IG. I met some girls last weekend at a Microcenter and helped them build their computers. Power supply wasn't the only thing gettin plugged that…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:10 PM
2

I took this chick for some hikes a few times. Crazy, hot and blonde. She also had a blog. Sucked dick like a dream but was so unbearable I stopped replying to her. It's literally not worth it to surround yourself with girls w/ that kind of energy. Kinda goes against RP philo but IMO even just sleeping with chicks like that is a bad idea
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:03 PM
3

Don't put too much pressure on yourself either. There's two things you need to always reassure yourself of, 1) "I'm just going to make little changes each day, nothing huge", 2) "I will get better because I'm fucking strong". I told myself that every day for a really long time, eventually it manifests itself.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 09:14 PM
7

I was hella abused growing up and it makes it hard for me to vocalize affection and show attraction. It's a work in progress and it has to be. What you are experiencing is what I am as well, I think. A very muted headspace where emotions are recognized but don't really ever reach the surface. I think it's pretty normal to be "numb" after going through emotional trauma. You aren't alone. Just focus on yourself for a while, drop the girls, drop the phone apps, drop the screentime. Do things that y…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:25 PM
1

You take any substances? on any meds?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:19 PM
3

Take whatever number the clickbait YouTubers and roided instagram e-boys tell you they are, and add about 3-5% to that
/r/askTRP17/07/20 05:25 AM
1

I've got a national park/mountain near me and heaved trying to do a jog/sprint circuit up one of the paths. was so out of shape
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:03 AM
1

these new "bodybuilders" drag themselves to the gym and chase pumps. No passion in it w these people anymore
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:59 AM
7

Decline Push-ups, use a chair, stool, couch, steps, etc. Pull movements - Wrap towel or sheet around the corner of a door, use purchasable resistance bands, do row exercises. Do horizontal rows with a sturdy table. Squats - Hold weighted object in front of body for added resistance and stability training. Kettlebells - There are an infinite number of dumbbell producers and distributors. Unless you live on the Moon, "everything is sold out" isn't true. You either don't want to wait long enough fo…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:44 PM
-1

U sound like a dude with excuses. Want the real answer ?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 10:36 PM
2

Thank you brother
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:11 PM
1

Thank You
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:41 PM
1

No way I gotta check this shit out
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:40 PM
2

I was referring to regular ass gum. Like trident lol
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:38 PM
1

Yeah I think you gotta go do some more reading on what trp is. Go take ur caps and high pitched squealing somewhere else
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:37 PM
1

Going out to buy some tomorrow. Thanks bros
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:09 AM
25

NO nicotine. Zero. I have nothing vape related left, nicotine is my fucking arch enemy now. I think I'll go pick up a couple packs of Stride gum, that good fruity shit. Maybe buy a fidget cube just to keep my fingers busy
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:08 AM
-1

Gay post. Don't you have more important things to worry about?
/r/askTRP21/06/20 03:51 PM
10

Keep grinding brother
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:56 PM
2

Adderall for sure. Concerta made me feel really fatigued throughout the day.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:26 PM
1

She doesn't feel anything from you. No tingles. You either waited too long or she's on another Chads dick. Delete her and move on. You'll be alright. Don't know your location, but if a girl leaves you on read especially while quarantined... That's an obvious one my guy. She's talking to someone else
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:13 PM
3

100x Pushups, Burpees, Dips if you have a bar of some sort, Pistol Squats, Pull-ups 5-7 minute ab circuit 40-60 mins of steps, walking/jogging. Eat clean if you have those options available. Don't bring out the Doritos just because you're quarantined. If you're a computer nerd, go outside and find an isolated quiet place in nature. Close your eyes and meditate for however long is comfortable. Breathe in the air. The simplicity in these activities makes you appreciate the solitude in crazy times …
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:10 PM
3

Hobbies Funny movie quote "Swipe right if you have a nice butt" Height if you're above 6 foot Dick size Bio doesn't matter my guy. It's all about the pictures. That's what girls are looking at. Don't let the radio dating host chicks convince you that they want a well written essay on how responsible you are and your credit score in the bio. They want to see if you're fuckable and not a creep.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:04 PM
2

This is going into my asktrp bible. Thank you for this
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:41 PM
7

Got a guy like that in my gym as well. His girl wears pants so tight they could suffocate flat stanley. She knows what she's doing. He knows what she's doing, and it clearly drives him crazy.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:28 PM
3

Lmao
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:26 PM
1

As someone that doesn't know you, it looks completely normal. You just look like a dude with a shaved head. Maybe go a 1/3 inch shorter Also, grow that facial hair out. It will help with your overall look
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:23 PM
4

Abundance mentality
/r/askTRP12/03/20 03:02 AM
2

"Last night took an L but tonight I bounce back" Listen to Bounce Back by Big Sean and stop GAF about this whispy chick. Just stay cold and focus on your grind, especially if she's around. Act unbothered. Because you are. Make some moves on other girls, your mental is going to be your worst enemy with this. It may seem like a grand fuck up but it's really not, just move on.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:18 AM
1

The red pill is to make you aware of the realities of society and female nature. The red pill is not a texting guide. There are articles on your exact issue on the sidebar which you're supposed to read before posting anyways. You have alot of work to do clearly, start with the sidebar. If you're still stuck after reading all the texting posts on there, you're welcome to PM me
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:04 PM
2

What's the problem with sending her a message and seeing how it goes from there? I'm not going to tell you what to say, that kinda defeats the purpose here. Think about something funny or interesting that happened that night, and reference it. Don't just send a "hey". Use intent
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:48 PM
5

Are 18yo's seriously giving out Instagrams? The fuck is with that? You made a thread about this girl after kissing her. You already have oneitis bro. Message her, get her real number, and ask her out ASAP. It better be something eye catching or your msg will be lost in the sea of simps in her DM's
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:37 PM
21

Take a tinder girl out with nothing but snapchat filters on her profile, and let me know how that goes for you buddy. Take her to a seafood restaurant so you can have two servings of catfish
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:08 AM
71

It will only get worse over time. It's just another bullshit social media app at this point. "Swipe surge" "Tinder Gold" "Tinder Gold Plus" all selling points to make their $$ from desperate guys. Use it very lightly. You can still meet girls and fuck them but it is a beta feeding ground for these chicks. A girl I talk to is a solid 5/6 and has hundreds upon hundreds of matches thanks to dog filters and the right angles. Shirtless Chad is the only profile worth keeping up on there
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:54 PM
1

Kinda funny response. She sounds crazy, move on and gl
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:01 PM
18

Fake it til you make it. I'm working at a gym 30 hrs a week while I finish my online school. it pays for my food, gas, etc. On my free time I'm grinding my graphic design skills. That's just how it be cuz. Don't turn your back to the system completely. Sometimes you just gotta play your cards until you're ready to jump ship. Idle hands are your biggest enemy, when you have free time its easy to get comfortable and complacent. Get passionate about something, get sadistic for it. You need to have …
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:57 PM
30

Take chances and learn from mistakes. You got this bro.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:53 PM
4

The fuck is this shit?
/r/askTRP19/01/20 05:22 PM
1

u replying on the wrong account bro?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 11:03 PM
1

Pick a time after like 7:00. And have confidence in that time. There is no "set" time to grab a drink. You're obviously thinking to ask a girl out you've been talking to. Imagine she texted you right now and said, "Want to meet me at x bar x day? Let's do 8:45" You'd be like fuck yeah, let's go. Have that confidence in your own plans. Even if it's new territory for you.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:33 AM
1

You have to be attractive enough.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:49 PM
31

Be that cock she craves when she gets back from ladies wine night. Nothing more, nothing less. Don't get dragged into that mess unless you're a masochist
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:05 AM
2

