I have a horrible memory that borders on a learning disability, possibly from smoking too much weed in the past. This means I really struggle with important things such as directions, names, and methods. This emasculates me in certain situations as I have to rely on other guys or, if it's really dire, girls. I'm not a sheltered person, I've travelled a lot and I put myself out there to learn and expand, but I seriously think I just have a hard time learning which puts me at a massive disadvantage when trying to be a leader or gain respect from girls.

Is there any way I can get around this?