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I get that you are new to this "being a man" thing and yet you still have zero clue what a fucking man does. That little lady that you married when you were young, dumb, and full of cum is your responsibility, So you spent a week or two doing things and getting upset that she is doing nothing. Then while you are putting up some dry wall (did you punch a hole in it when you flew into a nice guy rage? I am willing to bet you did). She comes and asks to go out to restaurant with you. So instead of …
/r/askMRP25/03/21 09:48 PM
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Lol.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 02:49 AM
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Hardly. 1). He refused to answer her silly test question 2). His response of 6 roses told her he doesnt care about her flaws. He handled it perfectly. Now if this wasnt his wife but a plate or fwb. I would agree that would be pathetic.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:15 AM
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Read it again. It is about a married couple. This isnt some thot ofbtye street. And it certainly isnt about nicing your way into a good relationship. Its about maintaining that relationship already. From a red pilled context of marriage. That action was gold.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:10 AM
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Why do you even care what they do?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:02 PM
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Exclusive plates? Do you have any clue what a plate is? Why the hell do you care what she is doing when she is not with you?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:01 PM
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Broken trust. Broken life. Broken Marriage. Read up on Kintsugi. Its the japanese art of pottery repair. Essentially a true master will take a few months gluing it all back together. Here is the kicker. The result isnt a cracked bowl, but one with a spider web of gold lines. Why would I mention this? Because it takes a lot of careful work and a lot of time to take something broken. Mend the cracks and end up with a much more beautiful and valuable piece of art. Your life is the bowl. You can use…
/r/askMRP05/12/19 07:06 PM
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He was referring to your wife having to mother your drunk ass.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 06:56 PM
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Your good friend is an idiot. He is always worried about keeping his girl and that shows a lack of abundance. And you actually want a girl who expresses her feelings as it shows that she feels safe to do so with you. That is a great sign. The hard work is progressing you mission in life. Having an LTR only means that you have to take her into consideration of your mission. She should be with you because she wants to enjoy being with you while you are on that journey to accomplish your mission. B…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 03:40 PM
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and then there are us in the MPR subreddit who are.. But I agree. Long lasting could mean being ignorant (willfully or blissfully) of their wives extra-marital activities. Successful is where you are satisfied with the relationship for a long time, and she is happy to be there supporting your mission the whole time. To do that, you have to be a man who has progressed his mission in life and she still desires to satisfy in bed.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 03:32 PM
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Much more than 165. You need to add 30-40lbs more muscle. And probably some fat too, cuz you are a bean pole.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:12 PM
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Incels are redpilled, just like mgtows and MRAs are. Incels just dont want to put in the work and don’t believe they can become chad. Mgtows can be confused for incels, but most of them are just tired of female bullshit. Then there are those who come here, swallow the pill and go about improving all aspects of their life by taking personal responsibility for the mission. We then progress into the better versions of ourselves.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:06 PM
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That is because most of them see the red pill the same way that fat people are looking for the magic pill that will make them skinny. It is just one means to an ends and only to help them get laid. They don’t really swallow it. They dont put in the actual work of improving themselves and end up just being sheep in wolf clothing. Because if they did swallow it, they would see the realities of life. Then to get what they want out of life they would grow up and take personal responsibility for wher…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:59 PM
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None of those are anywhere near heavy enough to do much more than make your wife laugh at you.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 04:47 PM
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Well past time to cut.
/r/askMRP29/10/19 02:41 PM
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You expect a MGTOW to put in any real work? They would rather drop out than continue to play the game.
/r/askMRP29/10/19 02:40 PM
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I agree with you. You can eat keto and still get fat because CICO is the only real method. Keto is just one method you can use to achieve negative calories.
/r/askMRP25/10/19 10:53 PM
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It sounded like he owned it to me.
/r/askMRP25/10/19 10:14 PM
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Yup. Mine has unpaid school loans from before meeting her. I havent seen a tax refund check in 3 years because of it. The first time they took it (a few months from swallowing the pill), they notified her they why they were doing so. She was terrified to tell me. But she did. My reaction was simply to shrug. Its not like i didnt know she wasnt paying them.
/r/askMRP25/10/19 10:12 PM
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Average experience? That is to come here. Get blasted by RP truths and then decide being a faggot is easier. Everyone else put in the work.
/r/askMRP12/10/19 01:21 AM
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Hard to stop thinking about sex when she isnt given it to him. It is like telling a guy to quit thinking about breathing while he is drowning. What the OP should do in both cases is to stop panicking and focus on doing the steps needed to get sex/air. That is the only way to get it.
/r/askMRP11/10/19 03:15 PM
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She called his bluff and then upped the ante by telling him to not see anyone while she is gone. The kicker is she told him there is no ETA on the return. Her respect for the OP is in the negative numbers area. And the faggot wants to work it out? OP.... What are you doing posting to a bunch of internet strangers instead of calling your lawyer with her new address to send the walking papers to.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 08:14 PM
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So, do you normally like digging through the garbage for an easy meal? What makes you think this time, with a now post wall female, will be better? Are you desperate to get laid that you are willing to slide into a used up ex GF? One who is so post wall that she couldnt find action from tinder that she took the chance to reqch out to you? Hoping that are so thirsty and thatyou remember how “good” she was in bed she can rope you in?
/r/askMRP09/10/19 01:40 PM
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No. It means she would spend more time doing hair and makeup, actually diet, get sexy lingerie and beg you to slap her ass and pull her hair. That is the kind of effort talked about. It doesnt mean your wife would dye her hair brown and artificially inflate her egos if you like busty brunettes. Only a crazy low quality woman would do the latter.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:57 PM
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That isnt an emotional affair. That was a physical one. Test your kids because that sounds like it wasnt her first rodeo nor was he her first bull.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:17 PM
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^ so much this. While you get your head on straight, no harm in using her as sparring partner to build a stringer frame. Now was it an emotional affair 5 years ago or an ongoing affair for the past 5? Because adults fuck. Keep that in mind.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:09 PM
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You sound more like a guy who learned a new super power and wants to see what he can do with it. Which isnt what u/BobbyPeru was talking about. He said you are not attractive enough for your wife to put any effort into looking good for you.
/r/askMRP03/10/19 06:08 PM
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Leaving now and not doing the work will not end well for you. Its easy to just quit and start over compared to working on yourself while preparing for singlehood before you pull that trigger. Obviously if she is actively cucking you, give her the walking papers post haste. It is better to use her to sharpen your skills, strengthen your frame, and improve yourself. If she changes her tune (like mine did) then she can stay. If not, she can go. The important thing is you are improving your life and…
/r/askMRP27/09/19 03:38 PM
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Its the AF/BB and their unrestrained hypergamy at play. She wants to think she is a good person (they are solipsistic afterall). While she is cheating on her husband, she wont have sex with her husband because she wants to remain faithful to that other guy. So in her own female logic she is still a good person and not a cheater. Meanwhile she is still extracting resources from her husband while extracting DNA from her boyfriend.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 03:28 PM
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The hardest work i did was mental and emotional. Lifting weights was the easiest. All I had to do was add a plate and keep lifting. I feel my best when I am under the bar. I still cannot help but smile when i am lifting better than I have previously.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 01:56 PM
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Still would have been starfished sex and it would set him back. Its better for him to just refuse and keep working on himself.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 01:39 PM
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Nope. That isnt it. It is part of the script for the dead bedroom deniers. Just as much as your wife suddenly realized that she has laundry to do (at 1 am), then the floors need waxing, and gets upset that you are still awake at 3am (due to you being emotionally weak and your hamster is a nocturnal animal anyways)
/r/askMRP27/09/19 01:37 PM
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You go nuts as it is a slow rotting cancer to your soul. Blue pilled betas cannot understand why the woman they married and work so hard to provide for and make happy refuse to have sex with them. Each rejection takes a nibble and the rare pitty sex takes a giant bite out of their souls. Especially when the wife relents by giving you access to her vag, but you must use 15 gallons of lube due to the fact she is so dry it becomes a moisture wicking black hole. Then 2 minutes in she asks if you are…
/r/askMRP27/09/19 01:32 PM
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Its your fault in as much as you allowed yourself to become a fat unattractive beta. But let me tell you that even physically attractive men get into dead bedrooms. Mostly because their wives dont want the guilt of cheating on their boyfriends. From what I have noticed, those are the only two causes of a wife refusing sex. Most times its a combo of the two.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 01:17 PM
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Maybe. 45 lbs bar Two 45 lbs plates Two 25 lbs plates Two 2.5 lbs plates Two neoprene covered 1 lbs dumbbells taped to his faggoty wrists.
/r/askMRP18/09/19 01:08 PM
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Thoee studies are not showing predictions, just a likelihood. A virginal wife may get that 7 year itch scratched by your kids soccer coach. Whereas a wife who looks at Wilt Chamberlain and thinks “street baller” with regards to n count may never even entertain the thought of having anyone else but you for the rest of her life.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 05:01 PM
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Nothing wrong with any of that. My point was that n count doesn't mean anything. Its what she is willing to do for and to you that does.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 04:56 PM
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The most boring lays of my life were <3-n-count, while conversely, the most fun were above that, and usually way above that. WTF? In part you are correct. But it also depends on how submissive she is and how much she is willing to please you. The worst lay of my life was with a girl I knew slept with everyone in the company (worse than a starfishing wife). And there is something to be said of a wet and willing wife who has learned what you like, despite her n count.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 04:21 PM
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Completely agree. I see TRP as a bunch of kids who utilize the “pua tactics” as a tips and tricks checklist to getting laid. They are not digesting the red pill. They see no need to get their head on straight. MRP are a bunch of guys in the trenches. Experiencing life from within a horrible relationship. They know there lives are fucked up and know they need to somehow unfuck it. Sadly, still too many want someone else to do the work for them.
/r/askMRP12/09/19 11:51 AM
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There’s a sidebar? Do they serve beer and whiskey?
/r/askMRP10/09/19 03:46 AM
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Don/t listen to that. You know your wife did more than just give Oral to another guy. What she is doing is minimizing what she has done. Its common for cheaters to do. Also, u/hack3ge is absolutely correct. She is still with the other man. Women need relationships like Men need sex. They would stay in an awful relationship if they have no other prospects. Bottom line is that no self-respecting man should allow themselves to be Plan-B for their WIFE. This marriage cannot be saved as she broke it …
/r/askMRP08/09/19 05:46 PM
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She cant handle them going off to public school. How is she going to handle them going off to college.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 04:39 PM
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Thats why I asked and no you dont have to DEER your wife. And I know homeschooling isnt for everyone. Lots of parents only make it a year or two. They don’t realize the work put into it. It does get easier as they get older because they are less hands on. But having tried it and her given up. I agree you shouldnt homeschool. You need to protect your kids from the stress this will cause then by going back and forth. Especially with no good reason except a refusal to let go. College years are gonn…
/r/askMRP06/09/19 04:09 PM
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I can give you insight in homeschooling as my wife has done that with my kids. There is zero financial help. Sure there are some free resources out there but those are best used in a supplemental role. And it can be expensive. We are talking $300+ for curriculum and lets not forget about field trips (it’s actually best to join a community and go as a giant group). When my wife decided (i was severely blue pilled and all but checked out of life) to home school and become a SAHM, it wrecked me fin…
/r/askMRP06/09/19 03:34 PM
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STFU is not going mute. Its saying as little as possible. Here is how STFU is done.... Her: Why all this sudden self improvement? (Actually a comfort test, dread is high because a woman who suddenly goes into self improvement mode does so for a new potential partner. I.E. solipsism at play) You: i wasnt happy and making everyone miserable. Aren’t you happier now? (Pressure flip). You then walk away to do something else, ending the conversation. That is STFU in action.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:34 PM
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Knights in Shiny Armor also have hand polished lances.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 02:08 AM
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Way too mild. This is some serious deep blue beta faggotry. Wife: I want a divorce in 2 years You: Okay 2 days later. You: Here are your walking papers Seriously, why would you wait for an expected experation of her choosing? So she can use your resources while finishing school, but give you NOTHING in return. Think about that. Dont use the 180 gimmick as it wont work on a woman that has checked out and is just waiting in the lobby. She is gone. Let her go and work on becoming a better version o…
/r/askMRP06/09/19 12:43 AM
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Yup. No woman can deny a man sex. She can refuse, but the man will just get laid elsewhere. I tolerated that bullshit for 10 years. I unfucked myself 2.5 years ago. 10 years too late.
/r/askMRP24/05/19 03:10 PM
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There are benefits to being married. It is just that due to the cultural shift, the cons vastly out weigh pros of marriage. And from what I see out there, gettin i to an LTR with a girl is getting just as bad.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 02:50 PM
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Stock market is either a long game or you have to be a micro managing day trader. The long game is best for the average person and you shouldnt have that as your primary investment. You should have multiple avenues of investment incase one starts to lag. Ideally, you would find some sort of passive income that essentially keeps ob paying you back after your initial investment. As in buying a larger house than you need and renting out the remaining rooms to cover your mortgage. Allowing you more …
/r/askTRP17/05/19 08:02 PM
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Have you really no clue about girls? It is perfectly fine for her to break it off with you. She thinks she can do better. Now when you break it off with her, she then thinks “what was wrong with me that I couldnt even keep him”. In turn, she will want you back just so that she can dump you. She needs to return things to the proper order she had in her own head and you threw that out of whack. Remember “she can do better than you”
/r/askTRP17/05/19 04:14 PM
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And when she starts to go on like that. You shut it down by saying something like “lets do this over a coffee, me met at X in 10” or something like that.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 04:03 PM
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The advice is given to help those still unplugging. Sort of like what Bruce Lee says about a punch. (Paraphraee) Before Kung Fu, a punch is just a punch. You start learning King Fu, and see it is soo much more than just a punch. Once you master Kung Fu, you see a punch is just a punch. Newbs need help figuring things out. So the advice is given to help them. Once they become better versions and master their alpha game, they can text and break all the TRP rules because it isnt about the rules. It…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:45 PM
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You can drop the Trad part. Its all bullshit anti-slut defense crap. A girl is a girl. Hence AWALT. Source. I married an AWALT traditional girl.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 06:13 PM
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Not true. My 2nd child slept through the night all the time. My wife says otherwise, but I know she is full of it. I got plenty of sleep.
/r/RPChristians15/05/19 09:25 PM
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A final note. When you come home and they beat the dog to the door to give you a hug. Hold it until they let go first and cherish that moment the most. My 10 year old still beats the dog and nothing that happened at work matters anymore cuz Daddy’s Home.
/r/RPChristians15/05/19 05:49 PM
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I have some simple advice.... 1). God has gifted you with an incredible responsibility. But sooo worth it. 2). The infant and toddler years are the mother’s to cherish. Yet you should take time alone with your son and have him rest on your bare chest. It is a critical bonding time for you with your child, and gives mom a break. 3). The rambunctious 3-7 years. These are all yours. Its serious play time. For me and mine it was lots of tickling, racing eachother with fake injuries, and general goof…
/r/RPChristians15/05/19 05:46 PM
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Their anger phase. When you ghost them they no longer exist to you. What happens to them is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:31 PM
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Here are some truths about working in IT 1). Technology moves, you have to constantly be on that hamster wheel of studying. Because younger guys only learn the newer tech. 2). Sadly, the more you are seen the less you are doing your job right. The more you are doing your job right, the less you are seen and the company doesn’t understand why they pay you to do nothing. 3). Read the sidebar. Its not just useful for cracking open the legs of an HB9. It will help you in all that you do. 4). Always …
/r/askTRP14/05/19 06:18 PM
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If he doesnt bullshit his experience on his resume/cv then he already is competent enough. The interview is only to see if he will mesh well with the company and provide a better explanation (did he or did he not try to bull shit us) of what his resume says.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 06:06 PM
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Learn game. Not kidding here. The same tools you use to read women and make yourself more charming work in pretty much everyone. You will even be shit tested if the interviewer is competent. The important thing to remember is that if you get called in for an interview, they already like your qualifications. I do not recommend lying on your resume/cv and it will help you remain honest (but still charming) throughout the interview. Do not try and BS the interviewer. If you dont know, then say that…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:56 PM
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Don’t be. I like my wife now.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 05:08 PM
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I am married.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 04:07 PM
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Learn the greek alphabet bro. Omega is the last letter, not Zeta. And Omega males are incels. There are only Alphas, Betas, Sigmas, and Omegas when it comes to males. Alphas are the top dog. Betas are the majority, Sigmas are not alphas. Because they dont give a shit about the power dynamics. These are the sexy loner drifter types. Think Daryl of the Walking Dead.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 01:54 PM
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Best advice I can give for depression is two fold. 1). Always be doing something. It keeps your mind occupied and you were created for action. Non action is a killer of men. 2). Always talk to yourself as you would someone you love. Best way to do this is to write down 5 things you like about yourself on index cards (1 per card) and read them when you first get up in the morning and before you go to bed. Then each week, add a new card.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 01:37 PM
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Nope. Here is the thing. My wife is my star pitcher. She has to pitch no hitters for the remainder of the relationship. Else she gets pulled from the game and replaced from the bull pin. I wont and should not ever field a ball. No other guy can even get a whiff of first base. Why? Because that means she is looking for someone more valuable than me. If she is looking once, then she will be looking twice. If only to get that emotional excitement she got when she first got caught. Hell, the emotion…
/r/askTRP13/05/19 01:20 PM
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I didnt tell. She snooped on my phone thinking I was cheating (i havent). So I know first hand why you should never talk about fight club.
/r/askMRP11/05/19 03:00 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:54 PM
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N-count only really matters if you plan on marriage. Low N count means a stronger pair bond. That doesnt mean she wont still monkey branch, just an indicator of a lower risk. Like not smoking reduces the probability of getting cancer. But you can still get cancer. And a girl with the thousand cock stare can still be faithful and wild to the 1001 cock that became her husband. Just not as likely.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:59 PM
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Tinderellas can do that over the summer.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:51 PM
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3 kids and a bottle of wine every night dreading the thots throwing themselves at her man. She is more afraid of that wall then the Democrats are of Trumps.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 11:53 PM
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OP should listen to this. He needs to learn that if he wants to do something. To just do it. As if he wants to see a movie. He makes the plan to see the movie and says to his wife “ I am going to see X tonight, want to come?” If she says yes, he gets her ticket. If she says no, he enjoys the popcorn. Likewise, if he comes home and wants to greet his wife with a kiss. He goes and gets it. If she pushes him away, without being butthurt, says “okay, tomorrow then” and walks away. Or he says “coming…
/r/askMRP09/05/19 07:49 PM
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It happens. Makes life harder, but who knows. Maybe it is what he needs to harden his frame.
/r/askMRP09/05/19 07:36 PM
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Can you please stop eating in the car as it makes a mess and I just cleaned the car? Y’all share a car? Stop sharing it if she cant keep it clean. Can you please vacuum the house? Do you know how to vacuum? Or was this a “i am coming home with Jimmy” request? As for a bitchy nagging wife demanding an apology. Well are you sorry? If yes then say it. If not. Then learn to fog or grab the bull by the horns and say it quickly with a big smile. Have fun with the rodeo after that.
/r/askMRP08/05/19 07:45 PM
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Stop? No. They will still reduce in number and frequency as she accepts your role as her alpha. However, she will still throw a test to make sure evey now and then. Kinda like a “Crazy Ivan” from the “Hunt for the Res October” novel.
/r/askMRP07/05/19 06:46 PM
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Actual Response: So i am your wife and that is disrespectful. Better to just say “yup” and then stfu.
/r/askMRP07/05/19 06:25 PM
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I dont get caught. Because I dont hide it. If she reacts, i own it and act like its nothing. Because it is nothing. I also don’t gawk at them. I just glance and go on.
/r/askMRP07/05/19 06:17 PM
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Wow. Wasted my life reading this, your comments, and browsed your history. You owe me and every man who read through the clusterfuck reddit posts of your life. You need to unfuck yourself first. Then decide if your wife brings value and if you should keep her. Right now, she isnt bringing any valie because you are a complete worthless cuck. Why should she bring value when she is only following your drunk lead. If your wife is being a fucking cunt, its because she is pissed at the bait and switch…
/r/askMRP26/04/19 07:51 PM
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He went autistic on STFU. And I completely agree. He needs to start gaming his wife and to stop being a butthurt mute to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 01:15 PM
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Not really, but it is a poor substitute at fulfilling your bukkake fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 11:46 AM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of the relationship. They desire the commitment of a good man. But then it is their nature to begin the betafication of that man. Why? Dread. They dont want another woman being attracted (and taking) her man. Sadly, making their man unattractive to others makes him unattractive to themselves.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 10:58 PM
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No just pathetic. Or that is just me. I see my past self as pathetic so when I see others like I used to be. I cannot help it.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:53 PM
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Of course. Nothing is sexier than a woman confident in her own femininity. You do have all the right curves right? I would hate for you to be mistaken for a beached walrus.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 09:03 PM
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That is just sooo cute that you think that.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 08:50 PM
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Exactly. Women are not confusing and not difficult. They are all very easy and simple. Boiled down RP truths: Women are ruled by their emotions Women are aroused by emotional excitement Women desire men they can respect Women hate being responsible for bad decisions Women cannot see themselves as being bad
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 07:12 PM
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Women dont wear masks. They wear emotions (and respect). This is why men feel tricked. It is why women will do somethings with some guys and other things with other guys. Its based off the emotions/respect she gets. So why does the casual sex guy get to see a certain behavior than what the LTR guy sees? They both play in to her experiencing different emotions. These are not masks. She is ruled by emotions. Just be the guy that excites her emotionally. FYI: there is no such thing as positive or n…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 06:44 PM
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Examine.com is a great aggregator of clinical studies on alot of supplements. There is soo much incorrect bro-science out there, it helped me cut through the bullshit. All though, for the life of me, i cannot figure out how peppermint essential oil actually works to remove muscle and joint pain. It just does.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 05:37 PM
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Yes but how are you taking DAA? If you take it as an everyday supplement, then your sperm quality goes back to their normal. DAA improves sperm when taken in short cycles.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 02:03 PM
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My numbers where okay. And it was successful on the 2nd attempt. My oldest was born without IVF, but we had 6 cycles before stopping (and then a few months later got pregnant).
/r/askMRP24/04/19 01:09 PM
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Option 4). Take high doses of d-Aspartic Acid (daa) at the start of her period for two weeks. I am talking two 3000mg pills daily. This has been shown to improve quality sperm counts and motility. Studies done on it show that a percentage of infertile men became fertile. But it is only a temporary. That is why I suggest to just do two weeks. Go for 3 months and then take a month break.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 01:05 PM
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Yup.. OP: I love my brother, i only spank the ass of those I dont care about (then proceeds to spank wifes ass with a smirk).
/r/askMRP19/04/19 12:21 PM
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She went ice cold when you went down (soo very unattractive even Erkel would be confused for a chad). Then suddenly gets hot and is pushing (pushing) a ffm on you. There is no likelihood she cheated. It is all but a certainty she cheated.
/r/askMRP19/04/19 12:19 AM
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The advice to go slow is solid, but there have been a few who have successfully pulled off burning the ships on the shore.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/19 02:53 PM
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Yup. Breaks, going poly, or opening up are all variations on the same thing. She wants to branch swing but is unsure of the branch and she wants to ensure you will wait for her to find out. Its that “just in case the branch is rotten and snaps on her”.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:34 AM
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Approach. Get rejected. And keep approaching. It is the only way to build the mental callous up.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:27 AM
1

Yup. Action dates in the early stages of a relationship. Dinner dates happen once there has been more investment.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:20 AM
1

To answer that question, was this always an issue for her or did it develop over time while with you.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:15 AM
2

Women with kids? First priority is to her kids. If they are not, she isnt LTR material. And if you are not her first priority, she is not LTR material.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:54 PM
0

It means nothing.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:10 PM
1

Not true. Even beta orbiters can cause them dread. Essentially it causes the pedestaled girl to throw the orbiter a bone to pull him back in. And yes, this can and does include low quality sex. Dread only doesn't work when the girl being dreaded is about to branch swing or truly believes you are faking it.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:54 PM
9

I wouldnt apply dread. I would apply drop. By turning off her location, she was doing something she didnt want someone to find out. As her boyfriend, it is a good chance it would have been you. Trust was broken and she has shown not to be LTR material. Regardless if she went to see a movie with her girlfriends or she had a date with a potential branch to swing to. You cannot trust her. Dreading her is too late now. Just drop her.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:04 PM
4

Here is what likely happened. She went on a date. Good chance she perceived he had higher SMV before the date, but realized you were better. So you got a nude. For Me personally, turning off location would be being sneaky and she would be gone. Regardless of what actually happened, trust was destroyed. I need to trust my wife/ltr.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:59 PM
6

From the front, and just start talking. Fuck what everyone else thinks, you want her and you went straight for the kill. The boys around would be jealous of your confidence and the girls would be jealous you didnt choose them.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 08:46 PM
1

Always assume attraction. That is until she proves that you are creepy as fuck.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:39 PM
2

She disregarded his feelings. She knew he wanted her and aired it out. Now, my guess is that everyone already knew and chose to never bring it up with him. I personally see it as doing him a favor. She ripped that bandaid off.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 07:32 PM
2

That is only IF he can overcome his blue pilled conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 07:28 PM
2

yup. I doubt he is suddenly going to be reading the sidebar. Even still, he got to experience a red pill truth - that she was not his friend.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 07:26 PM
4

The red pill truth was that he realized that she was not even a good friend and that he wants to cut ties. Now I am aware he is just saying it from the pain. I hope he embraces it and learns something from it to never again think he can be friends with a girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 07:03 PM
2

Or they could actually be tired of the competition for the alpha (or only roping in the fuckboys) that they are willing to sample a beta to see if he is an “alpha in the rough”.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:41 PM
5

To paraphrase something I heard. “You can eat the oreo and then run a mile to burn off the calories, or you can just not eat the fucking oreo”
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:20 PM
6

Not sure physical exercise and caloric reductions work. Surely there must be something to those fad diets that all the other fat people rave about /s
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:10 PM
1

I have chased after two girls. My daughters and it was a ton of fun for us. I dont chase my dog, she obeys my word - everytime.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:52 PM
2

Stalking is the result of extreme oneitis of the target. So yes, a red pilled man could not be a stalker because he should have abundance.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:50 PM
3

Or maybe he was confident enough to approach and easily swatted her shit tests. Which is all it would take for a 7 (which he is) to pull a 9 (which she is).
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:46 PM
4

Okay. Being good looking is like dick size. It helps, but it isn’t necessary. As long as your looks (and size) are average you can pull girls. Sure it will take more work if you are a 7 to get a 9, bit you can still get them. Why? Because it is only one characteristic that women find attractive. And it isnt a major one at that. Women need to be emotionally excited. She could be emotionally bored with Adonis, and leave him for Cooter or Bubba because they excite her. Sure Adonis has the looks, mo…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:44 PM
1

You dont have to be mean to have a quick wit. Agree and amplify would have served you just fine.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:17 PM
7

That is what I was thinking. He doesnt understand the concept of plates. Instead he got himself a girlfriend.
/r/askMRP09/04/19 01:22 AM
2

Username does not checkout. Should read “WhiteKnightAli”
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:37 PM
2

Textbook red pill of the OP. Creep stare her from across the room and then STFU when she approaches./s
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:35 PM
3

65lbs from the sounds of it. Just enough to get his feet under the bar.
/r/askMRP08/04/19 06:30 PM
2

Try reading Bang by RooshV. Its a sidebar book for Christ sake!
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:18 PM
8

It wasnt the alcohol. Its usually called liquid courage, not liquid pussy.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:16 PM
0

Life. Its out there and better than making prestige master in the latest COD or whatever you played.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:12 PM
2

He is an idiot for believing she only dropped off weed. That is what your buddies do, not some girl you snapchat and says she wants your dick.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:10 PM
8

Problem #1 - your wife doesnt respect you. Are you someone you would respect? Problem #2 - your wife isn’t attracted to you. Are you someone you would fuck,seriously? Problem #3 - your wife has a side piece (sounds like she is a lesbian). To your benefit - your wife will allow you to fuck her still. And even will put on something sexy for you. There is that. Your wife likes the life she has with you. Where she doesnt have to see you or sleep with you. She is willing to just give you sex to keep …
/r/askMRP08/04/19 05:04 PM
8

We know OPs wife is giving him low quality sex (if any at all) and that she asked him for an open relationship. OP is so dense, he saw that as a great thing. He needs to learn that a wife asking to open the relationship is worse than her saying “I love you, but am not in love with you.” The latter signifies she is ending it. The former says “ I will fuck men, but not you. You will keep my life safe and be plan b until i no longer need a plan b.” Wives say this when they believe their betas cant …
/r/askMRP08/04/19 04:17 PM
1

