For a long time now, I've had no problem putting tons of time into exercise, meditation and my career, but a huge problem putting time into chasing tail.

Generally speaking, I'm not good at it. All the girls I've gotten are girls who have sought me out and made it really easy for me. It's not that I have no drive to start talking to girls and improving the skill, it's that I don't find many situations where it seems like a good idea to cold approach, and I don't have a place to bring them to fuck (last year of college, still live at home).

To say the least, it's emasculating to go out and see a girl and not be able to go talk to her. For most of the time I can hide under the guise of, "I'm not here to talk to girls" (if I'm at the gym or similar). But when I go out to places to meet girls and then don't have the balls to approach, I want to hit myself with a hammer.

I know that everyone is going to say "just do it" to this question, but it feels like I have a few mental hurdles to jump over before that. Does anyone have any advice on starting cold approaching and making it not be a big deal anymore? Thanks bros.