Being Honest about non exclusivity

Letsbeserioushere · 2018-06-23T15:10:46+00:00

If it gets to a point where she has waited for a while and is wanting an answer, I’d just be honest and tell her. It’s a more decent thing to do, and if she leaves, you can get new plates anyway. This would be better for your overall reputation in the long run than if you were to lie and be deceitful.

Store_Front_Door · 2018-06-23T15:16:06+00:00

https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/274

remo_williams1 · 2018-06-23T15:53:21+00:00

Shortly after the end of my marriage I met a woman online that was 100% into me and down for anything. She was crazy into me and I always find that attractive.

Shortly after we met in person I was completely honest with her about where I was regarding the future and relationship potential. She very quickly soured towards me. I will say that we did message each other a ton before getting together and I can see where I was a complete aspy. I essentially emotionally body slammed her.

I've evolved to show interest and leave the door open without committing either way. For me this is more realistic and kind than blunt honesty or lying. Lying degrades the liar and I won't degrade myself for sex.

general_salt · 2018-06-23T17:29:57+00:00

Rollo Tommassi is married right?

sourmonkeytroll · 2018-06-23T21:31:33+00:00

Women hate direct communication. Don’t lie, but be indirect with the information. This kind of communication gives her hamster something to chew on. It creates mystery and connects with hypergamy alpha queues of pre-selection.

Zanford · 2018-06-23T21:59:26+00:00

Yes, my experience with this has been that it works very well. You get built in preselection and dread game and she works very hard to please you, in and out of bed. Girls also get off on the idea of you being with other chicks, and like to hear the stories, and she'll probably be down for planning threeways.

You must establish this frame from the absolute getgo. it's 100x harder to convince a chick to accept this if you were formerly exclusive.

Some chicks will walk away That's OK. And eventually she may walk away when she can't get more commitment. That's OK too.

Obv she should be exclusive with you. A chick who's riding the CC while with you will never respect you, and a chick who is genuinely attracted to you will not want to you.

zboo1h · 2018-06-23T20:01:42+00:00

Honestly women never leave you for having too many options or being too self-involved or aloof or whatever. They all want to share a man of value, nothing dries them up or makes them stray faster than you being overtly exclusive with them. Welcome to 2018.

Title	Being Honest about non exclusivity
Author	itsmedatboi
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	June 23, 2018 3:08 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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