Read the sidebar and never heard of frame or game? Did you know you were supposed to click the links?
/r/askMRP06/04/19 09:03 PM
4

Aside from the spiritual that RC laid out. I would state: Make decisions and stick to them Own your mistakes Be responsible for what you have authority over Don't let emotion or fear rule you Always be learning and improving Lift If you see something that needs doing, do it
/r/RPChristians05/04/19 10:20 PM
2

No. It isnt a silver bullet. It is the base for the building that is the masculine version of your self. It is one part of many. And the benefits are more than just aesthetic and strength. It helps build discipline. It helps build confidence. It is an outlet for your frustration. I had your marriage.
/r/RPChristians05/04/19 09:57 PM
2

Marriage has rules?
/r/askMRP05/04/19 09:42 PM
1

You have no relationship with a plate beyond the physical. This is not the case with an LTR. LTRs earn the right to experience life with you. That means you do those commitment type things like meeting her friends/family, having sleep overs, and including her as part of your responsibilities.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:07 PM
1

Try something novel. Start doing masculine things. Start owning your shit. Get busy doing things. Men Do afterall. I believe a lot of guys get depressed because they are not living to their potential and they know it. They cheat and or cut corners in life. Just like women get depressed when they dont have emotional excitement in their lives.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:58 PM
10

Men should be abstaining from marriage. Then they dont have to worry about getting divorce raped.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:36 AM
7

Marriage is tilted in one direction, because of no fault divorce. A man can end up losing up to 80% of his salary, with zero return on the whim of his wife. Your wife assaults you, you go to jail. Your wife lies about you, you go to jail. She completely ruins your capacity to earn a living doing such things. And then you cannot pay her spousal/child support. So you are stuck in a cycle you cannot get out of. And the courts do not care, because you are a male. That is why TRP advocates for not ge…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:35 AM
4

I read an article about a study that looked at these DNA sites. It found that in 1st world countries, about one in 5 kids born in a marriage didnt belong to the husband. Australia had the highest percentage in at close to 30%. The US was at 22%. Paternity testing should be mandatory before birth and can be done during the amnio.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 03:15 AM
14

It should be more along these lines: Be willing to leave Maintain the appropriate dread levels Always have the plan and make the decisions. (This doesnt mean you dont consider them in your decision making)
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 10:16 PM
3

I dont think “redpilled” men fear MGTOW. Most of the guys go “redpill” as a means of PUA. They dont understand that becoming redpilled means understanding the actual rules of the game of life. The tactics that are applied (trp, mrp, rpc, MGTOW, even InCel to some extent) are different but based off of playing by the real rules. Those kids are not really red pilled men. Case in point, i made a comment in the asktrp sub about going to the gym and working on them selves while ignoring the girls who…
/r/RPChristians30/03/19 09:23 PM
3

If you are looking for a marriage, it is pretty solid advice. Only thing he missed was to date alot of women. Find out what you like and want. But understand that bait and switch is a real thing. Alot of women change when they get a ring on their finger and or pop out a trophy of yours. I have to ask though, there really is very little advantage for a man to get married. The only valid reason I see for marriage is raising your kids in a stable loving environment. Other than that, the risk is not…
/r/askMRP29/03/19 05:00 PM
4

Women are dream killers. So very true. The hardest part of all the unplugging for me was learning to dream again. You cant follow your dreams if you dont have any.
/r/askMRP29/03/19 04:48 PM
-5

That is pathetic. That tells me you are either ego lifting or not lifting heavy enough. Forget the pussy parade and work on you while at the gym.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 04:29 PM
5

Male alpha widows are those poor saps who found a unicorn. Gave them their all, while she goes out, parties and ends up sleeping with every member of the college football defensive line that night. Then comes home to the poor sap and is too tired (or saving herself for marriage) to have sex with him.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:09 PM
4

I am not the OP. I am good.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:46 PM
9

There are no 10s. Every girl has flaws.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:27 PM
11

Damn people! Why are soo many upset at her disrespect when we should be bitch slapping the beta out of the OP. She was a tinderella from out of town. She was looking for two things. Fill her belly and fill her vagina. Clearly the OP was only there to fill her belly. She knew it and that is why she had no issue giving the 40 year old her number to fill the other. Her reply to the OP’s butthurt text clearly showed she got what she was after from OP and waited for the 40 year old to text her for he…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:11 PM
31

Smashed her. She was on tinder and from “out of town”. She wasted no time in getting the OP to buy her a meal and went after the 40 year old, who showed no fear in ordering drinks for both of them. She probably fucks a guy or two every time she travels. Or at the very least, gets them to buy her a meal and drinks. Good chance she has a guy/beta provider at home as well.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:00 PM
6

You are correct. My disagreement was with being alpha 100% comment you made. I was just trying to show that you can be 100% alpha and maintain an LTR. But it centers around the definition of alpha. Also, some say you have to infuse beta traits, but there are beta ways of handling things alpha ways of handling the same thing. Just like doing the dishes. If you are doing the dishes to impress her - beta. But if you do the dishes because you want ti keep a clean house - alpha. The truth is that wom…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:00 PM
2

The post drips of pedestalled oneitis. He caught his hot polish wife, flirting with a chad and does not know what to do? He should have drawn up her walking papers then waste his time posting this crap.
/r/askMRP18/03/19 05:46 PM
4

Hello hamster! If she was flirting, the intention was there. Even if she didnt spread her legs, she was testing him to see if he could moisten her nethers while keeping you as Mr Traveling Beta Provider. Your job gives her time and opportunity to get that Alpha Fucks excitement.
/r/askMRP18/03/19 05:41 PM
10

I disagree. If your version of being an alpha is what they get from watching captive wolves, then you are not actually an alpha. You are just an asshole. Alpha’s in the wild are not the same as captive wolves. They are respected by their pack. Not feared. Women in LTR/marriages are looking for that type of alpha. They settle for the BB/AF strategy as a means to get what they want. But make no mistake, they want a true alpha (wild wolf) and not some fake alpha wannabe (captive wolf). When you are…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:22 PM
1

I am going to break with everyone. You don’t flat out point them to red pill. But there is no harm in telling them: “You be honest, it would be worse if they find out you lied or tried to cover it up”. Or to drop other RP truths here or there. Those are the little breadcrumbs that can lead them to a much more satisfying life.
/r/askMRP16/03/19 04:15 PM
5

Its not that they thrive without regard to the rules. Its that they are not faking it. Which is what following the “rules” actually helps with doing. It is that faking it until your making it. What you do not get is why lifting is so heavily encouraged in RP circles. It is because it develops true discipline. It develops a strong hard and ripped body. It builds true self confidence and people tend to look to big strong males for leadership. Genetically inferior faces mean very little to women ov…
/r/RPChristians08/03/19 04:18 AM
3

Find a good power rack, 7ft Olympic barbell, curlbar that takes Olympic plates, and a good adjustable bench. As for weights, I started with 250 lbs of plates and have since added plates or a set of hex dumbbells when I have the extra cash. You want a power rack that will let you do squats, rack pulls, bench press, shoulder press, and pull ups. I wouldn’t cheap out to much on this part. The rest is easier to replace with better equipment later.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 04:40 AM
23

Depends on the boundary. If you don't want someone eating chips in bed, you should let them know. But an LTR should have enough common sense to not go on a date (or something that can be misconstrued as one) with another male while in a relationship. If she doesn't, then she isn't LTR material and the OPs response was appropriate.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:34 PM
109

My epiphany was more like.. Girls mature faster than boys, but stop at 15. Boys mature slower, but keep maturing until 30.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 07:19 PM
99

Too harsh? I don't know. There was a level of disrespect for meeting another man for a coffee date with out thinking about you. If that is a red line for you, your reaction was appropriate. What did or did not happen doesn't matter because that was the red line that was crossed. ​
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:13 PM
1

They do not treat the kid any different then their other ones. To them, they are all the same. You can read plenty of stories about unwitting cucks whose kids found out via AncestryDNA or 23andME tests. One man happily married for 30 years found out when the daughters confronted their mother and him. He was completely clueless to the fact that his 20 year old girls actually belong to the neighbors. They were several years apart. The wife confessed right then and there, in tears no less. It is es…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:38 PM
5

AthleanX is a good one to show you good form and educate you on what works. I also like Buff Dudes and Jeff Nippard.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:29 PM
4

But he is a desperate virgin
/r/askTRP19/02/19 07:27 PM
3

In this case I took my shower much earlier than usual so we could have some fun Was that a contract you had? I workout from 9-11 most nights. So I shower because of that. Not because I am hoping for sex or a blow job. If i want a blowjob, i will tell my wife I want one. More often then not, i get one. If I don't, no big deal to me. Same thing goes for sex. If I want it, she will know. She can say no. But that is rare as well. Starfish duty sex is rare nowadays. You have to work on yourself and i…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 05:31 PM
-3

There are guys out there right now who would gladly piss on your marriage just to get some mediocre pussy. Who says its mediocre? I prefer the more curvy female form of a size 10-14 over the been pole of a size 0-4. I like to feel the meat of their ass in my hands and not her pelvic bone. And there are millions of guys who like what I like. His wife will be very well taken care of by us in bed. ​
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 05:24 PM
3

The interpretation is simple... unconditional love doesn't exist in females for their mates. They love what you currently are, and what you bring to the table. But the second you're no benefit anymore, she'll bail. Ms Jackson explains Briffault's Law perfectly - "What have you done for me lately?"
/r/askMRP19/02/19 05:08 PM
1

Briffault's law
/r/askMRP19/02/19 05:07 PM
10

I think you are missing the mark here. You are the captain of the ship, your destination is determined whether she is on board or not. She doesn't even determine the starting point. Only thing she determines is if and when she will get on board. ​ ​
/r/askMRP19/02/19 02:44 PM
1

There is a reason that MRP is hard mode.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:54 PM
2

You do realize that you can be red pilled and married right?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 02:30 PM
30

Glorifies or educates how to use it for your own needs? There is no glory in hypergamy. Maybe glory holes. But not glory.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:45 PM
1

It’s the most expensive day to eat out, and the biggest frame trap. and If you’re in an LTR, that’s when you have to choose. I have done that... Date on Valentines to an above the usual restaurant. It was nice, unoriginal, and emotionally boring for her. I also would buy a semi expensive gift and the standard bouquet of roses. Now, some of what have done is pick up chicken wings, taken her down the beach to watch the moon rise surrounded by several candles in mason jars. Tonight is fondue on my …
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:38 PM
8

Has TheRedPill made your life happier? Absolutely. I get more of what I want and have quit getting mentally abused by my own covert contracts. I know that my potential is only limited by myself. On top of all that, I know that when I want to get laid, my wife is very enthusiastic about her body becoming my playground. ​
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:52 PM
3

No. She gets my time and attention.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:42 PM
7

She just wants to be the center of the TRP bukake party.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:40 PM
3

And if you play your cards just right you may even get lucky! I got her a $3k set of diamond earings with matching necklace. So that means I get to cuddle and rub her feet! ​
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:23 PM
7

He says one of my favorite quotes... It’s so easy to be great nowadays, because everyone else is weak.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/19 03:44 PM
7

Why dont you first grow a beard instead of surgery?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:41 AM
1

It's along the lines of a play/opera. Literally don't even know what it is really. In another context this would be considered a fairly classy date, but we're just going because we need the credit and don't want to go alone. Not a great first date to stand out. Will definitely get you into a conversation with her. If she is into that sort of thing (theater), then it could be an emotional experience for her. But just like she is the driver, you are just along for the ride. The first few dates sho…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:05 PM
6

I would go in this order... The Rational Male Book of Pook (This should be on your list) 48 Laws of Power Then I would look at your top weakness and work from there. If it is financial Rich Dad Poor Dad Millionaire Next Door If it is Social Models How to Win Friends If it is controlling your emotions Subtle art of not giving a fuck Meditations by Marcus Aurelius (another should be on your list) If it is sexual mastery The Sex God Method If it is finding direction Mindful Attraction Plan by Athol…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:58 PM
3

I've found that a few times I've been failing in a different way when my wife makes reasonable requests. To me a reasonable request is.. me.. Going to store her.. pick up "this" please ​ What is not a reasonable request is.. Me (get up and grab a drink and I sit back down) Her.. Why didn't you get me a drink? ​ I was being a sarcastic prick. My wife pointed it out, and she was right. One day, my wife called me an ass over text. So I sent her a gif of a dancing donkey shaking his ass with a singl…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 09:48 PM
5

I have an LTR and obviously this does not reflect well on me. It’s a big hit to my status, etc etc. How do I go about telling her? You own it and let her know that you have a plan for this type of event. But first, have you prepared for this type of contingency (i.e. savings)? Do you have a network of people to reach out that you can pull job leads from? Have you already contacted other companies? ​ Is there any way my now former employer could dispute me signing up for unemployment? Companies d…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:54 PM
2

She shows alot of interest in terms of texting me and wanting to hangout. Wow.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 03:50 PM
3

Because she doesn't value, and want to be with, you enough to have just blocked him and ignore him. Girls who want to be with a man move heaven and earth to be with them, forsaking everything (including their own children) for just one night. How am I a beta orbiter All it took for you to put her on a pedestal to bow down to is a few weeks of sex and dates.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 03:48 PM
2

My girlfriend This she is not. A few weeks doesn't make a girlfriend. And a girl that wants to see other men, should definitely not be "girlfriend" material to you.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 03:32 PM
2

Yeah but it still bugs me why a girl will show no interest over texting or calling. But willingly hangout with this guy. that is because you do not know anything about them. Read the damn sidebar, it has lots of info about the intersexual relationships between men and women. Then you will see that the fact that you have been dating this girl a few weeks and wants to see her "ex" one last time is a bad thing for you. Why? Not because she is going to fuck him, but because it shows that you are of …
/r/askTRP08/02/19 03:30 PM
4

Is there genuinely anything I can do to prevent her from hooking up with him? No. For fucks sake bro, you sound like you have her on a podium and you are bowing down to her. You have only been dating her for a few weeks and she has already figured out you are going to be a beta orbiter to her and will just string you along from this point on. Just tell her to go have fun, and then go find other girls.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 03:25 PM
2

Yup, they sound like a headache.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 04:24 AM
5

Didn't get passed the title. Ex wives are someone else's problem.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:14 PM
6

Because wrinkles, lines, marks etc etc are natures way of communicating to a mans DNA that she doesn’t have many good years left. I am going to beg to differ here. I think it is because of the partying and the sun worshiping they have done when they are younger. There is a reason why asian women tend to age slowly compared to western women. Also my middle age wife looks younger than most 35 year old women. She has barely a hint of a wrinkle on her face because she would burn instead of tan so sh…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 09:28 PM
1

A proper loving D/s relationship is beautiful in its simplicity. I stand corrected.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 09:05 PM
14

I would remove my attention and affection thinking I’m “punishing bad behavior” I hate this thinking. Mainly because you shouldn't be punishing grown adults for bad behavior. That entails you are trying to change them. You remove attention solely because you will not tolerate disrespectful behavior, not as a means to punish them. If another guy shows you disrespect, you cut them as friends. The only difference is that with your LTR/Wife is you allow them grace to apologize and fix themselves. I …
/r/askMRP07/02/19 07:47 PM
2

You can love women if you want. I love my wife. It is more just an understanding that the woman will not love you back.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 09:14 PM
3

I'm just pointing out that I don't see in the OP where he set a boundary about this rather than just making his opinion clear. Am I missing something? He stated it in the comment I replied to... From his comment... It’s a boundary of mine. Maybe not yours. But it is of mine. I don’t like it. And I told her when she asked ​
/r/askMRP06/02/19 08:55 PM
2

Says more than that. God blesses alpha behavior throughout the bible and curses beta behavior throughout as well. On top of that, several times God tells people to Act like Men. Proverbs 31 is a Mom's instruction to her son to be an Alpha (who maintains control over himself) and what type of woman he should look for.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:13 PM
1

There is an RP subreddit dedicated to christrian red pill - RPChristian. TRP is amoral and is strictly about guidelines in how to live the life you want in the world as it is today. That tactics that are suggested,have proven to work best at achieve the mental state to be successful at your mission. Spinning plates, for example works to keep you unattached. To keep your frame of mind that you have multiple options and that you can easily drop one option and swap out another. That is called Abund…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:08 PM
1

Initially I recommend 5x5 Stronglifts as you will see gains on the bar quickly. That way you are not discouraged by the slow grinding progress of lifting. After 6 months, hit up the fitness subreddit to find a more advanced lifting routine after you have built up your strength.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:59 PM
1

Because when I force myself to do something and for example I feel better after going to gym and it lasts for 1-2 hours and after sadness kicks back in anyway, maybe it's because of all ^ That is the acute spike of testosterone you get from working out. My guess is that your depression is more related the fact you are not accomplishing anything, and you do not feel like a man. But what do i know, i am not a licensed therapist who is guided by the APA to treat masculinity as severe mental illness…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:52 PM
5

TRP: Women are indecisive I find this to actually be a misunderstanding. They are not indecisive. They are fully capable of making decisions. What they do like is having the responsibility for making a bad decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 07:07 PM
7

Women do not love men. They love what men can do to them or for them. I expect respect from my wife, not love. All that blue pill lovey dovey shit does is disappoint and fuck with a man. But a wife that respects her husband, does so because she sees him as man.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 06:56 PM
1

That is my wife's checklist for my daughters. I actually let them dress a bit less "conservative."
/r/askMRP06/02/19 05:45 PM
2