I've been with two girls that match up with your "the bad" traits. Sex was crazy good, but they were bipolar as fuck, parents had issues, and it reflected in her mood 24/7. Not exactly what I would consider LTR material. Then again, some guys like the feeling of being able to transform a chick and lead her down a better road. Too much work for me personally, but if you think that's a wise decision that's on you bro.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:04 AM
18

Less is more with texting. You can't make yourself more appealing over text, only less appealing. Be light, playful, let your personality come through, and don't reply 35 seconds after they message you back. You need to approach online game with the mentality that your message is being sent to her amongst 45 other guys at the same time. Why should she pay you any mind? Why are you more interesting than the rest of the guys online? You might be, but putting in effort to display your value will al…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 05:51 PM
1

You only get 10 likes a day unless you get Hinge Premium. I have never puchased it, and over the course of about 6 1/2 months I've gone out with around 20 girls and still see 10 or 11 of them. You can comment directly on something in their profile that sends w/ the swipe (you can bypass all the little Timmy's that just heart the bikini pictures, insta-friend zone themselves), starts the conversation off with you and she can continue it. The girls are overall more genuine and serious about meetin…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:06 PM
4

Hinge is the shit
/r/askTRP29/12/19 05:24 PM
1

Don't soft next her IMO. Just be aware in the future. Girls do this for whatever reason, you said you saw the convo, just remain in your frame and keep in mind what you will do it it goes any further down the road.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 05:55 PM
1

I guess I'm feeling some pressure from my age. I'll be 23 next year. I wound up changing majors and that set me back big time, I wasted alot of time dicking around in classes that I didn't care for which I hold alot of regret from. Lots of negative energy in my household as well. My older brother still lives at home at 26 and plays games all day in the basement. Father binge eats and drinks after my mother left him and moved to another country.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 05:29 PM
5

Stephiscold. He preaches herbalife shit on his social media but his youtube has good content if you start feeling the beta hamster taking over. He yells at you and it brings me back to a baseline slow down some g
/r/askTRP27/12/19 05:21 PM
2

Have you read anything on this sub at all lol? Read the side bar, please. Invite her somewhere > escalate > isolate > escalate some more > sex her If any of those steps confuse you, you haven't read up or you're trolling.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 06:52 AM
2

Happens. Men feel especially alone around Christmas/New Years for whatever reason. Work on yourself and forget about her in the meantime. Get really passionate about something and fill your mind with that
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:03 PM
6

I think there's two options here realistically: Ask her about it and then hamster over if she's lying or not. Be a 1000IQ Chad and look through the car with a blacklight. That will tell you for sure. She could just be on her period as well. Or gotten horny and rubbed one out when you went to run into the Walmart
/r/askTRP25/12/19 02:08 PM
1

Give me her number and I'll fuck her in her bed for you. Dude, who cares if someone was close by? Some of the hottest sex you can have is when you have to be discrete. Sounds like you're likely inexperienced or second guess yourself. In that case you need to start lifting more and occupy your time outside of work with emasculating things. Try again, but it's going to take more effort on your end now
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:21 PM
11

Just imagine the situation if you went through with the marriage and found her fucking another guy with a ring on. I know words don't help much, but you did the right thing. Alchohol is a social lubricant for most, she showed her true intentions. Pour yourself into your hobbies, get in the best shape of your life, and spin plates like you said. Stay strong brotha
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:40 PM
12

stop thinking like a simp and give her your number
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:16 PM
1

You start by taking action. There's no cheat code to life, there's no cheat code to getting something done, there's no cheat code to avoiding failure. Listen man, I get the mental battle. Your brain is your biggest enemy. But all you have to do is just take action. Motivation is a fickle thing and you can't rely on it. What you can rely on is discipline. Can you give me an example of something you are scared of taking action on? That would allow me to narrow my advice.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:44 PM
1

If you get it from Tinder, she wants you to orbit. Literally no reason to not give out a number this day in age, everyone is attached to their phones like a cyborg. Decline the snapchat. Say "no thanks" or "I don't use that shit sorry". I've had several girls back track and I end up with the # eventually.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:08 PM
3

Most important thing is to not think about how hard u are, how long you'll last, etc. It will have an opposite effect. Be the man. Enjoy yourself, have fun with her, get out of your head and be present. Focus on your senses. Touch, smell, taste. Control your breathing.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 03:56 PM
4

Troll post
/r/askTRP15/12/19 03:40 PM
15

Your logistics in person and frame holding is probably weak. Girls can sniff that out pretty much within the first minute or two of talking with you. It's especially more prominant at the club/night game. You need to improve your social game. They are going to shit test you and ASD hard because they want to make sure they're going home with someone a). they feel safe with b). turns them on and c). knows how to lead and close Maybe watch some night game videos on Youtube (Coach Kyle, TaySocial, e…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 03:47 AM
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You seem pretty smart at analyzing your own situations, don't be dumb and hamster over her. This is the most likely scenario. You need to start talking to other girls and soft next her. Especially if she's posting to social media. This is the most common attention & validation seeking red flag.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:24 PM
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She's trying to throw every shit test under the roof at you. By you remaining silent and unbothered by her remarks, it drives her little hamster brain even crazier. Unless you enjoy it and are good with your words, just avoid the pillow talk all together. This is preached all the time on this subreddit because it is FACTS. "Watch what she does, not what she says" Does that make sense?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:21 PM
1

My eye lids are a little lagged as well. It's not asymmetrical, they both just chill lower than most peoples. I get stoner comments every week, ever since high school. I used to care but it's just in one ear and out the other now. Some girls dig it, I've had a couple of them say to my face that it turns them on because I appear more laid back. Fuck em. Who cares what little Jimmy says behind your back. "LoL dude u look stoned all the time broo" "thanks"
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:18 PM
3

He's most likely been balls deep in her
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:14 PM
3

Tell me about it man hahahah
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:01 PM
4

Same bro. The good times before all those responsibilities kick you in the ass. It's all good though, I still play Halo with some buddies on the weekends even if it's for an hour or two. I treasure those small gaming times more than the all day marathon bullshit.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:01 PM
6

/u/strengthenics is correct. The sidebar is your new bible, it's there for a reason and it encapsulates all of the information RP preaches, as well as great guides and examples by some of the experts. Lifting & quitting porn bring you to a great baseline. Quitting porn was quite a process for me, could barely get hard in the bedroom even with a smoking hot 8. Took about a month of meditating and kegels until I finally was able to get it up with someone in person lmfao.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:59 PM
3

I've read a good amount over the past 3 years or so. Sometime around the end of my freshman year in college I stumbled across the redpill subreddit and thats where it all began for me. I wasn't religious about it at the start. I was super beta but I wasn't dumb. I knew that if I wanted to change it would be a proccess. To name a few: The Manipulated Man, The Power of Now, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Those are the big ones that I remember. I believe there's a whole collection of books in…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:39 PM
7

Thanks my guy. Still a long way to go but I always remember it's a marathon, not a sprint. Stay real
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:30 AM
10

Don't think it's too far fetched to recognize that it's a pattern in younger guys growing up nowadays. Is it social media? The internet? Accessible technology in general? Lack of role models? Fuck if I know. But I do know that this is generally always the reply when I talk about this stuff in person/online. The red pill was such an eye opener for me. Seems to be so many guys out there that are genuinely lost/confused on how to act a proper man and find fulfillment in genuine things.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:29 AM
10

