I posted here after I left my 9year BPD LTR. The red pill saved my life. But now I’m in the next phase.

I’ve been lifting a lot. 4 days a week. I’ve got my finances lined out. I’m saving, and I have more on hand cash now than I ever did in that relationship. Starting to maybe spin some plates. I’m studying. I’m advancing my craft, and fulfilling my mission.

I blocked her (and her crazy family) from all social media. I blocked their numbers.

2 days ago, she reached out to my brother through FB messenger(he unfriended her but didn’t block) and she said she was being contacted by my car payment company that they were trying to repo my vehicle.

I knew this wasn’t true, I’m up to date (actually paying my bill early) but I called them up to make sure. While I was on the phone with them, I asked if they had tried to reach me, and they said no. I asked what numbers they had for me, they had my work number and my cell. They also told me that if they called and didn’t have me on the phone, they were required to hang up. So there is no way she was called.

She called me today from a blocked number and left a voicemail saying essentially that she has been getting collection calls about my car.

Additionally, the car is 100% in my name. insurance, registration etc.

I know she’s full of shit, I know she just wants to get me on the phone to talk.

I don’t want to take legal action, I just want her out of my life. What should I do? Ignore? Or do I need to file a no contact order?

Thanks in advance brothers.