Can you overdread? Why and how?

thehedonistvagabond

March 16, 2018

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Title	Can you overdread? Why and how?
Author	thehedonistvagabond
Upvotes	8
Comments	9
Date	March 16, 2018 11:19 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/84uogs/can_you_overdread_why_and_how/
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[–]NJA42422 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It starts with small things, "I can't ever tell what you're thinking", "what do you like about me" or more physical things. An example of that is something she can easily do "can you get me that pen"/"can you get me a straw". Most of the time this slips through the cracks because she can easily do it herself and you'll interpret it as her being lazy. The other way this slips through is

"Babe do you have everything you need or can I get you something?" "No im fine" sits down "Actually can you get me a straw?" You fucking kidding me?

It's manipulation and on the surface she's being lazy/inconsiderate. But she's set it up in a way where she's inconveniencing you to see if yo care about her. If you're always doing stuff for her she expects it. But if you don't then it should perk your ears up.

Results of this is that she gets distant and doesn't reach out. The signs are pretty blatant if you look at it contextually. I have had many different things blow up in my face within my social circles over time and my response to being turned down was saltiness and sadness. Not talking to or about that specific person, being snide and being argumentative.

I myself am trying to make a comeback from failed comfort tests. This specific girl started verbalizing, the she asked me to grab a pen at an inconvenient time which was ignored while I was finishing something up (even though I agreed), then she started intentionally ignoring me unless I spoke directly to her and gave me sassy "byyeeee" while looking away when she was leaving. Now I catch her looking at me and looking down almost sadly, like she got turned down or dumped.

I wrote a novel but I wanna give you as much info as I can because it's hard to come across this stuff even with googling. Women do as much as they can to not overtly talk about a problem, do you see the various ways things have been tried? It's their way of communication. The dumb part of it is that she's craving attention but makes it harder for you to give it to her, she does this so it means more when you actually break through that shell.

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