Okay, So I am like you. I don't like thongs nor string bikinis. They lose there sexiness. But here is where I differ from you. I know it is a preference of mine, you made it a boundary. As such I have picked out sexy outfits for my wife that I like. She also learned to understand that what drives me wild is my own imagination (yet I have seen her naked thousands of times already).
/r/askMRP06/02/19 05:42 PM
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Edit- Also I love that name so much “hey Zeus” - you’re being called god in two languages Sadly, that depends on the dialect. Sometime it is the author of the Cat in the Hat.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 05:35 PM
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One section of the book talks about wives not not being physically aroused by their husbands, and moreover that they would NEVER be aroused by their husbands. That may be the case for beta hubby that hasn't seen the inside of a gym in decades, but watching women when their favorite Hollywood star comes on screen will quickly show you that this isn't true for all men. I know what it feels like to have a wife not get arroused by you. It drove me insane and almost ended my marriage. If i read that …
/r/RPChristians06/02/19 05:35 AM
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TIL that Reddit would win at Jeopardy.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:30 AM
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The Hello Kitty sidebar
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:43 AM
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Sidebar. Read it quickly. then read it again much more slowly. While you are doing that, lift. Lift heavy, and lift often.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:27 PM
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I understand that they are in fact women first. I will be playful with them, but I never turn it sexual. I also let them grab their own emergency floating device. I may toss it out to them, but I am certainly not going to do their job for them when they are in a pinch. They can sink or swim just like everyone else.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:24 PM
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Be your own frame of reference. Be authentic and not fake. This post smacks of.. "i am not good enough, let me be someone else" kind of Nice Guy chameleonism.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:08 PM
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I have done the 16/8 IF (12pm to 8pm window). I then had plenty of energy to lift when I hit the gym at 9pm. On a side note, I would do fasted cardio in the morning as well.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 04:02 PM
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If the OP has a signed contract, then backing out may very well trigger a breach of contract lawsuit, Have you ever bought a house? There is typically a clause that lets you back out. Of course you would lose your deposit if you do, but it isn't a breach of contract. Source - I bought a house last year and my sister had to back out of a house she was going to buy a few years back.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 03:52 PM
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I have heard good things about Jocko Willink's Way of the Warrior series. Not sure how biblical it is as I do not have boys, so I have no need to buy it.
/r/RPChristians05/02/19 02:21 PM
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stress mutes your motivations and makes you their bitch Sorry bro, but that is fear that does that. ​
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:42 PM
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Discipline is freedom. Just like Jocko Willink says, "Don't count on motivation, count on discipline"
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:38 PM
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Been going to the gym only about four months. When I started going to the gym, I had to bench the bar. 4 months in and I was benching sets of 155 lbs. Bench is my weak point, always hurts left shoulder. Your form is like your frame - shit. Get some help and work on your form. Most Gymbros would help a noob like you if you ask. Have muscles like when I was 22 and working hard at landscaping job. You barely lift, where did this magic muscle come from?
/r/askMRP04/02/19 05:06 AM
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It takes a lot longer than 8 months, so settle the fuck down. It does, but for him it will take a decade or more with the amount of effort he has given in 8 months.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 04:56 AM
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All the while, were buying a fucking house. Shut it down. Better to lose the down payment then to have to pay half the mortgage in a house you cannot live in. She said she has to "live with me because she has no money and has to take care of the kids but that doesn't mean were together". "I'm only with you because I have no choice." Thank her for taking care of your kids while you get some tinderella to brighten up your evenings. It's constant bickering, I know it's my fault, drunk captain, no r…
/r/askMRP04/02/19 04:46 AM
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My coaching philosophy: secular observations (Red Pill) & extensive writings, and Holy Scripture, are (shockingly enough) in complete agreement! I am a bit confused as to why that would shock you. God designed men and women. He knows how it is all supposed to work.
/r/RPChristians04/02/19 02:24 AM
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You do not punish anyone, especially to force them to change. What kind of retard are you? If someone gives you that level of disrespect, it is because they do not want what you offer. You should just cut or demote them out of your life.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 05:25 AM
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I had that problem. Then I realized that i was the only one laughing at my quick wit. Now I am bit too glib at times.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 05:17 AM
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Okay. I was thinking about the guys that watch their wives get fucked by a group of other guys and then they clean up after with their tongue. But I think yours top that.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 05:16 AM
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> I can't stand gyms, hate the vibe, hate the music and the contracts. My solution.. power rack in my garage. But everyone has their own solutions to their own problems.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 09:28 PM
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That actually sounds good. Haven't had that in some time.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 09:26 PM
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Move on and spin other plates. Yes that is what he should have done after the 1st time. But in the post he clearly stated that he didn't have much luck, except for with this girl. Poor guy takes a blue pill after every meal.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 09:21 PM
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There is a level of disrespect there. However everyone is focused on her offering great BJs and then later not fulfilling. No body even mentioned that this beta blue pill popper dropped all that he was doing, to retrieve her wallet and return it to her. So in fact, she was giving her little blue pilled boyfriend the equivalent of a pat on the head and saying "good boy for fetching mommy's purse." Which he obviously deserved.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 07:17 PM
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that theory makes no sense to me. Whether she knows or not means nothing. You are thinking logically. For her it is enough that she needs you to finish inside her and not down her throat. Firing blanks doesn't stop that need. ​
/r/askTRP01/02/19 07:11 PM
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Is it a covert contract to expect her to keep her word and get pissed when she doesn’t follow through? That is the very definition of covert contract. Instead, treat it as a joke. Next time she gives you one, say with a smirk something like " That was good, now you owe me one less blow job." If she asks, "how much does she owe?" tell her that you are collecting interest and she should go back down for more to catch up. On another note... Why the fuck did you go and retrieve her purse like a litt…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 07:06 PM
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I can fake it Why would you fake it? You should be your authentic self. About a week into my new red-pilled life, my wife started nagging me about the way I was doing the dishes. For whatever reason I do not recall, I was in a good mood. I looked at her angry face and walked up to her. I grabbed her hips and actually pulled her in close. she was shocked as I didn't snap back at her. Instead I planted a kiss on her lips, then went back to finish up the dishes. She stood there for a minute, unsure…
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 06:45 PM
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The Light Switch Effect can best be summed up with this dose of feminine logic. Bad people cheat on those they love. I cheated on my man. I am not a bad person. I must not have ever loved my man.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:12 PM
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Big difference between you and the OP. You gave her the book. It was entirely your idea and she gets to pick when to use them. This was the OP's idea to force his wife into On Demand blowjobs. It can lead to DB style duty "oral" sex. His best bet is to continue to use it as a playful prop when she spontaneously goes down on him. Perhaps he can pull out a $10 bill and tell her "Here is something extra because I am going to use you as my meat puppet" when he does use that coupon.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 05:10 PM
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I now have 5 “Happy Ending Vouchers” in my pocket, we had a great, productive day together, and I’m getting ready to cash some of them bitches in! Then throw them away or use them to continue on as a playful joke. But have zero expectation of ever using them as an "On Demand" blow job. ​
/r/askMRP01/02/19 05:03 PM
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Cheating is a hard fucking next. Period. 0 kids or 10. I cannot understand why anyone would take back a cheating whore. Majority of men cheat for seeking the validation they do not get at home. Women on the other hand cheat for one of two reasons. ​ 1) Their husband is Mr Beta Bucks and they NEED an alpha fuck every now and then (they have zero intention of leaving their beta bucks husbands) 2) They are looking to branch swing to a better male. ​ Both cases should make the guy realize that she h…
/r/askMRP01/02/19 04:44 PM
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Does the oak never react Not reacting is the very definition of being an oak. As for punishment, it isn't punishment to withdraw attention. If you are doing it to change a grown adult, you are sorely mistaken. You withdraw attention because you have better things to do, then worry about why she is being cold and distant or to get involved in a discussion with disrespectful people. If they are showing you disrespect, it is because you allow it. How you do not allow it, is you cut them out of your…
/r/askMRP30/01/19 04:05 PM
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I’m not seeing a victim puke here Its a lot of "she did this" and "she did that." None victim puke would have looked like this.. My girl has gotten a little cold and distant and started with some boundary testing bitchiness. The latest was when I was working in a cell hole and didn't respond fast enough to her texts. She called up pissed demanding where I was and what I was doing. So I said " I’m not going to be in a relationship like this, so call me when you’re ready to be a good (aka not cunt…
/r/askMRP30/01/19 02:51 PM
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> and take all the expenses on my own I getting me frustrated. Are you paying for all of the expenses as well? Nothing wrong with that if your wife is like mine - a Stay At Home Mom who homeschools. If not. Why is she not paying her half?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/19 09:39 PM
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1 Cor 6:18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. What happens to your body from PMO is evidence of the effects of that sin against ones own body. You need to develop better self control and you need to find a better outlet for your anxiety.
/r/RPChristians26/01/19 05:33 PM
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I guess my current strategy isn’t working Then fix your self. Become a better version of you and go after what you want, not what your special pretty unicorn says she wants you to be.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:21 PM
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Would building some muscle help or is it a total waste of my time? You lift for you. Not to get your wife to have sex with you. I ’m fully understand her perspective You know nothing of her perspective. A woman who wants you will not care if she is super exhausted (which by the way is deadbedroom womanese for... NO I WILL NOT FUCK YOU). Thanks for letting me know your experience/any advice. You should be on the askMRP subreddit. But I will warn you, they do not care about your marriage. They are…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:19 PM
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Yup, this is an entirely MRP post.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:10 PM
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Can you access sidebar on mobile? Yes. To access the sidebar you need to go to the subreddit, tap the 3 dots icon at the top right, and tap "Community Info". ​
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:05 PM
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Cassie Jaye, the director/producer to the film "The Red Pill" She started it as a way of showing how bad toxic masculinity. But the process of filming it opened her eyes. It was an interesting watch and it does show that feminists can in fact "see the light".
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 08:53 PM
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he has bigger things to work on than her. Absolutely agree. I see it as more of a fire and forget missile. But I also believe in full exposure rather than be the butt of salacious rumors and to minimize her efforts at damage control. The masculine men who got cheated on usually are calm, cool, and collected in the way they have notified their whores. It usually is very Ice Cold. Even still, they let the OM spouse know and the HR of their company (if they are coworkers). They bring everything out…
/r/askMRP25/01/19 07:38 PM
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For me it’s the fact that everyone wants something from you, whether stranger, friend, or parent. Similar. They all want to take and never want to give. It is because of this that I realized that I need to respect myself and cut out those who don't respect me. I am much happier because of it. I also no longer sacrifice my needs for someone else in the hope that they would provide it back. ​ Now I know this.. Relationships are give and take. I know what I am providing has value, If the return I g…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:24 PM
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What does he stand to gain from this? Self Respect.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 06:15 PM
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That depends on the situation. In the OPs case, the other guy clearly was only using the OPs wife. When she gave him an ultimatum (she wanted to leave the OP), he chose his own wife and family over her. Based on similar reactions to getting exposed in the infidelity subs, the cheaters usually turn their anger on their affair partners. There is a high chance the other guy will blame his new found problems on the OPs wife for not keeping this between them.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 06:09 PM
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It isn't oneitis to analyze your failure. Just as long as you learn from why you failed so you do not repleat it.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 04:19 PM
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Yes it was a test. My response is "Depends, what do you consider loads of girls" then when she replies with an approximation my shocked response is "You consider that a lot?"
/r/askTRP25/01/19 04:18 PM
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He also helped her sweep the affair under a rug and is trying really damn hard to forget it happened.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 04:12 PM
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Think of it like this, you have a vase and you drop it and it shatters. You can do the best job you have of gluing that vase back together so that no one ever knows it broke, but the cracks will always be there and the vase is that much more fragile. Just walk. That is exactly my thoughts on adultery.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 04:09 PM
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What’s going to happen is she will act all lovey dovey to him and throw that pink tang on him like never before - she’s afraid of losing her family and being outted as a whore to her friends and family- and OP will get roped back in. That is called a pussy coma.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 04:06 PM
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She hid from you that she was trying to branch swing with another man. When he refused to leave his wife (because he just wanted to sink his big cock in your wife's wet and willing cunt) when she issued the ultimatum, she lamented that she had to break it off with him. She was probably hoping that if she disappeared, he would see that he really wanted her and decided to leave his wife for her. But you caught her and she was scared because Plan A (Him) failed and now Plan B (You) might be gone to…
/r/askMRP25/01/19 03:46 PM
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because in my mind playing along ... maybe worth it. Let me give you a visual of what she did with him. Every time they fucked, it was with him and 30 of his buddies. At no point did she ever have less than 4 dicks in her (sometimes more). Ass to mouth with every dick. After getting railed by 31 guys, and with cum flowing out of every orifice, including her nostril, she would laugh and tell them all the stories of how pathetic you are in the sack. Of how you beg for sex and she gives you scraps.…
/r/askMRP25/01/19 03:33 PM
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WTF! Who cares if she knows! As a consequence of her actions, it is all open on your side. It is part of your plan to determine if you want to stay married or get divorced from her.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 03:22 PM
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She will definitely be happy with that. She got to ride a strange dick and he gets to pay all the consequences of her actions. That would keep her from doing it again.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 03:08 PM
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Did you atleast tell her that you are taking time to decide between divorce and reconciliation? And during that "decision" time, your vows to her are null and void. However, if she wants to reconcile she has to all the heavy lifting (i.e. no fucking other men)? Honestly, your wife looks more like she is trying to sweep her affair under the rug and you are holding up the corner. decide whether i will start meeting other women without her knowing and pull the trigger at the right time. Why do you …
/r/askMRP25/01/19 03:05 PM
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Honesty actually gets you further (I give interviews and usually can smell when someone is bull shitting me).
/r/askTRP24/01/19 10:09 PM
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You don't lie. you own it. "I was let go because I got sick and missed too many days. They couldn't keep the position open for when I got better." If it was your first job then it was doubtful you would have been an important cog in the wheels of business. You more than likely were extremely replaceable. The interviewer should understand that. ​
/r/askTRP24/01/19 10:07 PM
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Perhaps, but I prefer to do it all at once when you first confront. It is far more cold and calculated.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 08:54 PM
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As for your wife - AWALT - the guy that says never is a fool. I didn't say never. As for what you feel is emotional. Guess what, fuck with my kids and I will aggressively defend them. That is called being a father. I don't give a shit if that is "redpilled" or not. I am not going to shrug my shoulders to that. This guy did that to the OP and his kids. He should tell that guy's wife and leave him with the fallout. My question is why so many care about the well being of that douchebag?
/r/askMRP24/01/19 08:53 PM
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You locked eyes. He felt threatened in front of his girl,so he will instinctively react aggressively. I remember watching a video of this big guy walking up to a little guy at a bar and taking his beer and drinking it. All the guys with girls acted aggressively to the disrespect. You sir, just did the same thing.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:32 PM
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Stay mum to the situation and don’t confront her. Don’t show your cards. Consult attorney. Get your shit in order. Evaluate, plan, then execute decisively. You do realize that is what I advocate. But I am including burning both the wife and her walking dildo to the ground when you do execute.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 06:26 PM
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I am advocating being calm, cold, and calculating. There is a time and a scenario to just walk away, and a time and scenario to burn that shit to the ground. The OP needs to burn it to the ground and just walk away. No talking to the wife except for logistics regarding his kids.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 06:24 PM
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Was at bible study last night. During the conversation, one older man told this story: His son came to him and asked him if he loved mommy. He responded, "Of course I do, why would you ask that?" the son replied, "Because I always see my friend's mom and dad kissing and hugging and you two don't do that?" He answered back, "We do that, but it is only for the bedroom?" I cringed and my wife later told me that she thought I was going to say or do something. She knows my thoughts are, children feel…
/r/RPChristians24/01/19 06:16 PM
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More women go to church then men. So the solution is to pander to those filling the seats. As a result, Men do not like to continue being told they suck. Especially by "God" from the pulpit. This leads to an even greater disparity in the sexes sitting in the pews.
/r/RPChristians24/01/19 06:07 PM
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I never had the anger phase. My guess is that I was tired of being angry. Angry at my wife who would starfish me at best. Angry that no one would help me. Angry that all anyone did was take from me and no one ever gave back. Just plain old angry at everything. The night I swallowed the pill, the scales fell off my eyes and I saw that I was the one who was at fault for allowing those circumstances to continue. I don't blame anyone for my former BP programming because they do not know any better. …
/r/RPChristians24/01/19 06:03 PM
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It isn't emotional and quite rational. She flipped your world inside out without a single care. You crush her and then leave. Who cares that she is the mother of your children, she didn't give a rats ass about turning their lives inside out either. As for the other man not being your enemy, that depends. If it was a one night hookup, then I agree. But she had a relationship with him and there was no doubt he knew she was married. At that point he became the enemy who intentionally hurt your fami…
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:58 PM
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Law 15 - Totally crush your enemy. You want her to totally regret her decision to fuck another man. Nothing says that like letting everyone know she is a whore. If they are co-workers, then inform their HR as they have policies against that. Tell her family (the sister already knows), tell your family, and if the kids are old enough tell them straight out. Telling his wife will blow up his life and he will turn his anger on your wife (This is because he only wanted her ass and not her, otherwise…
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:42 PM
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Make a plan. When it is said that around 20% of husbands in 1st world countries believe that the children are theirs (and are not) then this should always be part of a married man's MAP (I believe I read a report that Australia has the highest amount of unwitting cucks with 22%). It should be consistently updated and left fluid.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:35 PM
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I just want back the family as it was The family as it was, was nothing but a lie. The truth is you ARE her Plan B in case Plan A only wanted to get his dick wet. She gave zero fucks about her family. What your MAP should look like: 1) Consult Lawyer and get an immediate separation agreement drawn up 2) Print out the SMS messages (keep a copy of backup and paper in safe location outside the house) 3) Buy new locks for the house 4) Take her out and have a sitter for the whole night 5) Have a frie…
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:21 PM
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Same. PPL 4 days a week. But I do legs on my Pull days.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 09:55 PM
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either that or the OP is just a jealous incel and is projecting onto the "beta orbiter."
/r/askTRP23/01/19 09:45 PM
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um what? Your mother doesn't care if you are alpha or beta. Her reaction is almost entirely evidence of the Female Hive Mentality.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 09:40 PM
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I never knew the goal of MGTOW is to become the unibomber
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 08:51 PM
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Have a look. Look for gems. ​ You mean like "Fist bumps for farting" ​ ​
/r/askMRP23/01/19 08:04 PM
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Aromatase Inhibitors are a form of estrogen blockers in that they help prevent the creation of estrogen. However there are other estrogen blockers that prevent the use of estrogen. I would consult a doctor about taking them together and any adverse effects there would be from doing so.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:40 PM
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It is if you take a lot of it in its alcoholic form - Red Wine. Examine.com (which collects the various lab test results) never mentioned anything about adverse effects to the liver.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:31 PM
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Book of Pook. It is a sidebar read.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 10:12 PM
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Then use that time to devour the sidebar and get to work making a better version of yourself.
/r/askMRP22/01/19 09:28 PM
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The only herbal supplement that actually increases your test levels is DHEA. it is also considered a PED and is most likely a banned substance if you play sports (NCAA bans it I believe). With that being said, it also increases your estrogen levels and prolonged use can cause you to go into adrenal failure. Take it with an estrogen blocker or an aromatase inhibitor if you do. On a side note. Reseveratrol has been shown to not only block aromatase, but also works to increase your androgen recepto…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 08:38 PM
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naturally increasing test → squats That is just an acute spike for an hour or two and does nothing to actually increase your test level over time.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 08:33 PM
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Ashwagandha is better for reducing stress then actually boosting testosterone. Essentially it works like Zinc does. If you are stressed, then you will produce less test. Just like if you are zinc-deficient you will not have enough to make test. but when those negative factors no longer exist, ashwagandha and zinc won't boost your test levels. Also, the test boost you get for weight lifting is acute and only lasts an hour or two. On a side note, you would probably get better results from estrogen…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 08:31 PM
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My house is in order. That is why you have the time to do that. The OP is just starting to digest the pill. He should not have any time to waste on playing video games.
/r/askMRP22/01/19 03:38 PM
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Yup. If he was doing everything he needs to do to become a better version of himself, he would have no time to olay video games.
/r/askMRP22/01/19 02:45 AM
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For everyone (not just begginers) Proverbs 21:23 Whoever guards his mouth and tongue Keeps his soul from troubles. While STFU doesnt mean become a mute. But if you have no idea what to say, keep your mouth shut until you do. It also means dont say more than you have to.
/r/RPChristians22/01/19 01:18 AM
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Nothing wrong with playing CoD. But it should be after all your stuff is done and your wife is laying in bed satisfied that a man just took her. My guess is that you play way too much and for way too long. You have the whole sidebar to read, soo no CoD for you.
/r/askMRP22/01/19 12:26 AM
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Response: You are right. I will take care if it when i get home. Then when you get home you take care of it. You own the home. You should be taking care of it. If your wife says something needs fixing, you thank her and then make plans to fix it.
/r/askMRP21/01/19 05:10 PM
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I agree with what you said. But not as a text response. She most likely think he isnt serious about the relationship. Best to push it off until later when she is more likely to be less emotional and not seeking comfort. Then in person, it would be easier for the OP to pull off and get her on his social media on his terms.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 04:29 AM
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If you are serious about keeping this girl, then you should reply to lengthy walls of comfort seeking texts with: “thats alot to digest and its a conversation best had in person. Lets talk next time we meet up”. That isnt something you can crack a joke at over text. She most likely will think you are not serious about the relationship. Instead, next time you meet up, she will be in a different place emotionally and you can then crack the joke that Vasilliy mentioned. Even take the selfie yoursel…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 04:26 AM
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So the TL/DR part is: How does a godly wife convince her husband to start fulfilling his god given role as her captain so she can be his first mate? ​ Also, this list looks like you talked to my wife 3 years ago: • Are fat and out of shape • Have not taken leadership in the area of family finances • Have their family living in one of their parents’ houses because they can’t afford to move out on their own • Are making minimum effort to improve their financial situation or are content with a bad …
/r/RPChristians17/01/19 04:59 PM
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WTF.. Never expected this to be your comment. Take your upvote for doing the unexpected.
/r/askMRP17/01/19 04:25 PM
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guiding them to develop the characteristics to make them happy and successful in life. ​ Absolutely true. My youngest quits everything at the slightest hint of negativity and runs off to sulk. Obviously this is a negative behavior that needs to be fixed. My current attempt to change this behavior is this: She saw this giant teddy bear that she "really wants". I told her no, but come back tomorrow and ask me in a more creative way. I may still say no. But I might not. Keep trying daily with a new…
/r/askMRP17/01/19 04:23 PM
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As far as I can tell the only time you should tell her about fight club is if you are going to be a contributing member in the manosphear, like rian stone, rolo, that guy from entrepreneurs in cars etc. Or you are a masochist and want to make life harder on yourself.
/r/askMRP16/01/19 06:57 PM
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Never ever talk about fight club. That rule is in place to protect you and ensure you do not get a "you are only doing this because some subreddit/book told you to do it" type shit test. It also reduces the chance that she will ever see you as high value. Since you read how to do it on reddit and it didn't come naturally to you. ​ How do I know this? My wife found me at fight club. As happy as she is with the results of fight club, I still get some variation of the "you are only doing this" shit…
/r/askMRP16/01/19 06:51 PM
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You ask for help and dont provide data to help. Sit in your corner and sulk some more. It would be more productive to everyone else if you did.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:11 AM
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The 50/50 is garbage. Why? If i work and my wife stays at home. She deserves 50% if we divorce? Is she going to be forced to come over to cook, clean, and have sex with me still? Thats her investment into the marriage, yet that isnt split 50/50. I now have to cook and clean for myself. I no longer have her help with my life, so she shouldnt get 50% of my wealth or income. I should be able to hire a maid and reduce her alimony by half the maid’s salary. That would be a true 50/50 split.
/r/RPChristians13/01/19 10:45 PM
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I agree. Lifting heavy and lifting often will burn off some of that pot belly will bulking up the arms and shoulders.
/r/askMRP13/01/19 08:49 PM
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Can confirm again that it happens. Alot.
/r/askMRP13/01/19 08:41 PM
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That sucks. I give you credit for trying. I haven't had to deal with this issue in such a long time. Pressure flip may work ("Do you think it is a good thing to go spend one on one time with a guy who isn't me?"), but I still do not see it as a shit test. I see it as completely disrespectful for the reasons I listed in the other comment.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:57 PM
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That is a great question. Here is the thing. This is not a boundary issue, it is not a shit test, nor is telling her "no one and ones with other guys" mate guarding. This is no where near the same as GNOs but the initial tactic is the same recommended tactic for handling it. Why? Most women solipsisticly frame themselves as good and their crazy logic stems from that. They cannot see themselves as bad. The lightswitch effect is a clear example of this.... "Good people do not cheat on those they l…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:37 PM
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Lift more.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:33 AM
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Then get your MAP written up and start making it happen.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:27 AM
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Life gets better. You have to just start working on yourself. I did it and I now like who i am. Stop pretending to be what you are not. Start lifting. It would not be too long before you start feeling good.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:04 AM
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Aesthetic change occurs slowly. The amount of change you get is based on the effort you put in over a span of time. if you are looking for a noticeable metric for getting you motivated, do as u/Brilli2k suggested. You will notice your strength go up before any physical change.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:04 PM
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I’ve never really differentiated between comfort tests and shit tests Shit Tests are typically pointed at you. Comfort Tests are typically pointed at themselves.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:28 PM
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"Let me get my camera!"
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:23 PM
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she was tired of me forbidding her for hanging out with her orbiters one on one, was I in the wrong or right for mate guarding against one on one interactions? Yes. Her: I want to go to psuedo-Chads for Netflix and chill tonight. You: Okay, have fun! Her: I haven't heard from you in days? You: My girlfriend doesn't disrespect me by netflix and chilling with other guys. Her: What does that mean? You: **ghost** ​
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:21 PM
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I am soo excited to see how far down this rabbit hole of wrong assumptions you will go! Please! Let's continue! ​ You will date others but never marry another woman. Ok? You see this as an impossibility. I can understand. It may be difficult, but people do date each other without looking for marriage. You can never love another woman in the world (billions of women on earth) - BUT you don't have oneitis. Ok. I can never love another woman in the world? Man that sucks. Is this your decree or did …
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 08:43 PM
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Yes it does.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:17 PM
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That was my solution and I am a better and more masculine looking man because of it.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:15 PM
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Still butt hurt and that is how I would expect a girl to respond.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:13 PM
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Just say: "He certainly has beautiful eyes, why don't you marry him?" That still sounds butt hurt to me. It gets the agree part of A&A but fails on the amplify part. A better response would have been to say in a playful tone "yeah they are gorgeous. Oh and I love what he did with his hair." This response shows her that she is being silly in treating you like her girlfriends, but you will play along.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:11 PM
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If you were extremely blue pill she will reject the alpha version of you and eventually break up with you anyway. End it now and do yourself a favor. ​ Not necessarily true. That was a shit test and he failed, but at least he tried that time. The thing is he is getting them. That means she is hoping that he will be an alpha. Not to mention that LTRs are the best place to practice all of the techniques.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:07 PM
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Yea, because I'm not arguing with someone who has no idea what the fuck is being discussed & is justifying your original asinine statement. Another fuck too many to give about this
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:33 PM
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Shut the fuck up. You clearly don't get it. Here is one fuck too many to give about this bro.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:33 PM
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This is important information. Okay, Why do you think that? How is knowing that she beat her own issues with cutting and wants to help others important information?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:31 PM
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u/Red-Curios is nothing if he isn't thorough. His role in life allows him lots of insight into the sexual interdynamics between men and women. The best part is that he does it through the lens of his faith.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 06:11 PM
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SUBTLE, INVALID: The whole section smacks of being a convert contract. You could have included it under the COVERT section as well. This is, of course a non-exclusive list, and many of these things overlap one another. They're just common ones I see among my clients and people and general. lawyer speak. You are good at your job.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 06:08 PM
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In my marriage, she's happier and more submissive when I give her a good fucking on the reg. Mine is that way when I lead and own my shit. The latter is just what I do.
/r/askMRP11/01/19 04:30 PM
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It's not more sex I want, it's a happier marriage and a happier environment. Then start doing things that are more fun for both of you. Start being playful with her and quit being an angry toad. Learn that giving less fucks isn't about ignoring her. Just that you realize she lives in the moment. What she says and feels in the current moment might not, and most likely will not, be how she will be in the next moment. So it should never have pre-eminence over your thoughts, mission, and feelings. ​
/r/askMRP11/01/19 04:28 PM
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Sin was Adam’s fault, not Eve’s. That is why it wasnt until Adam ate the fruit that sin entered the world. And it wasnt eating the fruit, otherwise sin would have entered in through Eve. It was that Adam was being a beta. He was there when the serpent tempted Eve and said nothing. He watched as she ate and nothing happened. Then when confronted, he blamed her (like a beta).
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 04:50 AM
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Good. So you see there are alpha ways of doing things that are generally considered beta. Even emotional support. An Alpha is the calm confident quiet rock her emotional storms can smash against. But the beta is the tampon that absorbs and reflects the emotion back. Alphas shine, women reflect.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:44 AM
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Lets see if this can help a bit. Scenario 1: You see a group of girls getting hit on by this sleazeball. They dont look interested in him so you march over and berate him for bothering such lovely ladies. Scenario 2: Your girl calls you because its late. She just got off work and has to park a long way from your home. She doesnt feel safe walking past all these dark nooks along the way. So you go out to meet her and walk her home. Both scenarios involve protecting. One is how a beta protects. Th…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:18 AM
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Ah. Gotcha. Well i have noticed a growing desire for masculinity by men in the church. So it may soon be ripe for the pickens.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 04:06 AM
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Just trying to point him in that direction.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 03:53 AM
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Sounds like you are on the verge of becoming MRA
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 03:43 AM
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That isnt hypergamy. That is God cursing men and women. Meaning the women will have a drive to make their husbands betas. And because Adam deferred to Eve (the actual original sin) we are now forced to struggle against this to “Rule” over our wives. Taken to the extreme, it became the modern feminist movement.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 03:28 AM
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Up is down Down is up Left is right Right is evil Sounds like life as usual in modern america.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 03:17 AM
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Your frame is weak and you do not know how to pull people into it as a place they want to be. Learning how is in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:42 PM
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Why are you trying to improve your text game? Here are some tips I use with my wife.. If there is no context to her text set that context as sexual. Keep it playful with lots of innuendos Develop and use a quick wit ​ Example: Her: "ugh, old men" (talking about her dad) Me: "Stick with middle aged men, they have the experience to make your body feel so good and still have the stamina to do it" ​ Her: "Need anything?" Me: "A tall blond with nice curves" ​ ​
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:35 PM
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Exactly. "Oh you think she just wants to have sex with you. In other words, she is a slut. Never mind that she is going home with you to have sex with you and your friend, instead of back to home to her husband and kids"
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:20 PM
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You have a good friend. Essentially, you trust but verify. However, You are paranoid because you have pedestalled this girl. So how do you deal with oneitis? Sidebar and game other women to develop an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:07 PM
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Sounds like he was lifting his meat too much.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 09:11 PM
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That is pretty cool. I personally believe that God created women with hypergamy as a gift for their husbands. It is just like alot of other thing God made in creation that get gets twisted by Satan. Our drives (male-female) are meant to be complimentary to encourage us to be the men God created us to be.
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 07:24 PM
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These are again disney ideas. This is so blue pill you don't even realize it. There is no such thing as oneitis. You were sold that, culturally raised to believe it. You think King David had Oneitis? Can you name any great men from history who had oneitis? This is literally something you were indoctrinated with from media. lol. that is so far off base of that statement. It isn't oneitis. I am never having another wife bro. I never said I wouldn't date others. lol. I understand each woman is spec…
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 07:19 PM
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The reality is, she is loving opportunistically. What you've said above that I quoted is a disney / hollywood idea. It's a blue pill idea. It's not even Biblical either. lol. I never said those are my thoughts now. I was showing my thoughts then. I harbor no allusions that if a perceived better man would give her attention, she would destroy our lives just for one night with him. I know from my past that I have experienced one of the worst examples of the lightswitch effect. The reason I titled …
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 06:42 PM
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Jeremiah 29:11 New International Version (NIV) "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. ​ He wasn't kidding. He means it.
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 05:28 PM
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I know it looks like I was neglected my whole life and that my parents hated me. They did not. This was written from my point of view of the events that shaped my life as I grew up. My parents loved me. It was just that when there was a conflict with my siblings, they always chose my siblings. When there was no conflict, they were there. Also, I focused on the negative to show how I chose to process the emotional trauma from my parents less-than amicable divorce. And how the scars from it contin…
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 05:25 PM
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While I do not disagree that what you describe happens more often than not, it wasn't the case here. My wife would beg and plead for me to be the man she thought she married. All I heard was "I don't want you, be someone else." That hurt because she was the one person I thought loved me for me. The real me without masks. So I shutdown and went into a shell. She could have blown the whole thing up at any point. Instead she started doing all she could on her end for a better marriage, but I still …
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 03:51 PM
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"It's ok. You can have a cookie." Thanks Mommy, can I have milk too? I would make clear to her, if needed, that I don't take orders from her or need her permission. Why? Just joke around with her. Call her mommy now, and then tell her you will make her call you daddy later (when said with a grin). "Fuck you bitch, I'LL decide if I have a cookie" doesn't really feel like maintaining frame. Because its not. You called that correctly. I find AA is best in this circumstance. And never respond emotio…
/r/askMRP10/01/19 03:34 AM
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Fixing this will do you more good than anything else I can tell you. Yeah. I am told that often by the wifey. So what happened between those two sections? Perceptive. As soon as those words left my lips, the wind blew into the window, I collapsed and was pinned to the ground. I couldn't move. At first I was scared. I had no idea what was happening. Then I felt that I was indeed loved. I felt a peace in my core that I never had before because I realized God had acted. That was all I needed. What …
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 03:01 AM
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It would be very long and start with a whole bunch of victim puke.
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 07:01 PM
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lol. I am not for Rebel Wilson, nor do I like Dana Lynn Bailey.
/r/askMRP09/01/19 06:47 PM
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Bingo.
/r/askMRP09/01/19 06:43 PM
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I was on the verge of being a recluse. I “hated” myself. Well as much as one that loves themselves can hate themselves. I blamed everyone around me for my problems and felt like God was cursing me. Now. I am more responsible and own my actions. I like taking the lead. I think if i told anyone at my work I am an extreme introvert they would laugh. I believe if I work hard enough, I deserve a better lot in life. Failure to achieve that is in me for not trying hard enough. I also learned that God h…
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 02:34 AM
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I dont. I like curves and my wife has them.
/r/askMRP09/01/19 02:17 AM
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Don't equate 100% alpha with jerk tendencies. I agree. I tend to see it the way we see wolves. Our first understanding of Alpha wolves comes from captivity. Usually these were the strongest and have a "Might Makes Right" type of philosophy. They are the most aggressive who eat their fill and chase off any competitors for breeding. I call them fake alphas because they are constantly living in fear of another coming and supplanting them. Real wild wolves are not jerks, they rule their pack based o…
/r/RPChristians08/01/19 06:24 PM
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mainly because of the general weak and meek character of most Christian men, ​ I hate this part of most christian men. The best example of a meek man in the bible is the Centurion who came to Jesus asking for his servant to be healed. As men, we are not called to be this shy, scared little pussycat in the corner at all times. But the meekness we need to show is to submit to those who are in authority over us, not to everyone and everything.
/r/RPChristians08/01/19 06:10 PM
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You forgot Step Zero Go from stoic to extremely emotional in 10.3 microseconds.
/r/RPChristians08/01/19 02:30 PM
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That helps a lot, since kids cost. but worth it
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:49 PM
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Not in any particular order but these are what are important Supports my mission in life Very respectful of me Has great morals Submits easily to my leadership Attractive Mentally Stable Enjoys having fun with me ​
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:44 PM
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That sub is amoral. They do not regard their actions as sin and espouse a "be thine own judge" mentality. Most of the advice is geared toward advocating that men get the most out of life that they can while reducing the amount of pain they will go through in an unfairly lopsided world. Look at the advice to never marry or enter into cohabitation with a woman. Main reason for this is the unfair legal/justice system when it comes to how they treat women differently then men. So they prescribe it i…
/r/RPChristians07/01/19 06:56 PM
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I will say to stop at what keeps your conscience clean (1 Tim 1:19). The reason being that to some, merely holding hands could be considered sinful while to others it is full blown sex.
/r/RPChristians07/01/19 06:42 PM
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TRP game is not the same as RPChristian game. ​ Lets look at spinning plates.. TRP - Have a stable of girls you frequently hookup for sex RPC - Have a stable of girls you date frequently The point of spinning plates is to develop and maintain that abundance mentality. Which in turn helps prevent you from developing oneitis and looking unattractive. ​ ​
/r/RPChristians07/01/19 06:37 PM
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He hypothesizes that women do it in order to drive the man away, so that they can trade up to a better mate. Now that is ironic. A better mate wouldn't go for single mothers. But for women, logic is lower on their list of drives under wildly erratic emotional excitement.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 05:50 PM
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When the children are walking, talking, and independent, mom wants a divorce. She doesn't need dad anymore, just his monthly check. The kids will suffer without dad, but it's more important to mom to stop having sex with dad. And maybe become available to other guys. This is so far off base from RP truths. Most mothers would rather suffer a life with a beta-provider for her children, not the other way around. She doesn't need a divorce to stop having sex with "dad". She just does and then will d…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 05:46 PM
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I still wouldn't recommend it Nor would I. It really is TRP on hardmode. My wife is my "one and only [wife]" as I will never get remarried. Unplugged men that get married or cohabitate with a women can't even begin to grasp the the risk, and do so with little to no frame, which is the recipe for the perfect storm. It is a recipe for a life of hell and a descent into feelings of worthlessness. ​
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 05:37 PM
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Same. Married for 18+ years and my wife just eats it up when I spend time with my girls and is extremely supportive of my investment to them. Of course, she also gets a little jealous if I spend too much time with them instead of her.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 05:24 PM
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Do not cohabitate with women This advice is just to keep the red pilled man from getting screwed over and reduce the complications in his life that cohabitation and/or marriage brings. Even Rollo Tomassi says that if you are going to cohabitate then you should only do so if you are planning on marrying the girl within 6 months. If a man wants to marry a girl, so be it. But it should be what he wants to do and not be coerced into it.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 05:18 PM
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Why on earth are women unable to appreciate a man's paternal investment? Most of them women, once they reach the Wall, are frothing to have a baby. And once they do give birth, instead of becoming a warm and loving creature, appreciative of their family bliss, they become manic harpies, always demanding and never happy. This behavior goes as far as to overwhelm and wear out most men, even undermining their capacity to provide to their own family. A few years into that procreation event and it's …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 05:08 PM
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just leave it as it is and just pass other shit tests that will come for sure from other girls. ​ Honestly, she is an LTR. Withdraw attention and do other things. If and when she asks why you have been distant lately, own it and casually tell her that you are tired of her disrespect and go do something else. ​
/r/askMRP07/01/19 04:46 PM
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"I always got lucky playing cards, and always unlucky with finding love" and she didn't even think that this kind of a joke could hurt me ​ She is right, it shouldn't have hurt you and you should have said something like, "Remind me again why I keep you around?" ​ ​
/r/askMRP07/01/19 03:32 PM
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If you cannot get mire weights theN join a gym. Body weight exercises can only get you so far. WhenI went back to the gym, i struggled to bench the bar. I still went and now my working bench weight is 205lbs. If anyone laughs, just use it to get stronger.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 09:07 PM
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Getting aggressive is not the way to play that off. It would be better to STFU then show everyone in your social circle that they can push your buttons so easily.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:58 PM
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Can you get a 5ft barbell and some plates? If not then there are still alot you can do. Curls (biceps) Hammer curls (biceps and brachialis) 21s (anterior, medial,posterior deltoids) Chest flies Overhead Tricep extensions Dumbest shoulder press Lunges And i am sure there are more.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:50 PM
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Why not point him here yourself?
/r/RPChristians06/01/19 02:47 AM
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Her: “What are our limits?” You: “You have to ask?” With an eyebrow cocked while looking. She should already know how to act appropriately to be your girl. Otherwise she should never have been promoted to girlfriend/ltr status. I would take that question like “Hey, we should have an open marriage!” Because it is essentially the same thing - will you let me keep you on the back burner while I try and find someone better than you (which means she has someone in mind already).
/r/askTRP06/01/19 02:44 AM
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My favorite part is that I actually like myself. But that is definitely in the top 3.
/r/askMRP06/01/19 01:20 AM
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It already is a form of infidelity and she couldnt have been more disrespectful about it unless she kissed (or had sex) right in front of him. She has done just about everything else. If my wife had spent any 1 on 1 time with another man while on a trip with me, she would find her walking papers on the hotel bed and I would be home changing the locks.
/r/RPChristians05/01/19 07:46 PM
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Lets see here: She broke down and cried because he was in pain over the death of a family member? Bro, that is a relationship. She never told the guy you two were in a relationship until you confronted her/them. Neither cared about the confrontation and continued their relationship...right in front of your eyes (extreme disrespectfulness) She says she isn’t attracted to him, yet spends any time without you with him and continued building and fostering a relationship with him (right). I suggest t…
/r/RPChristians05/01/19 05:07 PM
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“If you want to fuck other women you should go ahead and do it. I've always been of the view that sneaking around is not the way of the alpha.” Because its not. Cowards with zero frame slink and hide because they are afraid of what others will think or do.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 03:28 PM
2

