Anyone else have this happen?

FriendlyNormie · 2020-06-22T22:34:25+00:00

Maybe cuz you were doing those things to get a girl and not for yourself

FirstName_LastName4 · 2020-06-22T22:35:15+00:00

You get comfortable.

The reason most relationships end. Check married red pill for a bunch of stories like that.

This is unsolicited advice but i think you need to work on your mindset, for you to be feeling that way is because you saw getting a girl as an objective/prize. You got it now you relax.

Self improvement should be about YOU.

Vitamin_ABCDE · 2020-06-22T22:37:14+00:00

That's what happens when you have no abundance and care way too much about women. You need real goals.

Remember, the worst number of women to have is ONE.

lordGwynx7 · 2020-06-22T22:38:49+00:00

When I started with my LTR I went in with TRP mindset and got complacent after a few months into the relationship and left my self improvement (except Gym that I can never leave) things go like you’re doing now. You just get to comfortable and then I Didn’t work towards my goals as I should have and made her the goal in my life. She eventually lost attraction and broke up with me a week ago. Do not get lazy and start slacking. Always stick to improving yourself. Don’t get comfortable

slrml617 · 2020-06-22T23:40:18+00:00

I feel like now that I have this girl

You don't have her, it's just your turn.

Therefore, never relax.

Musicgoon · 2020-06-22T22:54:15+00:00

You need to lift and game other women. You don't get to rest and settle into oneitis.

She will leave you if you get comfortable.

MattyAnon · 2020-06-23T01:38:45+00:00

I feel like now that I have this girl, i can kind of relax

Yeah, normal instinct.

Consequences of this pattern are exactly as you'd expect.

You never "have" her. You're only as good as the other girls you can easily get. Never forget it.

pyth0ns · 2020-06-23T03:19:50+00:00

Women have a way of taming lions... You're in the right place to not let this happen to you.

Back to the drawing board with side bar and reading material, my dude!

Human_Extreme · 2020-06-23T05:46:10+00:00

Everything the other boys said is right, but let me say one extra thing.

You are going to become weak, fat/skinny, have no discipline and then she is going to leave your sorry ass and you start from scratch again.

So grab yourself by your balls and get to the fucking gym and keep doing what you used to do.

Snowboard18 · 2020-06-22T23:40:29+00:00

It happens when you comfortable and then leads to her breakin up with you, stay on your purpose my man.

Snoo31234 · 2020-06-23T00:14:05+00:00

Lol relax then. Once you lose the girl I'm sure you'll get the motivation after the sadness passes from losing her.

rpthrowaway1104 · 2020-06-23T00:49:37+00:00

Move the goal post to HB10

alphaonthecomeup · 2020-06-22T22:51:18+00:00

Just make sure that you keep back up girls. Always be doing shit without her, don’t make her your life boss.

Continue to have a life outside of her that she rarely gets to see. This is how you keep the mystery.

I read something on married trp that said the woman’s unconscious goal is now to betaize you. So that way she can keep you but in doing that she will Lose attraction for you.

Just enjoy yourself. Fuck her every time like it’s your last. Do everything you want to do. Get it out of your system and learn.

DoubleConversation4 · 2020-06-22T23:30:05+00:00

Yeah, people's sex drive can force themselves to get better

This is why semen retention is a thing

Demote her to a plate and start seeing her less

Seeing her less will make the relationship better as well

Title	Anyone else have this happen?
Author	ezomo11
Upvotes	7
Comments	19
Date	June 22, 2020 10:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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