I'm trying to reach a spot mentally where I feel comfortable being "enough" to attract attractive women into my life. I say "enough" because, especially with the internet and social media, it's so easy to see people who excel past you. For example, think you're in shape, and then you see a guy on Instagram with 5% BF and muscular, or well off financially but obviously billionaires with yachts. This could go on with skills, confidence, etc.

I feel confident I will find women who will enjoy my company, which I have, and I find attractive, but the problem lies mentally where I feel that branch-swinging dick carousel that eventually they will find someone else.

My question is how do I embody the "enough" mentality with a woman, and not feel like the ride will be short? I understand it won't last forever, but I would rather think mentally she has a harder time deciding to jump ship than making it an easy choice.