Causing anxiety in LTR

Fromstatepharm · 2019-09-22T19:00:53+00:00

You’re right in the sweet spot. She doesn’t like those boundaries because she doesn’t like not being able to do certain things other women do without losing you. She’s testing to see if you’ll ease up a little. I wouldn’t recommend that.

Zanford · 2019-09-22T20:13:06+00:00

You're golden.

Her saying that (but not constantly harping about it) and being sexually eager are signs that you are in the zone.

wisdomrichie · 2019-09-22T22:13:09+00:00

Great. Now hold frame forever

Dimenzije90 · 2019-09-22T20:39:09+00:00

Youre good, she is in love with you right now. Keep it up. But from time to time add some "beta" or how AMS would say feed her scraps. That way she will stay longer. I see guys over here go too rambo on their LTR and go all the way alpha. Too keep her around you have to sprinkle a little beta but not when she asksk for it. Rather when she at leasts expects it.

Example: when she makes you coffee, grab her by the waist and tell her you appreciate her and give her a kiss. Then continue doing what you were doing.(obviously you do this if she is beeing nice and sweet to you not if shes bitchy)

MattyAnon · 2019-09-22T22:20:10+00:00

because she feels like if she doesn't do everything exactly right, that I will break up with her.

"Yeah, that's true".

Of course 10 minutes after her saying that and for the past 24 hours she has been her normal happy, submissive, sexual self.

Looks like it's all fine to me.

What's the alternative...... lie with false commitment?

DankZelda · 2019-09-22T20:02:33+00:00

Just how submissive sexually is she?

Schhwing · 2019-09-23T02:30:07+00:00

If she didn't want it, she'd leave

SonOfMammon · 2019-09-22T23:09:32+00:00

I would call red flag. Does she have a history of disrespecting past boyfriends?

777views · 2019-09-24T03:48:04+00:00

Explain in more detail your advice about being in an LTR? How do you act? Things to do/not to do? Etc...

Copypastable · 2019-09-22T19:19:25+00:00

You listened to 10 minutes... of that?

Dude, don't raise your voice, and then tell her to shut the fuck up and say if you want to leave her, you will leave her.

She just stole 10 minutes of your life you will never get back. It will escalate exponentially if you don't start to stand your ground.

Title	Causing anxiety in LTR
Author	Alphainprogress123
Upvotes	9
Comments	21
Date	September 22, 2019 6:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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