I married a woman who consistently said that musclebound vinnie boom bot gym bros were gross. While I am certainly not as jacked like some here, I get alot of kino attention from her.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 03:17 PM
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Yup. Men need to understand that women dont care about their money as much as they care about the emotional excitement and tingles you bring them. Now. If they dont have any money, they are all about your money.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 03:11 PM
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He does sound like he has a great opportunity. She is still AWALT, but she is practical and pragmatic. She even went so far as to gift him enough so thathe shouldnt worry about the financial disparity between them. His golden opportunity is to become the man his willing wife wants before she gets tired of mothering him and his insecurities.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 03:07 PM
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He is so far blooped that question is pointless.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 02:28 PM
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Not sure the last one was a mistake. Not knowing what to do that he has to ask random internet strangers is the mistake.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 02:27 PM
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You left out the rest of the definition bro. Which is how i used the word. repeated exercise in or performance of an activity or skill so as to acquire or maintain proficiency in it. "it must have taken a lot of practice to become so fluent" synonyms: training, rehearsal, repetition, preparation;
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:30 AM
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Because if she's 100% reliant on a sign from God to reveal who she's suppose to be with Nothing wrong with that. Just go look elsewhere as she didn't feel God tell her its you. Her loss (or not because I believe God can hit her with a 2x4 as he often does with me).
/r/RPChristians04/01/19 10:56 PM
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You apply it by going out and doing it. You will fail, that is okay. Just learn and apply it. You have to start somewhere. Go lift. If all you can bench is the bar, then do that. you will build strength and then add plates. Nothing will happen if you don't start doing it.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:33 PM
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Do you practice lifting or do you just go out and lift? Do you practice game in the mirror, or do you go out and game? Also, the operative word there is "take action." Taking action is not standing in front of a mirror. Taking action is going and doing it. if all you, or the OP, can bench is a 20 lb barbell, its a start. But at least you are doing it.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:30 PM
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It doesn't take practice. Practice is interacting with yourself in the mirror. It takes doing the actual work, and fuck all if you fail. Learn from it and do it again. Fuck practicing.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:39 PM
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She's a plate, girlfriend, LTR, or wife. She is none of those. She is just a girl keeping him on the hook as a backup and needs provider. He hates that he was demoted to a backup beta bucks orbiter.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 04:47 PM
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We have also been "broken up" for over 2 months. (Discussed that we can have sex with others, etc) She is busy branch swinging and keeping you around as a needs provider as well as a backup in case the branch breaks. Do you like being a backup? We argue heaps as of late due to dumb shit and her being a bitch. Well that is because of this: Lack of sex has made me resent her, lose my shit at her and be passive aggressive. That is also the reason behind this: My partner says we don't have sex becau…
/r/askMRP04/01/19 04:44 PM
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1 Cor 11:3 But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman... ​ We are to lead our families. We are responsible for every aspect of our household. If Jesus came down and knocked on my door, He is going to ask me every question regarding it.. My finances, cleanliness of my home, how I manage my affairs (and that of my family), how I teach my children, etc. He will not defer to my wife any of those as I am expected to be the responsible one. Wh…
/r/RPChristians04/01/19 02:50 PM
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The term plate comes from the act of "spinning plates" on poles. You have seen those acts. Because you have to go back to keep them spinning and then tend to another, then another. On occasion, a plate will fall and break. I believe it was born out of dating lots of girls and trying to keep dating them without exclusivity. The act of doing so resembled those entertainers show "spun plates."
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:38 PM
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Like i said, i saw it in a video by ams strategies. You said that? Where? I'm talking to a broad rn and she pulled back. I've heard you have to punish them for it, would pulling back as well as hitting up a friend of hers be useful? ​
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:17 PM
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Sound more like you consider her an LTR if you are butthurt over a Plate/FWB screwing another guy. who cares if she just came from being in the middle of a bukkake party with the entire university football team. As long as she cleaned up before coming over.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:11 PM
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2 years red pilled and you don't know what a plate is? Plate - someone you have sex with and little else. (implied non-exclusivity) FWB - someone you have sex with but also occasionally do other things with. (implied non-exclusivity) LTR - someone you have sex with and have an actual emotional relationship with (implied exclusivity) Wife - someone you have sex with as part of your relationship and have promised to take them on as your responsibility to lead through life (implied exclusivity).
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:03 PM
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| how should i respond to this? You don't. You will sound like a creepy thirsty perv otherwise.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:57 PM
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WTF? There is zero relationship, why would you punish a girl simply because she isn't interested in you? read the sidebar and quit being an emotional bitch.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:52 PM
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If they are saying that they are looking for a better man, let them know that better men value their friendships. It will shut it down while also displaying that you are higher value and you believe their boyfriends are as well. Which is true, any girl that would try to monkey branch to a friend is showing her lower value.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:20 PM
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"Better men value their friendships"
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:07 PM
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| There’s nothing wrong with average Nope, there isn't if that is where you want to be. We are fine with less competition. " It's so easy to be great nowadays, because everyone else is weak" - David Goggins
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:56 PM
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And looks and money are all that matters. What an amazing world we live in They make it easier to attract. Not necessarily to keep in a relationship. There is a difference between the two.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:47 PM
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All I’m saying is play within your league so no I’m not being hypercritical TRP is about realistically changing the league you can play in. You don't want to do the work, then don't. mgtow and the incel life is for you.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:44 PM
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Sounds like you have a good grasp I text with my wife a lot while I am at work. So I know that it is actually easier to keep frame via text because you don't have their initial reaction. Also, it may be easier for me because I know her sense of humor and she knows mine. ​ Any tips? I turn whatever innocuous thing she says into something sexual 80% of the time. But for you, if you are not playing around joking with her you should just tell her "I am busy right now, I will call you later" because …
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:53 PM
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I made this mistake before, entertaining all this crap. It drove me crazy when i was BP even coming uo with shit to talk about, then i ended it and she went loooy. ​ Simply text.. bz atm Call or see her later if you can.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:43 PM
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It really does feel like texting is a females playground, and you give up frame very easily. Not true. You give up frame very easily because it is built on piss poor foundation to begin with. ​ For some reason it seems like shit tests are a lot harder to pass via text and even comfort tests too. Your text game sucks so stick to the basics - Texting is for logistics only. ​ ​
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:42 PM
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Thank him for showing you what a man shouldn't be and for showing how life would be with an unloving disrespectful cunt of a wife would be like. Now you know not to make the same mistakes he has. Then buy him a beer.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:13 PM
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“What would you ever do without me?” Sample reply is “Find a younger dumber version of you that doesn’t ask so many questions.” My go to is "Get a newer, hotter model," But I like your response to.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 05:02 PM
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This is actually very simple. It is in effect sin itself and not a woman's n-count we should be looking at. Since Jesus died on the cross, our sins past, present and future have been forgiven. and the cost of those sins is death. Jesus paid for that. Yet, we still experience the consequences of the sins we have committed and we all still die. Same goes with a woman's n-count. While the past sins should be washed away and she is made new, her ability to pair bond will still be hampered. Any STDs …
/r/RPChristians03/01/19 02:52 AM
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Have you read Red-Curious' posts on divorce? I believe there is a guide he wrote that is linked in the sidebar of the main r/marriedredpill forum
/r/askMRP02/01/19 10:00 PM
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Depends on how and what you do with it. If you are a shut in and never let your kids leave the house (which is entirely possible), then they wont be. But those situations are extremely rare. I know in my area there are a lot of socializing opportunities. Everything from various co-ops, to businesses (martial arts and gymnastics) that cater to homeschoolers during the day.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:49 PM
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Did he seriously delete his post? Y'all took it easy on him too.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:14 PM
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Confucius say "Wife who puts husband in dog house, soon find him in cat house."
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:04 PM
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Sidebar is a must. I also have been married for 18+ years to a SAHM who homeschools our two kids. First and foremost is those teenage boys need to clean up. They need to learn that men act, women chat. You need to care less about what that entitled little cunt is doing and more about raising your boys to be men.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:03 PM
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This. But don't just read it. Chew it up each page in your brain and then apply it.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:05 PM
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lot of the professing christian women treated Christian men who respected them as their BB and were sleeping with the alpha on the side. The Christian guy never found out and some of these relationships supposedly lead to marriage. How does a Christian man know he isn't being played like this during the dating process? ​ Right here is the issue and n-count really doesn't matter at that point. The vast majority of Christian men are taught that they should be BBs to have a "Good and Godly marriage…
/r/RPChristians02/01/19 05:28 PM
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she dances with a guy to be honest. Really? Who cares. There are plenty of virgins within the Christian community. I'm not sure how this is a hard concept to grasp. Um nope. While there are probably more christian girls who value their virginity, they are all just as slutty as secular girls.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:35 PM
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What should I say to her prior to her going on vacation? "Bye, have fun" I also want to know what to ask her when she comes back from vacation. Nothing. Watch her behavior when she gets back. If it is off, good chance she slept with someone. ​
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:28 PM
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I hate those damn labels. Reality is that you are either for self determination or you are for a nanny state that hands out everything to you. And very few are 100% one or the other. So you tell me which one of those political philosophies line up with the red pill theory.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:44 PM
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yup. I have never said otherwise.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 07:35 PM
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Why? She isn't upset that he lied. She is upset that he couldn't even own up to buying something so small. She is pissed she is married to a pussy.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 07:24 PM
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Lying about cigars is not something that he should apologize for, instead it should just be an acknowledgement of his mistake.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 07:17 PM
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Wow, even more gay than a fleshlight. ​ Depends if his wife is Monica? Then he can enjoy them even more. ​
/r/askMRP28/12/18 06:53 PM
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He in no way ruined Christmas. He said he did and I agreed with him. Regardless of her reaction, his Nice Guy white lie led to a different outcome then what he planned on having for Christmas.. ​ I'd not apologize. Did you see an actual apology in my recommendation? You shouldn't, just an acknowledgement that he fucked up. He doesn't have to tell her that he will do better next time. He should learn this lesson and just do better next time. ​
/r/askMRP28/12/18 06:48 PM
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Do I apologize for the lying or just continue to wait her out? I know I was wrong but don't feel sorry. I know thy lying was wrong and not helpful to the situation but I want to avoid losing more face or doing anything further to make her feel in control. ​ Here is how you apologize... "We need to talk. I was wrong to lie about buying XXX. As a result I ruined our Christmas and that is not something I wanted to do." ​ This signifies that you are a man, you understand you fucked up, and are ownin…
/r/askMRP28/12/18 04:38 PM
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Do you punish at all? I thought I read something about that in an LTR, but it was a long time ago, I’m fuzzy. ​ If I am sexting my wife and I ask her to do something over the phone, and she won't. I do not punish her for that because that is just being an emotional little bitch. However, if my wife does something disrespectful. Then there will be "punishment." Which usually is me going off to do something else. I am fortunate in that she is usually very respectful and works hard for the relation…
/r/askMRP28/12/18 03:41 PM
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Pornography is literally the worst thing out there, and unfortunately I'm far too much indulgent with it nowadays. That needs to stop. It actually does take a toll on your body. PMO (porn, masturbation, orgasm) is slowly destructive). It works like this power puff girls episode a saw back in the 90s. There was a Satan like enemy of theirs (and by Satan like, he looked and acted like Satan except not as powerful). After getting busted at the end of the episode, he was in jail talking about his ne…
/r/RPChristians28/12/18 03:16 PM
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You are 14. Any sport that you will put your heart and soul into. You just got to start playing it.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:46 PM
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Read the 48 Laws of Power and then you will understand where you screwed up. Also, who cares if you are benching the bar. Let them laugh now. Use it to power you through your lift. Lifting takes time and effort, but the change will come. So keep lifting.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:44 PM
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It is their duelistic approach to sex. Their husbands are betas and they love that about them. They are "safe" and will typically be good providers. They full fill every need but their sexual needs from them. When you are a safe beta provider, your wife will have no issues fucking hot boy down the street to fulfill that need and come home to you like nothing ever happened.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 07:03 PM
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he doesn’t tolerate her bullshit and thats what makes him Alpha No, that is not what makes him alpha. But part of being alpha means he isn't worried about having to tolerate a girl's BS.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 08:27 PM
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The more partners a girl has, the less and less likely she is to pair bond. Even if she does, it would be even harder to maintain a strong bond with her. It doens't mean it cannot happen, just the likelihood it happening decreases.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 08:25 PM
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yet also love and care about the well being if your woman and the family you raise. There is nothing Alpha or Beta about that as there are Alpha and Beta ways of doing that. It has recently been discovered that what we know about wolves in the wild is different then wolves in captivity. Alpha wolves protect their pack and provide for them (eating last in almost every case). In return, they are the most respected and loved by the pack. Not to long ago there was a strange man slowly driving on my …
/r/askTRP23/12/18 08:20 PM
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I beg to differ here. Women will always fitness test the men they are with, regardless of the perceived value. They need to ensure themselves that their "Christian Brad Pitt" is still a "Christian Brad Pitt." The reason is that they were designed that way. God desires men to be men and He created women in such a way that they act like a mirror of our masculinity. A sort of barometer on our manhood. ​ It goes like this: ​ Her: Are you fit to be my man? You: (by actions) NO Her: <<bitchiness>> Or …
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 07:49 PM
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Bought a house recently with a 3 car garage specifically so that I can take one car worth of space for gym equipment. Got a power rack and a bench. Now need to get some more dumbbells and I am thinking of adding kettlebells to my routine. I love the fact that I no longer have to wait for teenagers, who have a huge case of fuckarounditis, to get off the bench or squat rack.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 07:01 PM
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Excellent example of why not to talk Fight Club.i Notice how she uses Red Pill not to improve herself or the marriage but to CONSCIOUSLY Shit Test her husband even harder. This has happened consistently with my wife since she found it on my phone (while snooping to see if I was cheating on her). When she gets bitchy, she will let them fly. I still don't know why she still does it as she knows her words don't effect me.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 06:53 PM
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Well he is right about that. But from my experience, you do not need her knowing about RP to be a better parent and the flip side of her knowing is very much not worth it.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 06:49 PM
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Natural Selection actually explains how Noah's Ark could have worked. Miracles happen and that is what keeps me believing. Things like a total solar eclipse happening on the day of Jesus' Crucifixion (secular sources). It should have been impossible as he was crucified during a time when the moon was full moon.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 09:01 PM
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Yeah I only have the ENTIRE scientific community on my side. Actually you don't. Watch Ben Stein's documentary called "Expelled, no intelligence allowed." Plenty of Scientist have come to the conclusion (based on their research) that evolution is a farce. However, TRP is amoral. There is a God or there isn't. Doesn't matter here.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 08:57 PM
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"spinning plates" for TRPers are those you have sex with. "Spinning Plates" as a christian TRPer is just to date as many women as possible with out getting serious and this is highly advisable and keeps you from placing on a pedestal the first girl that flashes her vagina at you. Sex with them is between you, her, and God. TRP is amoral. ​ In truth, spinning plates just shows you have abundance and the mentality that comes with it. Sex is not necessarily a requirement to "spinning" them. But tha…
/r/askTRP21/12/18 08:49 PM
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A proper man can demand respect because he has earned it. Blue pilled soy boys can demand respect as well, but none will be given because they haven't earned it.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 06:17 PM
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He only read "See Jane run from Dick"
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 05:45 PM
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This makes no sense It does to me. Every guy knows the theory. You hear it all the time from soy boys like the OP... "girls only like the bad boys, who treat them wrong." Their blue pill conditioning just tells them that it is wrong and inappropriate for them to act on it. They deny their one intrinsic masculinity because they have been taught that it is toxic to a gynocentric society.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 05:26 PM
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How do I do that ? It is in the sidebar. But in a nutshell it is Lift, be productive, and own your shit. Best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, next best time is now. Do not wait until you are 40 (like I was) to finally plant that fucking masculine tree. Stop being shit, read the sidebar, lift, and get busy doing things in life that matter to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 05:13 PM
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Don’t talk about fight club Always this trumps everything. My wife found out about TRP/MRP while searching my phone for evidence I was cheating one night, going so far as to wake me up from a sound sleep to ask where I hid Tinder on my phone ( laughed because I have never downloaded it or anything like it.... phone went flying into my drywall like a shuriken). Two years on and I still get the occasional "You are just doing that because you read it in a book or forum." The only benefit is I no lo…
/r/askMRP10/12/18 08:41 PM
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Doesnt that entire thing revolve around you becoming a beta bitch? Surely if you had been her alpha those problems wouldnt have occurred ​ Yes. Like Rollo's wife, mine expects to be married to an alpha and resents being married to a beta.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 10:10 PM
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Do I need to be incorporating cardio into my regimen at this point or should I keep on cranking with Stronglifts? ​ I wouldn't recommend doing cardio right now. I would go on Intermittent Fasting (12 - 16 hour fast windows) with a Keto diet and a slight caloric reduction in your TDEE. Lifting soon after you begin your fast so that your muscles have the energy necessary to perform the lifts. You will burn some fat, but will mostly build muscle and strength. Cardio will deplete you too much and yo…
/r/askMRP04/12/18 07:06 PM
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“you are responsible for your significant others behavior” - no. This is wrong and dangerous to think that way. ​ I agree. Even still I consider it more like a barometer of my masculinity with my wife's bitchiness as more of an emotional outburst of her wanting her man back. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 06:43 PM
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Listen to the man. He almost wrote my relationship with my wife. Great first 3 years of marriage and started going downhill. Had one kid 4-5 years in and she started killing the bedroom. Second kid was born (begrudgingly on my end but I was a beta bitch by now) using IVF insemination 3.5 years after the first. I was in year 2 of a full blown dead bedroom with the worst duty sex once a month to three months stretches. After 10 years of wasting life like that I went looking for divorce. Found TRP …
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:25 PM
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That shit changed my entire life. Body mind and spirit And that is why TRP recommends it. The fitness sub isn't interested in your mental well being and TRP teaches you to unfuck yourself, and giving you the tools and the confidence to succeed in life. SL 5x5 gives you something to show you are improving quickly (strength) when the other factors of lifting (losing fat and gaining muscle) appear over longer periods of time. That is something the pussified soy boys coming here need to gain confide…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:34 PM
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Not yet. But I hear they are good with locks or cream cheese.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 01:09 PM
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Studies seem to indicate that kids perform much better in life when they have a stable nuclear family environment. Financially it makes more sense to stay than to split. She is my friend. She is a damn good First Officer when I act like a good Captain. These are my primary reasons for staying right here.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 01:07 PM
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we're all kinda assholes around here. Yup, and we all spew a ton of shit.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 01:05 PM
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They find their unicorn, their one true love, who they see no faults in and can't imagine doing no wrong, and they relax. They take their foot of the gas, get complacent, get fat, get weak. Their unicorn subsequently changes in response. No one is ever surprised when a pet lion eats its owner. So why then do we get surprised when a pet unicorn impales her owner?
/r/askMRP10/05/18 01:03 PM
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Would you marry her givin the opportunity No would it be worth it in your opinion? Cant answer that one. Tell me after you are dead. assuming you have a wonderfull woman who you are in love with, is very feminine, very sexual, and would never cheat on you. You know what happens when you assume? Here is the thing.. Women can have crazy sex with you, tell you they love you and actually mean it. Kiss you good bye, get in their cars and text you "i miss you already" (and truly mean it). Stop by star…
/r/askMRP10/05/18 12:58 PM
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No shit it has nothing to do with money. Your wife is the man in the relationship and you are her bitch. Her making this decision doesn't sit well with you because it is her showing you how much of her bitch you are. You need to get your balls out of her purse and start becoming the man she wishes you were. The sidebar is an excellent start. Going rambo, however is not.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 06:00 PM
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you are lifting too heavy. I know that Strong Lifts 5x5 is recommended here and in TRP. I only recommend it for newbie strength gains (one to two cycles). Lower the weight. Slow down the speed of the reps. It isn't a race and cross-shit is just HIIT cardio made to look like lifting weights. Then try to do 8-12 reps per set.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 05:56 PM
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This is the root of your problem here Not really. It was a few sentences above where he explicitly stated that he didn't allow certain things because his wife "wouldn't approve." Now he is butthurt because she is the man and this purchase resulted in him seeing the bitch he actually is.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 04:54 PM
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Remember, it’s not about the chair. It’s about boundaries. The real question isn’t why didn’t she ask me about the chair, it’s why didn’t YOU set ground rules for these situations ahead of time. He tells us why he hasn't set boundaries and why she never bothered to ask him. He does what his wife approves of.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 04:52 PM
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because wife didn't approve um. what? Yet you get butthurt over her spending money like she was the man? Fuck you. We all know you have comfy spot in your wife's frame that you don't like to leave.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 04:48 PM
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This just goes to show you how little a big dick means to this girl. Guys with size issues need SGM. When I began implementing DEVI with my wife I learned really quick that size doesn't actually matter. I slipped my finger to the first knuckle inside (about an inch) and she was experiencing immense pleasure. Blew my mind.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:20 PM
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I say hamster is running and she is upping the sex. In an autistic way you upped the dread. yup. Female solipsism on full display... "Why is he trying to improve himself and not tell me? He must wants out, because that is what I would do."
/r/askMRP09/05/18 04:05 PM
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I didn’t put 2+2 together until today that this was probably pity sex... Or maybe it was actually dread. Because women know that when a woman decides to improve themselves apart form their partner, it is because they are trying to get apart from their partner. Remember that woman are solipsistic by design and can only really view things from their point of view. Most likely she hamstered that you are wanting to leave so she is trying to keep you.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 04:02 PM
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I would recommend doing intermittent fasting as a means for cutting calories and lift an hour after your last meal. So that your muscles will have the energy stores for you to lift if you were in maintenance or even bulking.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:24 PM
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This. When you cut you will get lethargic and lazy. It would be better if he calculated his TDEE and just drop 200 calories a day from that.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:22 PM
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I believe she couldn’t convince them.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 12:38 AM
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exactly. Why be a dick when the best revenge is to forget that they ever were anything in your life. Treat them as you would anyone else, but never allow them to get within arms length of any kind of relationship with you.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:36 PM
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As a sidenote, why are you on gels and not injecting? I have no idea why any guy would use the gel form. But then again I am not on any type of TRT. Even still, I think I would rather do without than to have to be extra careful with hugging my daughters.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:32 PM
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Its better than sex. I recommend that strategy for you every time.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:13 PM
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So you take that rule as a written in stone commandment? I go down on my wife alot. Why? Because I love it. I don't do it for her pleasure, I do it for mine.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:00 PM
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Depends on your goals. Sometimes, it is much better letting someone else be the AMOG. Especially if you know the venture is going to end up poorly and you want to eliminate a rival. Let the rival be the AMOG.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:55 PM
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This reminds me of a job I had when I was in my late teens. Yes I worked in a call center for the evening shift. One of our clients was an adult themed proprietor that rhymed with bustler. None the less, the pervs would call that line, alot. 95 out of 100 calls for that line that I answered were hangups. One of the girls (an HB7 or 8 if she tried) I worked with rarely got hang ups. Instead, she would have "fun." The things she would say to them had me questioning humanity. Then another girl (sin…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:01 PM
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You have self confidence issues. There is no reason that you cannot still approach girls. It will help build that rejection callous and it will reduce that approach anxiety.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:45 PM
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If you lost your belly fat your dick would look bigger... Bigger? no. Longer? yes. That pubic fat pad reduces and your actual length comes out. and yes, this is from personal experience.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:39 PM
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Do what you want. The point of that trp directive is that it is one of the few SMV points that just about everyone has control over.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:36 PM
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Who cares if my arms are all muscle or have some fat, Fat me would get the wife just holding my arm as normal. Swap the fat with muscle and my wife now absentmindly rubs on my triceps and biceps. So who cares? girls do dumbass.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:33 PM
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I never would have guessed it. I thought they were found in New York City.
/r/askMRP04/05/18 01:25 PM
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getting a vasectomy before marrying is nuts. If you don't want kids, don't marry. Exactly. Raising mentally healthy kids is the only reason any guy should risk marriage.
/r/askMRP04/05/18 01:24 PM
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Just out of curiosity, are there any red flags you guys missed or ignored that ended up creating huge problems. Dating daughters of single moms. One was the product of an affair and the father wanted nothing to do with her. Mother never remarried and had a revolving door of men and became the first girl I knew who rode the CC and slept with 3 of my so called friends. Another one introduced me to the light switch effect. She went from being so madly in love with me one day, to coming over the nex…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:35 PM
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The whole world is not comprised of handsome giants with 12 inch dicks. You know something completely off topic. But I was watching an interview with this cute porn star. She was talking about how it is hard for her to date anyone. She says that so many guys get hung up on size because they can see her fucking those 12 inch monster cocks. She said that she just cannot convince them that their 6 inch dick actually feels really good to her and she enjoys them that size.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 07:58 PM
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Because self-improvement is difficult; sitting on your ass watching porn, eating Cheetos and jacking off is easy. The smart ones may get some decent fat girl blow jobs with their cheesy orange dicks. But I imagine they say "watch the teeth" quite a lot.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 07:45 PM
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So how do you guys feel about guys who own really expensive cars, but never lift. WHO GIVES A FUCK!
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:29 PM
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Go out and approach 100 women. Date the ones that accept. That is all it will take.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:18 PM
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So why shouldn't I get married to this woman? (in the case that I get a prenup and a vasectomy) TRP is just a sexual strategy based on the real rules to the game of life. If you want to marry the girl, then marry the girl. The advice given here is given in order to protect them from experiencing issues. But they are by no means set in stone and you must follow them to the letter. The whole point is to maximize your potential so that you can achieve a satisfactory outcome to life. If that leads y…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:15 PM
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Nigga where do you think the kid comes from? Hiding in a 3.77 inch deep canal? Not the vagina. The kid bakes in the uterus. You need to learn basic female anatomy.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:33 AM
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No its not. It is just that elastic.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:44 AM
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So I have about a 5 inch dick and I've always been insecure about it So you are average. Congrats. The average vagina is only 3.77 inches deep. I am pretty sure that your average 5 inches can fill that up.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:09 PM
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I dated this girl for 8 months or so, and over time she turned me into total beta bucks. She's BPD, an HB9, and huge trouble. After coming here, trying to understand her, I saw I needed to get out, and I left. Do not route through the garbage. The rest of this post is worth less than that. I tell her to kiss me, and she won't, so I stop waiting around and I leave. What the hell did you do this for? If you were going to leave then leave. "Think it's really apparent how rude you were immediately a…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 05:51 PM
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she even indicated that she was on her period This answers this... She even uploaded some stuff on social media about preferring blue pill guys that actually care about her etc. I completely ignored everything she sent me, would you say I reacted properly? Yes, she is looking for comfort (see first quoted text). Should I still try to plate her? Do you want to plate her? If you are looking for the blessings of anonymous internet strangers, then I am going to white knight her and say that you shou…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:49 PM
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Girl I've been seeing for a month has initiated less conversation, changed her response times and also gone out with a friend (male) to an event on the weekend. So she is a plate? If she was an LTR I would say hard next, but plates are allowed to vet their own potential partners just like you are.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:43 PM
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I didnt budge and proceed do rape her with facts about beauty and its positives. She started to cry and left the scene. Girl A is friends with girls C-ZZZZ. You don't have to harpoon the land whale to find the better fish. Especially since she knows where to find some. In other words, you befriend her and she will introduce you to them over time.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 04:40 PM
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20-30% and 25% BF is fat. 30% is obese. Just because its the average just means that we are fucking fat.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:29 PM
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Muscles might help but face and height is like 70% of looks. (Oh yeah, I’m also 5’9) Dont forget dick size. that matters too. is there a way to be perceived as an alpha guy for ons instead of some beta guy perceived as a good trustworthy parent? Yes, by being the alpha guy. It is a mentality (frame) and not an appearance thing. That is why women shit test men, to get past the looks. Do looks help? Yes, but you will still see some ugly as shit guys with hot women and they bang them with regularit…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:21 PM
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Are there girls who'd never cheat? Sure. But there is nothing that will guarantee that. That is what I just told you before.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:07 PM
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What are the things I should never do? You can live in a bubble and go MGTOW Monk Mode. But realistically, you should spin plates to vet the women. It isn't fool proof, but it helps to reduce the risk. Even a high quality woman can be swayed by her hypergamous nature. And the opposite is true, a woman with the 1000 cock stare, having rode 10 times as many, can also end up being 100% faithful to you. It just isn't very likely.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:39 PM
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If i'm supposed to make a girl not cheat on me Never gonna happen. Women are always looking for a better man then what they have. This is there hypergamous nature. It is a built in drive. It is the reason they cheat. So you will either be the Beta Bucks that gives her comfort and security while she has short periods of all girls trips where she will go crazy and let the alphas do things to her that she would never do to you. Just to come home and be all lovey dovey with you. Or she will not be s…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:23 PM
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Just wondering, having been beta for years and years with my wife, if it's even possible to turn that around and become Alpha in her eyes? Yes. YMMV as it can take some time. And sometimes, it will never happen. Especially if she married you solely because she wanted the comfort and security of a beta. While she travels "out of town" to get the excitement of the alpha. This is the most ideal situation that a woman thinks she can have. Since discovering TRP I have made some positive changes to be…
/r/askMRP01/05/18 02:45 PM
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I guess my question through all of this puke is how do you know when to fix it or when to just say fuck it? Get out now. 10 years in and you will be taking care of 3 kids by 3 different fathers. None of which will be you.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 02:39 PM
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I get the opposite. I know she values me. It is just sex is the furthest from her mind and when I initiate, she thinks "If I don't do this, he will leave."
/r/RPChristians01/05/18 02:23 PM
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Sex as even worse than starfish. More like zombisih. Been there. I have even told her that I half expect her to whip out the nail file during. When sex did happen (once per quarter), a few minutes in I would always get asked "almost done yet?" It is much better post red pill. I had been conditioned by this point to no longer see her as sexual. I am actually at this point too. I know that she doesn't want me, she just doesn't want to lose her husband.
/r/RPChristians01/05/18 01:42 PM
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Right. And now i know even less after reading your replies
/r/askTRP27/04/18 10:09 PM
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You failed basic reading comprehension. Now i know.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 09:56 PM
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My comment was directed at you. Amused mastery to enforce a crossed boundary, especially with children, is a dumb shit answer. Next. Read the fucking timestamps. And he never made the comment in this thread did he?
/r/askTRP27/04/18 09:51 PM
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You have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 09:17 PM
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She sensed it anyways.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:54 PM
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She needs to know that there is a man in the house who wants to fuck. The question is. Is there a man, or just a faggot that does? Because the faggots needs and desires wont matter to her.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 08:23 PM
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But I'm trying to square that with always gaming my wife. What this means is to always treat your wife like she has been your girlfriend of 2 months and sex is still new and exciting (even for missionary).
/r/askMRP27/04/18 08:20 PM
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because the first rule of TRP is that you never talk about TRP, so this presumed conference doesn't make sense. This is why TRP and the red pill are not the same. You do not talk about TRP and its strategies. But MRAs and MGTOWs are red pilled, they may or may not utilize any of the PUA aspects of TRP.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:16 PM
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I meant like if I should answer with another proposal to meet up or just not. What do you think he meant by this: At best, you might say "busy now, come over at 8pm tonight" and that's that
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:12 PM
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Or the other
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:37 PM
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Being honest about that is not an issue. Here is how it works. Her: Are you mad at me? You: Yes Then go back to doing what you were doing and not giving her any more of your attention. She will know that she crossed a line. If it was a line that resulted in nexting, you don't respond obviously. but if it is minor, she needs to know that what she did was wrong. It is exactly what I would do with my kids when they cross a line. I don't go batshit crazy and beat them to death. I let them know their…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:36 PM
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I hope your reply was "aw, you think they were men"
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:14 PM
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That is what they try to do in marriage. Failing that, they do it in divorce.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 06:12 PM
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no longer pursuing women, So she has not actually read the TRP subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 06:11 PM
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I went no contact because she began asking me to compliment her more and why I don’t do etc etc. within 3 weeks of dating TRP isn't about never complimenting, it is about being honest about doing it. Because noobs cannot grasp that concept, it is discouraged. A brief synopsis.. My wife does her hair up and looks good for our date. I am going to compliment her because she looks good. She knows she looks good compared to the usual frumpy SAHM get up. If my wife makes me a dinner and it is really g…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:09 PM
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Does having this sort of dread more or less negate the need for me to use some other forms of passive dread? If you are working the dread levels, then passive dread happens naturally.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 05:46 PM
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With a one word answer... Truth
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:34 PM
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What is this replaced you are speaking of? If she breaks, you never took notice.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:17 PM
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I believe my ex did really love me, she always did stuff for me , helped me out at my weakest How cute. I truly believe it was unconditional. No it was conditional. That condition was that a perceived higher SMV male never took notice of her.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:15 PM
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she’ll forget about her boyfriend He never mattered, neither do you. read the side bar I mean clearly she isn’t getting something from him at home. That is how men work, not women. read the side bar. Is this beta/orbiter behavior, Yes, read the sidebar
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:12 PM
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More or less, this is a decent write up on interviewing. This is based on my extensive experience with them from both sides of the table. I nail almost every one I go on. I have even had offers given to me in the middle of the interview. But in full disclosure, I am the very best in my field in my area.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:08 PM
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Chad is a fictional representation of the guy who is better than you in every way. Not just looks. He is also smarter, wealthier, makes friends easier, wittier, and has a more interesting history.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:46 PM
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Yes. But you dont even need that. Extreme examples would be teachers sleeping with 15 year old boys. It is just the excitement they are after.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:47 AM
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I'm trying to be more gradual about it The “trying” game
/r/askMRP26/04/18 11:18 PM
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If the relationship fails, it's because of something you did wrong. Not necessarily. You could have done everything right, Chad comes along and takes note of her. boom she is gone. No amount of anything you did or didn't do could prevent that.
/r/RPChristians26/04/18 08:02 PM
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(confidence, boldness, strength, mastery, ambition, risk taking, independence, humor) if he wants to attract Christian women for marriage. I am confused. You just described game as traits to attract women.
/r/RPChristians26/04/18 06:06 PM
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What causes you to believe hypergamy is sinful and not part of God's intended design for women? My review of scripture is the opposite - that hypergamy itself is part of intended design, but as with all things it has been applied in sinful ways. Yup. It appears in scripture that Hypergamy was designed to ensure that Men be Men. So when that the husband does masculine things, his wife will want him. When the husband is a weak beta, his wife will find other things to do.
/r/RPChristians26/04/18 05:50 PM
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STFU does not literally mean don't fucking talk. People talk. Yes it does. If you are not capable of saying the right thing, it does mean exactly that. STFU isn't your opportunity to punish your wife. No it is about not saying something stupid.
/r/askMRP26/04/18 05:41 PM
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I'm trying to be more gradual about it No. the STFU rule needs to be applied immediately.
/r/askMRP26/04/18 05:32 PM
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Wife went to bed angry last night because i told her I'm going to get a gym membership if the in laws don't move out in a month. WTF!!! Why give her this ultimatum? It would be better to inform her that "I want the house back." She will ask some variation of why to which you state that you want to finish your home gym. "Unless of course she is comfortable with you going to a gym full of hot 20 year olds" Equipment is expensive and I'd rather put the money towards that rather than a year long mem…
/r/askMRP26/04/18 05:31 PM
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Actually, you stood up for yourself and I'm proud of you for that. Don't let people walk on you, ever. The response was in her frame entirely. He gave her what she wanted. I am not entirely sure if it would have been better to ignore either, because he sounds like he may have actually learned from this. And that is better than him just moving on and letting her hamster spin a bit wondering about it.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:55 PM
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The moment I sent the message I knew I ducked up, she never replied either. Of course not. She is relishing the pain she caused you. She wanted a reply. Any reply gives her comfort because she felt guilty over cheating. But guilty isn't exactly the emotion, more like she doesn't want to feel like she was the shitty one. Your response confirms to her that what she did (monkey branching) was the right move. Girls are not men, both sexes cheat but for differing reasons. Most men cheat for validatio…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:43 PM
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she actually likes that I'm starting to get attention from other women. Two possible reasons for that.. 1) Women like having a man that other women want 2) She has already cheated on you and wants to alleviate any guilt
/r/askTRP26/04/18 02:42 PM
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Leaving of course is an option The "go" plan should be the same as the "stay" plan.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 02:40 PM
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I texted taht I was considering divorce. One you texted. Second you threw out the nuclear option. Get over to MRP and do that sidebar. TRP is better for single (or soon to be single) men. MRP is for men already in relationships.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 02:35 PM
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Besides "banging 10 girls", what other options do I have to reduce/eliminate oneitis? Catch and Release.. Approach them, Game them, get their numbers. Throw the number away after you walk. You do not have to cheat on your wife unless you are actually planning on nuking your marriage. As you start to see that other women are interested in you, some of which will be younger and hotter than your wife, then it will help you lose your oneitis and see that she never deserved to be on that pedestal. Yo…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 02:32 PM
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...Offering him vain praise in the hopes He gives you something. Usually oneitis is associated with fawning over someone who doesn't deserve it. Telling your fat ugly wife that she so beautiful to you, when she knows how ugly she really is, because you are hoping she will dole out that special gift of sex. You know the kind she actually doesn't stop you in the middle and ask if you are almost done because Grey's Anatomy is about to start. God wants honest praise. When you think about what he has…
/r/RPChristians26/04/18 02:10 PM
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However I'm not sure if it's plausible to be RP to women and BP to God. I seriously am doubting that God wants you to be blue pilled, even towards him. We are consistently told to be "Strong and Courageous" (Joshua 1:9, 1 Chron 28:20, Deut 31:6, etc) and to "act like men" (1 Cor 16:13) or "take it like a man" (Job 38:3). Then you have Jesus commending the roman centurion who showed that he understood how authority works (the best masculine example of meekness).
/r/RPChristians26/04/18 02:00 PM
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If you get rejected, a good response would be: If you get rejected you have three choices: 1) Walk away with your dignity because what just happened doesn't really matter to either of you. 2) Ignore the rejection, double down, and hope that this one girl will see the light of how awesome you are. 3) Look desperate and butthurt by saying anything. Which option does the sidebar suggest you take?
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:21 PM
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Get to know her Dad. The REAL version. And make sure you can give her that same behavioral template. I can confirm this is true. My wife gets excited when she sees me do stuff around the house because my FIL is that way. If there was something that needed doing, he just whips out his tools and does it. If I am doing something I enjoy that she perceives as having no value to the family, bitchiness. But I don't care, I am going to do it anyway because it has value to me. Also, I am a father of gir…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 04:55 PM
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I just use it for setting up the next meeting. If you have no text game, then stick to doing this.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:47 PM
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This... When you focusing on your own personal responsibility and freedom, it will show in your politics. Especially when blaming others for your own lot in life is the opposite of red pill awareness.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:02 PM
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I'm asking if women have their own version of "spinning plates" Yes, kind of. There are 2 reasons women cheat. One is the AF/BB dynamic. If you are a definite BB, then she will have periods of time where she jumps on the AF for momentary spikes of excitement. Yet plans to stay with the BB because of the resources and security he provides. The other is monkey branching. She will swing from one branch to another. If she is unsure of the branch, she will continue to hold on to the current branch wh…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:41 PM
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The red pill is not a philosophy. It is seeing reality for what it is. The Red Pill (subreddit) provides a toolset for playing the game of life successfully. Can alphas be religious? Yes. Can alphas be non-religious? Yes. Can alphas be patriotic? Yes. Can alphas be unpatriotic? absolutely. If religion and patriotism is part of your mission, awesome. If they are not, the same.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:29 PM
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Good alphas are not nice guys. But they do take into consideration those they lead. Nice guys are push overs hoping someone will give them what they feel they deserve. Itonic is that they are getting what they deserve - next to nothing.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:58 AM
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we just went for a smoothie place and went for a walk. wow. exciting.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:01 PM
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My biggest take away from how to win friends and influence people is to develop a genuine interest in other people. Exactly. The two are not at all contradictory, if anything they are complimentory. NMMNG is about no longer allowing yourself to be a doormat to make others happy. While HTWF&IP is about not being a dick about it. A yin and yang type of symbiosis.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 07:56 PM
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since TRP seems to be just focused on getting in a girl's pants, there really isn't much said most of the time about LTR's and marriages beyond avoid them. That is what married red pill is for.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:00 PM
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I've seen that it could be a sign of lagging interest and me acting more beta, but she's obviously been into me and she came onto me when I withdraw attention. What gives? Some girls don't like giving blowjobs.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:34 PM
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Yes. But its not worth the effort. Have you not read Rollo’s blog?
/r/askTRP21/04/18 02:05 PM
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So she has a legitimate reason to be fearful and not want to go. She does want to go with you to any other place. My question is why you didn't think that her being greek in Turkey was no big deal to her? Part of leading your LTR is you do not intentionally take them to places where their safety will be compromised. I know that TRP would say that you go where you want to go and she can come or not. But in an LTR, some of those suggestions don't exactly fly. In an LTR, you have to show that you d…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 12:22 PM
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call the cops. But she isn't going to show up. She said that because she is hoping you will believe her and will leave her alone. You probably gave her that creepy, stalker vibe and she knows you are beta enough to hope she will show up. And judging by this post, she was right.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 03:37 AM
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"It happens Dory"
/r/askTRP21/04/18 03:33 AM
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Dudes still obsessed with her. Quit lying. She was a plate two months ago and somehow morphed into a GF of 1.5 years. Quit bullshitting us, you can BS yourself all you want. You have been saying you are leaving her the whole time. I won’t give her any closure. She won't need it. she will be glad your bipolar schizo ass is gone.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:17 PM
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deep. Like he is in her frame.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 06:29 PM
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Then my answer would be health is important but i get what you are saying. hello deer. your answer should be something like "Is there a problem with me looking so irresistible your panties fall to the floor?" She’ll ask busy with what? how should i tackle that? "With things I had to do" Also she is asking like only this question, So i should always respond, i was busy Sometimes. Sometimes an "I know, it sucks... lets go do x" or "I know it sucks, I am going to wait for your next text with baited…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 04:52 PM
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Taking longer to respond doesn’t matter if i’m in my gym or at home. Why did you decide to arbitrarily up the dread? Do i just ignore this or tell her i was busy watching tv show while eating? Definitely not option 2 unless you are honestly trying to nuke the relationship.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 04:40 PM
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so what are some good simple first steps I can take to getting myself back on track? You do them for the right reasons now. Those reasons are "for you." You do not "practice" trp principles. You actually make them your own.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 04:36 PM
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Wife quit sex and moved to her own room 9 months ago and had a lover she does not talk to anymore (apparently) but is still very much into. Nail in the coffin. Wife quit sex with you and decided to openly sleep with another man. You allowed this to happen you cuck. This wasn't some secret affair, it was her saying "you are complete and utter shit. I have so little respect for you that I will fuck another man in the same house and be so loud you wouldn't be able to sleep" Think if I knew all of t…
/r/askMRP20/04/18 04:31 PM
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Is this a shit-test or is she looking for comfort? Most likely comfort as she is wondering why you did not respond after her confronting you about talking to other girls. She is a plate so no reason to worry to much about that. Best course is to ignore it. What would be the appropriate course of action be? I do want to keep banging her. Her: "You OK?" You: "Of course, I am doing x at x, cumming with me?"
/r/askTRP20/04/18 04:07 PM
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No. It is sex. But letting yourself get treated like shit will limit that. And having a shit life will also limit that. So that is why TRP recommends "upgrading" every aspect of your life. What ever it takes to remove what limits you from having more sex, and great sex at that.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 02:55 PM
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is the goal of TRP only sex? Yes. It is a sexual strategy. When boiled down, the main purpose is to get good quality and high quantity sex. The result is that it impacts many facets of life beyond sex.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 02:53 PM
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fat betas HW is a beta through and through. Just because he used his power and ability to offer them fame to extract sex from them. Alphas don't need coersion to get sex. for OP he's gotta get his bf% much lower to spark regular attraction from his wife No disagreement there. I just said that there is a cheat code if you are 25% bf or higher.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 07:56 PM
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but he was never going to get her "best" this way. Never said he would get her best. But I doubt they recoiled or cringed. He would have gotten called out much sooner than he did.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 07:52 PM
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Psychological gains are immediately bountiful. And that is the only reason to start with Stronglifts 5x5. Strength builds faster than hypertrophy. But once you get near the max strength for the muscle you have, change up your routine to a volume routine that emphasizes muscle growth over strength.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 07:04 PM
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1RM is for ego (or advance programming) exactly. And ego lifting can get you hurt.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 07:01 PM
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There is a cheat code for fat betas (which the claim is there isn't)... Be rich and be powerful. As you said, he was getting all he wanted and he is clearly above 25% body fat.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 06:57 PM
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(just what they offer). Briffault's Law explains this. There is no relationship when the man has nothing to offer the woman. Weinstein offered them fame and fortune. Every single one of those starlets were more than happy to perform for Weinstein and not a single one regrets that decision. This not a cheat code. It is a cheat code for fat guys. Looks are only a portion of the equation necessary for women to want men. Status, Money, and Power account for so much more.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 06:54 PM
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Not a shit test you goon. She’s giving you the green light to make a move. OP: Girl came up, grabbed my crotch, and said lets fuck. What is the correct response to this shit test? I have searched the entire sidebar and there isn't a shit test like this. Please I need the help from the more experienced mods or endorsed red-pillers. I really want to have sex with her and I don't want to blow it. please hurry, she is tugging my jeans as I type this.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 05:24 PM
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She was likely ovulating and just horny. You happened to be available. Most likely yes. I wouldn't put too much stock into 5 days being able to undo 12 years of faggotry. I agree in part. He hasn't developed that muscle memory yet. He still has to actively think about what he should/shouldn't be doing. However I can verify that sometimes, the woman doesn't need that 1000 foot rope. Mine was skeptical for 2 weeks and then spent the next 2 months all over me. There are no cheat codes at 26.5% BF. …
/r/askMRP19/04/18 05:20 PM
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I doubt it. He already expressed a dislike of another church member over a "disagreement" Also, I am not going to red knight anyone. My viewpoint is that if the two of them are happy with the arrangement, then I am not going to rock the boat for them.
/r/RPChristians19/04/18 05:00 PM
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The question of: "has my wife cheated on me in the past?" will never get answered definitively for you or anyone else. You can't build a time machine and catch her in the act 3 months ago. The way your hamster is spinning now, even positive paternity tests will not ease your mind. After all, she could have had sex but used protection. Right. I am not over my wife's shoulder all day long. Has she ever had the opportunity to cheat and get away with it? Yes and there are quite a few times in the pa…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 03:53 PM
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Plates: Not into cheating. I'll burn it down first. But not oblivious to the possibility that she may have based on MRP theory. Who said you had to cheat? I know that TRP states that plates are for sex. But that is because it is a sexual strategy. In MRP, the most likely outcome of TRP style plate spinning is the nuking of the marriage or LTR. While saving the marriage is not the goal, divorce isn't the end game either. So what is behind the plate theory? To develop the abundance mentality so it…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 03:43 PM
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I was referring to what I have experienced at the majority of churches that I have been to or sermons I watched over the internet. The church I am currently attending (9 months now) is usually more pro masculinity, including from the pulpit. That is why I was completely shocked to hear a deacon at that church make that statement.
/r/RPChristians19/04/18 03:17 PM
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she is making you her bitch by demanding specific behaviour. She sounds alot like my wife. She knows what a man is. She expects her man to behave like that. It is an interesting conundrum. We are to be the one to hold the frame, own our shit, and accept responsibility for our actions. Her frame is that the OP does exactly that.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 01:37 PM
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Perky. She doesn't sound like the type to invest heavily into inflating her ego.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 01:31 PM
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exactly. OP's wife expects him to be a masculine man. Even demands it. OP is confused why he can't be the bitch and infuse emotion into everything he does.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 01:30 PM
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Hypergamy doesn't care. This is why women of the church end up desiring pastors and small group leaders. How many churches have had pastors thrown out do to extra marital affairs with women in the church. How many marriages have been ruined because the wives had affairs with the single man leading their co-ed bible study. And then all we get is that we must be the most blue pilled beta's ever created being taught to use from within the church. It almost comes across as nefarious of church leader…
/r/RPChristians19/04/18 01:23 PM
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Excellent read and I cringe at the blue pilled preaching coming from pulpits and from within the church. Just last night I had a deacon at my church tell me that his wife makes all the decisions. I cannot even begin to understand this. We have the genesis account of creation where woman was created for man to be a "helper." Not the leader. Proverbs 31 is used by women, but it is actually a mother telling her son how to be man and what type of woman to make his wife. It is actually a very red pil…
/r/RPChristians19/04/18 01:08 PM
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He is saintblackops king of incels maybe.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:53 PM
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"It is so easy to be great nowadays, because everyone else is weak" - David Goggins He is right. Most people put zero effort into their lives. Just a little effort can propel you into the top 80th percentile. I am in my early 40s. Most men in their late 30s and early 40s are not at my level. Can I compete with the 20 year olds. nope. But I don't care.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 08:03 PM
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None the less, she most likely monkey branched with some local guy. Otherwise she would have tried to contact you in some manner and she didn't. Move on, she did.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:58 PM
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(I didn’t like how she was acting with her friends and making me out to be in enemy just to fit their drama topics – wild bunch that group) No, she liked the other guy that was there. She had to make you look like the bad guy, because AWALT. And by that I mean that women would rather feel depressed then to feel guilty. Also, it makes it so much easier to hamster away the monkey branch when you were just so evil and wrong for her. She played you like a fiddle. We’ve been broken up for 7 months no…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:53 PM
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They need to be cute and curvy. that is all.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 06:13 PM
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"In that case, bring a pillow and your tooth brush as well"
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:40 PM
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We argue about things but mainly money. Why? Being a man means you are the authority. She either respects that or she doesn't. If she doesn't, then you are no alpha. That may look mysogenistic, but someone has to lead and women typically do not like to be the one to lead in a relationship.
/r/askMRP17/04/18 05:33 PM
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Fun doesn't mean positive per se, just exciting. Exactly. I was going to suggest he change "Fun" to "Excitement" as that is more accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 04:44 PM
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Well thats a good answer, is it largely considered a "last ditch effort" ? Honestly, It kind of was for me. I lurked reading and not getting it. Then one night during a typical blue-pilled dead bedroom style victim vomiting dialogue with the wife; it just clicked. My wife went from "oh great, here we go again" to "Oh shit, what just happened to him." Before that night I had talked to three lawyers and decided to have last attempt at good sex before pulling the the trigger on giving her the walki…
/r/askMRP17/04/18 04:41 PM
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I understand every marriage has a different dynamic but applying some of this advice would surely be suicide to their relationship for some right? It would seem that way. My life is much much better because of it, and my marriage is stronger than ever. My biggest take way is that being a man is a shit ton better than being a manchild. maybe my marriage just isnt at a point where changes like this would help any? Its not for your marriage. It is for you to improve your life and get the most out o…
/r/askMRP17/04/18 04:30 PM
3

