Butt stuff.

scrodzilla · 2016-11-09T02:39:23+00:00

Have you given her anal sex yet? I would do that first if not.

lulalady · 2016-11-09T05:57:17+00:00

It is a vulnerable position, and in reality, you can't stay dominant. But it's a kink for a lot of men to be dominated in bed when they are always dominant in other aspects of their life.

Don't feel less manly because you want to cum harder than you ever have before. (Which you will. I've experienced this.)

If you're worried about what people would think, then save the occasion for a LTR with someone you know won't expose your kinks for petty reasons.

GayLubeOil · 2016-11-09T09:55:15+00:00

I recommend Gay Lube Oil.

herewegoagaindammi · 2016-11-09T09:51:10+00:00

This thread is quite funny for some reason

dendsm111 · 2016-11-09T15:26:27+00:00

Get ready to cum buckets.

InChargeMan · 2016-11-09T06:44:56+00:00

Sounds shitty

stickfiguresk · 2016-11-09T01:39:30+00:00

Seems like a vulnerable experience can I stay dominant and in control from this position?

No, you can't maintain frame while taking it in the pooper, but the real fight is not letting it define you or your relationship. I wouldn't advise it, but do whatever floats your boat.

SexySmexxy · 2016-11-09T04:50:19+00:00

It's just ammo for girls to use against you in the future.

It's a great thing to try (so i've heard), but maybe do it with a girl you're never going to see again.

AWALT etc etc.

Maybe you break up with her and she messages all your friends that you love her fingers in your ass.

Listen, weigh up the risks and make a decision, but be aware of the risks.

Arschrapine · 2016-11-09T08:01:56+00:00

I would say you can maintain frame so long as you don't let her fuck you with a giant strap-on.

graffix13 · 2016-11-09T17:21:31+00:00

You cannot maintain a dominant frame while having a girl's finger(s) up your ass. Sorry, it just doesn't work that way.

So...what's more important to you? Maintaining dominant frame or a few minutes of intense pleasure? For me, it's the former but you do you.

walkingthelinux · 2016-11-09T18:06:18+00:00

I think everyone is missing the point. The fact that SHE brought this up indicates to me that this is a power grab.

fcb98292 · 2016-11-09T02:04:07+00:00

You cannot maintain frame and allow your body to be compromised.

I_Crepe_Bitches · 2016-11-09T03:17:44+00:00

You know why guys obsess over anal sex? It ain't cause it smells good - it's psychological. If a girl lets you fuck her in the ass, you feel good - like a notch on your belt. You've always got the trump card.

I imagine it's the same for women. I wouldn't ever let one do it.

thor_away92 · 2016-11-09T11:51:41+00:00

I can't recall any Alpha in history who willfully got fucked in the ass.

So there's that.

Butt stuff.

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Title	Butt stuff.
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Date	November 9, 2016 1:33 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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