First time I’ve dealt with this - I’ve been focusing on myself for a while after a messy 4 year LTR breakup. Because of this, girls were not a big part of my life, but recently me and this girl have started a thing. She is a virgin, and super into me, constantly telling me how hot I am and how she’s always thinking about me and dreaming about me (us fucking). We are both young.

I’ve been holding frame very well, and while we haven’t fucked (yet, we will soon, she wants to as well), we have done everything else. She’s losing a lot of her firsts to me. Just today, she swallowed her first mouthful of cum, and it was mine (twice, actually). She said she loved it. She calls me daddy. I made her cum 4 times tonight.

Anyway, she’s previously told me she wants to be a thing, and I kinda dodged the question. Today she asked:

Her: “so, are we exclusive?”

Me: “would you like to be?”

Her: “I would”

Me: “I mean, I haven’t known you for very long. But I’d like to get to know you more...”

And then we kept making out and it was dropped. Did I do this correctly? In all honesty, I am not seeing anyone else currently, and she’s been a very good girl so far and I don’t blame her for wanting to be exclusive. Especially because she’s giving me firsts. I would definitely consider LTR’ing her.

On the other hand, I’m afraid of committing and then having her feel like she doesn’t need to impress me anymore. I’ve only known her for a few weeks. I know that because she hasn’t been around the block, she would probably (perhaps fairly) be very unhappy if I were to claim to be (or actually be) non-exclusive. I’m also not going to lie and pretend like I have other girls I am seeing.

How was my response today? And how do I address this in the future? I like the way she wants to impress me and do anything for me. I don’t want to commit too early (at least not for a while) and have her stop chasing.

Thanks for any advice