Because most of us from dead bedrooms were tired of not getting any pussy. Yup. And when we finally are gifted it, it would be far from enthusiastic.
/r/askMRP17/04/18 04:23 PM
7

That is what I tried but then she gets into sadness and crying manipulating me. FIFY
/r/askMRP17/04/18 12:29 PM
15

Hmm. In IT and yet fails to understand how the <enter> key works.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 07:24 PM
1

Yes. You fapped it too much and your brain now expects that death grip. It isnt interested in anything else.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:00 PM
6

You are 21. Why the hell would you even consider TRT? Are you trying to screw up your hormonal systems? And at 21 you should have plenty of test for what you need. Quit looking at the jacked gym bros who are on some gear cycle or another.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:53 PM
17

Walk away. She wants an orbiting tampon. Do you want to be that orbiting tampon for her?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:49 PM
2

Some do. Especially in this day and age.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:48 PM
2

Until you touch it, right? Wait until you slide it into an actual girl and you go soft. You will mess with hour head and her head.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:48 PM
1

Stop wacking it. You damn near broke it.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:41 PM
3

You found no content on how to be RP when on the bottom of a dominance heirarchy.. that was what I was replying to. Not your entire post. TRP is a sexual strategy that presumes you are starting off as a fat incel, playing video games inbetween your porn fapping sessions, while living in your mothers basement at the age of 29. If that isnt the bottom of a dominance heirarchy, i dont know what is. But since you have been RPd for years, then you have read and applied Robert Green’s 48 laws. Since i…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:29 PM
3

Men arent to be coddled. Suck it up big boy because no one gives a shit if you dont.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:17 PM
-1

The title says it all but this is something i found no content on. Really? That is the essence of the sidebar. Since you are so far on the bottom of the dom hierarchy I will give you the readers digest, abridged, cliff notes version of it. Lift and work on yourself Find your mission and work on that read the fucking sidebar material
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:54 PM
1

STFU is the wrong move here as she called out him not caring. Ignoring could nuke the relationship. He needs to respond in a way to defer until later and off text.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 01:50 PM
1

Yup. And what makes it even shittier is that she explicitly called out the lack of interest. Doing the recommended STFU and ignore may actually make things worse. Perhaps a “too busy to devote the time for this now, lets talk later” can defer this off of of text until later.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 01:46 PM
1

Its your daughter, help me understand this. Was she driving or your wife? Are you not more important than your wife’s friends to your daughter? I know if it was me, fuck them, i want to speak with my children. The only bad time is if you are interrupting your wife while she is getting railed by chad.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 12:52 PM
1

Thats not the same thing. You shouldnt respond emotionally, it doesnt meant you dont have emotions. And stating you need to keep in touch with your child is just being an excellent father. You should be the most important man in her life right now. She needs to hear from you as much (if not more) as you need to speak with her.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 12:39 PM
1

Get a grip. You have every right to want to talk with your own child. Unless there is a court order, you have the right to it 24/7. Why didnt you initiate? Why were you even waiting for her to iniate the face time? This isnt setting up a date, its staying connected to your daughter. So why didn’t you text a reminder to your wife?
/r/askMRP16/04/18 12:36 PM
8

Orbiters will never have your back when you are doing their girl. They are waiting to show they can love them better then you can. They will trash you with the slightest bit of info you give them. So how did you mess up? You failed to read the sidebar recommended book by Robert Greene - 48 Laws of Power. Read it, and then read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Learn from this mistake, and act like nothing ever happened in the first place. Because he is just a jealous little orbiter who thinks he c…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 06:06 AM
1

Yes deer
/r/askMRP14/04/18 08:08 PM
1

The sidebar is full of resources that the more experienced men found useful to unfuck themselves. And because they love you. They made it easy to find so you can do the same. They didnt hoard it all for themselves. Pay them back by reading it. All of it.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 01:04 AM
1

Retards. They dont know what they are missing with the fat bacement dwellers. Because those guys have hearts that are as soft as their bellies.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 12:59 AM
3

I don't understand is how an "alpha" can show interest. Well lets see: I grab my wife and pull her close to me I kiss her with passionately when and where I want to I grab her butt and squeeze (a cheek in each hand) when and where I want to I will come up from behind and bite her neck. I consistently flirt with her, even at church When she deserves a compliment, I give it (ex. "wow dinner was great") Women want to feel desired much more than told how much you love them. Also, she wants to feel n…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:58 PM
32

By being a high value male. It said often that when a girl says "she doesn't do blowjobs" it is because she will not do blowjobs for you. But she will happily slurp down Chad's sperm and beg for more.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:40 PM
4

She thinks we can still stay friends, (to be perfectly honest I still have oneitis and don't think things are bad enough to separate the children - maybe I'm gaslighting myself, I still don't know.) She isn't stupid. Why? Because it is cheaper to keep YOU (sort of). She risks losing half HER business and half HER profit to you because you are the "housewife." She doesn't want you, but she knows that all those laws meant to protect women should their husbands trade them in for a newer sexier mode…
/r/askMRP13/04/18 03:33 PM
2

