Can't leave her

KimmieHedd · 2020-11-29T17:16:37+00:00

Not only is it disrespectful to yourself, it's also very disrespectful to her. There's always an excuse and never a good time. Take responsibility and break up right now and in person.

a6rp · 2020-11-29T18:13:53+00:00

If You are not happy with this relationship just break it.

She always had a fear that I will leave her and even cried several times thinking that her bad actions made me mad and make me love her less. And she always told me not to leave her, etc.

Insecure 101 but it's not your problem, You are not her savior or anyone who is responsible for her happiness.

I fear that she will be in depression which will affect these exams or even worse, she will hurt herself.

If she is willing to hurt herself over a breakup she is not mentally stable which means she is the type of girls You want to avoid.

Unless she is a fat and sad girl most likely she will find someone new within month/2 and will forget about You. You are only 17 and 99,99% this relationship between two of you is not 'love'.

TuckedInGoodLk · 2020-11-29T17:25:24+00:00

Is there any way you can improve her or something?

Finding a LTR is hard and if she adds value to your life, it's something that most girls won't do.

That said it's a sacrifice you making, do what you want.

lmann81733 · 2020-11-29T18:26:53+00:00

I’ve been there. Inevitably you will leave. Some will shame you for it, but it’s completely normal to want to leave your GF to play the field, especially at 17. Relationships fail and ending it is better for both of you in the long run.

If the exams are in December, I think it’s not a bad idea to wait until they’re over to do it. I wouldn’t delay it more than a couple of weeks though if they’re not.

inbredostrptw · 2020-11-29T20:11:39+00:00

Who cares, that’s her problem. You can leave her if you decide that’s what you want, if you don’t want to that’s a different story, but make sure it’s for good reasons

kclanton80 · 2020-11-30T01:32:46+00:00

Dude you're 17 years old..... Just let her know that you're not looking for the last relationship of your life because you're both very young.

you value her very much and the time you spend together but you want to explore what life has to offer without being in a long-term committed relationship at such a young age.

RichDurian9740 · 2020-11-30T10:12:11+00:00

Leave her

Check out covert contracts.

She's just using you to stay this is a form of a contract leave her.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-11-29T16:56:15+00:00

Idk man do you actually believe you can do better than her? Most high school girls are bitches just break up with her after graduation. We can’t get mad at women for monkey branching when you’re doing the same.

Title	Can't leave her
Author	bamiee_
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	November 29, 2020 4:43 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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