I want everyone to understand one thing. I'm not dismissing the red pill as pseudoscience or as misogyny. And, I'm certainly not advocating for a ''romantic'' perspective of women. However, this particular relationship is puzzling from a red pill point of view.

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It involves a girl I met online and dated for a month in real life. She, of course, grew bored and lost attraction (As they all do). She became flaky, disinterested and so on. Long story short, I removed her from my life and chased after a higher cause such as gaining new skills or attending college.

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She eventually replaced me with another guy who appears to be a simp. He has the physical appearance of a female with long hair and it's obvious that she chose him for his tall height. He makes up for his lack of good looks by pretending to be confidence etc. What bothers me is that the relationship continues despite him texting her back and forth and agreeing to a long-distance relationship. (She moved)

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She's placed him in the boyfriend zone. Kisses, hugs but no sex since she's Christian. How do these relationships work? It's not the first time I've noticed this. Some guys simp to their girlfriends, live with them, agrees to have a long-distance relationship and they're still together. It breaks every rule in the book.

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Perhaps, I'm thinking too much but do these relationships serve to attack a red pill man's sense of worth? Are these relationships illusions that society wants you to believe? Can someone explain how they even work? I'd rather a thousand sluts than to give all my power to ONE girl.