I tell the story of the typical Asian man who is brought up in a traditional family. From a very young age its been drilled into my head that I should focus only on education and academic studies, NOT pursuing sex and chase tail. That is exact what I did throughout High School and College.

One of the most puzzling things I always find about my male peers is their aggressive pursuit of women and sex far over shadows their pursuit of knowledge in mathematics and physics.

Now I am in my late 20s, low SMV and perpetually single, lost the v-card to a prostitute, makes me wonder: are my parents wrong to raise me the way I am? Am I wrong in listening to them? Or simply because I live in the wrong country?