I'm still very confused on a lot of things that differentiate a decent guy from a beta.

For example, I rarely text plates; I have my man shit to do and they know this and respect it, I barely give them attention over the phone and I only see them once or twice a week. BUT when I'm their I give them my full 100% attention and don't look at my phone or shit like that. Is it beta to give them my full 100% attention, or am I being a decent guy and giving them something they have been patiently waiting for and worked to get?

Or another example, a girl will be behaving well with me. I'll go over to her house and I'll buy us a pizza to share. Is it beta? I spent like 20$ on getting the pizza, and I could have still wen't over and fucked her without doing so. But I just felt like buying us a pizza. Does this make me look like a provider?

Or another example, I like to text every now and then and just ask her how her day was. Is this being beta, or is it being considerate and decent towards a girl who literally lets me penetrate her asshole at full force.

Am I being beta? Am I being a combo of beta and alpha? Should I be more alpha and just not give a fuck about her AT ALL and waste no money or show no care or interest in her at all.

So many lines are blurry.