Anyone here been cheated on before?

UnnatainableArab · 2017-10-13T21:40:52+00:00

Yes.

A better mentality is to understand that you can't control other people's actions and insecurities. You can only control your own.

Be independent of any outcome when interacting with others. Do what you want to do and be prepared to walk away at any moment for any indiscretion.

Even Marcus Aurelius had an unfaithful wife and he was one of the greatest Roman emperors.

Stop worrying about others. Worry about you.

AwakenedSovereign · 2017-10-13T22:05:16+00:00

Yup. She fucked her ex BF after having "dreams about him". This is after chasing me for 3months saying how much she wishes we could just be together.

1 if you see red flags.. believe them. Your heart will make excuses. Crush them.

2 the plate is already broken. Teach yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose. Ironically if you do this, more women will be beating down your door than you can reasonably fuck.

3 monogamy is a joke. Don't do it.

DiggerClam · 2017-10-13T23:02:51+00:00

I think you'll find that most people find the red pill after being fucked over like this (read: ALLOW girls to fuck them over before finding the red pill).

vandaalen · 2017-10-13T22:58:53+00:00

No definite proof, but pretty obvious.

My ex and mother of my daughter close to the official end of our relationship. I didn't give a single fuck about it. Stopped desiring her months before because of her annoying behaviour and just stayed because of my daughter. 0/10. would not recommend.

What do you mean by mistakes? You cannot control another person. Get that bluepill shit out of your head.

dontbedenied · 2017-10-14T00:08:30+00:00

Ignoring the red flags from the very beginning of a person who I should have recognized was untrustworthy.

Completely losing frame, in general.

Being afraid to rock the boat in the relationship.

Being afraid to walk away from the relationship.

Not having an abundance mentality, i.e. believing that my girlfriend's pussy was the only one I could get.

Basically, doing everything to dry up her pussy.

eccentricrealist · 2017-10-13T22:48:00+00:00

No clue. When both your social circles don't coincide it's pretty hard to find out.

race_car · 2017-10-14T01:53:55+00:00

I dont know that Ive ever been cheated on, and I've never cheated. I've noticed its always the cheaters that are most untrusting.

Gawernator · 2017-10-14T03:14:00+00:00

Not that I know of.

Arhamzubair · 2017-10-14T04:14:44+00:00

Yep, oneitis i was dating cheated with her ex. Lead me to finding Red Pill and TRP so in hindsight im glad it happened. Learned from errors and am much improved from me a year ago.

Title	Anyone here been cheated on before?
Author	JaspersChest
Upvotes	12
Comments	20
Date	October 13, 2017 9:35 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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Comments

1 if you see red flags.. believe them. Your heart will make excuses. Crush them.

2 the plate is already broken. Teach yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose. Ironically if you do this, more women will be beating down your door than you can reasonably fuck.

3 monogamy is a joke. Don't do it.