Yes. You have the anonymous internet's permission to have sex with clients. But should you do it? Unless you are an escort, I would discourage you from doing so. Your money, your livelihood, and your mission are going to be in the hands of this woman. Is the sex worth that to you? Can you get another woman other than this particular one?
/r/askTRP13/04/18 02:23 PM
2

My personal favorite cardio is sex, and it is a killer ab workout too. But if you like to use machines, to each his own I guess.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 01:20 PM
5

exactly.. Plates are promoted to LTRs because they are properly vetted. If there is a situation that necessitated demotion, then the LTR should be nexted instead. The man is supposed to have that abundance mentality and should be able to replace her. "Silently" demoting her is just hamstering a male branch swinging. Own your mistake of entering into an LTR with this woman and just end it like man.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 01:04 PM
1

The prototypical powerlifters are fat and they lift for strength, not aesthetic purposes.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:12 PM
1

Are you talking per exercise or per muscle group? Because you should have around 80-100 reps per week for each of the large muscle groups (chest, back, shoulders, legs). More for your biceps, forearms, triceps and abs. So you are not too far off is you are saying 3 sets on the bench press and 3 sets of chest flies. As that would give you 6 sets on your chest. I am also assuming you work each group twice a week. That puts you on the high end for maximum weekly hypertrophic gains (96 reps with the…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 06:50 PM
1

Lol. Seriously? The OP was clearly trying to mate guard. I dont know of many jobs that letting your tits hang out is acceptable attire. The OP overreacted and probably would only be partially comfortable if she wore a burka. Still her ankles, eyes, and hands would be too exposed for him.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:05 PM
1

He is insecure. Hence the mate guarding statement of “cover up” since she was looking hot and sexy at work.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:18 PM
1

Yeah one he brought in himself for his mate guarding behavior by essentially saying “you are showing too much skin at work.” I wouldnt be surprised if she didnt run home or to the mall to change during lunch. That shirt just might have made her break out in hives.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:13 PM
1

You really dont get why women like to wear the clothes of their guy. It has your “scent” and clearly indicates she cant have enough of you.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:11 PM
3

Laugh at them internally and remain stoic. They are doing it out of jealousy and that whole crab bucket analogy.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:18 PM
4

What the hell is wrong with you! That is one of the hottest things a girl can do and lets you know she cant get enough of you because the shirt should smell of your sweaty testosterone (which she just loves). Also that look is sexy as hell if she is also wearing nothing but the shirt and lingerie.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:16 PM
8

1st) You are assuming the reader is at 10-15% body fat. An obese lifter at 300lbs is most likely not going to bench 450lbs. 2nd) you need both strength and hypertrophy. You will get some hypertrophy from strength building routines and some strength from hypertrophy (volume) routines. The thing about strength is it plateaus when you hit the maximum potential for the muscle you currently have. Just like hypertrophy plateaus if your not building strength. 3) strength routines with bad form causes m…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:07 PM
7

Positive pregnancy tests go for 10-20 dollars on Ebay. OP should realize that there is a market for them for a reason.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 12:46 PM
2

I'm not some love sick puppy. What I'm trying to do is get her even more in love with me and get the hamster spinning. I can tell you don't have a hamster that you need to get spinning. You have a damn gerbil doing it all by itself.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:53 PM
3

Hey, some guys like it when their wives go fuck other men and then tell them about it when they get home. Hell, they even ask for pictures, videos, phone/skype calls during so that they can fap to it.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:49 PM
2

Never really been super passionate about it. And that is actually your problem. Find what you are passionate about and do that. You will eventually make more money and you will love doing it.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:46 PM
3

I might not reach my aim, but I might as well do. Its just te feeling of missing out/ being not normal killing me. Is it right that i devote all time to my aim? Or young partyyears wont come back and ill regret it crying? Thanks in advance! A wise man (Dave Ramsey) once said.. "You have to live like no one else in order to live like no one else" You crying over the regret of not partying is still less crying than those partyiers crying over the regret of living paycheck to paycheck with insurmou…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:44 PM
1

You would think that someone would have written a book with this in mind. Perhaps we should find it and place it in the sidebar as one of the course prereqs because it would be a primer of some kind.
/r/askMRP11/04/18 08:31 PM
1

your life sucks
/r/askMRP11/04/18 08:27 PM
1

I've been working with her on her mental disorder for the past 5 years or so Why? Be fun. Include your wife in your fun. Some of the time she will be your fun. Own your shit and be the best damn man she has ever known. Next thing you know, she will be bouncing along with you laughing and smiling and the depression would have never happened. I absolutely know this works. The month after my mother in law died, my wife said was the happiest month we had in our marriage. Does she miss her mom and ha…
/r/askMRP11/04/18 08:22 PM
2

I am married. It can be good but it really is the red pill hard mode. I don't care if she is a good christian girl or the town slut. They all are basically the same. As you know there is nothing really in it for the man and he has everything to lose by getting married. But if that is something you want to do, go do it. Just make sure that you find a high quality girl (which being religious doesn't guarantee). Once you are married, you need to ensure you have a really great Captain - First mate r…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:13 PM
8

I still haven't found the line between withdrawing attention and totally ignoring a girl Withdrawing attention... You have more valuable things to do than spend time with her. It looks like this: Her: "What are you doing" You: "Reading a book" Her: "What book?" You: <radio silence> Her: "?" You: <radio silence> Her: "Helllloooo" You: <radio silence> Ignoring a girl... Requires actively non-responsiveness. Like social media blocking, walking away during one of her long winded self conversations t…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:48 PM
0

Tip: text only for logistics, or at least MOST of the time Every time. There isn't really a good reason to do any more than this. Now I say that hypocritically because I am always texting with my wife things other than logistics.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:40 PM
3

Who the hell cares. You go to the gym to work on yourself. Why do you care that the bar moves easily for them, but you cant get it off the ground for you? All that is going to do is cause you to get ego lifting injuries and slow your progress.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:01 PM
5

Starving a girl of your attention only really works when there is an established relationship. Whether that be a budding relationship or a 50 year marriage. When there is no relationship, then she will begin to think you are not interested and move on.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:57 PM
7

Well that was dumb. Better options: “Yeah I know, I am doing X at X. Wanna come?” “Yup” “Attention aint free. Come over here and earn it” “I’m free now. But if runs to long I will have to bump suzie. That will be fine she don’t whine half as much as you”
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:19 AM
1

Yup. It takes time to disolve. The OP has no idea that this girl just want him orbiting her. So she can suck him dry of what little masculine energy he has. And he is busy thinking “red pill strategy works!! I can plate her and make her my girlfriend!!”
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:08 AM
1

Good chance it is option 1. Atleast that is what I got out of “we are so unhappy together”. He doesnt seem to be having any fun. He needs to lighten up and joke around more with her.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 01:02 AM
1

You sound like you are 14. I would say nope. Its not a good idea to make her your girlfriend. But take her for long walks at the park and beach and learn how to talk to girls. Then try and talk to as many of the popular girls in your school.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:20 PM
1

You were never red pilled. The red pill changes you from within. You were just using the “tricks” red pill advocates.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:02 PM
1

Depression is caused by focusing on external sources which are fluid and in a constant state of change. The one constant is you. Work on you. Focus on improving you. I recommend you write on index cards what you like about yourself. Read them every morning right when you wake up and before you go to bed. Try and add a new card each week.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:58 PM
2

You dont bother. Thats the point.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:33 PM
1

Input. You are involved in the decision making with in the group. You know that what you have to say has value so you say it. Not valued by friends.. well you accept that they dont value you, showing them they are right to not value you. People get walked all over because they allow others to walk all over them. Its easy to say get new friends. I think it would be better if you just started doing things that make you more interesting. Go to the library and read one classic novel a week, hit the …
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:31 PM
2

All of the above. It doesnt matter if you have the confidence amd swagger. That is all that matters.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 10:14 PM
19

Yeah, dialing in more empathy is extremely difficult if you don't care and don't have any to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 08:31 PM
1

However, I completely forgot how to be an asshole? Why be an asshole? The point is that they call you an asshole while wanting you all over them. You get called that because you don't get pulled into their frame and you tell them no. But being a jerk type of asshole is just being a beta pretending to be alpha.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 08:16 PM
14

I shouted to all of them, "Ceeya guys in class, and ceeya dude, you seem cool but maybe next time you'll be less territorial." Did I do the right thing? Nope. You showed them that their little white knight did them a favor by the unsolicited shout. How you could have played it off.. Them: laughing telling you to go away. You: see ya in class, just don't bring your tiny pit bull (said with a chuckle while nodding toward the mate guarding white knight).
/r/askTRP06/04/18 08:12 PM
3

After a few dates, when you actually feel comfortable talking to them about your mother's cancer. You: "When my mom had cancer, my dad had a hard time. So I moved back home to help take care of them, the house and help pay for her medical bills. So that they didn't have to worry about any of that and could work together for her recovery." If you do this while expressing some emotions, it will illicit emotions in them and should show that you take care of shit and do what needs to be done. Just d…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 08:05 PM
3

I will be able to move out after Dec. 2018 but currently I'm too ashamed to admit anyone that I live with my parents. Why, you should be able to spin that positively.. After a few dates. A year ago I moved back in, stopped working out, stopped taking care of myself, no more holidays and got even fat. This is your actual problem. Get to work and fix this now. Then go out and meet women. No one says you have to bring them home to mom on the first date and I would think that would be very much disc…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:53 PM
5

It was a good field report. But it was all about his wife's reactions and him ramping it up to DL10 just to get decent sex from her (that is too much work). He has to drive her at or past redline. That would burn out your clutch or motor, what is that going to do to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 07:30 PM
2

he took manufactured drama and pre selection and seems to be making it work... To much work on what she will think or do. If he spent that much effort on himself he would naturally get the same results, but it would be genuine and not short circuit his wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 05:54 PM
1

I just don’t know how long it will last or if it is something that I even want anymore. Here is the thing. I found this (TRP/MRP) while researching divorce. I was tired of the nagging disrespectful bitch who doled out starfished duty sex once a quarter with unenthusiastic BJ/HJs inbetween. I mean we were supposed to love, respect, and have crazy sex with each other twice day until our mid 90s right? Within a month of swallowing the pill she was all over me (to the point I was crying uncle). At a…
/r/askMRP06/04/18 05:45 PM
1

nope. I never said you had issues socializing. I said you are inhibited and for whatever reason you are repressing yourself.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:28 PM
2

Perhaps she was in the circle and the OP missed out. So now she is just giving him his missed opportunity. In the spirit of fairness.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:49 PM
1

If you make a concerned face during sex and the girl asks why.. The brush off is going to make a very exposed girl feel very very insecure. She left thinking there is something wrong with her. I have had times of not standing at full attention with my wife, and she thinks it was her 90% of the time. That woman has nothing to worry about except recovery from being manipulated like she was a pretzel. The pleasures of her body being my playground.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:46 PM
8

baseball bats work really good. What she is talking about is a really strong grip and hand prints on her ass cheeks from the slaps. Just hard enough to break blood vessels.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:38 PM
1

Get out of your comfort zone and actually do what Robert Glover suggests in NMMNG.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:34 PM
2

This is not the case for most people. Why not? Just like W&S, my wife is everything on that list. She needed to be, otherwise I wouldn't have married her. She doesn't exist to just give me sex and blowjobs. She actually has additional value to add to my life. When your first mate is also a good friend, the ship runs smoother.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 03:07 PM
41

There is NO path from the Friend Zone to the Bone Zone. Not entirely true. The only path is to do exactly like you said and if your paths cross again down the road, time and being a much more valuable man could reset it. But who cares because you are not "just friends" with other girls.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:54 PM
1

You are inhibited. When you drink and your inhibitions drop, you pop like a balloon. Why? Because you are inhibited and do not actually express yourself until you down some liquid courage.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:50 PM
1

Yup. Why does the OP feel it necessary to be a chameleon.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:49 PM
4

gator hide. And it comes with teeth.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:27 PM
5

I was referring to the OP, not girls.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:24 PM
2

well you can't really learn anything unless you apply it. So I suppose you are correct.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:23 PM
1

You would know had you read the sidebar. Retard
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:59 PM
3

I'm starting to see why Vandaalen is so crunchy with newcomers. I thought he did that because he loved them.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:57 PM
9

Well that explains why the bottom 80% of males don't get laid. I just thought it was lack of attraction.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:55 PM
8

How is that so hard to understand?
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:54 PM
6

Right now my philosophy is: improve yourself as much as possible and don't give a fuck about pussy (It's hard not to give a fuck when you are a virgin, but yeah). No its not that hard because you have no idea what its like. I keep believing I should maximize my looks and value so in a few years I will be fucking (most likely) chicks every day. This is the best course of action you should be taking. Most guys of my age don't even know what they are doing with their life and keep wasting time on w…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:52 PM
2

nice short cut
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:43 PM
1

He had so many great works that one can learn a lot from.
/r/askMRP06/04/18 01:40 PM
1

At this point it's pathetic that I haven't gotten any pussy in 21 years. So that last one you were in was your Mom's? But in all seriousness you need to learn game, wit, charisma, and general social skills. Dont be afraid to be yourself. I know that sounds cliche' but with so many nice guys walking around pretending to be who they are not because they want someone to like them, it isn't. Chameleons do not value themselves, so others will not see that they have value. Then go and get a job were y…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:32 PM
4

emotionally I still need a lot of practice. To deal with your nice guy syndrome: No More Mister Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover To learn to control emotions (i.e. become more stoic): Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:17 PM
7

This isn't a plate. It isn't a relationship. You are part of a sexual lifestyle where you are supposed to be just a tool (seriously just a living breathing dildo). Flaky cuckoldresses/hotwives are part of that lifestyle because you are not the one that is supposed to matter to her in the "relationship" but the wife and the cuck. Their mindset is.. "We are letting you fuck the wife because we have this fetish, but there are always more tools we can use." So enjoy the sex you are getting.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:57 PM
6

what type of value are you talking about? I am going to assume that you mean the alpha leader type and not the beta provider type. Because they both have value. So for the alpha value it should exude naturally as you know you are valuable. Sort of redundant but its true. You know your input is valuable so you do not hesitate to give it. You know you are charming and witty so you do not hesitate to use it. You know you are decisive so you step up to make the necessary decisions. That is how you s…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:37 PM
2

I'm takling girls that I have dated a little bit and fooled around/slept with, so there is some level of attraction They must like it rough if you are tackling them. Do you both wear protection like the NFL or next to none like they do in Rugby?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:29 PM
1

TRP isn't self improvement. self improvement is only there to help you maximize your sexual potential. You don't have to do any self improvement and still achieve your sexual potential using the TRP strategies. If you want to watch porn and play video games inbetween your fap sessions, go ahead. You can still take responsibility for your own actions, spin plates, and not get married despite being pressured to do so. All without doing any of the self improvement advice.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:23 PM
1

Then I can completely understand your confusion, because I am now too.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:45 PM
1

"be the best you can be, and improve yourself" None of the "self-improvement" advice here is red pill or blue pill. The advice on the dos and donts is there so that you can improve and protect yourself. But the red pill and the blue pill are a state of mind. Its a sort of mental programming. The terms come from the Matrix but the actual philosophy is thousands of years old (Plato's Allegory of the Cave). The red pill is how reality actually is, TRP is a sexual strategy that uses the truth of rea…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 05:13 PM
7

My general question is how you do rationalize committing to someone, plate or LTR, knowing that someone else has gotten the same thing a whole lot easier? I don't care. I only care what she is doing with me and whether or not I am enjoying it. I feel like a cuck for even dating or having feelings for her in the first place when chad put in zero work and got all the benefits. I have been with virgins and I have been with those with more experience than me. I have never felt like I was a cuck beca…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:54 PM
1

The anterior Deltoid and the Tricep are the primary stabilizers. Yet you say they are strong enough on their own? Are you trying to bench 300 yet your OHP is just the bar? Or you do tricep extensions with a 5 pound dumbbell?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:44 PM
2

The hand itself is weaker? I thought you said the right side pushes the bar up and the left side couldn't. Other than grip, not much else is used by the hand for it. The pecs, tris, and delts are the major groups for bench. So how can your left be stronger and weaker at the same time?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:11 PM
5

There is no fixing this. There is only leaving this.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 04:08 PM
1

Yup. Eat lunch at work and getting in some work during lunch. You have an hour to bang one out and quickies can be done in 10-15 minutes.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 04:06 PM
5

I have to think about it. I "love" her She doesn't love or respect you She is a great life companion apart from the sexual attraction that is going down the hill. Because she found someone else, or wants to find someone else and wants to test the waters before leaving your ass. She doesn't want to feel guilty so she is trying to manipulate you into agreeing to her fucking other guys (AND NOT YOU) while you continue to provide for her until she can find someone better. Why should this entitled pr…
/r/askMRP05/04/18 04:02 PM
2

She started whining about "my negative attitude" how cute and me not "respecting her needs" and that the relationship would "not work long-term" otherwise and she wants to stay in the relationship with me and have kids etc, blah blah blah. The correct reply to this: What is it about a divorce that doesn't respect your need to be a slut?
/r/askMRP05/04/18 03:54 PM
2

She tried to monkey branch. The "rebound (riiiiight)" probably wasn't what she perceived him to be, he just wanted to hit it and quit it, and or your improvements made her second guess the branch swing. Bottom line is she broke it off with you to be with someone she perceived had higher value than you. I know AWALT, but that is just to explain that they are all capable of doing that, but she showed her hand and she will drop you immediately for another male of perceived higher value than you. It…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:42 PM
2

Weak left pectoral, delts, or tricep perhaps. Work with dumbbells (chest fly, dumbbell press, dumbbell extensions) or an isometric machine to make a more definitive determination. But that is the likely cause.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:35 PM
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What does a prestigious school have to do with anything. I dated a girl who went to a very prestigious catholic school. Was crashing at her pad and her dad says he is going to bed. When he did he left a box of condoms on the armrest next to me and said “i dont want grandchildren right now” and walked off.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:58 PM
1

I've tried PHUL, 5x5 and many other things besides 5/3/1. Guess it's an option to consider now. You need a volume training and not a strength training regimen. The sweet spot for most muscle growth is around 80-100 reps per week lifting 70-80% of your 1RM. Despite that you will be limited to how much muscle you can put on based on how long you have been lifting. For new lifters, they could naturally gain 20-25 lbs of muscle the first year and goes down to 4-5 lbs by year 4. This of course change…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:51 PM
1

You're looking for instant results. This is a marathon not a sprint. yup. The formula for more permanent body transformations is: Intensity of Effort x Consistency over time = change Put in too little effort over a year and you will only get a little change. Put in a shit ton of effort over 1-2 months will likewise equal little change.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:48 PM
1

Stop with the strength training and get on a volume regimen. my regimen is basically 6 sets of 8-10 reps per exercise. I have 2 push days and 2 pull days a week (4 lifting days a week).
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:46 PM
1

I have experienced actual body agenda guarding. Bitchiness is not one of the subconscious techniques that was used. Finding something else that needs doing before anything happens is common and ther always seemed to be something else that needed doing. Usually for me, i get bitchiness for failed shit tests. Either because she was hoping i would pass them or she is just upset that her husband isnt man enough. But never was it used as a means to block sex and prevent pregnancies.
/r/askMRP04/04/18 05:32 PM
6

Its not impossible, but I doubt my wife will branch swing to you.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:06 PM
2

cheat? No. Branch swing. Probably, as the LDR is not near enough to keep her excited.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:46 PM
10

I always listen to recruiters. I haven't flooded the market with my resume in over a decade and yet I have had several job changes.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 01:14 PM
2

She is in a LDR as I saw from her fb page, but she never mentioned her BF. That just means he is an idiot. Now I went for drinks with her, we had fun and I brought up sexual topics a few times, and I made sure to kino. Yup. and that right there is why TRP strongly advises against LDRs. She is off riding the CC while he is patiently waiting at home (not if he is smart). I guarantee you that her LDR BF doesn't quiet know about all those "guy friends."
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:07 PM
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You no longer excited her. She gave up on waiting for you to excite her and wanted to find someone who could. Either she couldnt find one or the reality of her affair partner hit her, toss in the improvements you have made and she thinks she can just come back. I repeat. She gave up on you to with or find someone better. Do you really want someone that so easily and negatively impacted your children because she gave up on your marriage and family?
/r/askMRP04/04/18 02:22 AM
1

Mine has high expectations as well. So what. I routinely fail to meet her expectations. Why? Mine are more important and I likewise have alot on my plate. Too much to even worry about her expectations of me. Now get to work faggot.
/r/askMRP03/04/18 10:51 PM
2

OP should read and read his comment.
/r/askMRP03/04/18 06:35 PM
4

It is easy. Just do something like this: Her: okay, lets get this show on the road. You: no thanks. Take a rain check? Her: this is your last chance. You: <pause in thought for a second or two>. Thanks for the chance, but I dont need it right now. Do this even if you would blow your load in your shorts if a stiff breeze blew over it. Lazy, starfished scheduled duty sex is horrible. I have been there (minus the schedule). Not worth it and you need to realize that you deserve better than a half he…
/r/askMRP03/04/18 06:25 PM
1

TRP is a sexual strategy which basically says you need to unfuck yourself. And in the process of that, there is a natural bleed over into other areas of your life. But make no mistake, TRP is about getting laid and how to protect yourself in todays post #metoo world.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:55 PM
1

Not necessarily. It is about the ability to pull multiple girls. The actual act of doing so just proves it.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:52 PM
3

Good. Now begin the hardwork. Start by canceling that scheduled sex.
/r/askMRP03/04/18 05:40 PM
1

Then you know the answer to your question about this girl. You always did.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:34 PM
2

Do what you want to do. With that said what is your mission in life? Would dating this girl hinder, distract, or take you away from that mission right now? Additionally, why does her n-count bother you?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:02 PM
2

I am not most guys. I am me. I will never make it because there is always something more to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/18 01:24 PM
1

This thing called a paternity test. He should have one taken.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 07:30 PM
0

Its a “system”. Or rether it is a method. Where you scale up the dominance in bed, the emotions you give her, and the variety of what, where, and how. There is a book about that and it is in the recommended reading of the sidebar. Essentially all women have sex the same way with you. Because its you.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:10 PM
0

Implement DEVI. You obviously are not.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:00 PM
3

What is wrong with the beard?
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:00 PM
1

Have a MAP. This will help you break up your goals into more manageable chunks and keep you from getting overwhelmed by them.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 02:17 PM
1

I understand the science behind it. I dont understand it from a red pill perspective as to why a red pilled man would want or feel the need to do it.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:01 PM
5

I dont tak about fight club. But I do sincerely ask why are you doing x when z will produce better results. My favorite is, “ arguing with your wife is a lose-lose situation. Even if you somehow win the arguement you lose. best to not engage and end in a draw.”
/r/askMRP01/04/18 11:45 AM
1

I do 6 sets of 8 reps at 70% 1RM for the day (or 12 sets for the week). I do a Push day and a Pull day with 2-3 days rest between another Push or Pull day. I only do Squats/Leg Press on push days and Deadlifts on Pull days so I have no official "leg day." So it is doable, but I sometimes have issues getting to 8 reps on my last set. Depends on my daily nutrition.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 04:59 AM
2

I agree. I trained for strength and actually kept getting hurt because one rep was just shy of perfect form and I would be out a week. I didn't make any real gains until I stopped with that routine and refocused on getting 12 sets of 8 reps per week at 70% 1RM. Now I am at or exceeded my working set reps from before and it only took me 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 04:53 AM
1

I know that some people state that you should so you have a much keener eye on when to initiate sex and when to expect to lie in bed cuddling or something. I have a very hard time understanding this from an RP standpoint. If I want sex, i will initiate regardless of where my wife is on her cycle. Will I get shut down? Sometimes, and hardly ever do I get shut down 2 days in a row since swallowing the pill. as for me, I am only concerned with high flow days.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:46 AM
1

Well you are not worse than the retarded faggot who just posted about almost getting into a bar fight to impress some dumb female.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 02:40 AM
7

I am sure all those high smv girls are all talking about you too. Them: Did you see those two retards?
/r/askTRP01/04/18 02:38 AM
4

I got kicked out a of a sewing club once. I too was using aggressive hand gestures. Like “talk to the hand beeotch”. /s Is there some game out there to see who can write an asktro post with the most faggotry? Clearly you must be in the running.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 02:36 AM
1

There are self improvement subs for that. This is for men.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:23 PM
1

He isnt. Fintess and self improvement are just some of the tools to implementing TRP strategy - which is to have more frequent and better sex. “Asexual” guys should go visit the MGTOW sub.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:22 PM
1

What do you want to do with the relationship? Who cares what she says.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 10:32 PM
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then, how did they really ever love them? Lmao. You need to read about the light switch effect in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 10:08 PM
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Women love men all the time and they mean it when they tell then that they love them. Then 10 minutes later a more interesting and exciting swinging dick notices them and everything is completely forgotten as if it never even happened. Its called the Light Switch effect.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 09:02 PM
3

Very true. From personal experience.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:58 PM
1

Delete this post. Fix it by making it relevant by contrasting with the no texting and 2/3rds rules.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:13 PM
1

I am aware of the blindspots. That is why i asked about how badly he fucked up in the aftermath. And he isnt married to this girl.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 07:50 PM
1

Okay. I dont. Feel better? Your ego left intact?
/r/askMRP30/03/18 07:40 PM
1

When did I say it was about the money? I said he shouldnt pay for her GNO after that disrespect. And none of us have anything to offer the OP. Go read his history, he put in zero work since finding this sub over a year ago.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 07:38 PM
2

He asked for advice on how it should have been handled. And I gave it to him. Have you read this guy’s history. He came here a year ago and he hasnt even read enough to know how to handle a GNO for fuck sake.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 07:29 PM
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Him: you know what... take that GNO and here is some extra cash. Not quiet RP is it. That is what it has to do. He doesnt want her to go, she disrespected him. No fucking way should he be paying his own cash after that. It should be, “thats fine, go have fun and go. But after that disrespect i am not giving you a dime to do so”
/r/askMRP30/03/18 07:27 PM
1

She doesnt work. Who is paying for her trip? Hopefully the OP doesnt have shared accounts or pays her bills.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 07:12 PM
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I told you the best advice for handling the GNO. Rollo Tomassi’s The Rational Male blog has the best advice and explanation you will ever need regarding them. I aint gonna reinvent the wheel for you. As for how to fix it? You never answered my question regarding the loss of frame.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 07:02 PM
1

The minute i tell her it would make me feel pretty uncomfortable she blows up that i am controlling and am putting her in a place that is hard for her. You should read Rollo's blog about Girls Night Out (GNOs) and how to handle them. You fucked up buddy. But you did good by the STFU during the fallout. The question I have is how far into her frame did it go before you decided to STFU? You clearly haven't put too much effort into the sidebar because you would know what to do with her lack of resp…
/r/askMRP30/03/18 06:18 PM
1

healthy T levels This isn't as easily achieved as lifting consistently and eating right. Some people have screwed up their bodies so much that they require assistance.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 05:34 PM
3

They say if you can't find a good career it's that damn economy and nobody is finding that great job nowadays. I had a boss tell me once "Valuable employees will always be able to find a job, even when no one is hiring." Made sense then during the so called "Great Recession" of 2008. Still makes sense today, even with the Trump Bump.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 05:27 PM
1

I am sorry but why cant you get a job as a book keeper or something else involving finances while you study for your CPA? Being productive is built into men. We gain self worth from it. So do something. Then spend your off hours hitting the gym (more building of self worth) and studying for your CPA.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:40 PM
1

Women are the ones that keep male orbiters for validation. Colloquially called the “friend zone.” They will tease and pretend to offer what they must to keep guys in their orbit. Hell some will go so far to ruin any potential relationship the orbiter may get in to. And that is when some will actually offer up starfish sex to their orbiter. It will never the the sex they describe to the orbiters they are doing with chad while the orbiters think they are waiting their turn. Which will be when she …
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:18 PM
1

Same. Volume over heavy weight.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 02:07 PM
1

I do a push with squats on Mondays and Thursdays. I do pull with deadlifts on Tuesdays and Fridays. Wednesdays and weekends are off days. My routine is. 6 weeks on. 1 week off. And my intermittent fasting coincides with my routine.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 02:06 PM
2

Lift or dont lift. There are myriad reasons to lift. Primarily is that it takes fat incels in their mothers basement and gives them an avenue to develop self discipline, self confidence, and gets them some time away from their hourly porn fap and video games. Other reasons are the acute test spikes you get from lifting weights can briefly help low test soy boys feel good. Losing that gamer muffin top and actually getting sunlight (if ever so slightly for your trip to the gym) also help with your…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:26 PM
1

She is craving your attention. You dont have to give it to her even if she is sitting right in front of you.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:05 PM
2

