Bitch made plans

abdada · 2015-09-27T00:51:40+00:00

Tinder is for right now/tonight. Not for "in 6 days".

fnordsnord · 2015-09-27T03:06:19+00:00

Then she is not into you. Soft next. Respond with "K." Then go radio silent and do not respond to anything she sends for three days.

She is, incidentally, violating a Girl Rule. You're supposed to go out with the guy who asked you FIRST. It's a reward for us nutting up and taking the emotional risk. (Mama told me about this one.)

If she doesn't break the second plans and meet the commitment with you, it's a giant red banner with waving confetti and neon lights: There's another dude on the scene with a higher SMV and you are wasting your time.

Sir_Distic · 2015-09-27T00:12:34+00:00

1st...women flake. They do. She is also shit testing to see if you're going to be a little bitch.

Just stop caring if they show up or not. But make sure she knows, if she talks to you again, that your time is valuable. But do it in a way that doesn't sound butt hurt.

Lefeudufou · 2015-09-27T13:44:13+00:00

Probably won't respond and wait for her.

With no response she'll stay silent for a while. I'd chat a bit, and reschedule for in 3 days (at most). If she can't soft next.

iLLprincipLeS · 2015-09-27T07:36:59+00:00

she forgot and made plans.

she found someone better.

Should I do anything more?

send her: no problem, i'll send you a message for another date.

then don't ever send her another message if she won't text you back with something like: hey boy, forgot about me?

all in all, forget about her, if she pops up some time later good, if not, good.

Title	Bitch made plans
Author	Bdeps6
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	September 27, 2015 12:03 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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