Bumble flake

HoRaTiO12345 · 2018-10-30T23:18:41+00:00

Never ever have food on a date. Do something that is inexpensive. I pride myself on having banged most chicks on my list without having spend a cent.

As to flaking: female nature, man. Part and parcel of our life on the dating apps. These bitches have no clue what is good for them.

boy_named_su · 2018-10-30T23:41:40+00:00

Did she offer an actual day/time for reschedule, or just "raincheck?"

Try not to setup dates too far in advance

Avoid dinner dates at all cost

eat her favorite food.

Who's frame is that?

HurricaneHugues · 2018-10-31T04:23:08+00:00

Dude, fuck that bitch. She doesn't even know her father. Ignore and delete her number and text thread. She's just gonna waste your time.

4gliders · 2018-10-31T13:04:05+00:00

She flaked, just ignore here permanently unless she comes to you with reparations for the flake.

CalvinRichland · 2018-10-31T00:00:27+00:00

You smell desperate

AMHash77 · 2018-10-30T23:24:33+00:00

You may have over texted her. Texting should be kept to a bare minimum, and only used to set dates.

From this point forward say something like, "oh no problem. I hope you have great time with your family. Let me know when you're free to hang out".

Then do not text her until she texts you. How ever long it takes her to respond, you double that time until you respond, and then only reply with 2/3 as many words. And use the text only to set a date. Dont just chat.

From there just hang out, have fun, and hook up.

4gliders · 2018-10-30T23:46:22+00:00

As far as know I’ve held frame up to this point.

I was actually stoked at how well I’ve been implementing theory/ thought this was in the bag so to speak

TheRedPillMonkey · 2018-10-31T00:50:33+00:00

Ask her for a drink or coffee. Nothing more than that. If she flakes again, just next her.

Random_throwaway_000 · 2018-10-31T00:53:02+00:00

want to cancel and reschedule.

Flakes just cancel. Girls that are interested reschedule.

RedSkeller · 2018-10-31T01:02:42+00:00

Which is exactly why I never text. 3 to 4 messages and then get it set up, I’m sure you know the text for logistics hard rule around here. And this is why, you wasted all that time. Every time I’ve done it, it’s been a waste of time too. Just move on, this is why online dating is often not suggested here. I’ve had more than my fair share of flakes and it’s the name of the game. How you handle it is a shit test in itself but you’re better off not giving a fuck.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2018-10-31T02:10:23+00:00

She's probably chatting up a bunch of guys and wants to keep you as a backup. On to the next.

4gliders · 2018-10-31T04:32:45+00:00

Thanks man! Seriously tho

Title	Bumble flake
Author	4gliders
Upvotes	5
Comments	39
Date	October 30, 2018 11:09 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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