Found my GF of 6 months texting another guy, who was being really flirty with her and she didn't say anything flirty back, but she was perfectly fine with him being flirty. They mentioned in the texts about how she's hoping to find a job in the city he's in so they can go out eating and partying together.
We were chilling and I decided to ask how her search for jobs was looking/where she was looking, low and behold she mentioned the only place for a job she was looking for was the same city the guy was talking about. I mention how that seems really far from me, and how we might want to go our own way peacefully after she moves. At the thought of us separating she broke down into full tears, sobbing on end for about an hour, talking about how she didn't want to leave me and lose me forever (I've mentioned and she knows that I completely block and remove all contact from every girl I'm done seeing).
As we've been dating, she's been obsessed with me, wanting to see me multiple times a week, paying 2/3rds for our dates, texting me every day, wanting to fuck 2-3 times a night etc. It's funny how even when I do everything as I should she still courts other options, maybe that's because I'm not as high value as I could be, maybe that's just because AWALT, or maybe both.
The thing here is that she has no idea that I know. The relationship in my eyes is already over, and I could/should just leave and not look back, but is there any extra shit I could do before I do that? Only thing that comes to mind is getting free stuff or free food.
This part isn't as relevant to the advice, but this whole experience just feels really fucking bad. I found out about the red pill around 9 months ago, tried to take it all in and take it seriously. Before I found TRP I thought I was incel. Early into my time with TRP I got on a couple dates, one of which lead into my first real relationship and hook up. Ended up ghosting that girl, and upgraded with the current (soon to be ex) girlfriend. I know what I have to do, but what makes this so difficult is how objectively attractive the current girl is and how I can't get a girl of equal or higher attractiveness as I am right now.
Thanks for your time.
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