The first step is definitely being able to recognize the underlying issues. The second is getting the balls to take action to fix them. When you have no one to look up to in your life for inspiration or leadership it can really keep you down for a while. Just want my fellow "young guys" to know that you can and should take a leap of faith. The red pill completely transformed my mentality and outlook on life, and I've never been happier. Don't know where I'd be right now without it.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:23 AM
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I'm going to speak personally and say the biggest two are: Being comfortable with mediocrity and Putting women on a pedestal I've battled both of these things. It took me a very long time to view myself as a strong, dependable guy that gets shit done. I used to blame it on a lack of parental role models and financial status. And that goes back to the first point. For the longest time I moped around, working part time jobs, taking classes in a degree I didn't enjoy, and simping over girls on soci…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:05 PM
1

What would you consider a "solo activity". Besides jerking off
/r/askTRP12/12/19 05:57 PM
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The best thing to do my man, is to do something you actually would find fun. Too many guys out here trying to plan the perfect date for whatever reason ( don't want to fuck it up, don't want to look like a loser, foolproof plan leading up to the kiss, etc). If you like hiking and sitting by a creek listening to music on a portable speaker, do that shit. It will end up with a way more organic and relaxed experience.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:19 AM
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It's degeneracy. Do yourself a favor and don't give it a second look. Those people will live their lives as keyboard warriors in a delusional echo-chamber
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:46 PM
1

Tread lightly with assuming these girls are all shy and innocent unless you know their sexual history. I've been seeing this girl recently that played all shy and scared when we were first together, but as soon as I got past that "barrier" she turned out to be a complete freak in the sheets, and opened up about how she likes dominant men to take charge and tests them by applying that self-dread/doubt. Sounds fucked up but she literally opened up to me and told me this the first time we banged. I…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:40 PM
1

Take a screenshot and send it to him. That's it. Just send the photo with no context and gauge his reaction.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:05 PM
6

Yeah clean your fucking room up and throw out the trash. Take the crusty dishes out of your sink. Invite her over. Study for 10 minutes while being flirty. Eye contact, playful pushes and touches, etc. That stuff isn't rocket science. If she is receptive, you want to take a break at some point and ask her what show she's watching currently/wants to watch. Slap it on. Go from there. Good luck. I'd say assume attraction for this one.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:24 AM
1

I experience the same thing to a smaller degree. There a few things that trigger this for me personally Poor sleep. I seriously cannot function without proper sleep. Anything under 5-6 hours and I feel like a train wreck, mentally. Dehydrated. Seriously get your hydration in order. Water when you wake up, throughout the day, and before you go to bed. Holding grudges/ignoring glaring issues in your life (overdue bills, girl problems, lack of exercise). When you wake up in the morning, your beauty…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 12:20 AM
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Been with this chick for around 5 months and have only fucked her once. You sure you're not her friendzoned attention and resource provider? Might want to do some introspection, buddy. she reckons she doesn't actually like sex, and admitted she'd been holding off on it. She also said she'd start to make an effort to have sex with me now. Fuck does this even mean? You are seriously walking right past some huge red flags, and your oneitis for her is obvious. Do me a favor and go jerk off to clear …
/r/askTRP09/12/19 12:14 AM
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You can do it by yourself. Start small like anything else. If there was a step by step guide life wouldn't be very fun, don't be afraid of fucking up and looking like a dork. No one is perfect. You learn the most when you challenge yourself.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 12:45 AM
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I have alot of experience conquering this "brain fog" in social interactions. I'm no fuckin doctor, but imo it can stem from alot of things such as ADHD, poor sleep, and overall low social skills. Let me repeat that, being a good listener and talker is a SKILL. It may come naturally to some, sure. Just like anything else. Don't think about your time with her as a chess game. Personally, I would always be thinking like five steps in advance. "Ok, she's saying this right now, what's going to be a …
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:23 PM
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Schwarzenegger Clint Eastwood Joe Rogan Those are just some of my examples. Greatest alpha male ever? Ghengis Khan? Atilla the Hun? Fuck if I know. Read some biographies on the history of conquerors and find ones with traits/feats that you admire.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:17 PM
1

Best you can do is use those feelings of loneliness to kick your ass about getting better the next year. No point in wallowing around feeling sorry for yourself. NYE isn't that big of a deal. People kiss at midnight and make promises to themselves that they break the following week. Last NYE I got thirsty and invited a Bumble chick to a party so that I wouldn't look like a third wheeling loser. She was a crazy bitch, a 4 at best, she got sloppy drunk, gave me the worst head of my life (think get…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:27 AM
2

If a girl sends a snap of herself with no caption/vague caption, that shit is being sent to 20 other dudes. Easy validation net to throw out and suck in that attention. I leave her on read. This typically results in "heyyy what r you up to?" texts after a while. ignore them. that easy
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:20 AM
2

Here's a solution to avoid back and forth: Her: Can I post this? It'll be funny You: No Her: blah blah blah I'm an attention seeking hoe No response. Why do you care enough to even rebuttal this hard with her? Why are you still talking to her?
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:08 AM
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I'm no doctor so I can only assume and make guesses on her reaction. It could be medically related, she could've been really overwhelmed after taking a break from sex for that long. Make sure that she understands that you care about her health, but also try to get some transparency on what happened. Or don't. Knowing girls, she probably couldn't even tell you why she reacted that way. She wanted her pajamas because she was feeling insecure about her weight gain? While she was naked? Just trying …
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:04 AM
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Really gotta feel bad for them, but at the same time they make it easier for us. I think for the younger guys it's all social media. Girls use it as a way to raise their pedestal. Guys drool and bow down to these fucking Instagram models and e-thots. 5's look like 8's with the right filters and pose. These dudes don't approach chicks because they see themselves below them from the get-go. Their social skills are crippled, and its only going to get worse. Dating apps are swamped with guys and it'…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:59 AM
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hahahahha
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:46 AM
1

Why don't you fuck her, take a photo & send it to him? I'd imagine that would shut him up.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:45 AM
1

This is either a troll post or you're on the spectrum. There's a big difference between bullying and chatting shit with someone. I can tell one of my buddies he's being a pussy, but I'd also have his fucking back in a heartbeat if push came to shove. Telling a scrawny kid with low self esteem that he's a skinny loser isn't alpha of you. Pushing a reject into a puddle of water isn't alpha. Showing someone like that the ropes, and building them into a successful adult is alpha. Being a leader, and…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:40 AM
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ah. the glory days of highschool Just be yourself buddy, talk about random stuff. Don't be afraid of silence and just hangout. Kiss her at some point. Don't overthink it, just go for it. Take her hand at some point when she seems comfortable, slow down the walking some, and she'll look at you. That's your strike zone.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:31 AM
1

No problem bro
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:19 PM
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edited the link in
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:00 PM
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edited the link in. its a work in progress but it's what I have so far
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:00 PM
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edited the link in
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:00 PM
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/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:00 PM
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I can do that, but I need an hour or two. Keep in mind most of them are comments that rung true to me in my personal situation, and there will be some context missing because only the comments are screenshotted. Should I just edit the album into this comment? Edit: Here it is lads: https://imgur.com/a/5jIICYy Feel free to bookmark, I think with Imgur you can add to existing albums? I'm not sure, but I want to keep it updated as I go along.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:45 PM
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this is screenshot worthy for sure. i have a whole album of legendary comments on this sub. its like my asktrp bible 🐐
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:37 AM
1

