I don't know if this goes here but this just happened. I was having lunch with a woman I'm having sex with when she got a text from a BP guy. Well 10 texts. She started reading them and I started cringing. Years ago that could have been me. I told her that guy sounded like a real pussy and need to grow some balls. When we stood up to go I grabbed her and kissed her. She was worried people in the restaurant would see. I said, "so what." Put my hand in her hair and kissed. Completely unplanned I asked to come back to my house "real quick." She did and we did. The reason I decided to go for it, was the text the BP guys sent. I felt there was no better time to distinguish myself as a RP guy and establish a contrast.