Cheaters / side pieces

i-am-the-prize · 2020-10-20T15:10:52+00:00

it happens when they are away, or he's away. could be just 5 miles or 500. it's a "crime of opportunity" along with their having some "needs" unmet. so right place right time (or wrong place wrong time).

i didn't hunt for it, meaning fucking 'taken' women wasn't a fetish. But when single/younger, i was cocky/funny and had abundance so i transmitted the "just having fun vibe" so they would seek me out it seems. oh and being physically lean and strong and social can be like catnip when they're in a "boring" LTR.

sounds like you've had a few approach you, which you turned down, so you have something going on...

they would bring it up ("I like you but I have a BF/husband...") my canned response was "well then you have more to lose than me, so think carefully about your next step" and withdraw a bit. the vast majority of the time, they'd proceed, i wanted them to 'own it' and know they were being a slut with me, made anything i wanted to do afterward green-lit by defacto, and it was some crazy boundary pushing. they're seeking this b/c the guy at home is soft/boring/safe/whatever...

about the verbal pushback i did, the ones who didn't proceed: some may have needed "for it to just happen" without any words or ASD anchors, who knows. For those that proceeded, i wasn't needy at all which was part of the desire i think. (unlike their man at home, who 'needs her for sex', that's the irony of being a faithful guy who doesn't practice Dread, you actually desexualize yourself by being too good and too safe)

Snowboard18 · 2020-10-20T15:23:15+00:00

If she’s a narcissist, she’ll even tell you she has a boyfriend and laugh about the fact that she’s cucking him

If she’s more normal, then she most likely won’t bring up the fact that she has a boyfriend and will only cheat if no one would be able to find out what she did, but definatly would possibly cheat if it’s the right guy at the right time

And for the “unicorns,” she most likely won’t cheat as long as you hold your solid frame and she still sees you as the prize

tythecrossdresser199 · 2020-10-20T15:56:29+00:00

Have the mindset that all women are single. If she's likes u, she'll be single

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-10-20T14:52:46+00:00

I kinda assume my plates have other action. I dont ask and they dont tell...they dont tell as they want to keep their option open, some actually think they have a chance at a ltr. the few that do tell, use it as a shit test, to see if you really like them. its a big cat and mouse game....

KidBrody77 · 2020-10-20T19:20:54+00:00

Hooking up with women who are in relationships is Beta as fuck. It encompasses nearly every aspect of being Beta. Here's why....

Scarcity mentality. You're so hard up for pussy, and your options for pussy are so few, that you're willing to "share" a pussy with another man who is also regularly fucking her? Jesus Christ that's revolting to any halfway red pilled man.
Acceptance of a low value woman. Just because every female is capable of cheating doesn't mean every woman does. I don't care what she looks like, the fact that she is willing to cheat versus just dumping the guy and moving on instantly makes her a "1". Congrats on fucking a "1" dude. Excuse me, SHARING a "1" with another man. LOL
Willingly inviting drama into your life for pussy. Alpha men eliminate unnecessary drama from their lives. They don't voluntarily invite it into their life. And certainly not for something as common and easy to get as pussy.
Permitting, supporting, enabling, and encouraging hypergamy. Women are only able to engage in hypergamy because there's low-value hard up men out there willing to enable it. If you fuck chicks in relationships you've lost all right to complain about female hypergamy.

Men who fuck married women or women in committed relationships are not Red Pill or Alpha. They are as Beta as Beta gets.

2020-10-20T15:34:45+00:00

18-23 virtually all cheat they’re not mature enough to delay short term gratification for long term stability. I meet them like normal, at a bar/club/event. They either tell me right away they have a bf or later when I follow up. If they are out with their friends on a weekend it means they’re open to being picked up whether they’re conscious of it or not. ASD is usually low once you isolate. Sometimes they even make out with me at the venue but then they’re friends will usually try to cockblock. It’s good to give the friends some attention too and make its seem like you don’t care which one you end up with. They usually get drunk as to avoid blame and then they have have buyers remorse the next day. As soon as they’re ovulating or fighting with the bf they will hit me up again.

TrpKid2 · 2020-10-20T17:12:00+00:00

You said you had opportunities so shouldn't you already know?

Jahshua · 2020-10-20T18:25:20+00:00

I have a few times but never intentionally. In all cases I wasn't told about the BF and found out later. Those girls don't want you to know. None of them went anywhere either

Title	Cheaters / side pieces
Author	Jahshua
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	October 20, 2020 2:47 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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