PM me, sure
/r/askTRP03/12/19 04:48 PM
1

Assume that they'll be comfortable with you. Not the opposite. If you have confidence it will be appealing. Shit man, even a tiny bit of game at your age would reel girls in. Be smart & safe.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 08:29 PM
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"Mom, Dad, I know you don't like me having girls over, but we have a test coming up and we need to group study. She'll only be here for a few hours" Invite girl over, introduce her as a friendly classmate to your parents, go upstairs to room. Lock door. Turn on music. Have fun. I won't 100% assume your family household, but I lived with a full household through school and did this plenty of times. You're depriving yourself of experiences because you're self conscious of your living conditions. W…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 06:44 PM
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I'd wager most of those logistic factors are excuses. Look buddy, I did the same shit. Ah, I can't pick her up, my car looks like shit I can't bring her over here, people will see I'm having a girl over!! Movies are lame, she probably won't even be interested in me If I invite her over she'll just be on her phone the whole time We'll have nothing to talk about!? Girls are so boring!! Anytime I ask her to hangout she's doing schoolwork ugh There's like, no time after school to do anything! Any of…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 06:23 PM
1

Don't really see the question here, you handled it fine and she let you fuck her. Pretty funny bro lmao
/r/askTRP30/11/19 11:02 PM
1

If you reply over eagerly, you could shoot yourself in the foot. Lame, but that's how it is with some of these chicks, specially the younger ones. Here's an exact conversation over text I had with a chick not too long ago (she's from Tinder, she originally flaked on me) Me: "Hey cowgirl where am I picking you up from tonight" [she's very southern, also an inside joke we made] 5 hours later Girl: Hey, I've had a change of plans, gotta help my friend babysit tonight after I get off work. Sorry! " …
/r/askTRP30/11/19 10:58 PM
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Lesson learned for sure. Bitter one but a lesson nonetheless
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:55 PM
1

That makes alot of sense, good looks bro. Never thought about it like that. I've tried them before but never made a habit of it.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 08:41 PM
1

I stopped watching porn close to a year ago. Possibly some negative conditioning left over from that long ago? I can't really pinpoint it to be honest. Only jack off maybe once a week, if that. Definitely a mental thing, it's improving but still really hard sometimes to relax & have fun. I'm seeing her tomorrow night. She insisted that I come over again lol (clearly giving me a second shot) Guess I'll have to turn the animal up inside me a bit. You're 100% right. Got a little bit of residual inn…
/r/askTRP30/11/19 08:11 PM
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I've always overthought everything. Conversations, remarks, reactions, etc. The gym is the only thing that's aided me so far. That and adderall, but fuck that shit. I could've completely ignored it & brushed it off, continuing to escalate. That's my initial thought. Spinning it back on her would work, but I'm not sure on what to say there. I realize that my reaction is likely a hole in my frame. If I believe myself to be a confident man, there's no reason to react negatively to such a comment.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 08:00 PM
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Yup lol
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:04 PM
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Like I said dude, I've never commanded a girl around before. Probably some weird fucked up conditioning in my head, feels unnatural to me.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:02 PM
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hahahahaha
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:01 PM
1

Interesting
/r/askTRP30/11/19 03:53 PM
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Yeah I forgot you said Toronto, a bit different here on the east coast of the US. You don't have alot of options under someone else's roof, and I feel like you probably hold alot of shit against your hometown. Your best bet is to mold to the norm as much as you can handle until you can either a). move somewhere else or b). get your own place. Game changes significantly when you get your own crib, because you can make it whatever you want and it can change your mentality. Do you have any hobbies …
/r/askTRP28/11/19 12:04 AM
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Then be interesting? Take them to do something creative. I'm going over to some chicks place tonight to paint each others faces & share music with drinks. It's stupid but at the same time it breaks the norm a bit. If a girl is attracted to you, she'll want to come along for whatever it is, and she will like the forwardness. "Let's do this at x time on x day." Literally anything man. Go fly a kite, go bowling, throw a frisbee in the park, get coffee, drive outside town around sunset and just talk…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:52 PM
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I'v been in that situation bro. Trust me, as much as you would love to jump ship, it's the wrong play unless you have something else lined up right now at this very moment. You never know how long it will take you to find another job (idk where you live & what your experience is). Last thing you want is to leave, get complacent and fuck up your finances. Apply in the meantime, get your frustrations out in the gym, and stick it out until you land another option. Also, if you can help it, don't ju…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:35 PM
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Ask them what they like to do for fun & then go do that with them.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:29 PM
2

hahahajhahaha
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:11 PM
2

Idk man, I'm a huge advocate of the lip biting. I've gotten compliments from every girl I've done it with, usually it's "Guys typically never do that when they kiss!" shit like that. I'm yet to get a negative reaction from it. It's subtle, not full on eating that shit
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:11 PM
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My father is very overweight in his late 50's and has done nothing but make snide remarks and ask "What's wrong with me" ever since I started to lift. It's going on two years now, and his view of me still hasn't changed. He tries to tell me he will go to the gym starting Monday. Every week. Continues to eat like shit. I have offered him nothing but motivation & help, I even told him I would pay for his membership the first couple of months. I'm at the point where I just want to say fuck it and s…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:14 PM
2

Rant ahead because I just woke up and am having my coffee. Apologies in advance. Most people that struggle to get into fitness is because they can't get over that 2-3 week initial commitment that forms a habit. You make alot of gains in your first 6-8 months if you are consistent, and it feels great to finally see your first results. Feels even better when you start getting those compliments rolling in about your physique. Anything after that is down to you, and what you're going to the gym for.…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:09 PM
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Dude you can still fuck girls from Tinder. You just have to be like top 10-15% because it's fucking flooded with guys. If ANYTHING it should be used for like 10% of your game maximum. Yeah it's lame, but I wouldn't completely rule it out if you're good looking. Yeah there's alot of land whales, but just use it as a backup tool in your arsenal. It can be fun
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:31 AM
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Idk man I'm not looking around that much in the gym. Sure, I'll notice if a girl is checking me out. But I'm in there to relieve stress, free my mind from bullshit, and make gains. Anything else I consider a distraction when I'm lifting. If you really want to approach her that badly, time your leave with hers or catch her when she's walking out. I don't really look for girls at my new gym because I'm there religiously. I think don't shit where you eat applies in my situation, at least. Unless yo…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:49 AM
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Stop thinking about your life as a fucking video game character. Stay on your mission and purpose, live and breathe that shit. Do whatever you want, and do what makes you truly happy. I'm not reading the rest of this. You are over analyzing for no good
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:46 PM
1

Because some spergs take TRP and think it's a rulebook. You should be actively applying it to your life. There's also spillover into other applications in life, not just sex.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:16 PM
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Honestly pretty well played bro lmao. Ignore your friend. You can do as you please with this, as long as you don't care about potential drama if she unleashes after you guys fuck. Is she in your social circle at all? That's all I'm referring to. I got with an ex's friend at a Christmas party and a couple days after we fucked she 180'd and started spewing bullshit about me every which way to my buddies. She sounds like she wants to suck the soul out of your cock, but was hamstering that night you…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:50 PM
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This was me 6 months in. I laugh at myself thinking back on it.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:42 PM
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That guy is fucking hilarious. I spent a few hours browsing through his videos the other night, It was like watching someone's subconscious spilling out in video form. I love how it's just him talking shit (good shit) about lifting in general. Reminds me of one of my old buddies. I recommend this guy alot
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:38 PM
1

I started with Lane Norton's Phat workout years back. I curated my own workout regime at this point but it's worth checking out for beginners.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:15 AM
3

Should you focus on getting average pussy or focus on school that set's up your entire future? You tell me what seems more logical and we can go from there
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:06 PM
1

So what are you so fucking confused about exactly?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 07:03 PM
1

Sure, I went through this as well. Firstly, the image of home you feel isn't going to be the same when you go back. You miss home because it was comfortable. Now you are on your own, finances are hard, back against a wall and pressure building up, what now? Going home is only running from the problems that you should be tackling, because you are a grown man and that's what men do. Make your home more comfortable, whatever it is, apartment, room, whatever. Why are you fucking broke? Focus on your…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 07:01 PM
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Approach her and ask, what do you think we can tell you? We aren't mind readers. Sounds like she isn't interested, but it could be a miscommunication. Get comfortable with rejection. Find out yourself
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:15 AM
1

