Im a 38 year old guy. Make good money at a blue collar place. 6 ft 190 pretty good shape. Just started 5x5 at my local gym. Cant lift too much but im putting in effort and slowly building. I divorced my wife of 12 yrs over her infidelity. We had 1 child a boy. Shortly after our divorce, he came down with the flu and pneumonia and passed away at age 10. Fucked me up beyond words and im still reeling from it but getting to a better place. I made a huge mistake and got with a single mom of 3. She tried manipulating me and all that typical stuff. I got out of that and moved on. Plated this girl for a few months, and we move in together. Well we find out that she is pregnant. Everyone is happy. Im caught up in feelings of getting another chance at being a dad again. Everything is going pretty well. Sex when i want. Shes never bitchy l,clean house just a pretty good woman for my needs and wants. So our son is born. Looks just like my son that passed away. Im in love instantly with him, he was born in January. Heres where we start having issues. Her friend is getting married she is the maid of honor so of course she is helping her plan the wedding and do all that shit. So im like cool whatever. She drops this in me today that her friend wants to have a weekend Bachelorette party that is 8 hours away, its going to cost a lot of money for her to go. The minute i tell her it would make me feel pretty uncomfortable she blows up that i am controlling and am putting her in a place that is hard for her. She then begins talking very snarky and pompous toward me. Saying shit ive never heard her say. Talking to me as if i was a child amd just shit from left field. Ive never tried to control anything in this relationship because that shit doesnt work. She basically talked to me as if no respect was ever there. I started to fall in her frame and i cut it off and just stfu. I think we may be done but not sure. My question is what happens next? I have a 2 month old with this girl. He is the love of my life. She doesnt work so she has no money. Of course i know child support would come into play and thats fine. I get that. Thats how the world works. I just have this feeling of dread and despair. I know ive had a lot worse times in my life like watching my first child pass away in my arms. I would just like the communities opinion on how they would handle this. Sorry for the wall of text. I just want to handle shit the right way beforeit happens. Thanks for listening, boys.