Again. How the fuck would we know. I have worked places where new sales guys get excited about pulling in a 2k commision. While the more experienced sales guys are pulling off 5-6 figure commisions. Both count their commisions as victories.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 09:41 PM
1

I just let her hang out and ignored her while we were at my place. Accidents happen and you handled that well. I feel disrespected that someone came uninvited in to my house. Did the invitee know about your "issue" with this girl? If not, then why are you feeling disrespected? If they did, they don't get another invite to your home, but can meet you at the destination. I would go so far as to not even invite them on the next outing you do as well.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:06 PM
2

Is it okay to fuck a fat girl? If that is what you want to do. But the bigger problem is why are you asking anonymous people on the internet if you can have sex with someone? You need to learn to make those adult decisions on your own.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:58 PM
7

There is this girl I've had a crush one. And no matter what I did I could not get over it. Sidebar. It literally is the very first link in the FAQs Sometimes It felt like the relationship was going somewhere but then after a while it'll just return to nothingness. She is a succubus. Leaching your masculine energy. She keeps orbiting me in texts but when I approach in real life she rejects me. Wrong, she is a gas giant and she is trying to pull you into orbit around her. So that she can drain you…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:54 PM
3

You would think someone would have put a link in the sidebar that explains what to do about "this one girl." I mean everyone who posts this shit has read the sidebar and have been red pilled for 5 decades right?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:30 PM
2

We are still going, we truly have to (really). Is this a sunk cost fallacy? u/Persaeus is right. The bitterness is her issue. If you know that the financials will be sorted out by you, then act like you have it taken care of. Broke frame This trip is the perfect time to build it up stronger than before.
/r/askMRP28/03/18 05:43 PM
1

I knew that about the curl bars. But the benches and squat rack bars too?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:04 PM
3

And he should start looking for another position elsewhere.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:11 PM
2

There is you There is her She is a succubus who is feeding off the attention you are giving her. That is all she wants from you.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:07 PM
1

Sidebar - “there is this one girl” and beta-orbiter. Read those.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:04 PM
1

Nope. The inverse of single moms does not exist.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:58 PM
2

Really? So everyone knows her reputation and you choose to ignore their advice. Supposedly these are people you trust. But instead of trusting them, you want to trust the advice of anonymous commentors on the internet? Do what ever you want sputnik.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:41 PM
1

It wouldnt matter to him because he has read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:39 PM
1

The quote was “look better than me”. Is she prettier would not work as I was suggesting playing with ambiguity of the quoted phrase.
/r/askMRP27/03/18 03:26 PM
1

Strength and musculature are related. But just because someone is swole doesnt mean they are strong. But it is a food indicator or it. To gain strength fast, you do routines meant to increase strength (high weight with low reps). While you will get some muscle growth, the focus is on maximizing the strength potential of the muscle you currently have. Strong Lifts 5x5 is often recommended here because it does just that. NSuns 5/3/1 is recomended on the fitness subreddit. Hypertrophy (muscle growt…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:13 PM
1

So do they have satin sheets or are the flannel?
/r/askMRP27/03/18 02:54 PM
1

To briefly answer your first sentence. Yes. Because she is on the decline and you are pulling young hotties. Yet still chosing her. It both comforts and excites her. Fun times will ensue. Lying means she cannot trust you and you will leave her when you are ready. She will clamp up as she won’t want to get pregnant only to have you leave.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 10:39 PM
2

You give her comfort when you joke about it with her that you are a man and you chose her over little miss hottie (this time). She could dread losing you after because of it and then try and up her game to keep you. But she may (most likely) also require your leadership to guide her in how to lose the weight.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:52 PM
2

How do you go about it? What do you want? Do that.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:47 PM
0

girl wants to go to the gym with me is that good or bad For you? That is awful. You dont need the distraction as you obviously have way to much work to do on yourself. Especially since you have no idea if a girl asking to go to the gym with you is good or bad. Fix that shit.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:41 PM
0

You do you. TRP is just knowledge along with tactics and strategy to make use of that knowledge. The point being that you become capable of getting the most out of your life. Alot of the “dos and donts” are to help you position yourself for that outcome while limiting the risks that could hinder your potential. But if anything, dont ask the anonymous internet to make important decisions for yourself. Man up and make the decision to respond or not, based on what you want.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:36 PM
1

No. I said you should have used AM, or atleast AA, than lie because your wife already knew the answer.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:23 PM
1

Basically. She is an ex for a reason. No reason to think anything actually changed.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:20 PM
1

Someone doesnt know what a plate is. She seems to think she is your girlfriend. And you wont admit that she is either.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:06 PM
1

Hmm. Been RP for 2 years but no real post history. Have you even put in the work? The cunt is most likely a cunt because you are not worth her putting spit on your dick. And really, that is what you are actually whining about.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:03 PM
1

Do you go to trash dumps looking for gold bars?
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:56 PM
2

So you gave her a good laugh and validated her decision to flake. Good one.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:55 PM
7

Um. No. Let me simplify (big word I know) it for you. You care too much what your wife thinks and craft your reply to suit her reaction instead of owning up to the itty bitty woody in your drawyers. The one you got from a young hottie inadvertently glancing your direction. And your wife picked up on it because your eyes were so glued to the hottie’s tight little ass.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 08:44 PM
7

This was a missed opportunity for some fun AM fogging. Her: does she look better than me? You: Not sure, its hard to top you in bed. But we can find out. You can hold the camera.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 08:32 PM
1

Want some confidence advice. Lyle Lovett is one ugly man. He nabbed and married Julia Roberts (Pretty Woman Era) in her prime. She was easily a 9. Its not the looks. Its the way you make them FEEL.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:01 PM
4

Read the side bar But here is the cliff notes version: STFU You Do You, let her do her and stfu If it NEEDS doing, do it and stfu Own your actions and stfu “Play” with your wife Take responsibility for your finances and stfu Take responsibility for your physique and stfu Take responsibility for your health and stfu Take responsibility for house and stfu Take responsibility for your job and stfu And STFU
/r/askMRP26/03/18 01:50 PM
8

I had a hot experience with the wife a few months back. My car overheated from a small radiator leak. She dropped everything to bring me stop leak and 50-50. After the car cooled at home. I ripped that radiator out and slapped in a new one. Been cool ever since. Good times! But not one I am keen to replicate.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 12:53 PM
2

Broken record seems to work well on women, And on children.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 12:31 AM
1

3 months in to lifting. I know early i was similar. My back was just stronger than my chest. not anymore mind you. I dont waste time trying for PRs. But my working set weights are BP195, Row 165, DL 245, OHP 120. (60 dumbbells).
/r/askMRP23/03/18 12:52 PM
1

Skips leg day perhaps.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 12:45 PM
6

How did you build your physique? One rep at a time over the course of time. Same goes with frame. And it is times like now that strengthens it the most.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:07 PM
2

Do nothing covertly. Just let him know that you wont roll out the welcome mat for her if he brings her around because of what she did to him in the past. When he does(and he will), ignore her as she is unimportant to the time you spend with your cousin. Dont treat her with contempt as that will just ruin your relationship with him.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:00 PM
4

Does it effect your mission in life? I dont drink because it is counter productive to my mission. But I know of others it has no effect or enhances their mission. So that is up to you to decide and not anonymous reddit commentators.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:53 PM
7

How? Focus on yourself. Clearly you are way too focused on her. That doesnt mean you pay no attention to her, but she is there to make your life better.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:48 PM
2

Read SGM. I believe that is sidebar material anyways... so why havent you read it? (SGM and the sidebar)
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:29 PM
2

Along with going full non contact. Learn stoicism then remain stoic and cordial to her throughout the process. Even in the face of the worst divorce rape imaginable as it will only make things worse.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:26 PM
2

In other words... her boyfriend is her problem.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:20 PM
17

While in an LTR you have to sprinkle in a little beta comfort and occasionally pay for some things. That is called being in a relationship and those things help make them last. That doesnt mean you pay her rent and utilities nor does it mean you become her emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:09 PM
4

No one said you cant have an LTR or marriage if that is what you want. The advice is there to not have those things because there is very little advantage for the man. TRP is just a sexual strategy that both promotes and protects masculinity. But a key note about it is that the man get what he wants out of life. If that is an LTR and Marriage. Good for you, just know the risks and do your damnedest to protect yourself while getting what you want.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:01 PM
4

Maybe. I am just enjoying it for however long it lasts.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:50 PM
4

Yes. After a hard days work when my youngest daughter (9yo) runs up and hugs me the moment I walk in the door. That always has an effect to cheer me up. Sometimes she is outside with friends and she immediately stops whatever she was doing and runs over to hug me hello. Its gonna suck when that stops.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:42 PM
1

Ultimatums require a response. Even ignoring them is a response. My guess is you meant responding with a “yes I will marry you” is entering her frame because responding with a “okay, see ya” and immediately ghosting her is not.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:32 PM
1

But on other subs you would disagree?
/r/askMRP22/03/18 02:27 PM
0

she loses her SMV, That is a given. Which is why it is important to vet your wife for other “qualities” that matter to you.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 02:26 PM
1

You are not ready, OP. You are walking head first into a life of misery attempting to please a woman. For the OP: How to please a woman - by being a man. How to be a man - by not trying to please a woman. High quality women are happiest when they get to help and assist you with your mission in life.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 02:18 PM
1

If you are white and want to be dipped in mocha or if you are black and prefer vanilla to chocolate. Who cares!!
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:31 PM
4

OP: “Is being married that important that you are willing to sacrifice our relationship to have it?” Her: “yes it is” OP: “okay, bye” Her: “where you going?” OP: “I am not marrying anyone that would throw me away so easily”
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:21 PM
4

So not true. Women want to feel desired more than loved. That means they want their man to be sexual with them. Talk means nothing, actions mean everything (acta non verba)
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:08 PM
5

If you have had sex with an escort, you are not a virgin. Inexperienced for only having sex twice, yes. But not a virgin.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:54 PM
3

No. Women feed off the extreme emotions men give them as expressing them are a femanine quality. Where as a masculine quality is one who can keep his emotions in check. Remember that women desire comfort. They want to feel comfortable being more feminine and resent having to tone it down and become more masculine. By holding your emotions in check, she will feel more comfortable to allow herself to express those emotions as she sees you as her anchor. She will feel more feminine (or as they put …
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:52 PM
3

My thoughts are the only reason to get married is for the sake of children because a stable two parent home is the best for them. Emphasis on stable. But the girl needs to be properly vetted and you need to recognize your proper role in the marriage. You also shouldnt be knocking up just any girl. But one that you want to have kids with. Crazy moms will beget disfunctional kids. So always wrap it before you tap it.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:45 PM
1

Yes, but we have to compete nowadays with the chinese and their high ratio of men to women.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:28 PM
1

Well we kind of do need help (thank god for the red pill and the manosphere). Emasculated white males are the norm and are celebrated in western culture. While black men overly celebrate their masculinity in their subculture Which is why you see alot l black men with white women. Making them naturally attracted to one another. It also doesnt help that alot of black women are overly masculine.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:04 PM
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She is low quality. You are 21 and she was seriously considering having an affair. Just because she chose you this time doesnt mean that if gamer boy chad lived closer that it wouldnt have happened. She could have chickened out for fear of what could happen to her (abduction, etc) and not fear of losing you. She already relegated you to back up when this was going on. Chew on that before deciding to have anything further to do with this woman. She didnt respect you enough to untangle herself fro…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:57 PM
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What he should have done was pressure flip. He didnt. So he only has three options, marry her, leave, or ignore her ultimatum and continue his course. If he answered yes to both (highly unlikely as she wouldnt have given the ultimatum), which one of the three would allow him to achieve those ends and still maintain the frame?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:42 PM
2

Those variables typically include being religiously conservative (not necessarily politically conservative), relationship with their father, parents relationship, and her current satisfaction with her own relationship. Even still a girl having none of those may still turn down an alpha for her beta (even on his worst days) and a girl with all of those could still “slip” and fall on his cock. Because those are not an indication that she will never cheat or branchswing, just that she is less likel…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:07 PM
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She dropped an ultimatum... the only question is what do you want to do? Did you plan on getting married? To this girl? If you answered no to either of these, call her bluff and move on. TRP is about discussing sexual strategy. But it is also about getting what you want out of life with sex being a part of it. TRP is against marriage because there is seemingly no advantage for a man to get married in our modern society, but if you want to do that anyways. You do you.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:00 PM
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Except in “Daddy’s Home” she doesnt cheat on beta bucks with her ex-Chad because she loves him for him. So good examples of the alpha/beta dynamic but a lousy example overall because of the NAWALT and the “beta gets the girl”
/r/askMRP18/03/18 08:24 PM
1

I am not sure where you got your carb information. I typically eat low carbs and I lift heavy. Carbs are just energy. Your body uses them to make the glycogen your muscles use for quick bursts of energy. They dont help “recovery” per ce, but help you to get more reps out. You can still do keto and lift heavy. I also do IF and dont like lifting in a fasted state as I am weaker and lack the energy to do as many reps as I do an hour after eating.
/r/askMRP18/03/18 05:47 PM
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I would be pissed if one of my daughters was hiding a guy from me. My girls deserve better than to date that type of guy. I expect them to be with red pilled high quality men.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 06:50 PM
3

you: "Nope" It isn't that hard.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:05 PM
1

No argument here. That is why I suggested going back to the bar to learn how to do it with very little weight.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 02:58 PM
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Your pathetic bench will increase along with your other lifts. He probably needs to look at his form. If he is mainly using his shoulders (as that is what it looks like based on the numbers) then he is only going to get himself hurt.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 02:26 PM
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I am thinking along those lines. It may be that his form is crap and he is primarily using his shoulders with little chest activation. He should go back to just the bar and practice benching with his scapulars tucked in until it becomes second nature.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 02:21 PM
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Keep lifting either way and make sure you learn the lifts with good form. This cannot be stressed enough. It is better to properly bench just the bar than to hurt your shoulders ego benching 205 lbs. Learn the lifts. Then add weight when your muscles know the right form.
/r/askMRP12/03/18 06:12 PM
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That day, I started tracking everything I ate in MyFitnessPal, established a goal of 1,500 calories per day, No. i would not do this if I were you. I would clean up the food you eat, but not work at caloric deficit. At the very least maintain at your TDEE and hit the gym. Your body will recomp easier if you do that then if you eat less calories. A lot of guys here will claim that Strong Lifts 5x5 is the way to go.. I normally would say that for someone who has confidence and self esteem issues. …
/r/askMRP12/03/18 05:59 PM
2

Read TRP for about a year now and I could be more in shape. Um. Why not? In 1 years time I have made some great changes in my body. And all it took was roughly 1 - 1.5 hours a day for four days out of the week. Also dialed in a decent diet. Just a little bit of effort applied consistently over time and you will make major changes to your "shape." Topic changed, went on to have a fine day. Then she got sick but got better. But now whenever I'm over she's treating me like shit. Body language is cl…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:43 PM
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A healthy sexy relationship between a man and his wife shouldn’t be a secret, should be used as a model. Correct. My wife gets butt slaps, two handed cheek squeezes, and "Go get a room" style kissing in front of my kids. They actually feel secure when they see that Daddy and Mommy love and desire each other. But that is only part of showing them what a masculine man looks like. Like owning your shit, doing what needs to be done, and leading your family. And your children need to see you being th…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/18 04:21 PM
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Depends on how you do it. I personally do not stuff my face and eat my normal sized meals. Funny thing is that arter the first few days, you have to force yourself to eat that first meal.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:03 PM
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Op should specifically read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2s1coz/what_is_an_alpha_widow_and_why_does_it_matter/
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/18 08:48 PM
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My goals are to increase lean muscle mass, run faster, and lift heavier. The only way that could possibly happen is if you eat less and juice more. In order to lose weight, you have to have to be in a caloric deficit. When you are in a caloric deficit, you will burn fat and muscle. Taking HGH will help reduce your body's ability to eat your muscle mass for fuel. On a side note, doing Intermittent Fasting and or Keto will also cause your natural HGH production to increase (so you do not need exog…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 07:41 PM
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On what basis are you saying that? That you are an autist. Which gives hopes to all the others out there that they too can get laid.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:22 PM
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u/abdada had it right. This is your vacation. She can go or she can stay. It doesn't matter as you are enjoying your vacation regardless. If she goes, she can enjoy herself or not. Doesn't matter as you are enjoying your vacation regardless. How it is done: Pack your bag and have her bag there for her to pack. You: "I am leaving at X:XX, are you packing?" Leave at X:XX with or without her. On Vacation.. You: "I am going to X location, coming?" Go to X location with or without her.
/r/askMRP08/03/18 07:16 PM
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I read it as a very round about way of saying that everyone should lift and a warning (on what they are missing out on) to those who choose not to.
/r/askMRP08/03/18 07:00 PM
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It is a very well written and reasoned explanation. In short I would say it is learning the actual rules for the game of life, so that you can succeed.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:38 PM
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Is it worth going into the rabbit-hole that is reading Rollo's, Blacklabellogics, Illimitable man, Roosh and so on? Yes. It is just like applying fertilizer to the crop.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:10 PM
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So you were not what she thought you were and she swung back to him. Probably kept him as a standby orbiter while she tested things with you. She will most likely branch swing away from him again.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:35 PM
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None of this means anything without height and weight It means he is lousy at proofreading. I suspect his bench is actually at 240. Otherwise he is full of shit for everything else. How can you have an OHP at 120 and a bench at 140?
/r/askMRP07/03/18 02:18 PM
2

It helps foster an abundance mentality so that you do not pedestal your wife. She doesn't want to be on a pedestal and will lose respect for you if you put her there.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:51 PM
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DEERing is just verbally puking out your emotions. You can also hold a normal conversation with women. Kind of like doing dishes and/or laundry is choreplay covert contract. Or it could be you owning your shit. It is the mental motivation behind what you are doing. In this case u/Ex_Swm_Lfw is setting and holding his boundaries.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 08:31 PM
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u/reallythatfast. To give you an idea of the time tables for when it happened to me. At some point, you'll get to her worrying about you leaving her. That means you're there physically. Yup. That took me about a year of lifting. Now she absentmindedly rubs my arms. At some point, your mental point of origin will change. Her input is exactly that, input. That means you're closer mentally. This took me 6-8 months realistically. Of course I was not in the same situation as u/reallythatfast. I was n…
/r/askMRP05/03/18 04:59 PM
1

Good, what you should see is her vision of your potential as a high status beta provider.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:04 PM
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A joke or two is fine. Crossing the line into being a dick is something else. Exactly. It also shows that the guy is being passive aggressive over his own insecurities and will try to bring anyone down to make himself feel better.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 03:12 PM
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Even I was confused o want this baby or not. Well you have one now, whether you like it or not. So be the best damn father you could possibly be. When she left the third time, I sent her the divorce letter and ended it. I was doing compromise for our baby boy whole this time. He just turned 1 year old. She sounds a bit unstable. However, there is no context as to why she left you those three times. But that doesn't matter now. You finally made a decision to kill the puppy (which she may or may n…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 03:08 PM
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This is how i would have handled. Walked out to where she was. Grabbed the phone and toss it aside (out of her reach). While i am doing that. Go in for a kiss and say “i am more important”. All power moves. She either has to agree with you. Which then you can then pull her into the bedroom. Or she will disagree with you. Which lets you know she can see you next Tuesday.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 06:55 PM
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It is just an acute spike. But it doesnt actually raise your levels.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 09:49 PM
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Simple. Consume more than you use. Ideally you are also lifting. But keep in mind that you will only gain 20-25lbs for the first year. After that. The gains slow down unless you use something exogenous (aka steroids)
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:31 PM
2

Really? You are 15 and just got your first kiss. How the hell do you know what you do or dont do.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:57 PM
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Sounds like she is learning the same as you. Just have fun with her and it is perfectly fine to practice everything on her. Just back off if you feel she is telling you that its too far. Dont get butthurt by it and dont catch oneitis. More will come and the best part of this girl is she is helping you gain the experience to be confident with your actions.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:55 PM
1

Um. No. Betas and dropouts (MGTOW) use this shortcut to sex. Why would an alpha pay a pro for sex when he gets it for free?
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:43 PM
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Very weak facial hair? I used to think I did too. That isnt the case. It is the case that your facial hair grows at different times and speeds. Let it grow out for a few months and just groom it to keep it looking neat and clean. Eventually it will fill in.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 06:37 PM
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This is best as TRP will tell you to just do SL 5x5. But i feel that SL5x5 is only really good for the unplugging man who never entered a gym. Mostly for the initial confidence boost and the mental gains. That “i am getting stronger” moment. Hypertrophy and ketosis takes consistency over time for results to become obvious.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:53 PM
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I have no issues now and its over a year later. And my wife was very understanding of the rewriring processes. Then again. I guess i was more of a “cool kid” in high school because i did get laid often.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:56 PM
1

That is a false assumption. Jesus preached against that level of child abuse. Or are you stating that Jesus wouldnt have known that?
/r/RPChristians18/02/18 11:51 PM
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Even a few cops I know personally told me I’m better off carrying; they’re understaffed and spread thin. All I have to say is this. Both the orlando, fl and parkland, fl shootings had this in common. There was a cop on scene the entire time and neither tried to engage the shooter. We are each on our own when the lead starts flying. the cops will be there to collect evidence after the shooting stops.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:35 PM
1

For example, on Valentine’s day she wanted a soppy, heartfelt message which I failed to produce. You should have given her an index card with "Something soppy and heartfelt" written on it verbatim. And then when she gives you that look... just say that you completely agree with her look and you were completely puzzled but decided to give her what she asked for. then smirk..
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:31 PM
1

5 oclock, not 6... As in the back side of appendix carry.. over your right butt cheek.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:24 PM
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Does he still offer his spiritual provision to those who forsake him and leave the church? I think not. you are right he doesn't. But that still doesn't negate that he blesses each one of them with the sunrising the next day and all the other blessings that we normally take for granted.
/r/RPChristians16/02/18 08:22 PM
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He sacrificed His life for Her, Recently, my wife was making a cosplay ren fest style outfit for an event my family and I were going to. She was getting frustrated as she wanted help (Direction and leadership). I was tired. None the less, I refused to let her give up on herself, and we started to bang out the articles of clothing for the costume. I listened to her ideas on the outfit and implemented alot of them. She was my seamstress. we got it done and she looked great. We had just enough time…
/r/RPChristians16/02/18 08:18 PM
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yes. My wife feels more love from me when I lead and I make decisions that shows I am also considering her needs. Much more love than when i sacrifice my mission and goals for her.
/r/RPChristians16/02/18 08:07 PM
1

quick and easy alpha-esque perception - be a dick. Actually being an alpha does not require you to be a dick. I view it like the way wolves act. In captivity, the "Alpha" is the most aggressive and eats first. He doens't necessarily have the packs respect, but their fear. In the wild, the "Alpha" is the cool and confident leader and is so well respected that he actually eats last. but the pack loves him and leaves enough food for him to eat. Now, he is still a wolf and is just as equally aggress…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:03 PM
1

Close. He mentioned the Democratic Republic of Chicago actually.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:59 PM
1

you can carry in Chicago? That place is like North Korea on steroids for gun owners.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:58 PM
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or 5 oclock if you don't mind the gun digging into your back when you lean back.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:56 PM
1

I used to be able to last hours and sometimes even struggle to reach orgasm. That was from PMO. your brain is rewiring still. I had situations where i just would go soft. what fixed it... Time and very understanding partner.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:47 PM
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so I'm not sure how to proceed. Well you already accepted that you lost frame. So reset. You have already said way more than enough. Consider it a loss and soft next her until she is re-engages you. when she does, forget that this happened and realize that you are the only one who comes out with a loss in every fight. So do not play that game.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:42 PM
3

Well first you have to be hot enough for the professor to want to fuck you. Are you hot enough for him?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:34 PM
1

same. more trophies for the wall.
/r/askMRP16/02/18 07:30 PM
2

same
/r/askMRP16/02/18 07:29 PM
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for whatever reason I didn't go for the kiss. I did create a lot of sexual tension and escalated otherwise. How do you do this without kissing? Or are you saying that you escalated from staring at her from a dark corner to actually sitting within arms distance? Your entire post is full of contradictions. "I maintained abundance mentally... I was too available." "I escalated the sexual tension... I never kissed her." "I never broke frame... I got fed up" "you had long textual conversations... you…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:59 PM
1

There is always the possibility that they can cheat. But it depends on how the woman perceives you in the relationship. If the woman wanted you solely as a beta provider, then there is a very good chance that she will have physical affairs while keeping you as a provider. Now if your SMV falls or a male of higher percieved smv takes notice, she will typically become a cunt to get you to kill the puppy while looking for a new branch to swing to. She may or may not cheat before she finally feels s…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:54 PM
4

The idea of mutual submission has always been something I’ve heard preached The best biblical example of masculine meekness to contrast the blue pilled teaching on submission is that of the Centurion who came to Jesus about his servant. He told Jesus what he understood about authority. This centurion showed the kind of meekness that men should follow. There is zero chance that he was a weak individual and there is every reason to believe he was a leader (as if "centurion" didn't give it away). W…
/r/RPChristians14/02/18 06:36 PM
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No it can't. The only thing it could do is start the process of building that emotional callus up as she gets on that carousel for a a few years.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:28 PM
1

make connections that matter. This is the best answer for making it feel like you belong. I moved from one coast to the other and it never felt like I belonged until I made a connection to this place.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:21 PM
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My guess is she is trying to use the #metoo movement to push her name out there because there are plenty of crime/mystery novels that do not involve a female victim. We have movies like Ocean's Eleven, and many Agatha Christie novels usually had a male victim.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 06:17 PM
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Why? She isn't your girlfriend and you don't have a date today. She may have a date today. So why bother even mentioning anything.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 04:50 PM
3

There are some top video gamers on Twitch who get tons of pussy, too. Pareto Principal at work there. Some of them would still get tons with or without streaming games on Twitch.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 04:46 PM
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I completely love my children. My oldest daughter just the other day tried to give me her trash and told me to throw it away for her. I looked at her and told her "No." that is it. Love has nothing to do with frame.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 04:32 PM
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Covert womanese to make her feel less guilty about dropping you. She is basically saying, you shouldn't feel so bad because I usually branch swing long before this. It is all to relieve her own guilt and really has nothing to do with you. What would you all have said in this situation? probably "okay, does the record come with a prize?"
/r/askTRP14/02/18 04:18 PM
1

exactly.. A comfort test... "I don't like thinking you could be with other women" A please kill the puppy.. "I think you have too much baggage right now"
/r/askMRP14/02/18 04:15 PM
14

Are you saying they are trying to groom him into orbiting them? They wouldn't manipulate like that, would they?
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:03 PM
3

Way too many words. This is how it should have gone down. Her: "Since we had this arguement maybe we shouldn't have sex and see if we have an emotional connection" Him: "Ok" Soft next and ignore the rest. This tells her that it doesn't work for him and it isn't up for discussion. Then take the trip alone and enjoy the peace and quiet. Because it is most likely that she wants to branch swing on Valentine's Day and she doesn't want to look like a cunt for dropping her boyfriend. She needs the hams…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:01 PM
1

I think all information in life (RP, science, politics, religion, gun, cars, sex positions) is nothing more than a collection of info. Exactly. they are just tools that may be used to achieve your goals.
/r/askMRP13/02/18 07:44 PM
2

Well, circle her once. Tell her you understand how she is feeling and then ask if she wants to share a pint of Ben & Jerrys Phish food with you. Then continue to walk around her until she gives you her answer to the the ice cream.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:41 PM
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If she has anything go wrong with her day, then everything is ruined. Then you sure as shit don't know how to lead your GF. It is best you never ever think about having one again.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:37 PM
2

How do you handle this one? Who cares!!! Oh wait you do. but if I found out she was sucking random dick Who cares!!! My strategy is calculated distance, and fucking her into submission before she leaves. Sounds like a winning strategy to me/s I fully expect texts and pics of her and friends having the time of their lives seeking attention which I would ignore. Not if Chad is there, then you will be by your phone and checking it every other minute for a text or pic. follow that up with checking h…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:35 PM
2

I dont want to be responsible for her feelings anymore Really? you own her feelings. Are you tired of worrying about her feelings and what she might think?
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:28 PM
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My point wasn't a rationalization for you to cheat, but that she has been cheating you the entire time, so do what ever you want. No one said you had to stop having fun with the girl. Just if she sees you with another girl, admit it and realize that plate broke. result in some damage So you feel slighted by the fact she never fully committed to you, who cares. Alpha men are above that petty shit.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:50 PM
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How am I supposed to demote a GF (exclusive) relationship without cheating (being discrete) in the first place? It isn't cheating.. Her heart is still for her ex and she doesn't value you. She even told you straight to your face when she lamented asking what that girl had that she didn't. So tell me again who is cheating?
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:39 PM
5

