Shit test when asking for number on tinder

Triadis3 · 2018-04-06T13:54:11+00:00

"That's what a date is for."

Then radio silent.

redhawkes · 2018-04-06T11:56:07+00:00

You can go full Patrice O'Neal on her:

“You think knowing my favorite color is gonna make you want to suck my dick?”

Her response is classic bait into orbiter/time hoe.

resnine · 2018-04-06T13:53:24+00:00

"Honey", "Sweetie", "Sweetheart","Sugar","Hun","Dear".... all those words are used to put her back in charge. They are control words. She's trying to put you into a box but condescending you.

mrpthrowa · 2018-04-06T09:03:50+00:00

It is NEVER worth it to engage in this frame.

A lot of girls will try this. My standard response is a variation of:

"I'm not a chat type/that kind of/ guy". or Simply: "I don't do this sort of thing". "I don't do this".

Then a statement inviting her to reconsider.

"Let me know if you want to meet".

The girls who never wanted to meet but wanted to string you along will be filtered out. The few who wanted to meet will come back in your frame.

1dondraper · 2018-04-06T09:07:01+00:00

Don't fall into her frame, whatever you do.

"i can send you my CV, what's your fax address?"

"oh, you're one of those girls"

"fine. what's your favorite color?"

RedHeMan · 2018-04-06T11:44:09+00:00

Giving out a number is literally nothing to a girl, so when I get any kind of resistance whether I'm trying to get her number or inviting her out; I just hard next. I'm not interested in someone who isn't Fuck Yes about me, especially when it's as run-of-mill as a phone number.

martianartisan · 2018-04-06T12:52:37+00:00

First of all don’t go straight to logistics on Tinder. Second, don’t let things get stale like you did.

Chicks have a very short attention span on these apps so once you get the convo going you better strike while the iron is hot and ask her number and then ask her out.

Anyway, any resistance to give her number shows she’s not interested. Next

SirKolbath · 2018-04-06T08:57:01+00:00

Next!

I don't play games. You screwed up when you let her stew for a couple weeks. Now she's put you in orbiter status. She wants to make you dance and then put you on a shelf.

After some banter (I give good text, so I break a couple of the rules.) a girl once cracked me up with a joke, so I told her, "That was great. You've earned my number." She replied with, "Oh, is that so? Well maybe you can earn mine."

I said, "Nope. I'm the prize here and you just lost out. Bye." Unmatched and moved on immediately. I don't play games and I don't dance for women. I am the prize and they can accept that or I'll move on to one that will.

That little exchange was during a three week period where I went on fourteen dates with nine different women, fucked seven of them, and got a blowjob from one of the other two. I mention that not to brag, but to point out that there is absolutely zero reason to cater to a woman on Tinder. You'll match with dozens. Put your time into one that won't waste it.

If I were to critique you, I'd mention that you need to move quicker and not let them simmer. You should be talking a meet up within 24 hours of matching and getting an actual text reply from her.

Herdsengineers · 2018-04-06T15:49:18+00:00

just tell her you're getting a coffee after your workout at such and such place and time, and read some stuff for school work, home projects, etc. she can come out and get to know you there. no need to state that you aren't going to be baited into online banter, ego stroking, and orbiting. just don't do it.

if she shows up great. if she's not willing to actually meet and is just another time waster, next.

Title	Shit test when asking for number on tinder
Author	AntiSharp
Upvotes	6
Comments	26
Date	April 6, 2018 8:47 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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