Hey everyone!

Last summer I had a nasty breakup with my LTR of 4 years. We were both our first everything, and while she seemed great at first and seemed to be crazy about me, last summer she ended up getting drunk and sending nudes to a group chat with every guy on her school’s soccer team in it (lol). What a way to throw out 4 years.

I started college this fall and was in quite the anger stage for a while. Reading everything I could, The Rational Male, etc. I was pretty black pilled. Then seemingly out of nowhere, I met my current LTR. She was the one interested in me, and she made the first moves. I was extremely skeptical at first.

Turns out she was a virgin and hadn’t even gone down on a guy before, only did touching before with one guy, her only ex (I know him, he’s an absolute cucked weirdo loser, and extremely clingy. She dumped him).

Anyway, after a month or so of fooling around I took her virginity. She likes being submissive for me, our sex is great, she asks about my days but isn’t needy. Her friends for the most part seem like good influences (my ex’s friends were gross hoes and turned her into one), and everything feels so much healthier than my last relationship. She’s an only child and her parents keep a close eye on her, so they’ve kept her pretty mild, although I seem to fulfill the rebellious part of her life, as I’m the guy she started fucking for the first time, etc. I can tell the things I do/am into rub off on her (music tastes, opinions, mannerisms, joke styles, etc) which is a sign that a girl respects you.

I’m fairly attractive, fit, and older - she’s still a senior in high-school and I’m 20. I’m in ROTC, so I do military training as well. I have a ton of leg up over the average high school guys she deals with on a daily basis. I don’t really even get shit tests (I think she can tell I don’t bullshit).

So to my question - I’m very focused on what I’m doing ATM and I work my ass off (and she knows it). I know girls all are programmed the same, so while she seems great right now, shit happens. With that said, it seems like we have a great foundation, and I am currently very successful in avoiding the mistakes I made in my last relationship (overtexting, giving hints of jealousy, complaining, etc.). If things go south it’s not the end of the world, but what are good things to do to keep it good and prevent things from getting stale? What are some of the main issues in my situation that most commonly cause shit to go wrong? I know my worth and I know that I can get girls, and I’m pretty confident she knows that as well.

Thanks everyone