Fuck are you talking about bro?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 01:16 AM
1

This. After I lift there's a good 4-6 hours of almost a relaxing, mental clarity. Very little overthinking & I feel on top of the world
/r/askTRP21/11/19 10:44 PM
2

I'm in the same situation as you. Same age, same exact situation growing up. All my dad did was excessively drink, pack on lbs, and blow his money, my mom up and left and moved to fucking Poland lmao. I'm in the proper shit trying to re-program, I never learned any of this shit growing up. I found RP a couple years back, and it's a process. Texting & being a strong, sexual guy has only improved for me by lifting consistently 5-6 times a week. I made it my obsession. Even on days where I don't li…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 04:18 PM
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You're 100% right on that second to last point. Thank you, you hit on alot of the points I was curious about. Sometimes I need to hear it from someone else to put it into perspective & internalize it
/r/askTRP19/11/19 09:38 PM
1

Could you give some examples pertaining to this situation? In regards to showing high value? I may have it backwards, but I noticed her high interest levels so I figured I had room to play it out however I like within some boundaries. I offered that she could come along with me on a hike on Friday (I was going already regardless of her answer, I hike local spots every weekend). I felt like it would give me the chance to escalate further with her and leave it on a higher note before she left. She…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:00 PM
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Hahahaha u right man. Appreciate the words
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:22 PM
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If she dries up because the bed you're fucking on is under your parents roof & not yours, that's on her imo I had a couple girls over between semesters @ my parents place and none of them minded. We had a whole basement to ourselves and the family was in bed upstairs by 9:00pm lol. My parents knew I had girls over, we came to and from the house from the back door. It's really no big deal my guy. If you are insecure about it, she'll be able to tell. Just be cool and shrug it off if they make comm…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:46 AM
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Thanks my guy
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:24 PM
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appreciate it bro. Gonna look into this for sure. I've got a weight goal I'm trying to hit soon because I'm trying to put on some more mass (6'2, 180lbs). Should I hold off until I get a bit more muscle put on?
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:10 PM
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I think this is definitely the answer I was looking for. I realized that I don't have any training in self defense, so I'm always feeling like "what if", rather than "come try me". Any tips for starters? I don't exactly have the money for anything crazy right now
/r/askTRP11/11/19 07:54 PM
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Do you have a date set yet? If you haven't told her what you guys will be doing yet. Pick something you think is fun and tell her to come along. "Let's go to the park at 8. We're gonna chase squirrels & get ice cream" "Come over and we'll paint each other's nails. Cya at 9 trmw night. -Address-" When they ask what are we going to do, they're a). waiting for you to take charge b). ASD'ing
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:38 PM
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I can relate to this. Honestly it sounds like you're introverted, that's all. I'm in great shape, get proper sleep, and have a decent schedule & diet. But I still struggle to hold interest in normal conversation here and there. Most of the time in my case, when I feel like I'm detaching from the sociap situation, it's because my "battery" is recharging, for a lack of a better term. I don't have alot of advice, but know that you aren't experiencing some unique problem. If you want to talk more I'…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 01:38 PM
2

Easy to take, tastless, improves energy & muscle recovery. Not very many negative effects, if any at all. Look into studies on it, interesting stuff. Gives you a bit of a pump. What's the downside?
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:00 PM
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Shit test. Same shit as when they text you "What are we going to do?" when you're getting ready to drive over and to pound those cheeks. I like to copy their bio if applicable, i.e. "Just here to have some fun", "just here to meet new people". It's rare that girls are on Tinder for a boyfriend to settle down with. If they are, you can easily tell from their profile. Or just make up some bullshit to divert & make them laugh "Just looking for someone to take my socks off after work and feed me rav…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:31 AM
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You really think dudes on the internet are going to give you a time & coordinates when to kiss this chick? There's general rules but don't overthink it bro. Escalate through physical touch to show you're interested in her. Try to sit aside her, not across. Kiss towards the end, you know you're not gonna go for that shit off the bat otherwise you wouldn't be asking. Park is great for kissing. So is the car after the fact. Read body language, kiss her. Trust your gut
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:25 AM
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You sound like a creep
/r/askTRP08/11/19 11:15 PM
1

How's that strategy workin out for you
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:37 PM
2

Yeah..
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:58 PM
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surf and turf LMFAO I'm stealing that
/r/askTRP05/11/19 04:01 PM
1

I do have ADHD. I was on adderall for around 3 years. I got off about a year ago and have been trying to tackle my mental obstacles naturally. I read into long term side effects with Addy such as cardiac problems and decided I didn't want to fuck with that. Could be wrong though.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 12:30 AM
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6LACK. I listen to his shit in the gym. Future as well
/r/askTRP03/11/19 10:42 PM
2

You know Adderall is dangerous because OF HOW FUCKING WELL IT WORKS. That shit turned me into a fuckin robot during college bro. My attention span and sex drive were ruined after I quit for months. It's gonna take some time for you to recover, I turned out just fine.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:53 PM
4

Thanks for sharing your story, big ups. Stay real
/r/askTRP02/11/19 07:16 PM
1

Yeah bro. Find a good soundtrack if that's your thing and get it in. Take care of yourself
/r/askTRP01/11/19 03:53 PM
1

It's not wrong to feel torn, they're your emotions bro. I think you'll be feeling guilty about this for a while, try to create an activity to blow off some steam and get your head right. I like to go to gym and work myself until I'm on the floor when shit like this happens. If you're cooped up in your room you'll only make it worse. Go for a long run, workout, hike, whatever it may be. And channel that negative energy you have into a positive workout. That's a powerful tool to have
/r/askTRP01/11/19 03:31 PM
3

Feel free to check out the sidebar
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:21 PM
1

My older brother became the saddest beta version of himself. I've offered help once but his ego is inflated, never again. He's in a shitty, manipulative LTR with no hobbies except video games. It used to upset me but I did all I could and I use it now as a picture for myself of what not to become.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:50 PM
5

Broooo lmaoo
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:33 PM
1

AWALT. It's not a glossary term for no reason. If your self esteem is hurt it's because you were under the assumption she was "different than the others". Take a step back, prize yourself again, and go to the fuckin next one. It took me 4 failed LTR's to realize this.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:36 PM
1

Go to a trade skill school if that's a thing in Germany. You play video games so you probably have good hand eye coordination. You sound like me a couple years back. Filled my life with partying and video games because it's the only way I'd get my dopamine. You need to step forward and pick something. You'd surprise yourself with what you find interesting. Mechanic, welder, electrician, anything. Do you have a degree?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 04:57 PM
2

I am a graphic design student with a minor in video production. I like to take scenic shots when I travel/hike/etc. It provides me with nice footage to use and make mock videos with/practice with. I don't have any of my video work uploaded at the moment because I am still learning, but it's been a blessing outside of just taking photos. I think anyone that has a creative side nowadays should invest some money into a decent camera or camera drone. You will get more than your moneys worth.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:56 PM
2

Well, a cheap drone or tripod is already a great investment if you like photography. I personally have the AA108 and I use it every time I go on hikes (it depends on your budget, how much you're willing to spend, there's tons of great options for a first purchase). Mine allows me to fly it around and hold an altitude for shots, etc. Or you can go on amazon, get a decent new or used Canon DSLR and a $20 tripod and you're good to go. I have a Canon Rebel XTI, it was like 150 bucks, and I use it pr…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:04 PM
1

