Any tips on escalating?

TheDero · 2019-06-10T12:48:06+00:00

If the vibes are there just go for it. Stop worrying about mistakes or rejection, that's how you learn, and real guys know how to handle rejection.

Life is short, chase what you want and stop overthinking things as petty as going in for a kiss or touching a girl.

FereallyRed · 2019-06-10T13:54:56+00:00

This is How You Should Escalate.

audiotrack · 2019-06-10T12:51:19+00:00

Yes there is a test. It is called Just Do It.

Skylights1000 · 2019-06-10T13:21:45+00:00

Bro key is to just whatever you think is right. It’s kinda better you learn from yourself first hand what works and doesn’t.

If your SMV is high enough, you can do pretty much anything and she’ll be DTF haha

bethanyisawhore · 2019-06-10T14:27:41+00:00

Establish kino from the outset, sit close to her with your arm around her and be comfortable with it. The more comfortable you are, the more comfortable she will be with whatever you do. Even a simple handshake or a smile could be awkward if you make it awkward. Conversely, you could slap her, pull her hair etc if you do it properly.

TheDero · 2019-06-10T12:51:35+00:00

If the vibes are there just go for it. Stop worrying about mistakes or rejection, that's how you learn, and real guys know how to handle rejection.

Life is short, chase what you want and stop overthinking things as petty as going in for a kiss or touching a girl.

alittletoosmooth · 2019-06-10T16:59:48+00:00

Was on a date the other day and had a hard time getting some kino in due to the set up (my fault for not doing diligence on the place). The tables were too big and felt like I was 100 ft away from her. She asked me something and I was going to show her a pic. Instead of sliding the phone across the table, I got up and sat next to her. Showed her the pic, put my arm around her, started making out, and then low key grab her tits, etc. We were sort of secluded so it worked. We had already made out before this too. The point is, follow the kino escalation ladder (search here or on google) but most importantly you can't be afraid to make the move. Be bold.

MattyAnon · 2019-06-10T18:32:31+00:00

Does anyone have any tips on how to start slow or use a litmus test (so to speak) to see if she's receptive to escalation? Thanks as always bros.

You see if she's receptive to escalation BY ESCALATING.

The only green light you need is "she hasn't left yet"

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-06-10T19:26:36+00:00

First rule is don't overthink. After that's cleared up, start with touching her arm, elbow and leg. If receptive keep going eventually to playing with her hair, arm around waist, kissing, etc. Eventually try to escalate as far as you can go.

Workguy77 · 2019-06-10T18:10:43+00:00

After a tinder date, I usually walk them back to their car and go in for the kiss.

Title	Any tips on escalating?
Author	pete-repeat
Upvotes	10
Comments	11
Date	June 10, 2019 12:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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