I told her basic BS like not to compare and have goals ... Probably the wrong thing. Typical blue pilled response.. Try and fix her. Especially after lamenting over another guy because he is getting married to someone else. The correct response STFU and to use her just for sex as long as you can keep her spinning. If she is going to settle for you, you do not have to settle for just her. She clearly valued this guy much more than she values you.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:28 PM
1

The same way you make any change. You put in the effort consistently over time. Want an aesthetic body? Lift consistently over time. Want to make money? Invest consistently over time. Want to learn a new skill? Practice it consistently over time.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 02:39 AM
2

you do know that dominance doesn't have to be what you do with your dick? If all you are doing is making it do push ups inside a "hopefully" wet cave until it pukes, then you haven't got a clue.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:46 PM
1

yup. okay
/r/RPChristians08/02/18 08:23 PM
1

All means ALL. So there is NO getting into heaven without Christ. That is true, that is why I said being sinless is the only prerequisite. Christ was the only one who was sinless.
/r/RPChristians08/02/18 08:20 PM
1

Here is an interesting question... Is she blaspheming the Holy Spirit by claiming that God isn't male or that Christ isn't the only way to get to heaven?
/r/RPChristians08/02/18 07:51 PM
5

Is Christianity the only way to heaven? This is framed all wrong. Christianity isn't a way to heaven. Christ is. But that is just splitting hairs. The fact is that God has given only one prerequisite for getting to heaven - Be completely sinless. If you are completely sinless then you will get into heaven.
/r/RPChristians08/02/18 07:49 PM
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First she is a female pastor. nuff said. Not that female's cannot pastor other females. But the fact is she is pastoring men, and Paul advised against that because women were created for men. It breaks God's hierarchy of man being the head of his family.
/r/RPChristians08/02/18 07:47 PM
3

It won't be muscle gain. Maybe 2-5 lbs would be muscle no way all 30lbs would be.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 07:43 PM
5

And he wishes she would commit further.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 07:09 PM
2

The OP read as if sex is only to be used for procreation.. And for that I have to completely disagree.
/r/RPChristians08/02/18 06:39 PM
6

Background: 6’5”, lifted 6 years, athlete, solid face in uni And yet you can only pull HB5s and 6s? While 7s on tinder don't even try to feign interterest? An athlete at 6'5 and lifting for 6 years should easily be pulling 7s and 8s while having to put in effort for those 9s and mythical 10s. Are you a fucking defensive lineman who weights 600lbs?
/r/askTRP08/02/18 06:07 PM
8

Go to walmart and buy a stack of paper plates. Eat your spaghetti off of them. Do you care about what that plate can do now? Then why do you care what this plate does.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 06:01 PM
2

if you're just in a relationship with a chick, if she wakes up with your head in between her legs - I HIGHLY doubt she will take offense to that. I can emphatically agree based on my own historical data. Sometimes, i just want a midnight snack.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:57 PM
1

askMRP is where you go to sort it out after reading the sidebar.
/r/askMRP08/02/18 05:44 PM
1

No. owning your affair is you owning the fallout. Which is accepting her decision to stay or go. Typically if she decides to stay it is being 100% transparent about any questions and accepting her mistrust of all you do. But that decision is all on her, you are merely accepting that decision if you want to stay with that woman. You do not own her decision to stay or go. Just like you do not own her decision to go and fuck other guys. Unless of course you either told her she could or encouraged h…
/r/askMRP08/02/18 05:41 PM
4

It is okay to be yourself and to make and follow through on decisions.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:21 PM
1

Well you have to own your shit right? You own YOUR shit. That means you own your affair. You do not own her shit and her affair. Owning your affair just means that you stoically provide any details she may want to know about that affair. Dealing with all the broken trust issues. And accepting her decision to divorce. Instead you gave her a pass and an excuse to CUCK you.
/r/askMRP08/02/18 05:10 PM
4

I hate playing nice but I see the point thank you Over in the sidebar is a book recommendation about some laws of power. you should read that book and implement the author's recommendation.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 04:40 PM
1

I've been reading up on Affairs and I can't really fault her. Yes you can. No one gets an excuse for having an affair. And she only trickle truthed that emotional affair. She was bouncing on him and the "I Love You" letter she kept was just a reminder of the sex she had with him.
/r/askMRP08/02/18 04:35 PM
2

And then there is Song of Solomon. God gave us sex and created us to enjoy it. Your post harkens us back to Victorian era puritanism. The era where chaste women would go to the their doctor for stress or other similar "disorders" and the prescription was to orgasm. Usually administered by the Doctor himself. While we do live in a hypersexualized culture that has been twisted by Satan, the plan for sex is as a godly reward to the man for being a man. Not in a quid pro quo scenario but when you as…
/r/RPChristians08/02/18 04:18 PM
1

okay, I can see that. My thoughts on them are far more acute. OI is having backup plans - I am going to X. She can come or she can stay. Lets have sex.. No? Okay, i can use the sleep. AM is poking lighthearted fun at them. It is just a tool to use like A&A, or push and pull. But I suppose it is just finding the comedy in their outbursts and tactics. Becoming amused by their behavior, instead of butthurt.
/r/RPChristians08/02/18 04:05 PM
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Gym is the only thing right now which keeps me sane and motivated. Been lifting for 7 months, gained muscle and got leaner than ever before. Learnt a lot about nutrition, so that is going well for me. Nothing like the feeling after a savage workout. Also corrected body language, gained more confidence and other good stuff like that. Good job, who gives a fuck. now that is the extent of any validation you deserve outside of yourself. You had oneitis.. who gives a fuck. Other guys get their dicks …
/r/askTRP07/02/18 09:31 PM
1

She is testing how much she can rebel. My wife gets pissy to down right cunty if I fail a shit test. She isn't testing how much she can get away with. She is testing if I am still man enough for her. The same thing comes from women you cold approach. They are not testing to see how much they can get away with, they are testing if you are man enough for them. Sounds like a "fitness" test to me.
/r/RPChristians07/02/18 09:21 PM
0

you need to learn the art of a quick wit. I have no idea where I developed mine and my daughters have clearly picked up on it to. Perhaps watching British comedy troupes like Monty Python and Black Adder will help you develop it.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:45 PM
1

that is your intake for days you lift. But as you are bulking, I would continue meeting it on the days you do not lift. Only really concern yourself with your CICO when you hit maintenance.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:42 PM
3

"You already married it. You're fucked, faggot." FIFY
/r/askMRP07/02/18 08:38 PM
3

No, she is trying a "nicer" less guilty way of doing it.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:35 PM
3

You are not owning your shit and she is giving you shit for it. You know what needs to be done, head to your big box home store and fix that shit. Say nothing but, "here's the key for the downstairs door #3."
/r/askMRP07/02/18 08:34 PM
1

To easily pay for hotel rooms for the crossfit gang bang she got.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 08:19 PM
3

Being? You are one. She had a trickle truthed “emotional” affair where chad had his dick in her pussy, ass, and mouth at the same time.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 08:19 PM
7

Yes it was. An emotional affair doesnt go to the lengths of gettin and using a burner phone.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 08:16 PM
4

Since this is MRP, why the fuck would you allow your wife to sign contracts taking your money away without you even present???
/r/askMRP07/02/18 07:45 PM
4

You reek of desperation. They don't. You are good enough to pull, but not good enough to close.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 07:43 PM
2

odds of a chick coming back after fist meet seem low. So you admit you suck. Tell me why they flake after date #2 again?
/r/askTRP07/02/18 07:37 PM
3

Go bang new women. Lots of them. She is banging lots of cocks.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 07:13 PM
1

Lyle Lovett married Julia Roberts in her prime. Never be blown away by the physical appearance, it is secondary to the emotions one can make her feel. A woman will take an average man who excites her emotionally more than a dull Brad Pitt clone.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:50 PM
5

You lost her with the girlfriend comment. But you had a decent recovery until this: Her: What your girlfriend isnt enough? You should have replied: She was bad, now she has to sit in the corner and watch. Instead you nuked it. Next.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:47 PM
3

it isn't how loud your words are, but the perceived weight of them by those who they are spoken to.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:29 PM
1

Amused Mastery: You have an eternal perspective and know that even if your girl leaves you, that won't interfere with your having an impact on eternity. um. what? That isn't Amused Mastery it is Outcome Independence.
/r/RPChristians07/02/18 06:27 PM
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yeah, and he may just know how to use his slide rule. In truth he probably also has an unshakable frame and is an amazing leader of his family. he is successful and respected in his field You do not get this way from beta traits. No one respects a beta. Not even other betas.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:20 PM
1

hopefully she doesn't have a red shell.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:14 PM
4

I got HSV-1 from the first girl I ever kissed. I was 7 or 8 at the time. Condoms do nothing for herpes as that can be transmitted from any open sore, not necessarily through normal bodily fluids like other STIs.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 05:59 PM
0

Nightwing! I had a question regarding the enforcement of double standards in a LTR. I believe that was in regard to a plate as he was stating to do that before you go into an LTR.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 05:53 PM
3

Wolves. You have two "alphas". In a captive environment with other wolves (related or not), we get the aggressive "alphas" who fight and use fear to accomplish their goal - they eat first and only allow themselves to mate. in the wild, we get a different alpha. They are confident leaders. they can and are every bit as viscious. but the way they handle their pack is different. They eat last, allowing the rest of the pack to eat. In return, the pack shows him the utmost respect by leaving him enou…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 05:19 PM
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100% agree. And for fun, he should monitor the adultery subreddit for someone posting on a possible opsec failure. He may get more info into her activities. anything that will help in his impending divorce.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 04:27 PM
1

Because Adam had everything and in acting beta threw it all away… Because you listened to your wife… There are several accounts in the Bible that shows that God hates it when men behave like betas and He rewards alpha behavior throughout as well. Now to your point. God created man and then created woman to be his helper. The plan is that men lead and women follow. And that leads to what the original sin was. It wasn't Eve eating the fruit, but Adam following Eve's lead.
/r/RPChristians07/02/18 04:22 PM
1

Pressure flip with an amused tone..
/r/askTRP07/02/18 03:54 PM
10

She clearly has done her research into operational security. There is a good chance there is very little voice communication and the burner is used for text conversations. However, getting a voice recorder that looks like a pen and slipping it into her handbag may garner better results.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 03:49 PM
1

All my life is about working on things I am afraid of and thus want to avoid, not on things I desire. You either want change or are looking for a new fixation for your codependency. I believe it is the later because if you honestly want to change your life, you would do it. However, just in case you were born brain dead I will give you some advice. 1) Develop a routine of going to the gym and lifting. This needs to become a habit. Find a gym that is open 24 hours. That way at 11pm when you think…
/r/askMRP07/02/18 03:40 PM
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there is only one reason to keep a secret phone And she has been at this for some time. If she has a burner phone, she has done her research into operational security.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 03:02 PM
2

If I remember correctly, Bruce Lee once stated that before you get into martial arts, a punch is just a punch. Then as you get into it, it is much more than just a punch. Until you finally become a master and a punch is just a punch. The same goes with "Acta, non verba." For those unplugging guys, they need to show that their boundaries are to be kept. For masters like u/weakandsensitive, they just need to voice it and the woman gets it. That is high level black belt shit.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 02:16 PM
0

Then you missed a perfect opportunity to game your wife. Instead you choose the easy fake alpha route of being a dick. In my opinion, the dick move should be the last tool you use.
/r/askMRP06/02/18 03:12 AM
1

Considering she was taking your car, i would have grabbed her and said “its warm” and then kissed her with my hands on her ass. Then pull away slightly and look her in the eyes and say “its getting a whole lot warmer” right after the kiss. Then walked away.
/r/askMRP06/02/18 02:27 AM
0

OP didnt orovide enough info to determine that.
/r/askMRP06/02/18 02:24 AM
1

He came here seeking validation. And second he didnt give us much information to go on. So he shoveled the driveway, did he de-ice her car? Do they share a car?
/r/askMRP05/02/18 11:36 PM
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Not a shit test rambo.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 11:23 PM
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He aint ready for that. He needs to own his shit and just tell her what happened bluntly. “The rake fell on me after i stepped on the shovel. I am cleaning the garage today”
/r/askMRP03/02/18 03:42 PM
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The “i want to watch X first” is a soft no and a shit test. You also need to learn game if you had been gaming her all day and got a soft no. To which you just gave up!
/r/askMRP03/02/18 03:36 PM
1

Right on the money. He needs to build that emotional callus up along with his body. Both will increase his SMV
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:16 PM
2

so without any warning I just deleted her everywhere and made it impossible for myself to contact her again. That is a soft next? I thought a soft next is you just stop contact and let her re-initiate all communication. That sounded more like a hard next where she can see you are no longer facebook friends.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:13 PM
3

TRP, while it focuses on being a sexual strategy is actually about turning boys and man-children into real men. Being a man goes beyond pick up artistry. It is pervasive and exudes itself in all aspects of your life.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:11 PM
1

Did you bother to read the post first, or just center in on my response which was clearly sarcastic to any RP man. Yup and I got the joke.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 09:08 PM
1

So you allow a WOMAN to tell you, a MAN, what a MAN is supposed to be doing? How exactly is she qualified to tell you these things? My wife for years would bitch and nag at me for not doing the things that red pilled men do. How is she qualified? She wasn't, she was just honest in what she expected from her husband. Once I started to become "unplugged" she responded quickly. Some women just get it.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 08:51 PM
3

Not your wife? Go fuck plates. Yup. She tells the OP she is on her way home and then went to a friends house instead? Followed up with a gaslit response? OP needs to get his balls, space, and self respect back ASAP.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 03:39 PM
2

It isn't about your lifts. It is about your MAP and where are you on it.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 03:34 PM
1

TRP is not RP. RP is the reality of human inter-relational dynamics. Swallowing the red pill is accepting that reality. TRP is just a collection of behaviors and tactics to play by the real rules of the game.
/r/RPChristians01/02/18 09:36 PM
5

I'm 20, my ex-ex gf dumping me is what caused me to swallow the pill Did it get stuck on your tonsils?
/r/askTRP01/02/18 09:06 PM
3

I'm going to be honest with you guys I sometimes don't have self control over myself Learn self discipline. It starts with going to the gym and actually lifting. My school buddies are like crazy wasters they go get a cofee in the morning, in the lunch break and somehow when I don't go with them I feel isolated. Get a water bottle. Fill it up. Go with them to the coffee shop. Drink from your water bottle. money saved and you are not isolated.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:16 PM
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Which is it, do you remember or not? lol. I do not remember what she was harping on me about. it wasn't her back. That's not a shit test. That's you being a dick. No it wasn't a shit test. But then again I never said it was anything but the cause of her becoming a harping bitch. Whether or not I was being a dick is debatable.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 07:09 PM
1

It's a matter of training I am aware of that and have been working on it.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:04 PM
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I have no enpathy. So i cant relate like that.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 06:19 PM
1

Not to that level. But I have seen similar and was “friends” with some of them.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 06:10 PM
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For a woman, it is the belief that the man is better then she could possibly get. and yet if a man with more perceived value gives her attention... she forgets her oneitis ever existed. Beta's don't really get over their oneitis, even if a better girl comes along. They have to first get over their betadom.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:13 PM
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Men love women. Women love children. Children love dogs. The dog better respect you.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:55 PM
1

That is because TRP wasn't created to handle long term relationships. Comfort tests mean nothing here except that your plate got too attached and its time to let it break. MRPers deal with comfort tests regularly.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:52 PM
2

is that me being aloof and unconcerned with her shittests about him makes her unsure about my interest in her. If she is expressing that, it is a shitty-comfort test. this one is best blown up with a pressure flip - "Oh? Is there a reason I shouldn't trust you?" This lets her know that you are confident in your own value, are not worried about the competition, and that you trust her to do the right thing.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:34 PM
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Stick up for your wife when called upon Betas guard These are not the same thing. Part of the reason women shit test their partners (and potential partners) is because they want to know that you are man enough to protect them. This isn't the same as in a white knight type of protection. I remember about a year ago a guy on asktrp was complaining about his wife shit testing him. She was bitching at him because he wouldn't meet her at the bus stop and walk with her to their 3rd floor condo a few b…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/18 02:33 PM
5

Ask your sister if she thinks you should read the sidebar. She appears to give great advice. Horrible blow jobs though. Her mouth moves up and down too much.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:22 PM
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girls don't give a fuck about what a man brings if he's spineless. last night. laying in bed. my wife starts complaining and harping on me about something I don't even remember. So I ask her bluntly if she plans on continuing down that path to goad me into an argument. Her reply was a simple "no." Then she snuggled on up to me. So why was my wife a harpy little bitch? I watched her struggle getting into bed after she tweaked her back. When she was about 95% done and in, what appears to be, sever…
/r/askMRP01/02/18 02:14 PM
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I dont know the logistics. It wasnt a rabbit hole i went down. My BP self at the time was just in shock that there were women like that. However i think there is some prearrangement with the establishment and a room/bed fee.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 11:24 PM
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I think a generic "I decided to not celebrate V-Day this year by spending a bunch of $" is a better play than anything. This is probably the best answer for someone who just unplugged.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 03:53 PM
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I hadn't started thinking about V Day, but yesterday she said, "So, this is difficult for me, but I'd like to show you what I want for Valentine's Day". An expensive ring. Buy a cock ring instead. Saint Valentine was man. It is your day. If you want to be romantic, do it for you. But that day is for you. She gets to be the one you will be having that day.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 03:43 PM
1

She can go. He can lay the boundary down that his wife doesn't do ALL Girl, no hubby trips to Tahoe. Then he needs the balls to enforce that boundary. In other words, HE LET HER GO. She just needs to sign a document removing her from his life.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 03:37 PM
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If she goes off and fucks someone else... All girl, no hubby weekends in Tahoe.... It isn't a question of 'IF" but "how many". She is off to relive her CC ridng sorority days. While she is gone, he should change the locks and speak to a lawyer.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 02:49 PM
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She is off to relive her CC riding sorority days and come home with a big wad of cash from winning it big with her slot.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 02:44 PM
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You think she being around her trashy sorority girls that she will want to go hunt dick with them? There ain't no hunting in Tahoe. Less than 30 minutes away, down the mountain are a few "establishments" that they can collect their winnings while riding a never ending cock carousel. Of course, this is second hand information from one of the Pros i struck a conversation with when I worked in a casino. She was bitter that day complaining about all the "vacationing" housewives.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 02:43 PM
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you are so worried about her trip with these other girls that you don't trust her This is a GNO on steroids. Having lived in the Tahoe area it is not uncommon that normal housewives on a girls trip to Tahoe, actually go down the mountain (hello bunny ranch) and come home with a huge stack of cash that they "seem to" always win during those trips.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 02:38 PM
2

really? stop acting like a boy. begin acting like a man. I believe everyone inherently knows how to be a man. You want a tip. ask yourself what a man would do in x situation... then do that.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:28 PM
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thanks boys Why are you asking boys? TRP is about making men behave like men. Boys are the ones that are in trouble.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:20 PM
2

But ... this is a minor issue and I'm okay with disagreements. No, this is a blow up the bridges and burn down the churches type of disagreement/s
/r/RPChristians30/01/18 08:55 PM
4

ever heard the term AWALT. That implies that young women, middle age women, ugly women, hot women, fat women, skinny women, tall women, short women, and foreign women are all the same.... just not old women.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:51 PM
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I would say #1. Once it is seen, it cannot be unseen but everyone does with it as they will. This is why there are different responses. We have the TRP community who (to protect the man) say to not get married or enter into an exclusive long term relationship. Yet MRP says to hold off on divorcing your horrible wife and work on yourself. She will come along or not. if not, then drop her. And then there is a third rail of MGTOW who prefer to drop out of most intersex relations all together,.
/r/RPChristians30/01/18 08:35 PM
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"God made them favorably disposed." That goes with "God hardened Pharaoh's heart." Can God harden someone's heart? Yes. But then that kind of spits in the face of free will. It is more like He impressed on their hearts and they did with it as they will. Kind of like when a nonbeliever is sitting in the pews and feels being called up. They can act on it, or not.
/r/RPChristians30/01/18 08:30 PM
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Just look at the scripture. 2 Samuel 11:4 (NKJV) Then David sent messengers, and took her; and she came to him, and he lay with her, for she was cleansed from her impurity; and she returned to her own house. She was taking the Mikvah bath when spotted by David. That ritualized bath was for a woman to be cleansed after her menstrual cycle. She must do that before she can have sexual relations. Her husband Uriah was off fighting a war. This is speculative, but was she just trying to be "clean" in …
/r/RPChristians30/01/18 08:14 PM
1

I hear the phrase "reconcile RP with Christianity" a lot. Let's explore for a bit what that phrase actually means and how the reconciliation process actually works, as it's more than simply "filtering out what doesn't fit" or "rejecting the sinful parts of RP" (whatever that means). Yes lets discuss this. I think it comes from the viewpoint that RP is a set rule of "functions." A boolean type of "if this than that" reaction. But it isn't. It is a confusion of what is the red pill and what is The…
/r/RPChristians30/01/18 07:58 PM
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But Exodus 12:36 says, "The Lord had made the Egyptians favorably disposed toward the people, and they gave them what they asked for; so they plundered the Egyptians." No praxeology could have concluded this to happen because God divinely intervened. I guess I view this differently. I see it as the Egyptians had just suffered mightily from the plagues and the final straw was the loss of the first born. At this point, anyone would want to be rid of the Israelites to the point of them saying "take…
/r/RPChristians30/01/18 07:46 PM
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Take Solomon's Red Pill advice found in Proverbs 29:11 A fool vents all his feelings, but a wise man holds them back (NKJV) Those are not for your wife. God on the other hand will not look at you as less of a man.
/r/RPChristians30/01/18 05:09 PM
1

the 4/month I now cringe at anything below twice a week. And I have had it worse than you (just not for 20 years). I would get reluctant duty sex/oral once a quarter. despite what she SAYS Always pay attention to what she does, not what she says. They will say anything to keep you as you are. Even to their own detriment (i.e. they will try and keep you beta even if they want you to be their alpha). find out how to increase her DESIRE for sex Her desire for sex is just fine. If you have been read…
/r/askMRP30/01/18 04:22 PM
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SHUT THE FUCK UP. I cannot say that enough. SHUT THE FUCK UP. No more "talking" to the wife about the lack of sex. No more "another time" blue pilled butthurt beta bullshit. No more begging 2 or 3 more times for a blowjob. I think it is a great starting point to be willing to divorce her. But I suggest that you just work on yourself and give her atleast 6 months to a year before you pull that trigger. As we say in MRP, the Stay plan is the same as the Go plan. Besides, something tells me your wi…
/r/askTRP29/01/18 05:20 PM
2

It is just their response to sudden impinging dread.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 11:32 PM
1

The bath happened at night and required her to be immersed into it. That is a whole lot of water to lug up to the roof. We can imagine she knew and added more lights to stand out more. Obviously the light alone would attract the eyes of anyone at night. But we really have no idea if she knew and planned for him to watch. .
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 11:05 PM
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As for Bathsheba: Her bath is implied to be a cleansing bath after her cycle. Now there is no time table as to how long it took for David to find out who she was and when they had sex. This could have happened once during ovulation, or multiple times over the coarse of days. But she came to him willingly and willingly gave her body to David. Nathan never revealed a “rape” to David, just the sex. In a later chapter of 2 Samuel we have Amnon rape Absolom’s sister Tamar. Circumstantial? Yes. Hyperg…
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 09:58 PM
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With Abigail: She went behind Nabal’s (BB) back to give to David (who was gonna kill Nabal) She bad mouthed her husband to David Then she went home and told her husband what she did. Nabal’s heart sank- this is odd if all she did was give David his “protection” fee. The whole back and forth between Abigail and David seemed a bit flirtatious to me. And when David heard of Nabal’s death he immediately proposed to Abigail. And it wasnt because of her “wisdom” in dealing with David.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 09:30 PM
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No indication that she didn’t either. But he didnt rape her. Bathsheba went willingly and wanted to have sex with David. Otherwise God through Nathan would have pointed out the rape. He didnt. As for a contemporary interpretation of why Uriah was killed. Just read the account in 2 Samuel 11. David called Uriah home. Had spies watch Uriah to see if he went home. He didnt. And David asked him why he didnt go hone. Then David got Uriah drunk, he still didnt go home. So David finally had Uriah kille…
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 09:13 PM
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Hezekiah 3:17? Hezekiah??? I know of King Hezekiah but no book in the Bible named for him.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 09:06 PM
1

Well. It is an erotic poem about sex in marriage. Unfortunately we do not understand the euphemisms he used and have to come up with our own interpretations of what that language meant. Even in recent culture some words have new meanings. Words like Merry and a few others, that are curse words now, meant something different originally. You know the other word for a female dog, a cat, or a rooster! All three of those words we would find “offensive” today.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:52 PM
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David having Uriah killed was not mate guarding. If it was, it was the weirdest example of mate guarding I have ever heard. Read 2 Sam 11:6-14. Uriah was called home so that he would have sex with Bathsheba, who was pregnant from her affair with David. He didnt have sex with her so David decided to get him drunk the next night so he would have sex with her. He still didnt have sex with her. Then he had Uriah killed on the battlefield. Mate guarding isnt about trying to force someone else to have…
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:47 PM
1

He wasnt. In fact David had Uriah to come home with the hopes that Uriah would have sex with Bathsheba. That is sooo far from mate guarding.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:39 PM
1

David couldn’t possibly be mate guarding. He specifically asked for Uriah to come home just so he would have sex with Bathsheba. Mate guarding is trying to prevent just that. It was as it says - to cover up the adulterous affair.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:38 PM
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I highly doubt that. Since he sired Solomon with her later. No. Most likely she went to bath on the roof to entice the king. After all, her husband was a Hittite and not an Israelite. David had Uriah murdered not to guard his mate, but to hide his sin. He wouldnt have called Uriah home so he could sleep with his “mate” if he was truly guarding her. But Uriah didnt want to out of respect for his men.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:33 PM
1

I would add both Abigail and Bathsheba as more examples of hypergamy.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:29 PM
1

I know right. Valentine’s Day is my day. She gets to be the one i enjoy that day, not that i need a day for that.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 08:18 PM
1

Leave your ring on. The women always look for it anyways. Atleast that is what i have noticed. But i am only flirting for the fun of it and have never asked for numbers. So i dont actually know what the outcome will be if i did.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 08:13 PM
3

Sounds like my wife a bit. Thanks for the FR.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 05:48 PM
2

My anger phase was never aimed at my wife. I was angry at myself because i was shit. She was her way because that is how she was created. I saw the relationship like the sun to the moon. She needed my masculine energy to reflect back her feminine energy. But i sure as shit was not shining my masculine energy and she resented me for it. Was it her fault? Nope. It was all me. So i was never angry at her over that. Am i going to get angry at her because i failed to upkeep my car and it broke down? …
/r/askMRP25/01/18 05:39 PM
2

I beg to differ. If a woman is continuing to pummel you. Preventing you from removing yourself, you can use force.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:19 PM
5

3rd wave feminism. But why do you care what they think? Are you happy with your housewife?
/r/askTRP25/01/18 02:09 PM
3

Especially after a good workout.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 01:49 AM
1

I never said anything about celibacy. MGTOW would rather pay for escort services than to go out gaming women.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 11:37 PM
2

Plate, FWB, or LTR. Decide what you want from this girl and take that route. If plate, then keep that out of your relationship. That level is for FWBs and LTRs
/r/askTRP24/01/18 09:47 PM
8

They are both red pilled men. The difference is that TRP is about how to play the game and MGTOW have dropped out of the game all together.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 09:44 PM
2

Yes. You both are. He should have told her he had plans with you and you need understand he respected you enough to give you a heads up.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 09:02 PM
6

Block and move on. She is trying to keep you in orbit. Realize that the relationship had an expiration date and it passed.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 08:29 PM
30

Social Proof. Have you not read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:52 PM
9

You need to read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. It is great for learning stoicism.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:41 PM
4

I second that agreement.
/r/askMRP24/01/18 05:05 PM
3

Go ahead and do it. What have you got to lose? Your betadom will remain intact. Now you have permission from the internet manosphere to give her your balls. That is what you are looking for right?
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:56 PM
4

Nope dont do it. Now i tell my wife she looks good when she dolls herself up. And she would rather i focus my sexual energy on her than fawn over how beautiful she is.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:48 PM
2

Sorry. I dont understand the question. Why do you have oneitis?
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:44 PM
3

Which no man should ever try to do as they are already qualified. Otherwise they wouldn’t have gotten the shit test.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:41 PM
37

“Nope. I am a sociopath that lacks empathy.” Said with a grin as you pull her into you. Let her hamster do the work for you.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:37 PM
0

Why? Girls have beta orbiters for that. They want to be desired by an AF.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:32 PM
2

I am more pragmatic. I want fried ice cream. But then again, i am not a woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 05:12 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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