Tinder is all about looks, and the second part is getting the date set ASAP to avoid beta-fying yourself with too much texting. Unless you're a 8-9 chad, the flake rate is going to be pretty high. It's a numbers game. About the pictures. Girls can tell if you're a weirdo. You need natural looking pictures, maybe one with a girl, one showing off your muscles but looking coincidental (I have one of me in a tank top playing with my dog). Mirror selfies can work if youre hot as fuck. You should know…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:50 PM
1

Has to be a troll post
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:42 AM
1

You have no passion in life, also probably on the insecure side. And that's ok, that's how I was the past couple years. Took me a while until realized I could turn my hobby into a career, ( AND WORK FOR MYSELF). Started lifting because I cared about how I felt, not what girls would think. Started eating right and reading because I wanted to enrich myself. Its a process.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 11:14 PM
2

Would help to see your whole head shape, that's usually what I use to determine hair cut & styling. But just judging from thickness and look I would say get a tapered fade, keep the top nice and long, maybe slick it back like Gylenhall does sometimes. Google image search "Detective Loki from Prisoners". That's the cut I try to maintain
/r/askTRP29/08/19 08:18 PM
2

Yeah keep listening to what women say they want. Pay for her plane tickets to Costa rica and buy her nails, too.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:26 PM
1

Yeah thats really true bro
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:41 PM
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Ive started working out 6-7 days a week, not on gear, I can do some introspection and realize that I've just become addicted to lifting. It's also a good escape for me from all the bullshit, I can go at like 7am to my gym and be there for 2 hours and not see more than 5 people there, its great. On the flip side, I've noticed that I've stagnated in my weight progression. After I hit my squat/bench/DL goals my workouts slowly became more endurance training. Can anybody touch on this? I still have …
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:35 PM
1

I'm pretty old fashioned so I always keep hand written things around. Lists/agendas/goals/reminders/etc, but I understand your sentiment. I'm interested in the identity symbols you speak of. I needed to read this, thanks.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:58 PM
4

Yeah I made a post about this the other day and it hit the top page, check it out I think the comments there outlined a good line of thinking regarding this specifically. Seems the general response on there is that your post-nut thoughts directly relate to the girls you're fucking (1-10). I've been getting extremely cold and bitter after fucking but in turn I realized these girls I've been with over the past month weren't providing anything to me besides pussy, which gave me that "fuck this shit…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 03:32 PM
1

have you always found it easy to not GAF or did you "fake it" until it became ingrained? I feel like not giving a fuck about some things is my last vice, I'll catch myself sometimes and think "why do you care so much about x bullshit, y bullshit, etc), I feel like I'm at a pleateau on this
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:02 PM
1

Haughtyhay's comment on here is my go to approach
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:00 PM
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Simplified, straightforward advice. These lines of thinking help me tremendously since I tend to overcomplicate things internally. Thanks
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:59 PM
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Lmao why you care so much about letting her know how you FEEL?? "break her self esteem before breaking up". Is this your plate or your fucking best friend? What a stupid mentality you have about this. "I have no intention of seeing her again". Tell her that, and cut her off. Only thing writing a strongly worded letter is going to do is show her how whiney you are. Why do you care so much about telling a plate off that you clearly don't care about. That isn't alpha my guy
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:25 PM
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It depends, if shes some random chick you have no further interest in, who cares let it go. She'll text you if she wants your dick again. If youre interested in plating her, text won't hurt. Maybe something flirty rather than "had a fun time". Something that will keep her thinking of the past night. Go hit the gym and then send something. Dont overthink it.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 07:29 PM
1

Yeah I havent hit an 8 or 9 yet. Still on a journey of self improvement (almost 1.5 years in)
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:01 PM
4

Weasel? speak for yourself, Rodent9 All seriousness, no denying theres some underlying problems. just being a little more introspective than usual.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:57 PM
1

Are these girls you're fucking high value? I believe for me this is happening mentally because the girls ive been with lately are not up to my usual standard. I finish and just realize that they arent actually providing anything besides pussy, and I also realize how much energy I put towards trying to fuck these girls when in reality I should be focusing on my own shit.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:55 PM
1

Thank you for this
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:35 AM
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I just got back from being out with same girl, and man this comment like literally describes exactly what I was thinking. Thank you so much for this. I realized that I view her as slightly below my own standard, and in turn was blind to the fact that she wasn't really offering any value to my life BESIDES the fucking. I used to think that I had a good grasp on things like this, but its clear my dick takes over sometimes. I need to work on this, I'm going to start meditation tomorrow. Thank you f…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:50 AM
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This all makes alot of sense, thank you bro. I agree, post nut me is like fucking supercharged with ideas & creativity. I wish there was a way to hold onto that mental state for longer. Maybe daily meditation?
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:48 AM
1

I feel u man
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:47 AM
1

Thank you for this
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:46 AM
2

Damn bro that was me last Halloween. Thanks for the comments, I feel you. She a tinder chick?
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:44 AM
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I do have hobbies that I'm quite passionate about, don't see the relationship here
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:44 AM
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This could definitely be it, I need to do some introspection
/r/askTRP09/08/19 08:07 PM
1

"Spice up" meaning keep her interest?
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:23 PM
2

Text game importance seems widely varying depending on who you ask. Some guys claim they can fuck girls with their keyboards, some say the least amount of texting is important. It all depends on your objective, experience, and attractiveness. For instance, if I meet a girl that is really into me and I know that I'm a bit out of her league, I can tease her once and no matter what I type from there on out, shes going to chase me. Therefore my text game with her can be extremely low effort, because…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 09:19 PM
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I really like doing the escalating while she's talking, its really effective at judging how interested she is.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 09:06 PM
5

The tallest relative that I know of is like 5'11". No idea. 15% sure I'm adopted
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:12 AM
3

There's your answer
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:12 PM
3

How old is she that her dad is buying tampons for her? Either way she was probably embarassed. And this isn't a question for this sub, this is something you should ask your magic 8 ball under your sheets at night, if you're that worried about a small interaction like this. We aren't wizards
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:01 PM
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My older brother (25) (5'6)pulls twice as much as I do (23)(6'3") and I'm in way better shape. He has better swagger (how he carries himself around girls), better social skills, better game overall. Still a process for me. "Tallfags" sounds bitter, and sure, we have one advantage... out of the hundreds of things you can do to impress a girl. You should stop feeling sorry for yourself
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:49 PM
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Clearly
/r/askTRP26/07/19 07:06 PM
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Dude fuck this bitch. You said something stupid, yes. But now you're just tagging along for the orbit. You 100% sure that snapchat was to you and to you only? I know plenty of girls that send mass snaps to all the dudes on their friends list. You felt the need to correct a mistake and she grabbed you by the balls, and not literally. Go next, her loss not yours.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 08:48 PM
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I don't feel weird posting myself on Instagram. I use it to portray my personal fitness journey, photography (I'm a designer & photographer for a living), and use it as a journal of sorts. It shows that I'm in shape, I have a passion, and I'm fun. Nothing weird about that. You don't have to use it if you don't want to. I think your best bet is working on meeting girls in a natural, IRL environment, where you can enjoy yourself and make connections organically. I can't find the backbone to post o…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:01 PM
2

