Cheating on LTR

a0001_i1100 · 2018-03-23T03:00:43+00:00

You should not be in an exclusive/commitment bound relationship if you have that urge. You need to be spinning plates to satisfy your needs. Maybe it is the thrill of it and getting caught that is attracting you though, based off your post. I would say, don't do it, that is a shitty move, you are going to hurt her if she finds out. Also, will your conscience be able to handle that burden? You think after you do it you won't have feelings of guilt? If youre insistant on this, maybe discuss opening up the relationship or break up to explore your options. Morally I think potentially hurting someone for the hell of it, and carrying that burden even if she doesn't find out is not worth some random hookup.

imboredofitall · 2018-03-23T03:33:13+00:00

I cheated on my then LTR, now ex two years ago. She loved me dearly and I was happy with her. The best sex I’ve ever had, we were that compatible. But a difference between us had me certain I’d have to end it with her. So I met with what was my ideal woman in every regard and so I cheated with her. And she cheated on her boyfriend of five years with me. We actually planned on ending up together. I come back and break it off with my LTR and continue with the other one.

And then the guilt set in and holy fuck did it mess me up. It’s been two years now and I’m finally to a point where the guilt doesn’t consume me.

Point is, if you want another woman, just end with her. The guilt will set in later, especially when in case reality fucks you over.

sanjuanitos · 2018-03-23T03:01:52+00:00

Men stick to their word. Being unfaithful is little beta bitch behavior.

ImmortalAl · 2018-03-23T02:53:39+00:00

Is she going with you to the foreign place?

ShotgunTRP · 2018-03-23T06:34:06+00:00

I’m gonna go against the trend

Old school natural rpers I met back in the day would have a wife, and several mistresses

Cheat. Build a harem on the side

Do whatever the fuck makes you happy zero fucks given

moontripper1246 · 2018-03-23T02:56:21+00:00

go for it man. Who gives a fuck, yolo. For real tho. Just lie to her, she'll believe it cause she wants to deep down. It'll feel good too.

Title	Cheating on LTR
Author	Bakers77
Upvotes	0
Comments	18
Date	March 23, 2018 2:47 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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