Let's break this down a bit for you: Seems to me that woman (in my area) who are on tinder and looking to hookup don't use the Tinder platform so much aside from posting a few pics they rely on using the Snapchat or Insta username instead to progress, mostly snap if they're looking to hook up. The girls that do this are using their social media as a screening process. In my experience, they are looking for validation and orbiters and roping them into their accounts through Tinder. One of my lays…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:41 PM
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Same thing happened to me last month. Contact out of nowhere, talking about the usual bullshit, I miss our calls, let's talk sometime, basically looking for my time & attention as a result of my SMV at a much higher level since we dated. I posted alot on on social media with me & other girls out doing things and it turned her hamster wheel on full blast 8000 horsepower. If you want to fuck her, sure, but don't waste your time if you're expecting anything else out of it. That's my two cents
/r/askTRP25/07/19 01:24 AM
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She's going out with you again, you probably got lucky and she didn't take it that weird. If she flakes, don't hamster the fuck out. Just move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 12:41 AM
2

Youre attractive but I dont understand the hair. Got that Sum41 shit goin on. Do you think it looks good? Genuinely curious. If you like it, cool. But I think shaving that shit off and growing your facial hair would do nothing but improve your looks. You have the jawline/headshape to pull off a buzz
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:58 AM
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Wake the fuck up, porn is not fucking reality. There are millions of guys in the world with the same exact dick size as you that are fucking girls. Mine is pretty much the same as yours and I've never had a girl comment on it's size (you could take that as a bad thing but it is what it is g). I dealt with this too back in early college days and it was because I was a fucking self-loathing loser that watched porn every day. REAL SEX is not drilling a girl for an hour with an 8in dong. Yes, some g…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:54 PM
1

Yeah that is a good idea. I think it definitely just came off as weird and she couldn't think of a different reason to leave.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:07 PM
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It's your first time having sex, you're probably just really excited and having conscious/subconscious thoughts about your stamina. The more you do it, the better you'll get.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:29 AM
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Stephiscold (Stephon Clinkscales) He keeps his Instagram hella active and it's super motivating for me
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:27 AM
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Agreed, thanks
/r/askTRP06/07/19 05:48 PM
1

I completely agree, thanks for your insight.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 05:48 PM
1

True shit brotha, think I need to go back to the drawing board.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 01:27 PM
3

cartier - bazzi
/r/askTRP06/07/19 03:40 AM
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yeah prob lmao
/r/askTRP06/07/19 03:22 AM
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Song was Cartier. I know it was gay, I've learned through the thread that having a dedicated playlist is retarded.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 03:22 AM
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it was
/r/askTRP06/07/19 12:54 AM
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I'll use that next time
/r/askTRP06/07/19 12:21 AM
13

noted bro, thanks
/r/askTRP06/07/19 12:21 AM
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For sure, just wanted to share and see if anyone had a similar happening before. Some of my buddies gave a pretty "wtf" reaction when I told em
/r/askTRP06/07/19 12:21 AM
3

Was just something I didn't expect at all, which completely blew my frame off. It's hilarious thinking back on it, but I definitely could've played it better for sure.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 12:19 AM
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screenshotting this, holy shit this is good advice
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:31 PM
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If the vibes are there just go for it. Stop worrying about mistakes or rejection, that's how you learn, and real guys know how to handle rejection. Life is short, chase what you want and stop overthinking things as petty as going in for a kiss or touching a girl.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 12:51 PM
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If the vibes are there just go for it. Stop worrying about mistakes or rejection, that's how you learn, and real guys know how to handle rejection. Life is short, chase what you want and stop overthinking things as petty as going in for a kiss or touching a girl.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 12:48 PM
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"Want to grab a drink and catch up on Thur/Fri etc?" You got oneitis, you're overthinking. Give it a shot or don't
/r/askTRP08/06/19 03:45 PM
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Will give it a read for sure. And I know my pictures were shit. There's no denial there, I was very self aware of how poorly I was portraying how I wanted to portray myself. I'd say they were all of the above that you mentioned. It mainly stemmed from a dwindle in my self confidence, seeing that I'm not quite to the point where I want to be with my physique. Gonna spend time for improving myself, getting better genuine photos, and starting over months down the road. Thanks
/r/askTRP05/06/19 05:10 PM
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Understood, thanks.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 12:50 AM
2

This was literally me 1.5 yrs ago. I could see myself making the same xact post. None of the guys would give you shit for wanting to get your body into shape. They'd probably all be more than happy to help you as well. You're overthinking it man, lol. Ripped dudes /= dickheads Get in there and start training and enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:27 PM
1

doesn't matter if you're driving a nice car, fuck that shit
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:17 PM
1

Sorry but this hurts to read.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:15 PM
1

Do whatever the fuck you want. Just understand potential consequences.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:07 PM
2

I don't go to the gym 6 times a week because I'm fueled by motivation. There's trickles of that feeling here and there, but I go to the gym 6 times a week because I disciplined myself to do just that. Don't derange yourself with the idea that guys out getting shit done are purely "motivated". They've curated goals, and know that there are consequences of being idle and rotting away. When my alarm goes off at 5:15 every morning, I don't always jump out of bed, high off motivation, ready to fuck t…
/r/askTRP03/06/19 03:53 PM
3

Huh?
/r/askTRP03/06/19 03:00 PM
2

The first pic will get you swipes for sure, but when then the girl goes for the second profile look after the match, you may lose some. The animal pictures look a bit on the nose, and the super dark sith lord pic is a little odd, too. It's not a terrible profile by any means, but with a few changes it could be better. Try getting some other full body shots that don't look too corny.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:58 PM
1

In my experience, good dicking, frame control and confidence, and chemistry.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:54 PM
2

'ppreciate it brotha
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:12 PM
1

I used to do this shit all the time too. it was mainly to my superiors because I was too worried about responding to them with the right thing. I wasn't paying much attention to how I sounded. Just try to be more aware of it, and take a second or two before you respond.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:04 PM
1

Get ripped and own that shit, if you're really concerned that it's going to impact your confidence.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:02 PM
0

Did you move into a 1 bedroom, or did you have roomates? I'd like to get a room by myself but around Atlanta everything is usually more expensive if you are trying to get a 1 bed/studio, rather than splitting price with roomates. I'll keep chuggin along, thanks for the words
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:57 PM
5

That:s actually the same case with my older brother, except he just graduated with a degree, yet no job (no effort towards one either?), it's overall a pretty toxic environment for my mental as the constant bickering and bullshit between him and my dad drives me up the wall. That was one of the biggest motivators for me, getting myself out of the house and getting hobbies and girls, occupy myself basically. I'm in the US, if you don't mind me asking how much you were paying for your first place?…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:56 PM
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Just a self-esteem thing. Sounds like you set a bar for how many girls SHOULD be looking at you? That thought process is quite destructive. Fill your time with activities that occupy your mind. Improve your figure and demeanor. Girls will come
/r/askTRP01/06/19 12:13 AM
1

was just searching some posts and found this comment, this shit is gooood
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:47 PM
2

Idk what the fuck you're so worried about since you're so convinced that they're into you. Touching them back won't seem creepy. Obviously you don't want to twirl their hair but Put your hand on her back (mid to lower) after holding a door for her, and kind of guide and follow her in. Hard to describe but I use this one a lot with sucess. If you're coming from behind her, put your hands on her shoulders like you're going to give a massage and then trail your hands off. Don't be a fucking masseus…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 04:14 PM
5

he spent a lot of time changing his lifestyle and physique and finally got some girls but kept/keeps fucking up with them. he feels like he's a train wreck even after trp training
/r/askTRP27/05/19 12:46 AM
1

You're overthinking this, and this sounds like you don't have a good abundance mentality. Go in her DM's and say whats up? What do you have to lose? That being said, just because a girl likes your IG pics doesn't always mean she's interested
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:45 PM
9

hahahahah
/r/askTRP19/05/19 05:40 PM
23

Yeah, playing video games... Lmfao dude, she is fucking him and sucking the soul out of his cock. You are a plate
/r/askTRP19/05/19 05:39 PM
1

Ask for a spot. dude will agree to help before you can finish your sentence. if he doesn't strike up conversation after that it's a huge L for him
/r/askTRP18/05/19 03:27 AM
3

Lmfao
/r/askTRP16/05/19 08:07 PM
8

I had the gay comments thrown out to me as well. My mother liked to chime in on those as well. I had no role models besides my best friends and people online growing up. Took me a long time to really shape myself into somewhat of a resemblance of a man. Change took a while for me, and when I was getting my shit together and training I avoided dating because I didnt feel up to par. That someone translated in their eyes to being fucking gay? Who knows.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 11:22 PM
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They're just unhappy. My beer gutted, undisciplined , manchild of a father consistently made negative comments towards me when I was gaining mass for a few months.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 06:59 PM
1

Make sure they dont rip you off too hard. You'll be addicted to the grind after a few weeks, don't give up for anything.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 01:07 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3n-Hywbms82-FPejNPpnEA/videos This guy's videos got me out of my rock bottom. Spits facts
/r/askTRP14/05/19 02:01 PM
2

Dude I think I speak for most other guys that are at the gym, we don't give a shit what you look like, how fat/skinny you are. I mentally applaud for people when they show up at my gym and look out of shape because I know they're the ones making a change in their life. We're usually too busy checking out our own arms, anyways. It depends on what your goals are. Create some goals and browse bodybuilding.com or the sidebar for tips on beginners. Stay motivated and stay hydrated. And don't start to…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:57 PM
1

Would it hurt to add abs/core workouts into every workout?
/r/askTRP13/05/19 04:45 PM
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3 2 1 go Any other thought before hand will cause your autism to grab you by the balls and send you back down the isle from which you came. Mistakes will happen, it's all about the fun of interaction and practice
/r/askTRP13/05/19 04:18 PM
1

Do whatever the FUCK you want man. There is no rulebook to how often you should be fucking a girl. If you want to fuck, go ahead and fuck. I lost my virginity at 19 and then went on a dry spell for like a year and a half because I was still living with my dad and thought to my own retarded ass, "I can't fuck girls right now cause I won't be able to invite them over"... "these girls will think im a beta for still being under a parents roof at 20"... etc etc. All bs
/r/askTRP12/05/19 03:42 PM
2

I can second this
/r/askTRP12/05/19 03:36 PM
1

good shit right here
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:40 AM
1

Ik, not justifying my mood because I'm not in an abundance situation right now. Jus wanted to vent.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:51 PM
1

Keeping your ego out of social results... I've never heard it phrased like that. I like that.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:30 PM
2

Cannot believe someone hasn't said to just wear regular clothes over some pajamas yet. If you really don't know if she's fucking with you or not, that's what I would do
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:27 PM
11

Let her choke on your cock and then hard next her
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:51 PM
1

If you're already getting pussy obv wouldn't worry about it that much.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:52 PM
1

Bingo
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:23 PM
12

Fuck her brains out
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:45 PM
1

I'm not a doctor but sounds like a T problem. IDK your workout regime or lifestyle so I can't make anymore assumptions.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:20 AM
2

No bro, I'm asking were you or are you having intercourse with girls at all
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:46 AM
1

U fuckin at all?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:39 AM
10

Opposite for me. Puts my shit into overdrive
/r/askTRP08/05/19 11:33 PM
11

Lmao True tho
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:08 PM
1

Video games are just mental masturbation
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:44 PM
1

Use social media only for logistics and punctuality. Trying to flirt over twit/IG/etc doesn't work
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:40 PM
1

This is what's called digging ones own hole deeper. This is blue pill overthinking This is excuse making. Stop the mindset adjusting shit. Write your goals down on fucking paper where you can see them. Basic goals, what you want, want you want to feel, how much money you want to make, and please get on a workout regime. From those goals, set your mind there, and branch out from the ground up. Focus on the broad things first. Honestly cant tell if you're trolling or not with that whole religion s…
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:32 PM
1

So you didnt, ok
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:20 PM
1

I workout as hard as I would if I was fuckin a 9 for the last time
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:17 PM
1

Sounds like you're a bit introverted. Tell me, after a long night out do you feel your "battery" draining and just think about getting home to your bed, or are you thinking about the next bar to hit? I'm the same way but I've learned that you just need to interject shit. You said it yourself, most of small talk is mostly just chattin shit and keeping things up. Thats all it is.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:41 AM
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Think it's a mix of wiring and practice. Comes easily to some than others, sure. It's still comparable to other life situations, though. I remember back in the day when I started driving I was a nervous wreck, and basically practiced hiding it in front of my friends as well. Before I knew it the switch was flipped You'll be fine. Keep interacting. Keep socializing. It's just one big game
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:38 PM
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Thanks brother
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:35 PM
1

Man your story sounds fuckin just like mine, except replace TF2 with WoW & LoL. I do the same thing, occasionally I'll get on and get nothing out of the time sink. Which is helping push me farther away. Definitely a blessing
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:35 PM
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Just to clarify, I've been grinding for about 4 months now, and I do feel improved in various ways, but I still get that itch to crack out a game. Mainly because I was good at them, but also because I was so fucking hardwired on making progress virtually, and it felt good at the time. But I know none of that shit matters now.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:34 PM
3

Fuck facebook that shit is cancer
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:32 PM
1

I've been working out consistently for 4 1/2 months now, and there is a noticeably large difference in how I feel in the mornings, think throughout the day, and feel overall, mentally and physically. I think getting in good shape is the groundwork for improving a lifestyle.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:47 PM
4

Tell her you're not interested in her anymore.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:52 AM
2

She enjoys the fact that you are continuing to give her your time. She's not interested.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:58 AM
10

Jesus man, jerk off already. Get some clarity. Hard fucking next and find other outlets.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:56 AM
2

Fuck it why not
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:12 PM
3

Damn
/r/askTRP02/05/19 08:17 PM
1

Good question, now you have some homework
/r/askTRP02/05/19 06:29 PM
2

this is fucking truue
/r/askTRP02/05/19 06:27 PM
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Haahaha this fuckin sub man, legit some of the funniest comments.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 03:51 PM
3

Who u tryin to educate here my man?
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:30 PM
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Go out and actively try to meet people. Introduce yourself to strangers. Join a club that interests you. Join a club that probably doesn't interest you. It will be uncomfortable for a while. But you need to break out of that shell. It is mostly about taking action. Start hitting the gym. Lifting will not only physically tire you, but mentally as well. This was the biggest improvement for me because I always had a problem with over analyzing in my head. The whole point is to start taking action a…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 10:44 PM
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Sometimes I'll throw in jump roping before I lift to break a quick sweat and feel loose. Every now and then I'll just hang from the bar as well before I workout. 15-20 seconds on 10 off, a couple times. Gets rid of any tightness shoulders/arms.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:24 PM
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It is mindblowing, reading posts like this, how some guys can be so insanely oblivious to shit right in front of their eyes.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:22 PM
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Out of context, I'm good mr bot
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:34 PM
1

I think deadlifts are a fuckin killer workout. When I first started lifting I had a buddy show me form and technique in the gym so that I wouldn't kill myself. Throwing deadlifts and squats into my workout schedule made me feel like a completely different machine after a couple weeks.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:24 PM
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Controversial mb
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:53 PM
1

You've got some contro comments on here but I get what you're saying and I somewhat agree.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:37 PM
1

I'll admit I didnt read the FULL post I dont have much time left on my break but I read enough to know what you're feeling and talking about. It's a tough thing to grasp when you finally are xposed to it. But I use that anger put in the gym. Pump some fuckin weights and I feel fantastic the rest of the day. Keep grinding bro
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:35 PM
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